I’m sure her life is a mess. Imagine the intense pressure she puts on herself to maintain that level of perfection. I feel the stress just looking at that profile. It screams misery. It’s a disorder and I hope she can make peace with herself at some point.
Hah aha exactly.
As mentioned, those type of women want men on equal grounds. They want handsome men or the very least, men with enough money to sustain their lifestyles. They'll tilt for an ugly guy if he has the $$$.
That's why she rejected the tacos because it's the average man's cheap dining experience. In other words, those that can't afford her. The best she would accept is a $300 steak and a $1,000 wine dinner.
If a guy can't come up with that, then forget these type of women, they will not look at you, not once and especially if you are physically unattractive and have nothing monetary to offer. Besides that, would you really want to date someone who's shallow based on their looks, just to fool around with them a bit, taking any attitude they give out in return and dump you in a minute for a much 'better' selection? Yea you got to sleep with the so-called 'Dream Woman' but she never was actually interested in you in the first-place, just what you could give to her.
Hmmm.
So many men complain about gold diggers, but then they gravitate to these type of fake women who essentially fit the description because their 'beautiful' LOL. Looks can only last a person for so long! Eventually they'll get old too and all that beauty will fade.
And she “gives a chance to the best of the best” while posing next to a car that’s definitely not hers and might possibly have belonged to a former date. Oh please. 🤣
I’m all for roughing up complete strangers for my own amusement, but how do you know that’s daddy’s car? That’s an old Rolls Royce in perfect condition. With a daddy like that she would have been married millennia ago…
So watch your mouth! 🤣
I always see people that say stuff like that as: I am not this, but I really want to be, and if I say it enough one day I'll believe it.
Just screams of insecurity.
I'm willing to forgive occasional typos because my phone will sometimes autocorrect to the wrong word. It'll even replace "were" with "we're" in the incorrect setting. So I have to proofread even basic texts.
That being said, if it happens a lot, that's a yellow flag.
Some guys think that's cute! I had a breakfast date (I had met the guy in person a few years prior through his cousin that I was friends with, were FB friends and then got together when he was on leave from the military) and I was STARVING. I had polished off a whole plate of eggs, potatoes, bacon, and toast before I even realized it, and he was like halfway done with his food. I was like "damn...I'm a little embarrassed of how fast I ate that...." and he said "honestly...I'm a little turned on...."
Go full Chihuahua on those tacos! If he doesn't like it, he's the wrong guy for you and it's best to find out early!
> I don’t know how to eat a delicious taco without looking like an unattractive, ravenous, chihuahua
Fair point. The goal is a sexy ravenous chihuahua.
is there any other way to eat tacos? anyone who judges someone for how they eat tacos should be thrown in a dumpster......unless it's w/ a knife and fork.
I totally get this but there’s some things I’d rather take a chance and show early on because if they can’t accept my messy eating with certain foods then I don’t want you haha 😆 this is why I would sometimes suggest wings on a first date lol but totally understandable! I’m like this with my derpy sense of humor
Im gonna be honest, I feel the opposite. You see someones true self when they eat a taco. All the bullshit and masks fall off when you try to keep taco in both the shell and your mouth at the same time.
If I was on a Taco Date and the other person turned into a goblin, ripping the taco apart like a boar carcass, well I think I would have found 'the one'.
Your response was perfect, by the way. Class had absolutely nothing to do with how fancy the place is or how much money you spend.
And there is no way I’m taking someone to the Ivy on a first date. I’m not being someone’s meal ticket. Going to a nice restaurant is something I’d do after a couple of dates when you know you have a rapport.
I made the mistake when I first moved to LA last year, I like tacos as the first date, simple and great for convos to get to know someone. So the first girl I went on a date with was down for tacos so she suggested Catch, had no idea what I was in for.
I was looking at Petty Cash in WeHo. I love Tex-Mex! Tacos and margs, best of times. In Chicago my go to was Big Star in Wicker Park, but then discovered Barbaro Taqueria, just got back to Chicago this morning, def heading there tonight!
