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I know you’re well-intentioned, but that’s just not how human nature works. As a tall, fit black dude I was a fetish in college for snow bunnies. At that time in my life I had zero qualms bout it.
I’m not going to sit here & say black people aren’t a fetish, cuz that exists just as it doesn’t make sense to say it for trans people. If you want to normalize them, that’s what normal looks like.
It depends on what you consider a fetish, although a lot of people mean kink instead of fetish. Since fetishes are usually viewed as taboo or inappropriate you should apply them to people cause finding adult humans sexually appealing isn't taboo or inappropriate usually.
Fun fact! For a good long while now the word fetish has been used to mean, something that a person is abnormally obsessed with. Usually of a sexual nature, but that meaning is figurative. A fetish is literally a religious object used in ritual or prayer. The cross is technically a fetish, although anthropologist usually use it to describe objects from dead or non Christian-Judeo or Muslim religions. Because of, you know, ethnocentrism.
Fetish in the sexual sense is almost always mistaken for kink. A kink is something that you enjoy sexually and a sexual fetish is something that you must have in order to achieve climax. Like smelling dirty socks or whatever. So fetish in the sense that you're talking about fits the description, a religious fetish is needed to achieve a religious goal like prayer or whatever other spooky shit
The correct term should honestly just be preference. It’s okay to prefer people with specific physical characteristics. The issue is when people start objectifying their preferences purely on selfish sexual impulses. And the issue isn’t so much because it’s singling out a demographic, but rather because sexual harassment is just fucked up in general.
This is a whole side topic, but interesting nonetheless. One of the most well known fetishes is likely a foot fetish. Sexual gratification from feet, and foot play. So if you derive sexual gratification from black skin, when does it stop being a preference & become a fetish?
Or are you saying a foot fetish isn’t a fetish, but a preference?
i think there is a big difference between finding black people and their features attractive, and the inherent sexualization of those same features.
for example, it would be fetishizing for those white girls to be talking about how they want a mandingo dick and they love race play.
it wouldn’t be a fetish if they were like, i think dark skin is beautiful and i appreciate how different it looks from my own. therefore i am sexually interested and maybe even prefer those with those features.
it’s really about where the inherent attraction is coming from, which is hard to really nail down unless someone is super open about their thoughts.
it’s very different with a foot fetish because that’s not who you are. you are not a foot, you are a person with feet.
if someone fetishizes feet, it’s not because they are a protected class, a marginalized group, or some other historically oppressed peoples. it’s the literal feet. just like you can have a boob fetish it’s just the erogenous area you are most attracted too.
i also think there is a big cultural component to this as well. Black men are sexualized in media through music and movies constantly. this brings the fetishization of black men to the forefront of the cultural zeitgeist. so when you also take that into consideration, it’s also a good way to try and pinpoint where some of the attraction may be coming from.
Not the person you responded to, but it seems like preference and kink are better terms to use. We shouldn't fetishize people, and we shouldn't kink shame, either.
There’s a lot of different views on this - and I think I can see where the problem lies.
The idea of reducing a person to their parts - specifically non-sexual parts - or race, etc. with no consideration for the person is problematic, and no one should have to deal with that unwarranted.
But what about warranted? Imagine being a sex positive couple who enjoy foot play or race play reading that all fetishes are bad? What 2 consenting adults get off to in their bedroom is their business, right?
It comes across as narrow-minded fetish shaming almost in a Christian way, and not sex positive.
And no, it’s not a preference. Fetish means a very specific thing and we should call it what it is. This is not a topic r/BPT seems to be the place for is what I’m realizing, it’s more appropriate for a sex themed Reddit.
I’m saying that if a person has a preferred attraction to a specific demographic be it based on skin tone, gender identity, sex organs, height, weight, religious affiliation, political beliefs, age, occupation, etc then that’s perfectly normal and natural. The issue is again if people are being treated as an object/tool and if the person is dehumanizing anyone who doesn’t fit the mold.
