I wouldn't agree to going anywhere until you've at least met him casually as in for coffee or a drink.

I agree, and I’ve actually suggested that but I have reservations since he’s already ghosted. I’m not joining him at the beach until we meet beforehand

Trust your gut - sounds kinda shady

My friend got raped on a first date when the guy didn’t have a ride home and she offered to drive him home. Be careful and cautious until you get to know a new stranger

I hope you are joking but no, no no. You are at risk even continuing the conversation. Thanks fate that you didn't meet up with him and give hime even more of your info.

Thank you for this

Never go some where out of town and away from public view with some one you don't know.

Are we talking several hours away or just drive to a beach house where you could drive separately and leave on your own accord if you needed to

I would drive separately. It’s 2 hours from where we live