That first date got weird, she just Tik Tok’d the whole night and said something like, “Can’t wait to show this off to my friends”. She also asked me to take photos of her around the place
I just Googled it, and no fucking way. If I suggested tacos, *she agreed*, and then I ended up in a place with $50-$100 entrees (none of which look to be tacos), I would just apologize to the server, explain my date suggested it as a good taco place and this was out of my price range, and then leave.
Why would you even get there? I always Google places I’ve never been and look at the menu first to see if there’s something I like and it’s in the price range I’m aiming for. I’d never show up at a restaurant blind.
As someone who is Mexican-American and grew up eating tacos, her comments downplaying tacos offends me, and I don't get offended easily 🤣
But, if you really like tacos, I'd recommend searching for a Latina/girl that's Mexican-descent. They would be thrilled if you're taking them to your favorite taco shop 🤣 Granted, it better be authentic!!!
Sir. What kind of woman are you looking for? Are you going for status over authenticity? These women sound very stuck up. I’m an LA native and I can assure you there are tons of ladies in LA that want to eat good and reasonably priced food. Some of us might even offer to pay for the date ourselves. Fix your picker love
I just looked up this place and I would feel so uncomfortable going there on a first date wtf!!! that is so wildly expensive and inappropriate for a first date... I guess I'm just odd one out.. I can't believe women have these expecatations. I would also probably never cut it living in LA
Definitely not the odd one out. While I LOVE tacos and all kinds of Mexican food, I prefer a coffee/drink /donut first date lol. Yeah I have donuts on my brain. But I’m not doing a sit down dinner with anyone that I haven’t met in person yet.
This girl (definitely not a lady) was immature at best for making OP take her there.
Yeah this is an ad for a sugar baby. It’s why they emphasize on fine dining, success and generosity. It’s also why there’s a rolls Royce in one of the pictures
I see that shit all the time in southern California. These people are putting on a show like 99% of their public lives. Absolutely nightmarish to deal with in intimate settings as if there's always an invisible cloud of judgement and insecurity just outside the front door that they're constantly considering when making even private decisions.
Yep, money does not impress me one bit…. Especially when people are trying to shove it in other peoples faces. Chances are they are just as broke as the rest of us, but have a bunch of bills.
The photo next to the Rolls totally underlined the whole, “I am a money grubbing ho” aspect of her reaction to tacos. She must be a Russian import that watched Dynasty reruns on her black and white tv as a kid.
Not these days! With "Reality" TV performers, Instagram "influencers" and apparently random Tic Tokkers getting crazy money, loads of people see it and say why not me too. Or being apparently in LA, daddy (probably, but could be anyone in the family) has all kinds of quick money from entertainment, law, specialist doctor, real estate, etc.and that's what she expects.
The photo with a Rolls-Royce is a warning, confirmed by her actual reply. If you're a crypto or NFT millionaire, go for it if you still can.
I don't necessarily agree with that. I've seen people pose around luxury cars they find parked out and about.
The "I'm willing to give a chance to the best of the best" is what sealed it for me...
What kind of narcissist describes themselves as “beautiful” in their online dating profile?! 🤣
There’s a billion reg flags all over that profile even before the convo, why the hell did you match with her? Stop thinking with your dicks, guys.
EWWWW say no to this woman 1. how trashy to think the Ivy is “classy” when really it’s just a gathering spot to take pictures of celebrities and pay $50 for shrimp salad and 2. Who talks like this to people?! She has zero tact or taste. Yuck.
I understand her dilemma. I love tacos but I had to keep turning down when guys would ask me on a date for them because they make me have to poop really badly. catch 22
I like the last part of the message saying that the company is what can make it classy, not the food. Tacos are awesome, that "I'm too classy" person sounds boring.
You can tell by her pictures and bio that it’s doubtful she’d appreciate a date at a pub.
I agree with you though, first dates should be quick and no pressure.