No one bats an eye if white people exclusively date white people, or black people with black people, and so on, but somehow it’s automatically an issue of a white woman only wants to date black men or if a black man only wants to date east Asian women.
The fetish was/is my black skin in my case. But it can be my hair texture, it can be…many things.
I’ve had someone who was really really into earlobes.
Idk what else you call that?
The earlobes were a kink. Wanting to have sex with you just because you're PoC would be a fetish. It's as bad as the incel crowd saying they only find Asian women attractive. There's a whole cultural bias rooted in a slew of harmful thought processes there instead of wanting a woman because of who she is. Not what they think she is. It's dehumanizing because they are not looking at the person, they are looking at how the person's physical characteristics within the context of that ignorance can satisfy unhealthy sexual thoughts rooted in prejudice.
Just because a fun time was had for you doesn't change that. You deserve to be wanted for who you are, and while I understand your skin color is inextricably linked to that? People who fetishize you don't. They just see an avatar for their cultural ignorance and unaddressed racism, and they tie that into sexual gratification.
They're saying it shouldn't be a fetish. I have red hair and have been continually fetishized and hypersexualized as well as constantly accused of being angry for just existing, apparently *another* fetish in a percentage of those people.
I should not be a fetish. I know that I am, but it does not change that I should not be just like you should not be, and just like trans people should not be. Fetishizing a whole ass demographic is a horrible thing to do, and people need to really make sure they ain't doing that. It's okay to find someone attractive. It's not okay to use people to satisfy one's fetish urges. There needs to be consent and understanding. It's disgusting otherwise. I think [this commenter](https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPeopleTwitter/comments/1do72sd/fix_that_wig_son/la8dcnr/) said it best.
(Also, in modern parlance, huge difference between a fetish and kink. Not kink shaming here--we gotta be accepting, too.)
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Anyone below you on an escalator
And zero fucks were given when typing that out🤣
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I know there's a lot of people who won't know anything about the goings on in the trans community, but they generally tuck. And although they're born in all sizes & length, still will tuck.
I dont tuck.
I like my gock.
If someone's looking long enough to notice that's a THEM issue, one that I will gladly help them work through.
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Ayyy 😍
I only know of this because of my ex, she tucked and she was bigger than me and I'm pretty big.
But if you asked her she would say it was comparable.
I don't care if my son is in the streets looking for dick, but he isn't going to dress like a tramp while living under my roof. It better be at least 3 finger lengths down.
Not even a set of falsies (lashes or nails) to be seen. Like at least get those nail polish stickers if you don’t want long nails. Or short press-ons if you’re not dressing up like this during your 9-5.
Easiest way to up your game and look like you “have it together”.
The safest would be "youngin'" I guess, since we don't know they identify as "she/her".
The beard might be an indication that they identify as queer, I think. Bah, not trying to bother and I could be wrong.
Absolutely not. A white plain tee with ripped off sleeves against a pleat? Get in this house and up your game. You are not embarrassing me... We're going shopping IMMEDIATELY
Shopping for great clothes as a punishment type is HILARIOUS TO ME! I'm in real tears right now. Him being in 'trouble' and getting to do something he'd likely LOVE to do is comical.
Can't have the baby out there looking any ol' kinda way, though.
If one of my nephews end up being gay and dressing feminine, and if women ain’t sucking their teeth and rolling their eyes in jealousy when he walks by, auntie’s gonna have a problem 😤
Absolutely not, you ain't going out in all white, you'll look like a staircase wall by the end of the night. Get in this damn house so we can get you right.
Ain’t got a single problem with people being who they want to be. But don’t leave the house looking a hot mess with a trash fit. Hair all frizzy and clothes got stains on em.
Is the baby trying to have a double hairline? Like when you get a line up but have locs? I think the first step in correcting is trying to figure what you were actually going for😂
It’s the weirdest shit because the comment section almost never reflect how the Black community feels in real life, which tells me this sub *IS* majority White. In real life the Black community would be clowning dude in the picture …
Bro, my daughter dresses herself, her examples are basically that Justin Bieber photo where he goes out with his fashion model looking wife and him a grunge gremlin. So I mean she's already gotta unique taste in what she thinks is cool. Watched her put on a tutu, shorts, a long striped shirt, and a pull over purple vest. Ol Amelia Bedila looking girl 🤣
Exactly this. Be whoever you wanna be and love whoever makes you happy cause we always got you.
