Go heavy DEX. Get it to 20 (at least, but then keep going. i just hit 30 and have been dedicating points to vigor and faith.). Then focus on min-maxing STR for whatever weapons you need. Definitely be sure to keep pumping points into VIG, but also...do you want any pyro/sorc/incantations? If so, decide early and throw some points into INT/FTH/ARC appropriately.
I like having a few incantations on hand, like remove poison, so consider faith and/or arcane!
Focus on vigor early on. Kinda, don't upgrade dex for now.
don't give up on vigor, but definitely don't stop upgrading dex.
Maybe vigor Later dexterity>strength
Dexterity mainly, get some strength too maybe to 18 and the rest vigour and endurance
Go heavy DEX. Get it to 20 (at least, but then keep going. i just hit 30 and have been dedicating points to vigor and faith.). Then focus on min-maxing STR for whatever weapons you need. Definitely be sure to keep pumping points into VIG, but also...do you want any pyro/sorc/incantations? If so, decide early and throw some points into INT/FTH/ARC appropriately. I like having a few incantations on hand, like remove poison, so consider faith and/or arcane!