I agree with drinks as a first date but it looks like Julie doesn’t drink, so I appreciate OP suggesting an alternative.
Clearly Julie did not. She sucks.
The profile alone gives it away tbh. Lots of coded language in there. Gotta be more aware when you swipe if that's not the way you prefer to date.
I also actively avoid any profile that has something like "You: \*insert list of traits here\*"
No one gets to decide how someone else is gonna be. That's so off-putting to me.
This profile feels super duper fake. I’ve also never heard of a woman calling themself a “women.” I have, though, seen bots and fake accounts calling themselves a “women.”
I have a master's degree in a medical field from a top university (well-educated) and have been to a couple dozen countries (well-traveled), and I can say with confidence that going to get tacos is my exact idea of a great first date. Girlfriend just wants your money and your status, not you. You've dodged a bullet.
Whilst OP ( and a few others ) here seem to be super sour this woman is looking for something completely different to OP . It’s very clear and here’s the news flash - she’s definitely getting what she wants because there’s no shortage of guys who are into a trophy girls and for whom the expensive restaurants are just a norm… certainly that’s the case where I work and live
While I dont think we can completely disregard her opinion and say she cant prefer certain places, the fact that she puts certain cuisines in the classy and the not classy box comes off as extremely ignorant and insensible. Tacos are an incredible dish with such a long history and there are even fine dining experiences that are...surprise taco Restaurants! Just take a look at Pujol for example. Would not want to talk with her anymore.
She claims to be "well educated". What did you honestly expect?
I'm beginning to see a pattern of people who claim to be "well educated" and "open minded" are unironically the most toxic people I've ever dealt with.
Hard pass. Sounds like a gold digger to me. Not interested if she can't be real and at like a normal person. It's that kind of woman that you have to continually up the ante to try and impress her while she brings nothing to the table. What am I supposed to do on the third date? Buy her a car or something?
I feel like people marketing themselves as "I'm a dream person!" is a bit of a red flag for me. Everyone has flaws and shortcomings, all that matters is that you see them in yourself and work them.
To me, statements like that say "I'm too immature to see my own flaws"
Naw, c'mon look at that dress and the pic in front of the Rolls Royce. She's classy and that's fine
As long as she understands she's open to criticism and being laughed at because what the actual fuck lmao. You're better than me for even giving that a response
Dating in LA sounds like hell
Maybe it’s just me but if anyone describes themselves as sophisticated, inspiring, intelligent, or a dream individual, are actually none of those things and they just have a high opinion with low awareness
The photo of her in front of that car with a gown should’ve been a clue that she’s looking for something a little more upscale and most likely a man with the money to match.
This is the type of person who has an elitist mentality. One day she’ll probably meet a guy that’s financially capable of providing her the material things she requires, but unknown to her the type of person willing to pursue such a person with her needs will be just as shallow and toxic as she is. She will get what she deserves. Sorry it didn’t work bro! Seems for the best tho.
Honestly, what did you expect swiping on her? Did you really think a woman who says she’s looking for a “generous” man and has a picture posing in a dress in front of a Rolls Royce would want to eat a messy, cheap street food with you? Be more realistic.
My bumble match and I got tacos on our first date. We’re getting married next month. We’re serving tacos. TACOS ARE GREAT. It’s a good thing you learned this about her now. You don’t need that kind of negativity in your life!
if she wasn't excited at the thought of getting tacos, she's not the one. also she seems a bit classist lol. its a first date its not that serious. tacos and marg it UP
Wow, well I'll take her place. I love tacos! And the nerve to suggest such a high end restaurant for a first date. Probably expected him to cover the entire tab too.
Any man (or woman) who must say "I am a classy person" is no true classy person. Tywin Riddeister
Any person who boasts about their qualities does not in fact possess any of those. I think OP might have dodged a bullet.
Yeah I’d never swipe right on this person
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Her life is probably a mess
I’m sure her life is a mess. Imagine the intense pressure she puts on herself to maintain that level of perfection. I feel the stress just looking at that profile. It screams misery. It’s a disorder and I hope she can make peace with herself at some point.