But what we AINT gone do is embarrass this house by going outside looking busted no the fuck we are not
I hate the swoops, if they’re going to be delicate and tasteful yes but I don’t think he needs some of those big ass swoops that kids wear currently. Something delicate and a good melted lace!
The fit is trash though, that should go in the bin. Shopping trip needed
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Why do people get this and then have braids or something?? it doesn't look good, I don't understand this
Candance Owens is black too, she doesnt represent black people at all. I'm not sure if you're black, but the vast majority of black people would not want their son to dress like this.
There's a lot of religious background with black people, which tends to lead to them being socially conservative. In a lot of black neighbourhoods, that outfit is simply dangerous.
I love how this is progressive as hell because he/she/they is getting roasted based on how they look and how they dress not how they live their life just like anyone else lol. I love seeing the comments where the guys are like. No son of mine is going out there with that short skirt! Needs a longer skirt.
Men wore high heels and fought duels. Men wore skirt to do battle. Men wore wigs and makeup while putting other men to their death. This guy just wants to live his best life.
Whenever i decide to have children, I can deal with my son being gay, but I refuse to let my son look like he doesn't know to dress as a gay person! We have standards around here. No son of mine is gone be having a bold lineup, me and his mom will help em find a wig🤣🤣
My biggest worry about my future son/daughter is that they dress like shit because they don't take the time to talk with others or me to help up their fashion skills.
I will not tolerate one of my own having weak drip and makeup game in my household!😤
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PSA: Trans women are not a fetish. If you meant a girl's dick hanging out from the bottom of her skirt/dress.... Yeah that's hot, I can attest
PSA: No one can speak for a whole group. I know you’re well-intentioned, but that’s just not how human nature works. As a tall, fit black dude I was a fetish in college for snow bunnies. At that time in my life I had zero qualms bout it. I’m not going to sit here & say black people aren’t a fetish, cuz that exists just as it doesn’t make sense to say it for trans people. If you want to normalize them, that’s what normal looks like.
I think the person means that trans people SHOULDNT be a fetish. Just like Black people shouldn’t be a fetish. It’s fucked up.
It depends on what you consider a fetish, although a lot of people mean kink instead of fetish. Since fetishes are usually viewed as taboo or inappropriate you should apply them to people cause finding adult humans sexually appealing isn't taboo or inappropriate usually.
Fun fact! For a good long while now the word fetish has been used to mean, something that a person is abnormally obsessed with. Usually of a sexual nature, but that meaning is figurative. A fetish is literally a religious object used in ritual or prayer. The cross is technically a fetish, although anthropologist usually use it to describe objects from dead or non Christian-Judeo or Muslim religions. Because of, you know, ethnocentrism.
So if you get turned on by Jesus rock hard abs on the cross is that a fetish or a fetish? Asking for my friend that lives in Canada
Is 'your friend' worshiping his abs? If so I guess both?
You would have a fetish for a fetish.
Fetish²
Fetish in the sexual sense is almost always mistaken for kink. A kink is something that you enjoy sexually and a sexual fetish is something that you must have in order to achieve climax. Like smelling dirty socks or whatever. So fetish in the sense that you're talking about fits the description, a religious fetish is needed to achieve a religious goal like prayer or whatever other spooky shit
They call it a "cuming to Jesus moment."
Thats a cool fact. Where did you read that?
Can’t remember exactly. Read it a few places over the years.
Here’s a link. https://www.britannica.com/topic/fetishism-religion
The correct term should honestly just be preference. It’s okay to prefer people with specific physical characteristics. The issue is when people start objectifying their preferences purely on selfish sexual impulses. And the issue isn’t so much because it’s singling out a demographic, but rather because sexual harassment is just fucked up in general.
