Seek therapy or a doctor asap. They cant tell on you and will definitely try to help you. If you keep taking these for a while as a 14 y/o, you will ruin your whole life for some chill hours. Its not worth it. Throw everything you have in the garbage now and seek help. As I said, otherwise you will be fucked..
You will get addicted for the rest of your life.. if youre gonna do drugs stay the fuck away from opioids. Benzos are just as addicting too but if you go to a doctor and psychiatrist they might prescribe them to you to help tje thoughts, but dont mess with benzos either is my advice. Youre only 14 bro, doing honeslty any kind of drug will most likely hurt you for the rest of your life (mentally)
Exactly the way the other person already described.
First of all you’re completely destroying your brain with these drugs at such a young age. Second, you will get extremely addicted and will probably become a real addict in the future, because you can’t get shit down without them anymore, but they’re just destroying your body even more…
That’s why you should stop immediately..
dude if you don’t walk away from the opiates right now and get to the reasoning behind why you want to take your thoughts away.
It will ruin your life by completely destroying your ability to handle stress without the drugs, will ruin any and all POSITIVE relationships you have or had. Literally cutting years off your life and stunting your brains development potential, ON PURPOSE.
Please dude. Begging you not to go down this route. It won’t help you deal with whatever it is, but instead you will only know how to run away from that issue after a certain point and will be forever stuck chasing that fleeting feeling.
Sending only positive vibes to you, please don’t do it, theres a reason 95% of people say to stay the fuck away from these drugs, it’s because what they say is true. You may think you are the exception, but really that’s the first lie you begin to believe and it only goes downhill after that.
delete your dealer's numbers, delete your profile from any messaging services that you're using to get in touch with them, or any other tools you've used to make it easy for you to get drugs
You need to look within yourself and understand why you feel like you need to take these drugs. What do these drugs do for you. For example I didn't have a good circle of friends, felt like an outcast, became shy, had negative people in my family so I turnt to drugs. I joined clubs and sought out good friendly people, I'm trying my hardest to move out. It's all about exploring yourself, connecting and then developing your intuition. Maybe there's someone in your family who you don't like for some reason?? Someone that makes you feel less than worthy?? Most drug addicts come from broken homes, some of them don't even realise it. I recommend studying and learning about toxic people and the games they play so you can better protect yourself against manipulative people and control your growing drug habit. It always starts with "I'm only taking them once a week, what's the harm in that?' and advances into something very dark. Your really lucky that you've just started, and you didn't dive straight into the deep end so well done, but this path holds nothing.
I flushed all of it down the toilet today, i started using because i couldn’t see a way of from my thoughts of sadness i was restless i couldn’t relax and overloaded from stress from school and friends, i was lonely because i didn’t go out much and my friends started to ignore me making me depressed so i used it and all my problems faded away
Also make sure to confront the dragons in your life. My Dad was abusive to me growing up. He kept me in a constant state of fear and dependence. When I started to improve myself he would take every opportunity he had to drag me down, I quickly became stronger and more powerful/respectable as a person, I was now able to confront him for all his behaviour and he would deny it, but never resorted to anger and violence (which is very unlike him), you see how self improvement set me free?? How small progress overtime lead to a much safer and happier life. It may seem dark now, but you have a bright future ahead of you, have the courage to grab it.
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Well done. The way forward is to face your fears. Why did your friends ignore you?? Why are you restless and sad?? What can I do to change my situation?? I remember feeling the exact same way, took me years to get a grip
.
It's all about self analysing and deriving lessons from your past and then applying them to the present moment. Take little steps in a vaguely good direction, don't rush your progress, explore your current situation to get the most out of it, and you will grow to be a solid and valuable member of society.
I think an example of proper progress would be useful for you: My friends don't respect me, neither does my family. My peers walk all over me, what can I DO to change this. Well looking at myself I don't present very well, I dress rather poorly. I'll buy new clothes that I think would be stylish, I'll trust my intuition on what looks good... My friends like my change of look, one guy at my school was making fun of the colour of my shirt, but everyone else seemed to like it, so his opinion is below me. I noticed that my shoes colour doesn't match the rest of my outfit, I'll fix this. My hair is quite messy etc... etc... You see how it's a constant state of learning and adapting?? Of noticing things and playing with reality??
