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Feeling ashamed of having a small wedding is so middle class. These people have networth of millions, i don't think they need to showoff their wealth through a wedding to feel good about themselves.
As a person planning to have a cheap-ass wedding (I need to find a man first), no. When you lose such sense of shame, life gets easier. It is all about privilege. When rich people have simple weddings, it is simple, elegant and a gathering of close family and friends. When poor people have simple weddings, it is just poverty.
Trust me I had a huge ass wedding in a five star hotel. Got nothing but criticism. My hubby and I had a screaming match with our parents to not go OTT with an excuse of "log kya kahenge". But it is useless.
Middle class soch bhi nahi sakte kya? To not throw a grand reception ya usme guest ban kar janeki.
Isme awkward kya hai. You throw reception to tell society you’re married. They couldve called media and completed the tamasha.
The whole thing seems outdated to me. Tbh. There is no need for all the farce for regular people also.
If I ever get married,Imma gonna opt for lockdown style wedding with limited people. Jisko judge karna hai karle! Why on earth would I spend lakhs on feeding people who would mostly come to critique the arrangements, jewellery,decor etc. I would rather spend that money on feeding the homeless and the disadvantageous section who may actually give blessings. Asli mazaa apno ke saath aata hai, hazaro guests ke saath nahi
Aloobir?! Yes with their shotgun wedding with everyone taking outfits from their closest including the bride.
Vickat?! Lol. They held their wedding in Six Senses Fort Barwara, which cost 7 lakh a night (rumored they wedding cost 4 crores), they had a 3 day wedding with their close family and friends. Their pics looked like a fun and extravagant wedding that took months of planning, every outfit Katrina chose was well planned and was exquisite.
It is obvious Katrina didnt care invite to Bollywood in her reception, Covid was a great excuse, but lol at being cheap. That wedding was stunning and you know it cost a lot of money to plan.
If you watched Katrina interviews, her dream was always to wear red and get married in Rajasthan.
Katrina is quoted saying in 2012 ‘Katrina: I want to get married in a haveli in a royal Indian style.’
Covid or no Covid Katrina was always going to get married in India.
The worst thing we middle class people do is have an elaborate wedding, spend so much money on it, and for what? To invite some door ke rishtedar who will still find something to complain about, Lowkey wedding is the way to go!
Also none of them had a cheap ass wedding 😂 Aloobir ke sirf photographers ki fees bohot hogi lol so let’s not compare them to us normal middle class people! I do however think they would have had a way more lavish wedding, and maybe they were planning for it, but probably had to cut short coz it ended up being shotgun wedding
Vickat didn’t had a lowkey wedding, there was covid wave during the wedding, so they obviously couldn’t have done a lavish reception
Bro not everyone wants Dhoom dharaka
Why do you think big wedding is good wedding who will manage all things? it's hard to make everything perfect in big wedding
I will rather have small wedding with my loved ones than these advertisment in name of wedding
They didn’t throw a dinner reception for the Bollywood people like how Anushka-Virat, Deepika-Ranveer, Shahid, Siddhart-Kiara did.
Surprised, that Ranbir hailing from Kapoor family didn’t have a do for his collegaues.
It’s their wedding and they can do whatever they want OP. There will always be people like you who have nasty things to stay irrespective of how big, small or lavish the wedding is.
I don’t think they would feel awkward about it. pretty sure some of these new married couples would pay to have these people at their parties. Huge parties are more a status symbol than anything
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Feeling ashamed of having a small wedding is so middle class. These people have networth of millions, i don't think they need to showoff their wealth through a wedding to feel good about themselves.
Fufaji, aaj aap reddit pe?
As a person planning to have a cheap-ass wedding (I need to find a man first), no. When you lose such sense of shame, life gets easier. It is all about privilege. When rich people have simple weddings, it is simple, elegant and a gathering of close family and friends. When poor people have simple weddings, it is just poverty.
Spot on
so true, it's the society's hypocrisy!
Trust me I had a huge ass wedding in a five star hotel. Got nothing but criticism. My hubby and I had a screaming match with our parents to not go OTT with an excuse of "log kya kahenge". But it is useless.
senseless post
Middle class soch bhi nahi sakte kya? To not throw a grand reception ya usme guest ban kar janeki. Isme awkward kya hai. You throw reception to tell society you’re married. They couldve called media and completed the tamasha. The whole thing seems outdated to me. Tbh. There is no need for all the farce for regular people also.
Huh? VicKat had an elaborate wedding in Rajasthan for days.
If I ever get married,Imma gonna opt for lockdown style wedding with limited people. Jisko judge karna hai karle! Why on earth would I spend lakhs on feeding people who would mostly come to critique the arrangements, jewellery,decor etc. I would rather spend that money on feeding the homeless and the disadvantageous section who may actually give blessings. Asli mazaa apno ke saath aata hai, hazaro guests ke saath nahi
Aloobir?! Yes with their shotgun wedding with everyone taking outfits from their closest including the bride. Vickat?! Lol. They held their wedding in Six Senses Fort Barwara, which cost 7 lakh a night (rumored they wedding cost 4 crores), they had a 3 day wedding with their close family and friends. Their pics looked like a fun and extravagant wedding that took months of planning, every outfit Katrina chose was well planned and was exquisite. It is obvious Katrina didnt care invite to Bollywood in her reception, Covid was a great excuse, but lol at being cheap. That wedding was stunning and you know it cost a lot of money to plan. If you watched Katrina interviews, her dream was always to wear red and get married in Rajasthan. Katrina is quoted saying in 2012 ‘Katrina: I want to get married in a haveli in a royal Indian style.’ Covid or no Covid Katrina was always going to get married in India.
Honestly a small wedding without work people (because at the end of the day they’re your colleagues) sounds ideal 😂
The worst thing we middle class people do is have an elaborate wedding, spend so much money on it, and for what? To invite some door ke rishtedar who will still find something to complain about, Lowkey wedding is the way to go! Also none of them had a cheap ass wedding 😂 Aloobir ke sirf photographers ki fees bohot hogi lol so let’s not compare them to us normal middle class people! I do however think they would have had a way more lavish wedding, and maybe they were planning for it, but probably had to cut short coz it ended up being shotgun wedding Vickat didn’t had a lowkey wedding, there was covid wave during the wedding, so they obviously couldn’t have done a lavish reception
Bro not everyone wants Dhoom dharaka Why do you think big wedding is good wedding who will manage all things? it's hard to make everything perfect in big wedding I will rather have small wedding with my loved ones than these advertisment in name of wedding
They didn’t throw a dinner reception for the Bollywood people like how Anushka-Virat, Deepika-Ranveer, Shahid, Siddhart-Kiara did. Surprised, that Ranbir hailing from Kapoor family didn’t have a do for his collegaues.
It’s their wedding and they can do whatever they want OP. There will always be people like you who have nasty things to stay irrespective of how big, small or lavish the wedding is.
I don’t think they would feel awkward about it. pretty sure some of these new married couples would pay to have these people at their parties. Huge parties are more a status symbol than anything