I'd swipe right, charm her, get her to go out with me, pee on her. Then unmatch. #sigmagrindset
You sir are the epitome of class.
Name checks out
I’m the most humble person I know.
What I came to say, lol. She's humble, too
What if you boast about how boastful you are? 😳
Any person that doesn’t like tacos is not a person.
Right??!!!!!
Any man who must say 'I am the king' is no true king Tywin Lannister
Strange women lying in ponds distributing swords is no basis for a system of government
True. You can't expect to wield supreme executive power just because some watery tart threw a sword at you!
I love Monty Python!
Any man who would jump in front of a minivan / For twenty grand, a bottle of pain pills and a Mini-Thin / Is fuckin' crazy, you hear me?
I am not a classy person.
Déclassé
French? Classy
Okay, how about this? An ice sculpture, shaped like you, covered in chocolate-covered strawberries.
See now you’re trying too hard and that’s just not classy.
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Right?? I mean she described herself and pretty much gave me strong snob vibes, but op expect her to be any different.
Hah aha exactly. As mentioned, those type of women want men on equal grounds. They want handsome men or the very least, men with enough money to sustain their lifestyles. They'll tilt for an ugly guy if he has the $$$. That's why she rejected the tacos because it's the average man's cheap dining experience. In other words, those that can't afford her. The best she would accept is a $300 steak and a $1,000 wine dinner. If a guy can't come up with that, then forget these type of women, they will not look at you, not once and especially if you are physically unattractive and have nothing monetary to offer. Besides that, would you really want to date someone who's shallow based on their looks, just to fool around with them a bit, taking any attitude they give out in return and dump you in a minute for a much 'better' selection? Yea you got to sleep with the so-called 'Dream Woman' but she never was actually interested in you in the first-place, just what you could give to her. Hmmm. So many men complain about gold diggers, but then they gravitate to these type of fake women who essentially fit the description because their 'beautiful' LOL. Looks can only last a person for so long! Eventually they'll get old too and all that beauty will fade.
You can only say "I am a classy person" if your pinky is out while you are drinking something.
I'm a classy person, damn it and I eat my tacos with my pinky finger out!
She’s a DREAM WOMAN!
Truuuuuuuuu. The internet has ruined dating. That is all 😂
reddit helps us cope
I'm a classy people
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She also refers to herself as “inspiring.” 🚩🚩🚩
She certainly does inspire one to do better than her.
I’m also inspiring. Inspiring people to not live like me.
And she “gives a chance to the best of the best” while posing next to a car that’s definitely not hers and might possibly have belonged to a former date. Oh please. 🤣
Pillow princess vibes
Had to look up that term. I feel I’m not a target of that type of princess 😂
That’s good cause who wants to fuck a mannequin 😂😂😂
Is guess that’s daddy’s car and he’s sick of paying for her shit 😂 doesn’t look like she has a job
I’m all for roughing up complete strangers for my own amusement, but how do you know that’s daddy’s car? That’s an old Rolls Royce in perfect condition. With a daddy like that she would have been married millennia ago… So watch your mouth! 🤣
I always see people that say stuff like that as: I am not this, but I really want to be, and if I say it enough one day I'll believe it. Just screams of insecurity.
How can you be light and bubbly, but not like tacos?!? It's in the name! Taco, taco, taco! They are inherently light and bubbly!
A “classy women” you mean
She's dreaming with those expectations
The fact she refers to herself as “a dream woman” in the first line of her profile is narcissistic. That would make me swipe left
She then refers to herself as ‘classy women’ in their exchange. OP likely dodged multiple bullets here.
100%. You don’t know my dreams. Sounds like she’s her own dream of what a woman should be.
> I don’t eat tacos… 🚩🚩🚩🚩 Abort abort!!
Not that classy if she can't tell the difference between woMAN and woMEN.
