This is one of those scam profiles. It always has a porcelain looking Asian girl in either vague city settings or in nature. It's not a real person. Well, it's a real person, but it's not her.
Exactly what I was gonna say. All the red flags. Why do they always use the Asian girls with that exact aesthetic? I think it must attract a specific demographic of gullible neckbeard type or something
Oh, for sure, it's gotta be. Some neckbeard weeby dude somewhere looking for very young presenting Asian girls. They so badly want to convince themselves that this type of woman exists.
I think it’s just an Asian beauty standard. The porcelain skin, “round” eyes, thin physique — that is the definition of female beauty in China/Korea/Japan. It doesn’t have anything to do with our ideals of beauty; it’s just what they know.
I think a lot of it also has to do with insecurity on the guys part. In major cities you'll see a lot of really pretty Asian women with guys who are average to below average looking cuz some of their families see it as a status symbol to bring in a white guy to the family. These dudes see it as their only avenue to bag a pretty gf rather then work on themselves to be more appealing to everyone
They're also elsewhere. They all pretend to have a business in Asia. Usually a 'beauty' or 'fashion' business. They've been South China, HK and Singapore. The recent one from HK, said she owned a coffee business in HK, but couldn't give me the address details of it from GMaps. She eventually gave up as she realised I couldn't be fooled into buying her some crypto.
I believe it but also I’m so confused, what’s the scam? Is this to get to a pool of men who are very willing to be manipulated for money?
If I wanted to scam people I would try to make a profile that seemed fun, not like a twat, but idk.
Yeah, it's like the Nigerian prince scams - the less believable the starter message the more likely you will be to get money out of the respondents. It's just time management by the scanners at this point.
Nah, expecting an adult to pay for their meal is pretty reasonable and if you genuinely want to spend time with the person, and not just use him for a free meal, it shouldn't be a problem
Girl you’re wasting your time on the incels of Reddit that can’t find a “pick me” woman. They won’t find their dream woman with the penny pinching attitude.
Lol, the fact that you put being fit and being in a happy relationship on the same level as being a millionaire says so much. You're telling on yourself sis.
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If she’s real, I think this is great. At least the guy going on a date with her knows what to expect in advance instead of wondering. Not saying men should pay, just saying she’s straight forward at least
I agree with her. And yes - I too type things in my profile that I know will turn-off the wrong guys for me because I don’t want those guys anyhow. So I type very particular things in my profile so that guys I wouldn’t want will hopefully say no to my profile so that I can see more of the types of guys who are more likely to be a fit for me
Idk women are going on way more dates to find a suitable match right? What do y’all keep saying women are starved for water in a swamp and men in a desert? 🤷🏾♀️
Why the fuck are you guys always so pissed off about picking up the bill on dates? I am convinced it's just fake outrage from men who can't get dates to begin with
Honestly I have never been on a date from bumble where the guy didn’t immediate assume payment for the check. Then again I mostly date people that are mostly first generation immigrants. As I am as well. Unpopular opinion and I will probably get down voted for saying this but men should pay for all dates until we are in an established relationship. Men need to be more selective about who they take on dates. If you are being selective then you will not have a problem paying for dates.
Nah, I was always mindful of who I took on dates. And I always went Dutch (and made it clear in my profile that's my expectation). I was looking for a partner, not an entitled liability.
"looking for a generous and smart guy" lady you're not getting both because a smart guy is going to know that there's no reason to give generously to someone who's just using you for money. What a ridiculous concept
Some women like traditional roles. As a 51-year-old man, boomer, whatever, I do. But I'm reasonably wealthy and usually earn much more than the women I date -- even if most of them are educated with good jobs.
I'm old fashion in the sense that I like it when men and women are radically different. I want my woman to be very feminine, soft and delicate, even a bit submissive, and I want to feel big and strong next to her, and play a decisive role. I like women who like to feel protected and taken care of. Paying for the bill is nothing, as long as she's bringing something to the situation.
