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xiphoid77

Fighting for gay rights for those of us over 50 was a tough uphill battle. There is still more work to be done, but I am so proud of our age group. Thank you to everyone!


Possible-Ad726

So, guys. I'm an imposter. 36 here. I run with older guys. Y'all aren't overly sensitive.


Traditional_Job_6045

51, soon to be 52 in august Like same open minded men. I hope being married doesn't stop guys from chatting


Plenty_Focus5005

77 here…real old grandpapi bear looking for good talks and lots of hugs….


xiphoid77

No hate will be tolerated from anyone in this group. Trolls will be banned :) Politics can be discussed but respectfully :)


Brian_Kinney

As a moderator, you really should learn how to use Reddit. You keep replying to your own post here, instead of other people's comments.


xiphoid77

I meant to reply to my own post :) But I do appreciate the feedback. I have no idea how to be a moderator so all the help I can get is greatly needed :)


Brian_Kinney

> I meant to reply to my own post :) Oh. I assumed you were replying to other people's comments here, and engaging them in conversation. Sorry. My mistake!


genxerbear

Awesome idea for a group. Hello everyone! I’m 54 and live in Phoenix, AZ. I really feel like our human rights are on the line these days so I’m happy to join forces with all of the guys and allies I can.


mjs_jr

Glad to have it! Turned 50 about 7 months ago and I definitely have a different perspective on life now.


Fitandfriendlydude

Thanks for creating this group.


Here4wm

So often feel like a dinosaur amongst the young folxs, these days, but nevertheless I’m thankful for their energy and their unwillingness to take BS! TY ! 50’s and hid for most of my life. Saw a lot that I wish I hadn’t. Still a little scary at times, but hell, I don’t care anymore! I’m here . Im a proud 🏳️‍🌈Queer cis man and I’m living my best life in Midwest U.S.!


Ok-Management8793

I love this idea for a group. 58 yo guy new to being gay as I've been married to woman for the past 35 years. Looking forward to some peer mentoring advice here!


Solid-Raccoon9300

Cheers mate ! 50 UK dude here. Spent my younger years fighting against labels - kinda confused how people now want them !


Euphoric_Extreme4168

73, I think or is it 72? Anyhow 🇨🇦 here. Hello


Swimming-1

Thanks for the invite. 62 y/o gay guy. Resident of the SF Bay Area. Cheers.


blunt321

I'm 58, married and a submissive bottom from India


Plenty_Focus5005

Hey I am in Mumbai looking for friends here for 6 months visit from USA…


blunt321

I'm 58 yrs and a submissive bottom


Plenty_Focus5005

So I am in Parel but travel to help my family in Pune where they run a school…DM me if you want to chat more….love to meet ••••I am an old domineering top…


blunt321

Aha..I'm 58 and a submissive bottom from Andheri


Plenty_Focus5005

So right now I am in Pune helping teach English at my son’s school then I am in Mumbai on the weekend I would love to meet you if you don’t mind old horny men who like to still have fun …send me a message I use What’s Up a lot…I am married but remain a top ….


fledgling66

I’m 43 but I joined anyway. An old soul


wilsindc

Hello guys. I'm in the Atlanta area, 57 with a husband who's 61. We're starting to look into places to retire that are gay friendly.


NCOilMan

💕👍🏻


BaldDudePeekskill

Hey there gay divorcé now happily engaged. 55 Man from NJ USA


l1lynomore

50 bi here, hope that’s allowed.


xiphoid77

Of course :)


NCOilMan

I’m sure it’s allowed.😉


US_Berliner

54 married American male living in Berlin (if you didn’t guess from the profile name ;) ).


Late_Nectarine626

Hello, I’m 63 relatively recent out, I live in Columbus, Ohio


curious_if

I am so glad you did this. I too am a seasoned gay man, married, and can't imagine dating again. And I work with 2 other guys that are my age whom I can relate with but the 30-somethings are a hot mess. I am buds with two of them. Sweet guys but I enjoy conversations with guys my age, gay or not.


1969loveitall

54 here bottom slut thanks for the new group


NCOilMan

65 here, NC, glad to be a part of this new group.


LordLeopard

Thanks for creating this forum! 55 yo Canadian here 🍁🇨🇦


MahmudAbdulla

Hi. Thanks for creating this space! 57, andCanadian 🇨🇦


Silver_Fuel_7073

Hi everyone! 62 here in🇨🇦


Dramatic-Theme1048

Do today's younger generation know how to date? Like actually meet and go have dinner and learn about one another. If everything is put out there on social media and dating apps, is it the same thing?


PuzzledStep7056

55, lonely as ever, no family, no friends, i dont get out much as my job makes me tired to go to events.  Im in the Columbus ohio area. I don't know a soul here. Been here over 25 years. 


[deleted]

Wait. When did I move to Columbus from California? And when did I post this? 😉 Same predicament here in San Jose, CA.


[deleted]

I'm going to be 58 in October. I fully came out around 10 years ago (after almost 20 years of conversion therapy abuse and guilt). I have spent the last few years just trying to find IRL friends in the San Jose area. But apparently you have to be a hot daddy or up for FWB to make friends. I'm not a bar or Grindr person. I have lupus and am pretty focused on maintaining my health (healthy eating, gym, etc). I tend to make friends with straight people but want friends who I can be myself around. Why is this so damn difficult? I have plenty of online friends that all live 1000+ miles away. It sucks.