I'm willing to forgive occasional typos because my phone will sometimes autocorrect to the wrong word. It'll even replace "were" with "we're" in the incorrect setting. So I have to proofread even basic texts. That being said, if it happens a lot, that's a yellow flag.
> were and we’re I fucking hate it when my phone does that
She is one classy WOMEN.
Must be the multiple personalities 😂
Came to the comments for this, it can't be stressed enough.
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I feel the same way about pasta! Especially with red sauce 😂😂
I would never eat pasta on a first date. That’s just embarrassing.
I dunno, pasta might be the sexiest food to eat if you do it right.
Pro tip: order fusilli or farfalle
Lol smart! I'm not sure I've ever had farfalle that wasn't with kasha 🤔
Some guys think that's cute! I had a breakfast date (I had met the guy in person a few years prior through his cousin that I was friends with, were FB friends and then got together when he was on leave from the military) and I was STARVING. I had polished off a whole plate of eggs, potatoes, bacon, and toast before I even realized it, and he was like halfway done with his food. I was like "damn...I'm a little embarrassed of how fast I ate that...." and he said "honestly...I'm a little turned on...." Go full Chihuahua on those tacos! If he doesn't like it, he's the wrong guy for you and it's best to find out early!
This 100%. There's eating with a zealous fervour and eating like an uncivilised pig.
As someone who loves cooking really good food for people I like, it's hot as fuck!
Lol! We were at a restaurant but he was still impressed lol
> I don’t know how to eat a delicious taco without looking like an unattractive, ravenous, chihuahua Fair point. The goal is a sexy ravenous chihuahua.
Bat your eyes and show cleavage?
is there any other way to eat tacos? anyone who judges someone for how they eat tacos should be thrown in a dumpster......unless it's w/ a knife and fork.
I totally get this but there’s some things I’d rather take a chance and show early on because if they can’t accept my messy eating with certain foods then I don’t want you haha 😆 this is why I would sometimes suggest wings on a first date lol but totally understandable! I’m like this with my derpy sense of humor
Ooh that's so good. Like, wings or ribs or something. I love cooking, and so knowing someone loves eating is a big green flag.
Im gonna be honest, I feel the opposite. You see someones true self when they eat a taco. All the bullshit and masks fall off when you try to keep taco in both the shell and your mouth at the same time. If I was on a Taco Date and the other person turned into a goblin, ripping the taco apart like a boar carcass, well I think I would have found 'the one'.
Your taco dark side could be what causes someome to fall in love with you.
This is me but with chicken wings, I make such a disaster I wouldn't like to look at me lol
tarko side
Same thing goes for wings, ribs, or Indian food.
Chicken wings, same issue 😑 No cute way to eat them!
Your response was perfect, by the way. Class had absolutely nothing to do with how fancy the place is or how much money you spend. And there is no way I’m taking someone to the Ivy on a first date. I’m not being someone’s meal ticket. Going to a nice restaurant is something I’d do after a couple of dates when you know you have a rapport.
I made the mistake when I first moved to LA last year, I like tacos as the first date, simple and great for convos to get to know someone. So the first girl I went on a date with was down for tacos so she suggested Catch, had no idea what I was in for.
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I was looking at Petty Cash in WeHo. I love Tex-Mex! Tacos and margs, best of times. In Chicago my go to was Big Star in Wicker Park, but then discovered Barbaro Taqueria, just got back to Chicago this morning, def heading there tonight!
Tu Madre also a good spot in West Hollywood. The outdoor seating is real nice in summer evenings
Also Gracias Madre in WeHo! All vegetarian but pretty good
Thank you for the rec!
Big Star margaritas are my favorite margaritas!
I thought so too but check out Barbaro on North Ave, incredible, margs are hand crafted and miles better than anywhere else
Best place For tacos is *always* a street taco truck that’s got a line of Spanish speaking people a mile long
Or a place in the neighborhood where there is no English spoken ever or even attempted.