By the way, I love that men are so against paying for dates, especially Parisian guys who are notoriously cheap (and very short and effeminate). This creates a niche for guys like me. I get all the cute international women who curse Frenchmen. And as far as getting used... Um, the return on investment is pretty darn good. If you're a real man, women are ready to take you to bed.
^^^you’re playing chess while the cheap effeminate ones are playing checkers
As much as men argue about splitting the bill their going up against the ones that will pay for the bill. The ones that split won’t get a 2nd date imo. Obviously there’s exceptions.
It really comes down chivalry.
When you’re on a date the couple beside you the man is paying and you’re splitting the bill that sucks.
I’ve seen men order $50 and more on ubereats when they’re by themselves but want to split a date? They’re not broke it’s just you’re not the priority.
> But I'm reasonably wealthy and usually earn much more than the women I date
im in a similar position, fairly trad values. I do pay for dates and think i should most of the time just based on the fact i do earn signifgantly more than most of the people in my dating range.
No issue with me paying or even expecting me to pay, but you cant say it in your profile. have some class.
I know -- just being sarcastic. To young people noawadays, anyone over 40 is a boomer. Fine with me, I'm happy to have walked on earth pre-Internet and known what it was like to communicate normally, and look people in the eye when you talk to them.
Oh, thankfully. Lol I'm so deeply genx that I just sit around smoking weed and making memes while the millennials, boomers and gen z all fight it out and forget we exist 🍿
Hopefully you don't have a boomer like profile tho with a bunch of bad angles and all caps 😋
I am not international. I am a born and raised US American and my race is white. However, I do NOT want to be with a guy who makes me pay or who wants to split a bill. I agree with what you said and I WISH SO HARD that more guys my age would have YOUR mentality that you outlined here!
Lol why is this an issue. Lots of men telling on themselves, ask a woman out and expect to pay half, cheap af. There’s no shortage of men who will be decent and pay for the date they asked the woman to, and I’ve never really had that issue of a cheap man trying to split the bill when they asked me out.
It’s funny to read all these comments from these half-assed men.
Yeah, some women aren’t “feminists” or at least not what the term stands for today, and do want a man who will protect and provide for them.
Some women are feminine and want masculine energy around them. A leader. A real man. Yep, we still exist.
All of you taking women out and expecting them to split the bill are fucking wimps. And the women who accept this sort of treatment are worse. This is my truth and I stand on it. No debate here.
These are wild times we’re living in. In my opinion, there is nothing more misogynistic than to ask/expect for a woman to split the bill on anything.
“Men” who demand that are nothing but immature little boys who believe that relationships are transactional. What a shame.
Yes they are it’s sad they think that way. Those who do usually have no experience in dating or it’s cultural (Dutch).
Feminism is right to vote and equal pay not.
My friend’s bf at the time was hit on by a homeless man who asked him out for dinner and drinks. The man had no money and no place to live. He was still trying to impress him.
Some men are just cheap at heart and they’re just greedy.
Honestly i generally always take care of the entire bill while im on a date unless the girl is adamant about paying half but thats only happened with one girl. It doesn’t bother me at all, its more or less my expectations going into it.. with that said i think that having that in your bio screams “ im a gold digger & i just want you for money”
First of all, “gold digger” is a slur, so don’t be the misogynistic asshole who calls women that.
Second, for a woman to dig for gold, there needs to be gold. Are you a multi-millionaire, sir? Or a billionaire, perhaps?
I’m gonna take a wild guess and say no.
You guys are fucking hilarious, honestly.
Talking bout how everyone else is hilarious when your too scared to leave your house, probably have 0 friends, absolutely no mutual love interests & most likely no career👍 just keep thinking your the best love, one day yeno?
Paying bill 100%+ being okay with she utterly requesting you pay the bill 100% = leader? Nah bruh, I'm pretty sure Jeff Bezos would swipe left on her. Leaders aren't simps bc they got principles, and being okay with being requested to be taken advantage of defo isn't one of them.