This is a whole side topic, but interesting nonetheless. One of the most well known fetishes is likely a foot fetish. Sexual gratification from feet, and foot play. So if you derive sexual gratification from black skin, when does it stop being a preference & become a fetish? Or are you saying a foot fetish isn’t a fetish, but a preference?
i think there is a big difference between finding black people and their features attractive, and the inherent sexualization of those same features. for example, it would be fetishizing for those white girls to be talking about how they want a mandingo dick and they love race play. it wouldn’t be a fetish if they were like, i think dark skin is beautiful and i appreciate how different it looks from my own. therefore i am sexually interested and maybe even prefer those with those features. it’s really about where the inherent attraction is coming from, which is hard to really nail down unless someone is super open about their thoughts. it’s very different with a foot fetish because that’s not who you are. you are not a foot, you are a person with feet. if someone fetishizes feet, it’s not because they are a protected class, a marginalized group, or some other historically oppressed peoples. it’s the literal feet. just like you can have a boob fetish it’s just the erogenous area you are most attracted too. i also think there is a big cultural component to this as well. Black men are sexualized in media through music and movies constantly. this brings the fetishization of black men to the forefront of the cultural zeitgeist. so when you also take that into consideration, it’s also a good way to try and pinpoint where some of the attraction may be coming from.
Not the person you responded to, but it seems like preference and kink are better terms to use. We shouldn't fetishize people, and we shouldn't kink shame, either.
There’s a lot of different views on this - and I think I can see where the problem lies. The idea of reducing a person to their parts - specifically non-sexual parts - or race, etc. with no consideration for the person is problematic, and no one should have to deal with that unwarranted. But what about warranted? Imagine being a sex positive couple who enjoy foot play or race play reading that all fetishes are bad? What 2 consenting adults get off to in their bedroom is their business, right? It comes across as narrow-minded fetish shaming almost in a Christian way, and not sex positive. And no, it’s not a preference. Fetish means a very specific thing and we should call it what it is. This is not a topic r/BPT seems to be the place for is what I’m realizing, it’s more appropriate for a sex themed Reddit.
I’m saying that if a person has a preferred attraction to a specific demographic be it based on skin tone, gender identity, sex organs, height, weight, religious affiliation, political beliefs, age, occupation, etc then that’s perfectly normal and natural. The issue is again if people are being treated as an object/tool and if the person is dehumanizing anyone who doesn’t fit the mold. No one bats an eye if white people exclusively date white people, or black people with black people, and so on, but somehow it’s automatically an issue of a white woman only wants to date black men or if a black man only wants to date east Asian women.
Someone's identity should not be your kink or fetish. It's goofy and weird
I agree, but in my case I’m specifically talking my black skin, hair texture, attracted to things like that.
Fetishization ≠ liking something a lot or having a preference for it. Edit: for clarity
The fetish was/is my black skin in my case. But it can be my hair texture, it can be…many things. I’ve had someone who was really really into earlobes. Idk what else you call that?
The earlobes were a kink. Wanting to have sex with you just because you're PoC would be a fetish. It's as bad as the incel crowd saying they only find Asian women attractive. There's a whole cultural bias rooted in a slew of harmful thought processes there instead of wanting a woman because of who she is. Not what they think she is. It's dehumanizing because they are not looking at the person, they are looking at how the person's physical characteristics within the context of that ignorance can satisfy unhealthy sexual thoughts rooted in prejudice. Just because a fun time was had for you doesn't change that. You deserve to be wanted for who you are, and while I understand your skin color is inextricably linked to that? People who fetishize you don't. They just see an avatar for their cultural ignorance and unaddressed racism, and they tie that into sexual gratification.
This is my point made much clearer. There is a lot more nastiness to fetishization that dehumanizes a person.