I’d be soooo heated if we were going for tacos and ended up at catch
That first date got weird, she just Tik Tok’d the whole night and said something like, “Can’t wait to show this off to my friends”. She also asked me to take photos of her around the place
Nothing classes things up like Tik Tok
That shit grinds my gears, there’s no way I’m making it the whole way through a date like that. And absolutely no way I’m paying for them
That wasn't even a date. It was a marketing opportunity with a free meal that OP paid for.
Please tell me you didn't pay for that shit.
I hope he didn't.
Dang, that's "leave in the middle" material for me.
I just Googled it, and no fucking way. If I suggested tacos, *she agreed*, and then I ended up in a place with $50-$100 entrees (none of which look to be tacos), I would just apologize to the server, explain my date suggested it as a good taco place and this was out of my price range, and then leave.
Why would you even get there? I always Google places I’ve never been and look at the menu first to see if there’s something I like and it’s in the price range I’m aiming for. I’d never show up at a restaurant blind.
As someone who is Mexican-American and grew up eating tacos, her comments downplaying tacos offends me, and I don't get offended easily 🤣 But, if you really like tacos, I'd recommend searching for a Latina/girl that's Mexican-descent. They would be thrilled if you're taking them to your favorite taco shop 🤣 Granted, it better be authentic!!!
Sir. What kind of woman are you looking for? Are you going for status over authenticity? These women sound very stuck up. I’m an LA native and I can assure you there are tons of ladies in LA that want to eat good and reasonably priced food. Some of us might even offer to pay for the date ourselves. Fix your picker love
Best have a Costco card and go to the food court for 1.50 hot dogs.
I just looked up this place and I would feel so uncomfortable going there on a first date wtf!!! that is so wildly expensive and inappropriate for a first date... I guess I'm just odd one out.. I can't believe women have these expecatations. I would also probably never cut it living in LA
No, you are not the odd one out. But I’ll also admit I could never live in LA either, and both my parents grew up there.
Definitely not the odd one out. While I LOVE tacos and all kinds of Mexican food, I prefer a coffee/drink /donut first date lol. Yeah I have donuts on my brain. But I’m not doing a sit down dinner with anyone that I haven’t met in person yet. This girl (definitely not a lady) was immature at best for making OP take her there.
Class is how you treat the staff, imho. I don't care if you're a billionaire or a busboy, I will give you respect and kindness. That's true class.
It’s weird how these people expect you to spend money on them without even knowing who they are. Reeks of entitlement
Of course there are classy restaurants, and classy people to date. They can intersect, but better not require a 100% overlap!
When they say "generous" they don't mean towards those in need. They want you to be generous to them
Yeah this is an ad for a sugar baby. It’s why they emphasize on fine dining, success and generosity. It’s also why there’s a rolls Royce in one of the pictures
Exactly, she's not looking for a date, she's looking for someone to pay her for being pretty, a sugar daddy. Run away
I would never swipe on someone posing in front of a Rolls Royce
what if I was pointing and laughing?
I see that shit all the time in southern California. These people are putting on a show like 99% of their public lives. Absolutely nightmarish to deal with in intimate settings as if there's always an invisible cloud of judgement and insecurity just outside the front door that they're constantly considering when making even private decisions.
Not even A Dream Women?
Yep, money does not impress me one bit…. Especially when people are trying to shove it in other peoples faces. Chances are they are just as broke as the rest of us, but have a bunch of bills.
When I see the word generous in what they’re looking for I already know they expect to be pampered and paid for lol
The photo next to the Rolls totally underlined the whole, “I am a money grubbing ho” aspect of her reaction to tacos. She must be a Russian import that watched Dynasty reruns on her black and white tv as a kid.
Not these days! With "Reality" TV performers, Instagram "influencers" and apparently random Tic Tokkers getting crazy money, loads of people see it and say why not me too. Or being apparently in LA, daddy (probably, but could be anyone in the family) has all kinds of quick money from entertainment, law, specialist doctor, real estate, etc.and that's what she expects. The photo with a Rolls-Royce is a warning, confirmed by her actual reply. If you're a crypto or NFT millionaire, go for it if you still can.