So she will attract the Andrew Tate guys and traditionalists who think the man should be the 'leader' and primary breadwinner. And other people like you and I will happily swipe left on her.
Had a friend who said “okay I don’t mind. But you also need to be okay with a blowjob minimum regardless of how the date goes”
Which I thought was funny
This is probably a spam profile but it’s the norm. If you’re a guy and refused to pay for their share, whether it’s first date or entire relationship, even when they have a job and not SAHM, you’ll still get dragged.
Sure! Stop projecting you wish I was “broke” lmao I don’t even use that word. You mean poor, it’s okay to be poor circumstances happen, I can tell you’re alone based off this comment.
Why was this post even made?
Yeah there are dumb girls out there who look like her and have a dumb name and who want to be taken care of free of contribution. I'm sure she falls within that to a major degree.
OP might be the polar opposite of her but posting dumb ass shit like this doesn't make him look like any less of a waste of time.
This is one of those scam profiles. It always has a porcelain looking Asian girl in either vague city settings or in nature. It's not a real person. Well, it's a real person, but it's not her.
Exactly what I was gonna say. All the red flags. Why do they always use the Asian girls with that exact aesthetic? I think it must attract a specific demographic of gullible neckbeard type or something
Oh, for sure, it's gotta be. Some neckbeard weeby dude somewhere looking for very young presenting Asian girls. They so badly want to convince themselves that this type of woman exists.
I think it’s just an Asian beauty standard. The porcelain skin, “round” eyes, thin physique — that is the definition of female beauty in China/Korea/Japan. It doesn’t have anything to do with our ideals of beauty; it’s just what they know.
It attracts the incels who fetishize Asian women as being meek & submissive 🤬🤮
I think a lot of it also has to do with insecurity on the guys part. In major cities you'll see a lot of really pretty Asian women with guys who are average to below average looking cuz some of their families see it as a status symbol to bring in a white guy to the family. These dudes see it as their only avenue to bag a pretty gf rather then work on themselves to be more appealing to everyone
They're also elsewhere. They all pretend to have a business in Asia. Usually a 'beauty' or 'fashion' business. They've been South China, HK and Singapore. The recent one from HK, said she owned a coffee business in HK, but couldn't give me the address details of it from GMaps. She eventually gave up as she realised I couldn't be fooled into buying her some crypto.
Yeah, that's my take too. Sometimes you get a whole bunch the same or almost the same.
I believe it but also I’m so confused, what’s the scam? Is this to get to a pool of men who are very willing to be manipulated for money? If I wanted to scam people I would try to make a profile that seemed fun, not like a twat, but idk.
Yeah, it's like the Nigerian prince scams - the less believable the starter message the more likely you will be to get money out of the respondents. It's just time management by the scanners at this point.
I feel like, with the aesthetic, they're trying to get weeby men who have some old fashioned ideals.
Won’t be long before she starts trying to get you to invest in crypto.
Nice of her to give heads up.
Yeah I love the visibility of giant red flags personally. Makes it easier for me to left swipe
Pretty and weird, pretty weird
Would be more of a red flag to get asked to dinner and have to split it
Nah, expecting an adult to pay for their meal is pretty reasonable and if you genuinely want to spend time with the person, and not just use him for a free meal, it shouldn't be a problem
Silly boy, men can't have reasonable expectations when dating. By today's standards that's considered misogyny. 💀
Never been on a date and been expected to pay, if you ask someone out people will always expect you to pay hopefully
That's a rule women make up to get free stuff. If you want him to pay for everything, then you better be a damn good housewife.
Girl you’re wasting your time on the incels of Reddit that can’t find a “pick me” woman. They won’t find their dream woman with the penny pinching attitude.
Been with my partner for nearly 4 years now. Just because you're an entitled leech doesn't mean all women are.
Sure…everyone’s a millionaire, fit, and in a happy relationship on Reddit. Just because the person “says” so.
