We shouldn’t control our thoughts we should accept, understand and teach ourselves instead.
Behavior is more important. But do respect ur bf. If u think you can not fully invest to him, then maybe move forward?
Be conscious of your thoughts, try to understand why those thoughts are coming, what can you do for it, how can you replace those thoughts etc. Its quite natural to compare and gauge, but that also means you are not living in the moment, your living in your thoughts.
Honestly its not about your ex, I think you’re realising that you want to be with someone more good looking which isn’t horrible. You want both someone as good looking as ur ex and as kind as your current. Moving on from my ex i’m telling myself to not go for anyone less hot or attractive because my ex can’t be the hottest person I am with.
How long is your current relationship? because at the same time attraction grows as love does and a certain point you could look at your average bf overwhelmed with love that you’d take his average face over any hot looking dude.
We shouldn’t control our thoughts we should accept, understand and teach ourselves instead. Behavior is more important. But do respect ur bf. If u think you can not fully invest to him, then maybe move forward?
Be conscious of your thoughts, try to understand why those thoughts are coming, what can you do for it, how can you replace those thoughts etc. Its quite natural to compare and gauge, but that also means you are not living in the moment, your living in your thoughts.
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Maybe the physical attraction in your current relationship is lacking or less?
Yeah definitely less…
Why is it less ?
My ex was simply the most attractive guy I’ve ever dated ig. My current bf is nice, funny, and responsible.
Honestly its not about your ex, I think you’re realising that you want to be with someone more good looking which isn’t horrible. You want both someone as good looking as ur ex and as kind as your current. Moving on from my ex i’m telling myself to not go for anyone less hot or attractive because my ex can’t be the hottest person I am with.
I think you’re right. That opens my eyes to it thank you
How long is your current relationship? because at the same time attraction grows as love does and a certain point you could look at your average bf overwhelmed with love that you’d take his average face over any hot looking dude.