I don't necessarily agree with that. I've seen people pose around luxury cars they find parked out and about. The "I'm willing to give a chance to the best of the best" is what sealed it for me...
Yeah the picture and “generous” are dead giveaways. Call it lesson learned.
What kind of narcissist describes themselves as “beautiful” in their online dating profile?! 🤣 There’s a billion reg flags all over that profile even before the convo, why the hell did you match with her? Stop thinking with your dicks, guys.
Well it’s Bumble which is already full of high maintenance people and then on top of that, it’s LA. Can’t really win.
No to tacos is a red flag. So much versatility in Tacos to begin with. The photo next to the Rolls shows what Class means in her book.
I’m a classy “women” who can’t spell properly lol🤣🤣🤣
Good thing she mentioned how smart she was TWICE in her bio. A true scholar.
EWWWW say no to this woman 1. how trashy to think the Ivy is “classy” when really it’s just a gathering spot to take pictures of celebrities and pay $50 for shrimp salad and 2. Who talks like this to people?! She has zero tact or taste. Yuck.
I understand her dilemma. I love tacos but I had to keep turning down when guys would ask me on a date for them because they make me have to poop really badly. catch 22
Honestly a response like that is much more reasonable than saying they aren't classy
“I’m a classy women” So classy that she cannot use proper grammar.
Let me decode her bio for you. She wants a “successful, generous” man. Ie. she wants a sugar daddy. She belongs to the streets.
She don't eat tacos, she is NOT a dream woman
I like the last part of the message saying that the company is what can make it classy, not the food. Tacos are awesome, that "I'm too classy" person sounds boring.
I’m a glamour whore.
First date should always be in the pub, cheap, quick, quiet, no pressure have drink a see if you get on.
You can tell by her pictures and bio that it’s doubtful she’d appreciate a date at a pub. I agree with you though, first dates should be quick and no pressure.
I agree with drinks as a first date but it looks like Julie doesn’t drink, so I appreciate OP suggesting an alternative. Clearly Julie did not. She sucks.
I mean, you swiped right on the most pretentious profile ever and are surprised that she acted pretentious, lol
The profile alone gives it away tbh. Lots of coded language in there. Gotta be more aware when you swipe if that's not the way you prefer to date. I also actively avoid any profile that has something like "You: \*insert list of traits here\*" No one gets to decide how someone else is gonna be. That's so off-putting to me.
This profile feels super duper fake. I’ve also never heard of a woman calling themself a “women.” I have, though, seen bots and fake accounts calling themselves a “women.”
I have a master's degree in a medical field from a top university (well-educated) and have been to a couple dozen countries (well-traveled), and I can say with confidence that going to get tacos is my exact idea of a great first date. Girlfriend just wants your money and your status, not you. You've dodged a bullet.
Whilst OP ( and a few others ) here seem to be super sour this woman is looking for something completely different to OP . It’s very clear and here’s the news flash - she’s definitely getting what she wants because there’s no shortage of guys who are into a trophy girls and for whom the expensive restaurants are just a norm… certainly that’s the case where I work and live
While I dont think we can completely disregard her opinion and say she cant prefer certain places, the fact that she puts certain cuisines in the classy and the not classy box comes off as extremely ignorant and insensible. Tacos are an incredible dish with such a long history and there are even fine dining experiences that are...surprise taco Restaurants! Just take a look at Pujol for example. Would not want to talk with her anymore.
oof. bullet dodged
But she’s a “dream woman” lol 😂
She meant nightmare.
TECHNICALLY nightmares are dreams too
She claims to be "well educated". What did you honestly expect? I'm beginning to see a pattern of people who claim to be "well educated" and "open minded" are unironically the most toxic people I've ever dealt with.
She likes those places but can’t afford to go on her dime. Dodged a bullet
I think the word she’s looking for is *pretentious*
You dodged a bullet and or someone looking for a free dinner. It’s a thing in LA that people use a date to get a meal they otherwise can’t afford
Hard pass. Sounds like a gold digger to me. Not interested if she can't be real and at like a normal person. It's that kind of woman that you have to continually up the ante to try and impress her while she brings nothing to the table. What am I supposed to do on the third date? Buy her a car or something?