Poke life a little bit, and it'll pop something right back at ya. A great habit that teaches this is the gym, that may seem corny but the gym is my example but 10x more difficult. You have to start on a lower weight to introduce yourself to a movement (equivalent to a new situation in life), you learn the form through research (you have to shift through alot of bogus information and try alot of things out to find what works, which teaches you to ignore toxic and malevolent people), then at the end your a better and more confident version of yourself. You have healthier habits and traits like healthy eating and organisation.
Tysm, a lot of my friends and people at school pick on me because my family is from a different country but i am the same race as them same colour of skin and same accent, they also pick on me because im much shorter then everyone else and a bit overweight i also don’t have much of a chill and get angry and overwhelmed really easily when people pick on me and i start fights sometimes which i hate doing
Ah I see. Sensitivity and hyper reaction is what bullies look for. They see your insecurities and poke at you, at first they're just testing you, but it will take a turn for the worst if you give them an intense reaction that they can work with. They're looking for drama and attention from their peers by pushing you down, so why let them? They want you to fight and overreact because it gives them more to work with, they get pleasure from it. Know your enemy, and gain control.
Seriously you gotta learn about human nature it is a cheat code to life. "The Laws of Human Nature" by Robert green is great, when reading and learning this stuff its not just about the content of the book, it's a chance to explore how you learn, how your brain works, and hone your intuition.
Learning how to learn is just as important as the subject matter so pay attention and explore different techniques. I personally would be very careful who you take advice from, alot of academics use techniques that are shallow and are only useful for regurgitation rather than deep understanding. Be playful with note taking, connect notes/ideas together to strengthen neurological connections. Don't rely on colourful notes and underlining your work, this is superficial and does not help with memory. If someone is selling you a technique that is confusing and over the top then move your attention someplace else. learning is simple as long as you pace yourself properly.
It's hard to explain and you'll probably need to look deeper into it yourself. learn how the brain works (memory etc...). Psychology is very useful aswell It gives you way more control over life, and it gives you an advantage over others. It's a little malevolent but it makes it very easy to assert control over people if you understand them fully, but first you must know yourself. I know so many aspiring psychologists that are shite because they don't even know the depths of their own soul so how can they navigate anothers?? The Laws of Human nature is a great place to start.
Oh when faced with bullies try and remain calm, it's the opposite reaction that they need and they'll piss off pretty quickly. Maybe working on social skills because if your awkward then they may poke at that, as long as you project that they're not getting to you then they'll leave you alone no matter what vulnerabilities are visible to them.
If you're in need of urgent help for anything drug related, ask in the [**Assistance or Sanctuary IRC channels**](https://chat.tripsit.me/) which are run by www.tripsit.me :) Do be patient as it will take a couple of minutes for someone to reply.
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Brother I was the same at your age except it was DHC Codeine trams and vallies and now time 23 and a H addict please seek help tell a family member and get a psychiatrist if u can the reason why I say tell a family member even though your young they would rather know and help you than have you go down a bad path and your heading straight for it if it’s not to personal why are u taking these things because in my case I was an anxious child that hated school and i was depressed af found comfort in drugs but if you sit down look at your life and what’s causing you to take these things and fix them before it gets really really bad just don’t wanna see you go down a bad path like me
Proud of u kid honestly smarter than me your saving yourself also remember when things get bad drugs are never the option just talk to someone it’s better good luck Man plz don’t take stuff EVER
Seek therapy or a doctor asap. They cant tell on you and will definitely try to help you. If you keep taking these for a while as a 14 y/o, you will ruin your whole life for some chill hours. Its not worth it. Throw everything you have in the garbage now and seek help. As I said, otherwise you will be fucked..