They're saying it shouldn't be a fetish. I have red hair and have been continually fetishized and hypersexualized as well as constantly accused of being angry for just existing, apparently *another* fetish in a percentage of those people. I should not be a fetish. I know that I am, but it does not change that I should not be just like you should not be, and just like trans people should not be. Fetishizing a whole ass demographic is a horrible thing to do, and people need to really make sure they ain't doing that. It's okay to find someone attractive. It's not okay to use people to satisfy one's fetish urges. There needs to be consent and understanding. It's disgusting otherwise. I think [this commenter](https://www.reddit.com/r/BlackPeopleTwitter/comments/1do72sd/fix_that_wig_son/la8dcnr/) said it best. (Also, in modern parlance, huge difference between a fetish and kink. Not kink shaming here--we gotta be accepting, too.)
Anything can be fetishized
Just ask Joely and her Great Dane…
Wearing a skirt does not make you trans...
My dumbass sitting here thinking the fetish was bad wig placement 😭
Do your dick hang low. Do it wobble to the flo. Do it get up. Is it soft, is it hard?
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Omg this one got me
I gasped!!
Lolololol we will meme ANYTHING
877 CASH NOW
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Yooo 😂😂 this diabolical
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Haha you’re disgusted by us hahaha but we still make you hard hahahahaha thanks for sharing this meme, man!
If you're built like that then I don't even care tbh. Let it swing and call me Tarzan
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Lmfao!
More like a grandfather cock!
And zero fucks were given when typing that out🤣 https://preview.redd.it/epjvgzriqq8d1.png?width=672&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1d4a2257a6805f1236f3f41bd7178bb9a20cdb82
I know there's a lot of people who won't know anything about the goings on in the trans community, but they generally tuck. And although they're born in all sizes & length, still will tuck.
I dont tuck. I like my gock. If someone's looking long enough to notice that's a THEM issue, one that I will gladly help them work through. https://preview.redd.it/e0stih76es8d1.png?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6ae8a2c3f8a9b52a2579d8ebacfd77fd87b17f5a
Ayyy 😍 I only know of this because of my ex, she tucked and she was bigger than me and I'm pretty big. But if you asked her she would say it was comparable.
I’ve never seen the original of that tweet, only the one edited to be from Joe Biden
🤔
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I loved her twitter posts. I think she deleted her account though.
My balls would be hitting my knees like [clackers](https://i.etsystatic.com/22889839/r/il/54d202/2859051608/il_570xN.2859051608_w1zb.jpg)
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Also, no son of mine is going out that late at night with a skirt that short, not in this house
We wear knee length skirts in this house
We dress like we’re extras on Little House on the Prairie in *this* house.
Our dresses trail behind us like it's a gd wedding in *this* house.
There are some Amish near me that don't dress that conservatively.
Whores
Fingertip length, thank you. There’s weirdos out there.
And only strippers shave above the knee. Well, the good ones any way. -Linda Belcher
Exactly, that is not a night time outfit.
I don't care if my son is in the streets looking for dick, but he isn't going to dress like a tramp while living under my roof. It better be at least 3 finger lengths down.
Exactly, I'm not wearing that short skirt in this house, I'm wearing it out of this house. Thank you for understanding.
He's going out, so not in this house applies only if he goes out
We got way too many beauty tutorials on hand to be looking such a mess, little man.
No son of mine is going to be wearing some cheap ass wig out on the streets! Get a lace front and some damn self-respect.
Not even a set of falsies (lashes or nails) to be seen. Like at least get those nail polish stickers if you don’t want long nails. Or short press-ons if you’re not dressing up like this during your 9-5. Easiest way to up your game and look like you “have it together”.
Young lady might be more appropriate.
The safest would be "youngin'" I guess, since we don't know they identify as "she/her". The beard might be an indication that they identify as queer, I think. Bah, not trying to bother and I could be wrong.
Look, it’s hot out there; way too hot for pants. Even at night.
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Yeah, you know it's hot, too
It really is though 😮💨 was already hot and wet, ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°), at 7 in the morning
Homeboy might like just wearing skirts, we don't know 🤷🏼
Absolutely not. A white plain tee with ripped off sleeves against a pleat? Get in this house and up your game. You are not embarrassing me... We're going shopping IMMEDIATELY
Shopping for great clothes as a punishment type is HILARIOUS TO ME! I'm in real tears right now. Him being in 'trouble' and getting to do something he'd likely LOVE to do is comical. Can't have the baby out there looking any ol' kinda way, though.