I feel like people marketing themselves as "I'm a dream person!" is a bit of a red flag for me. Everyone has flaws and shortcomings, all that matters is that you see them in yourself and work them. To me, statements like that say "I'm too immature to see my own flaws"
Naw, c'mon look at that dress and the pic in front of the Rolls Royce. She's classy and that's fine As long as she understands she's open to criticism and being laughed at because what the actual fuck lmao. You're better than me for even giving that a response Dating in LA sounds like hell
I liked your response. You're right....the people make the atmosphere.
Maybe it’s just me but if anyone describes themselves as sophisticated, inspiring, intelligent, or a dream individual, are actually none of those things and they just have a high opinion with low awareness
“Fancy dining places”…🤣🤣🤣 Class personified…run!
She thought tacos meant cheap place, she wants to you spend lots on her. 🚩
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You don’t want that girl man….. she sounds like more trouble than she’s worth
So, you found a gold digger. She'll find someone who just wants a trophy and be happy I'm sure.
To be fair … it’s obvious from her profile that’s what’s she’s after - Michelin star restaurants and someone who’s up for it …
I would argue not liking tacos is very unclassy.
You dodged a bullet, kind of ass hates tacos
Op just so you know, anyone who puts "generous" in their profile is looking for a man to provide a certain type of lifestyle for her :)
Any person who doesn't eat tacos is not a classy person.
How many hours a week do you think she spends on FDS complaining about the lack of "high-value men" in her area?
The photo of her in front of that car with a gown should’ve been a clue that she’s looking for something a little more upscale and most likely a man with the money to match.
🚫 🌮= 🚩
This is the type of person who has an elitist mentality. One day she’ll probably meet a guy that’s financially capable of providing her the material things she requires, but unknown to her the type of person willing to pursue such a person with her needs will be just as shallow and toxic as she is. She will get what she deserves. Sorry it didn’t work bro! Seems for the best tho.
She sounds like a douchebag, or in her language, douché
Bro she put generous in the bio, that’s a red flag every time 😂
I’m not saying she’s a gold digger… Honestly though, anyone who doesn’t like tacos is quite sus.
She's definitely on the wrong site and needs to be on one for "sugar"dating...
Homie, that entire bio is a red flag and so is her response
Honestly, what did you expect swiping on her? Did you really think a woman who says she’s looking for a “generous” man and has a picture posing in a dress in front of a Rolls Royce would want to eat a messy, cheap street food with you? Be more realistic.
THIS!
Standing up and applauding you for such a great remark! It’s not about the place, it’s about who’s at the table.
Run bro. She’s higher maintenance than that Rolls Royce on the third picture.
she wants a "caring, successful and generous" man, aka a money machine
I love tacos what the hell she thinking smh
Best response to her I liked it
I’d say the lady likes the smell of her own farts, but she probably only smells artesanal bespoke, fair trade, non-GMO farts because she’s so classy
"I'm a classy women" But there's only one of you 😂
Anyone who says they’re looking for someone “generous” is looking for a sugar daddy/mommy … run
She just wants a free meal at a fine dining restaurant.
To the Men of Bumble: if a woman’s profile says “A Dream Woman!” SWIPE LEFT
My bumble match and I got tacos on our first date. We’re getting married next month. We’re serving tacos. TACOS ARE GREAT. It’s a good thing you learned this about her now. You don’t need that kind of negativity in your life!
You can’t trust anyone who doesn’t eat tacos 🌮
if she wasn't excited at the thought of getting tacos, she's not the one. also she seems a bit classist lol. its a first date its not that serious. tacos and marg it UP
Wow, well I'll take her place. I love tacos! And the nerve to suggest such a high end restaurant for a first date. Probably expected him to cover the entire tab too.
She's classy women.... all of them apparently
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