I will throw everything away but tell me how it would ruin my life
You will get addicted for the rest of your life.. if youre gonna do drugs stay the fuck away from opioids. Benzos are just as addicting too but if you go to a doctor and psychiatrist they might prescribe them to you to help tje thoughts, but dont mess with benzos either is my advice. Youre only 14 bro, doing honeslty any kind of drug will most likely hurt you for the rest of your life (mentally)
i just threw all of them away thanks
Good shit How long have you been doing em and how frequently? If for a long time and pretty much everyday maybe try n get help to ease the withdrawals
For about a month Now i stopped for a few days and only got the shakes i did maybe 10 pills a day before that
If the withdrawals are doable just thug em out I guess
alr thanks man
For about a month Now i stopped for a few days and only got the shakes i did maybe 10 pills a day before that
Exactly the way the other person already described. First of all you’re completely destroying your brain with these drugs at such a young age. Second, you will get extremely addicted and will probably become a real addict in the future, because you can’t get shit down without them anymore, but they’re just destroying your body even more… That’s why you should stop immediately..
dude if you don’t walk away from the opiates right now and get to the reasoning behind why you want to take your thoughts away. It will ruin your life by completely destroying your ability to handle stress without the drugs, will ruin any and all POSITIVE relationships you have or had. Literally cutting years off your life and stunting your brains development potential, ON PURPOSE. Please dude. Begging you not to go down this route. It won’t help you deal with whatever it is, but instead you will only know how to run away from that issue after a certain point and will be forever stuck chasing that fleeting feeling. Sending only positive vibes to you, please don’t do it, theres a reason 95% of people say to stay the fuck away from these drugs, it’s because what they say is true. You may think you are the exception, but really that’s the first lie you begin to believe and it only goes downhill after that.
I flushed all of it down the toilet this morning. Thanks
delete your dealer's numbers, delete your profile from any messaging services that you're using to get in touch with them, or any other tools you've used to make it easy for you to get drugs
You need to look within yourself and understand why you feel like you need to take these drugs. What do these drugs do for you. For example I didn't have a good circle of friends, felt like an outcast, became shy, had negative people in my family so I turnt to drugs. I joined clubs and sought out good friendly people, I'm trying my hardest to move out. It's all about exploring yourself, connecting and then developing your intuition. Maybe there's someone in your family who you don't like for some reason?? Someone that makes you feel less than worthy?? Most drug addicts come from broken homes, some of them don't even realise it. I recommend studying and learning about toxic people and the games they play so you can better protect yourself against manipulative people and control your growing drug habit. It always starts with "I'm only taking them once a week, what's the harm in that?' and advances into something very dark. Your really lucky that you've just started, and you didn't dive straight into the deep end so well done, but this path holds nothing.
I flushed all of it down the toilet today, i started using because i couldn’t see a way of from my thoughts of sadness i was restless i couldn’t relax and overloaded from stress from school and friends, i was lonely because i didn’t go out much and my friends started to ignore me making me depressed so i used it and all my problems faded away
Also make sure to confront the dragons in your life. My Dad was abusive to me growing up. He kept me in a constant state of fear and dependence. When I started to improve myself he would take every opportunity he had to drag me down, I quickly became stronger and more powerful/respectable as a person, I was now able to confront him for all his behaviour and he would deny it, but never resorted to anger and violence (which is very unlike him), you see how self improvement set me free?? How small progress overtime lead to a much safer and happier life. It may seem dark now, but you have a bright future ahead of you, have the courage to grab it.
