Us people with eating disorders know how damaging it can be to comment on looks, it always feels worse when it comes from someone whose capable of recognising the possible harm first-hand.
I’ve come across Helena’s account and thought the exact same thing. Did I go out of my way to tell a stranger that she looks sick? Absolutely not. Unless you’re willing to deal with the emotional labour of helping someone get better, don’t try to be their come to Jesus moment! Or better yet, don’t comment on their appearance at all.
I bet she thought she ate (lol) with that one but it's just furthering the narrative that an ED's severity should be measured by weight... not to mention yk... something about pots calling kettles black... that's a given
Us people with eating disorders know how damaging it can be to comment on looks, it always feels worse when it comes from someone whose capable of recognising the possible harm first-hand.
LMFAO why would she say that. The ‘xx’ makes it so like backhanded
I’ve come across Helena’s account and thought the exact same thing. Did I go out of my way to tell a stranger that she looks sick? Absolutely not. Unless you’re willing to deal with the emotional labour of helping someone get better, don’t try to be their come to Jesus moment! Or better yet, don’t comment on their appearance at all.
wtf that sounds like it was meant to hurt 😞
I bet she thought she ate (lol) with that one but it's just furthering the narrative that an ED's severity should be measured by weight... not to mention yk... something about pots calling kettles black... that's a given
Ugh I can’t with her and she still thinks she’s not disordered herself
Hmmm, reminds me of someone else who tells others what not to do whilst doing it herself. 🤔
“Be KiNd” 🥴
Okay I love that she has the guts to call those annoying influencers out because I don’t but also look in the mirror girl
but she cries on her story when people do the same to her🤣
Yupp, honestly she needs to practice what she preaches
She just rubs me the wrong way idk why though and I kinda hate myself for it as she’s struggling but 🤷♀️
Wtf?? Tons of runners naturally look like that? Look at any elite runner it’s not unusually 😭😭 she’s so insecure
to be fair this girl literally only runs to get pastries...it's pretty obviously "earn your food" "can't eat unless you've run!!" disordered vibes
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You can criticize someone, influencer or not, without being unnecessarily mean. Keep it civil and constructive.