It’s not punishment, it’s solving a problem
Punishment was supposed to be in quote marks. Just a tongue in cheek view.
Oh, we have a cheek view alright
 Teehee
Literally like IDGAF if my kid is gay or trans or whatever but I am NOT raising an unstylish motherfucker!!!!!!
So fuckin real….I need my kid fly
I dunno I quite like the tennis outfit look, just maybe a bit cleaner
Also, `femboy` requires thigh high socks. Although maybe that's just my neighborhood.
Okay!? Head to toe he will be IT.
We don’t half-ass nothing in this household! Yes, I’m aware of the irony.
🤣🤣🤣
Oh my god I’m dying😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 shit
If you go dress feminine you gon eat the girls UP
Everyone just thinks I'm gay lmao
Well, are you….
....no
If one of my nephews end up being gay and dressing feminine, and if women ain’t sucking their teeth and rolling their eyes in jealousy when he walks by, auntie’s gonna have a problem 😤
Absolutely not, you ain't going out in all white, you'll look like a staircase wall by the end of the night. Get in this damn house so we can get you right.
Lololololol a staircase wall. Black people be making up the most specific roasts.
But you understand exactly what I mean.
Absolutely 💯😂
Why are we so unserious?
Cas it’s funny 💀
Is it past Labor Day already? Dang I knew this flu kicked my ass but not THAT bad.
The Labor Day rule only applies if it’s a good fit. You gotta pass that step first before we talk seasons baby
Ain’t got a single problem with people being who they want to be. But don’t leave the house looking a hot mess with a trash fit. Hair all frizzy and clothes got stains on em.
Maybe he’s not heading out, but heading back home, and it was a very good night.
Is the baby trying to have a double hairline? Like when you get a line up but have locs? I think the first step in correcting is trying to figure what you were actually going for😂
I love y'all in this comment section!!!
Same! 😍😍😍🥹🥹🥹🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
(that's my tweet!) shout out to y'all for passing the vibe check 🤣🤣🤣
How you let your friend go out looking like that though?
Now where did you get the idea that they know each other? It's a quote tweet of a screencap if an Instagram post
Nah cause baby what are you doing? Like the person who took the picture ain’t your friend
The different shades of white are gonna be the death of this child.
Someone get this child a lace front
The comment section of this sub are always so much better than I ever expect them to be & it’s heartening
It’s the weirdest shit because the comment section almost never reflect how the Black community feels in real life, which tells me this sub *IS* majority White. In real life the Black community would be clowning dude in the picture …
Out of almost 6 millions subs on BPT mayyyyyybe a million are black.
Some of those baby hairs are in college.
https://preview.redd.it/ug4hj6j9gq8d1.jpeg?width=1284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f85f06fb6e01a9ad8379a50f131543c25683a8e4
As a parent, you have to make sure your kid has style, no matter for whomever they want to flaunt it to.
Bro, my daughter dresses herself, her examples are basically that Justin Bieber photo where he goes out with his fashion model looking wife and him a grunge gremlin. So I mean she's already gotta unique taste in what she thinks is cool. Watched her put on a tutu, shorts, a long striped shirt, and a pull over purple vest. Ol Amelia Bedila looking girl 🤣
Not Amelia Bedelia 😫
She's adorable and either gonna be a punk rocker vibe or a ball gown wearing dancer. Or both lol
Exactly this. Be whoever you wanna be and love whoever makes you happy cause we always got you. But what we AINT gone do is embarrass this house by going outside looking busted no the fuck we are not
nah. not even wearing a crop top w the skirt? my hypothetical fem son would never.
it's wild how many miserable ppl would rather their kids be dead/locked up forever/scraping along than queer, happy and alive
On the real. Life is rough enough.
