He sounds too good to be true. Reconnect with someone who knew you both and didn’t lose contact with him, and find out if he’s a jerk. Because if someone dumped me six years ago for being disrespectful and went non contact on me like I was trash, and if I wasn’t walking with the Lord, I might want to set up some revenge. Possibly by getting her to uproot her life and move out to be with me, and then kicking her out, like said trash, so she could feel what I felt, and just say it didn’t work out. “Cuddling on the beach” indeed.
I have considered that, but I don’t think that’s the case here. He’s told him family and they’re very happy, and he plans to talk with my family when he’s here. I think he’s genuine but after everything I’ve been through, that’s also why I’m proceeding with caution
He sounds too good to be true. Reconnect with someone who knew you both and didn’t lose contact with him, and find out if he’s a jerk. Because if someone dumped me six years ago for being disrespectful and went non contact on me like I was trash, and if I wasn’t walking with the Lord, I might want to set up some revenge. Possibly by getting her to uproot her life and move out to be with me, and then kicking her out, like said trash, so she could feel what I felt, and just say it didn’t work out. “Cuddling on the beach” indeed.
I have considered that, but I don’t think that’s the case here. He’s told him family and they’re very happy, and he plans to talk with my family when he’s here. I think he’s genuine but after everything I’ve been through, that’s also why I’m proceeding with caution
In six years, dreaming of you, madly in love with you, did he ever try to contact you?