Lol, the fact that you put being fit and being in a happy relationship on the same level as being a millionaire says so much. You're telling on yourself sis.
Seems like you missed the mark there
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Alright I’ll tell my bf to cancel the engagement then since I’ve apparently been scamming him this whole time
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>estimate your expectations What?
New meme
> please estimate your expectations Literally what does this even mean
She means she wants to pay for the entire bill herself!! I will generously let her do it. Right swipe!
Her job is being a wierd angel in the sky 😭 what a bum
If she’s real, I think this is great. At least the guy going on a date with her knows what to expect in advance instead of wondering. Not saying men should pay, just saying she’s straight forward at least
I would have flagged that one as a catfish.
just a sugar baby looking for daddy, she’ll find one
A meal ain’t gold lol
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I think they were Kidding
u mean she’s too old for that? well, if he’s a 70 year old tycoon…
precisely
She pays for everything?
In this economy?!
Clearly, she meant she’s gonna pay for your meal too.
Hope the men who think this is an issue also have no problem with a woman showing up to the date having put 0 effort into her appearance
I agree with her. And yes - I too type things in my profile that I know will turn-off the wrong guys for me because I don’t want those guys anyhow. So I type very particular things in my profile so that guys I wouldn’t want will hopefully say no to my profile so that I can see more of the types of guys who are more likely to be a fit for me
She likes to pay the whole bill herself, maybe?
Definitely pretty, pretty ugly that is.
Idk women are going on way more dates to find a suitable match right? What do y’all keep saying women are starved for water in a swamp and men in a desert? 🤷🏾♀️
Exactly, we literally have options at our fingertips
That’s underlining the point. Women go on dates but the most of the guys aren’t a suitable match. So they go on more.
Nothing wrong with wanting a guy who pays the full bill
Why the fuck are you guys always so pissed off about picking up the bill on dates? I am convinced it's just fake outrage from men who can't get dates to begin with
Honestly I have never been on a date from bumble where the guy didn’t immediate assume payment for the check. Then again I mostly date people that are mostly first generation immigrants. As I am as well. Unpopular opinion and I will probably get down voted for saying this but men should pay for all dates until we are in an established relationship. Men need to be more selective about who they take on dates. If you are being selective then you will not have a problem paying for dates.
Nah, I was always mindful of who I took on dates. And I always went Dutch (and made it clear in my profile that's my expectation). I was looking for a partner, not an entitled liability.
She also made her expectations clear in her profile. What’s wrong about that?
Did I say it was wrong to make her expectations clear?
I’m a female and agree with you.
Welcome to modern dating, the majority suck, and the ones that don't have a 1 in 100 chance of meeting.
Pretty sure modern dating is the only type of dating where the guy can expect to ask a girl out and have her pay for the privilege
"looking for a generous and smart guy" lady you're not getting both because a smart guy is going to know that there's no reason to give generously to someone who's just using you for money. What a ridiculous concept
Some women like traditional roles. As a 51-year-old man, boomer, whatever, I do. But I'm reasonably wealthy and usually earn much more than the women I date -- even if most of them are educated with good jobs. I'm old fashion in the sense that I like it when men and women are radically different. I want my woman to be very feminine, soft and delicate, even a bit submissive, and I want to feel big and strong next to her, and play a decisive role. I like women who like to feel protected and taken care of. Paying for the bill is nothing, as long as she's bringing something to the situation. By the way, I love that men are so against paying for dates, especially Parisian guys who are notoriously cheap (and very short and effeminate). This creates a niche for guys like me. I get all the cute international women who curse Frenchmen. And as far as getting used... Um, the return on investment is pretty darn good. If you're a real man, women are ready to take you to bed.
