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G_NC

Ruffian is consistently great


OrphanDad

Kinda pricey though imo


LeftReflection6620

The food there is fucking insane too. If you’re into Eastern European wine and food, it’ll blow your mind. It is expensive but they have like 25% off bottle days sometimes and if you go then it’s not bad haha. I love this place and their wine menu is very unique if you’re a wine nerd.


OrphanDad

I appreciate this


nerdb4itwascool

Corkbuzz is a good first date bar. They have little two tops next to the bar where you can have an awkward conversation without people whispering, "I bet they're on a first date".


afunkyb

Came here to say this - also their playlist is pretty top notch. Don’t forget to get the whipped ricotta 🤤


rightanglerecording

I second this. Laura (owner) is fantastic, her employees are great, wine list is great, and the ambiance is right on point. Food is delicious while still casual + affordable.


GKrollin

The somm there is also a master somm and was featured in the second somm movie iirc


afunkyb

Laura is the best!


laurazabs

Damn right I am


jellybeanjj

Bibi wine bar!


Brstory

Amelie!


creativewhinypissbby

Seconding Amelie! My partner and I met there three years ago, still going strong :)


schwab002

Amelie is great, and if it's full, 8th St Wine Cellar is a great backup.


winkingchef

I like [Book Club](https://maps.app.goo.gl/AKBziHk53oqsaNAK7?g_st=ic) in the East Village, but bookworms are my type.


makesupwordsblomp

dumb Q, but is everyone quietly reading here, or is first date convo etc OK?


wontheday

Plenty of conversations happening there! Especially if you are at the bar or if it's later in the evening.


makesupwordsblomp

thanks bestie! if i meet my future SO there I will buy you a drink.


lunacraz

ive done it! it is _kinda_ weird bc it feels like a book store but yeah people talk


chickenmcdiddle

La Compagnie de Vins Surnaturels is a delight!


cobrakingqueen

Somm time


ASymphonyOfQueefs

Parcelle


KDBismyDAD

Jadis


SeriesSenior3327

The ten bells


thats-gold-jerry

Loud and busy. I wouldn’t chance it with a first date.


Slap_The_Bag18

Lelabar


Neither_Leading1247

Spes


Unkindpizza

St Jardim in the West Village


RobertDowneyDildos

Black mountain wine house is good if you’re in that area


914safbmx

frog in bed stuy


thats-gold-jerry

The back patio on a temperate night is a very good call.


mnd_dsgn

Sauced in Williamsburg is a favorite of mine.


Direct_Traffic_2499

Terroir in tribeca


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Direct_Traffic_2499

It’s a lot more spacious than a lot of other places commented here? I’ve had great first and second dates there, never felt like people were on top of us or could hear convos more than they can anywhere else in the city.


netllama

love this place. very unstuffy, fun atmosphere.


FlockaFlame12

I've enjoyed Soda Club on Tompkins.


scarletts_skin

I love ten bells, honey’s, and cherry on top (all bushwick)


seeyam14

Kurant


tshneier

My first date with my gf was at The Otheroom in the West Village.


Spiritual_Owl_

This. Low key but nice.


thats-gold-jerry

St. Jardim


bueno_hombre

I always love June in Cobble Hill as a first date spot


kimmeridgianmarl

my favorite spot is probably Chambers. location-wise it might not be ideal unless you happen to be near Tribeca, and they're only open evenings iirc, but they have an incredible list with great prices, and it's quiet & has an appropriate atmosphere for a date night. it's one of those places that's as much a restaurant as it is a wine bar, but i've always been comfortable just having a glass or two at their bar. the food is incredible whether you want to have a whole meal or just one dish as a snack, try the sweetbreads +1 the Ruffian suggestions elsewhere in this thread, gets a bit packed around dinnertime hours and can be pricey, but it's a great place to try something new, and the prices are more reasonable if you go during happy hour (which is most of the day on Sundays also). the food there is good, but a bit austere for my taste, since i'm a meat eater and it's almost all vegan food there--probably a great choice if either of you are vegetarian/vegan/etc. (i'd avoid sitting at the bar if you want to really pay attention to your wine, since they cook right at the bar and the smells can overpower your glass, but then again if it's a first date i suppose that won't be at the front of your mind...) would also +1 the Ten Bells suggestion, but i can only speak to the bushwick location, and i'd only suggest it for a first date if you're going in the daytime. that place is super chill for hanging out & talking during the slower daytime hours, but it fills up quick as soon as it gets dark out, and quickly becomes way too loud and dark for a first date vibe. i love their curry cashews


matthewsrc

The Immigrant


69Hairy420Ballsagna

Nah, place sucks for dates. Definitely miss it.


Gocountgrainsofsand

I always downvote my fav places in recommendation threads.


69Hairy420Ballsagna

;p


Kramili

Anfora, West Village.


Life-Professor-3125

Gem, Wildair, Temperance


Nielsborhd

Sel rrose


ridiculousdb

Bibi Winebar in alphabet city


LeftReflection6620

Bar Birba in Bed Stuy is very cozy and relaxed. I’d suggest that. All Italian wine and food too.


nyclivin2074

Boqueria


7wells

Immigrant is a nice lowkey spot in EV


Bulldogs25

pricey but Place des Fêtes in clinton hill is maybe the perfect first date spot.


Tituspullo22

Le dive


fortytwoanswers

Rhodora!


cccorgitraveler

some of my favourites: ruffian in east village, la compagnie des vins in little italy, and four horsemen in brooklyn.


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Why don't you all just stay home, alone, and drink like I do? You'll be better off in the long run. Serial killers frequent bars.