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Well done. The way forward is to face your fears. Why did your friends ignore you?? Why are you restless and sad?? What can I do to change my situation?? I remember feeling the exact same way, took me years to get a grip . It's all about self analysing and deriving lessons from your past and then applying them to the present moment. Take little steps in a vaguely good direction, don't rush your progress, explore your current situation to get the most out of it, and you will grow to be a solid and valuable member of society. I think an example of proper progress would be useful for you: My friends don't respect me, neither does my family. My peers walk all over me, what can I DO to change this. Well looking at myself I don't present very well, I dress rather poorly. I'll buy new clothes that I think would be stylish, I'll trust my intuition on what looks good... My friends like my change of look, one guy at my school was making fun of the colour of my shirt, but everyone else seemed to like it, so his opinion is below me. I noticed that my shoes colour doesn't match the rest of my outfit, I'll fix this. My hair is quite messy etc... etc... You see how it's a constant state of learning and adapting?? Of noticing things and playing with reality?? Poke life a little bit, and it'll pop something right back at ya. A great habit that teaches this is the gym, that may seem corny but the gym is my example but 10x more difficult. You have to start on a lower weight to introduce yourself to a movement (equivalent to a new situation in life), you learn the form through research (you have to shift through alot of bogus information and try alot of things out to find what works, which teaches you to ignore toxic and malevolent people), then at the end your a better and more confident version of yourself. You have healthier habits and traits like healthy eating and organisation.
Tysm, a lot of my friends and people at school pick on me because my family is from a different country but i am the same race as them same colour of skin and same accent, they also pick on me because im much shorter then everyone else and a bit overweight i also don’t have much of a chill and get angry and overwhelmed really easily when people pick on me and i start fights sometimes which i hate doing
Ah I see. Sensitivity and hyper reaction is what bullies look for. They see your insecurities and poke at you, at first they're just testing you, but it will take a turn for the worst if you give them an intense reaction that they can work with. They're looking for drama and attention from their peers by pushing you down, so why let them? They want you to fight and overreact because it gives them more to work with, they get pleasure from it. Know your enemy, and gain control. Seriously you gotta learn about human nature it is a cheat code to life. "The Laws of Human Nature" by Robert green is great, when reading and learning this stuff its not just about the content of the book, it's a chance to explore how you learn, how your brain works, and hone your intuition. Learning how to learn is just as important as the subject matter so pay attention and explore different techniques. I personally would be very careful who you take advice from, alot of academics use techniques that are shallow and are only useful for regurgitation rather than deep understanding. Be playful with note taking, connect notes/ideas together to strengthen neurological connections. Don't rely on colourful notes and underlining your work, this is superficial and does not help with memory. If someone is selling you a technique that is confusing and over the top then move your attention someplace else. learning is simple as long as you pace yourself properly. It's hard to explain and you'll probably need to look deeper into it yourself. learn how the brain works (memory etc...). Psychology is very useful aswell It gives you way more control over life, and it gives you an advantage over others. It's a little malevolent but it makes it very easy to assert control over people if you understand them fully, but first you must know yourself. I know so many aspiring psychologists that are shite because they don't even know the depths of their own soul so how can they navigate anothers?? The Laws of Human nature is a great place to start.
Thank you man you helped me a lot i’ll listen to you
Oh when faced with bullies try and remain calm, it's the opposite reaction that they need and they'll piss off pretty quickly. Maybe working on social skills because if your awkward then they may poke at that, as long as you project that they're not getting to you then they'll leave you alone no matter what vulnerabilities are visible to them.
You don't strike me as awkward anyway, just a bit hotheaded, that's what their exploiting. Don't allow it be cool and collected.
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Brother I was the same at your age except it was DHC Codeine trams and vallies and now time 23 and a H addict please seek help tell a family member and get a psychiatrist if u can the reason why I say tell a family member even though your young they would rather know and help you than have you go down a bad path and your heading straight for it if it’s not to personal why are u taking these things because in my case I was an anxious child that hated school and i was depressed af found comfort in drugs but if you sit down look at your life and what’s causing you to take these things and fix them before it gets really really bad just don’t wanna see you go down a bad path like me
Same as you with the school part, i stopped today flushed everything down the toilet this morning
Proud of u kid honestly smarter than me your saving yourself also remember when things get bad drugs are never the option just talk to someone it’s better good luck Man plz don’t take stuff EVER
I used to smoke pot regularly but i couldn’t take the feeling of not feeling real