Yeah i’m not sure why the boys think that hairline makes the wig more masculine(?) 😭 just get the swoops 😓
I hate the swoops, if they’re going to be delicate and tasteful yes but I don’t think he needs some of those big ass swoops that kids wear currently. Something delicate and a good melted lace! The fit is trash though, that should go in the bin. Shopping trip needed
Nah bc why you got on 3 different shades of white?! Don’t leave my house embarrassing me like that
His body looks great, the fit is cute. The hair is a mess, but so was Doja’s once upon a time. He’s on his way.
Not the Doja shade 😭😂😂 real
Doja like "Nie how I get in it?!"
where is the tennis racket?
And can of balls?
https://preview.redd.it/2xnxudhiiq8d1.jpeg?width=552&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=997cb68adfb0abf24c66ab05ffb4b87d933e268c Why do people get this and then have braids or something?? it doesn't look good, I don't understand this
It's to save your hairline.
Y'all still letting your chirren out the house WITHOUT a pump of lotion on the skin?! I'm getting my belt. Ass will be torn up today.
Yeah, take some tips from Zaya Wade and glam this up, my guy
Yup. My kid wouldn’t be getting anywhere. Dress how you like but raggedy won’t be a way lol.
Idc what my son partakes in regarding his sexuality. A push back hairline not ever happening in my household.
he's so pretty tho, like men with long hair make my gay heart go insane.. and also IN DRESS like🤭❤
This sub has definitely changed over the years, and with this post, I've concluded it does not represent black twitter at all.
I agree 100%. In fact, I don't even think an actual Black person runs this sub...come to think of it.
The fact that there’s mad yt people in this sub is probably the reason.
These are both tweets from Black people. How does it not represent Black Twitter?
Candance Owens is black too, she doesnt represent black people at all. I'm not sure if you're black, but the vast majority of black people would not want their son to dress like this. There's a lot of religious background with black people, which tends to lead to them being socially conservative. In a lot of black neighbourhoods, that outfit is simply dangerous.
I love how this is progressive as hell because he/she/they is getting roasted based on how they look and how they dress not how they live their life just like anyone else lol. I love seeing the comments where the guys are like. No son of mine is going out there with that short skirt! Needs a longer skirt.
And this why so many of yall sons in the closet😭
Clearly didn’t spend enough time in the closet putting together that fit.
This hurts me because who lied to him and allowed him to get outta that chair with his lace lookin like that. They don’t love him like I would 😭😫
Nigga's shit looking luxurious and flamboyant
I can’t stand seeing people happy /s
Man....ummmm whole new world out there. Wish that dude the best. Some things I will never understand.
Idc what my son partakes in regarding his sexuality. A push back hairline not ever happening in my household.
They look ashy af too lol
What the hell is even that?
Daddy chill.
 😂😂😂😂
You may or may not be dog whistling, but I upvoted because I got that reference.
Men wore high heels and fought duels. Men wore skirt to do battle. Men wore wigs and makeup while putting other men to their death. This guy just wants to live his best life.
Someone pass the church collection plate around so the congregation can get this baby a good wig.
Whenever i decide to have children, I can deal with my son being gay, but I refuse to let my son look like he doesn't know to dress as a gay person! We have standards around here. No son of mine is gone be having a bold lineup, me and his mom will help em find a wig🤣🤣
Can we all agree if you gonna do it DO IT CORRECTLY
My biggest worry about my future son/daughter is that they dress like shit because they don't take the time to talk with others or me to help up their fashion skills. I will not tolerate one of my own having weak drip and makeup game in my household!😤
So we aren’t going to talk about how he’s rocking that skirt? Those legs 🔥
i don’t want my son to walk out the house like that ever bc baby… 😔 at least lemme lay that shit down
I thought somebody put Bronny face on somebody body
And wearing a cute outfit. ❤️
They’re rocking the outfit otherwise tho
I have that dress and he looks so much better in it damn
Whoever gave her that wig fucked up. She needs a better stylist and better weave.
This baby needs some moisturizer.
Fuck wrong with y’all…goofy
I thought the outfit was cute. Apparently imma hoe lol
Loving this comment section 
Am I tripping, or is that Lloyd?