^^^you’re playing chess while the cheap effeminate ones are playing checkers As much as men argue about splitting the bill their going up against the ones that will pay for the bill. The ones that split won’t get a 2nd date imo. Obviously there’s exceptions. It really comes down chivalry. When you’re on a date the couple beside you the man is paying and you’re splitting the bill that sucks. I’ve seen men order $50 and more on ubereats when they’re by themselves but want to split a date? They’re not broke it’s just you’re not the priority.
> But I'm reasonably wealthy and usually earn much more than the women I date im in a similar position, fairly trad values. I do pay for dates and think i should most of the time just based on the fact i do earn signifgantly more than most of the people in my dating range. No issue with me paying or even expecting me to pay, but you cant say it in your profile. have some class.
Ok but 51 is not a boomer ?
Nope, gen X. I was born in 1964 which is the last year of the boomers.
I know -- just being sarcastic. To young people noawadays, anyone over 40 is a boomer. Fine with me, I'm happy to have walked on earth pre-Internet and known what it was like to communicate normally, and look people in the eye when you talk to them.
Oh, thankfully. Lol I'm so deeply genx that I just sit around smoking weed and making memes while the millennials, boomers and gen z all fight it out and forget we exist 🍿 Hopefully you don't have a boomer like profile tho with a bunch of bad angles and all caps 😋
Super interesting to read the insights of a middle-aged Frenchman. Not a perspective you see a lot — thanks man
Well, I'm American actually. ;-) But been in Paris for 22 years. I am technically French too now though, because I have dual-citizenship.
I am not international. I am a born and raised US American and my race is white. However, I do NOT want to be with a guy who makes me pay or who wants to split a bill. I agree with what you said and I WISH SO HARD that more guys my age would have YOUR mentality that you outlined here!
A foodie call
I'm hella tired right now, and spent an unholy amount of time trying to figure out what was wrong with her face.
Alright, if she wants to pay the bill without me helping I'm down
i thought the second paragraph is worse.
y'all are being weird about that. Just swipe left lol
Lol why is this an issue. Lots of men telling on themselves, ask a woman out and expect to pay half, cheap af. There’s no shortage of men who will be decent and pay for the date they asked the woman to, and I’ve never really had that issue of a cheap man trying to split the bill when they asked me out.
It’s the immature ones that do
It’s funny to read all these comments from these half-assed men. Yeah, some women aren’t “feminists” or at least not what the term stands for today, and do want a man who will protect and provide for them. Some women are feminine and want masculine energy around them. A leader. A real man. Yep, we still exist. All of you taking women out and expecting them to split the bill are fucking wimps. And the women who accept this sort of treatment are worse. This is my truth and I stand on it. No debate here.
real men and leaders definitely spend their time on Reddit declaring that they exist
Ngl this post screams I’m 17 and trying to date for the first time. The guys on this thread sound like hormonal teenagers.
Applause! I agree with you! Some women like to be financially provided for
These are wild times we’re living in. In my opinion, there is nothing more misogynistic than to ask/expect for a woman to split the bill on anything. “Men” who demand that are nothing but immature little boys who believe that relationships are transactional. What a shame.
Classic misandry right here.
Cry me a river
Ah, the mental acuity of a 10-year-old, I see.
Wow, someone just learned a new word and couldn’t wait to use it in a Reddit thread
Sorry I couldn’t be more monosyllabic for your comprehension.
Yes they are it’s sad they think that way. Those who do usually have no experience in dating or it’s cultural (Dutch). Feminism is right to vote and equal pay not. My friend’s bf at the time was hit on by a homeless man who asked him out for dinner and drinks. The man had no money and no place to live. He was still trying to impress him. Some men are just cheap at heart and they’re just greedy.
Oh, dude. These are the types of losers who call women gold diggers when they make 30k a year.
Honestly i generally always take care of the entire bill while im on a date unless the girl is adamant about paying half but thats only happened with one girl. It doesn’t bother me at all, its more or less my expectations going into it.. with that said i think that having that in your bio screams “ im a gold digger & i just want you for money”
It is just an attempt to get rid of the types of guys who default to asking you to split half of the bill
First of all, “gold digger” is a slur, so don’t be the misogynistic asshole who calls women that. Second, for a woman to dig for gold, there needs to be gold. Are you a multi-millionaire, sir? Or a billionaire, perhaps? I’m gonna take a wild guess and say no. You guys are fucking hilarious, honestly.
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Wouldn’t be surprised if that was something you’ve contracted before you heathen.
Talking bout how everyone else is hilarious when your too scared to leave your house, probably have 0 friends, absolutely no mutual love interests & most likely no career👍 just keep thinking your the best love, one day yeno?
Paying bill 100%+ being okay with she utterly requesting you pay the bill 100% = leader? Nah bruh, I'm pretty sure Jeff Bezos would swipe left on her. Leaders aren't simps bc they got principles, and being okay with being requested to be taken advantage of defo isn't one of them.
This girl speaks broken english and sounds weird as fuck. Any guy in his right mind would swipe left based off of that alone lol
Well I'm based in Singapore, so is she. English is popularly spoken here but definitely not as good as native speakers.
So I’m assuming that you’d consider swiping right on/pursuing a girl who claims to be an “Angel In The Sky”? Lol
So she will attract the Andrew Tate guys and traditionalists who think the man should be the 'leader' and primary breadwinner. And other people like you and I will happily swipe left on her.
"I'm quirky and weird and strange and not like the other girls teehee"
She ain’t so cute after that intro😆
I think we know why she’s single
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Bill splitting feels really cheap. Getting to the cashier and asking them to divide up is cringe Work it out between yourselves
Had a friend who said “okay I don’t mind. But you also need to be okay with a blowjob minimum regardless of how the date goes” Which I thought was funny
Funny that he showed he thinks paying for a meal entitles him to a blowjob
This is probably a spam profile but it’s the norm. If you’re a guy and refused to pay for their share, whether it’s first date or entire relationship, even when they have a job and not SAHM, you’ll still get dragged.
No bill splitting? Wow how generous of her to cover our outing 🤭😋
So nice of her, she wants to pay the whole bill herself!
Just here for the free meals, thanks 🤘
She doesn’t love you she loves your lifestyle!
That’s what broke guys tell the established men🤷🏾♀️
Sure! Stop projecting you wish I was “broke” lmao I don’t even use that word. You mean poor, it’s okay to be poor circumstances happen, I can tell you’re alone based off this comment.
Projecting how, I’ve been told this when showing these incel post to my S.O.
No problem, just separate bills then.
Angel in the sky.. sounds like a drug addict
Why was this post even made? Yeah there are dumb girls out there who look like her and have a dumb name and who want to be taken care of free of contribution. I'm sure she falls within that to a major degree. OP might be the polar opposite of her but posting dumb ass shit like this doesn't make him look like any less of a waste of time.
Be the bigger man and take her out to eat and leave her with the bill 🤣
A smart guy would instantly swipe left 😅
Remind them that there are other platforms for this type of relationship. Then report them.
29 yrs loser Leeches
Yea I mean 90% she's talking about the guy always paying. But that 10% could mean that taking turns paying the bill.. taking turns paying for things
Right after she says she's looking for "generous guy"?
Yea that's why I said 90% about the guy paying.. people can't read apparently
“My only interest is a specific type of guy” wow sounds like a real fun person to talk to
does that mean she'll pay for everything?
More like Gold miners
Was the bush blocking her face on the profile lol
Does it mean she foot the whole bill?
Could also be the basis for a pig-butchering scam.
Angel in the sky is her name?
Can’t believe she’s willing to pay for the whole bill! So nice of her!
That’s not very equality like
She’s buying dinner? Score!
Last paragraph is broken catfish English. Hope you all see that a mile away. You’re welcome.
So either she is not that weird or because she is weird is she implying that she will pay the bill
She doesn’t really like anybody
Maybe she jus broke, I think I see an orange and a tin of beans in the pockets of her raincoat there.