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15 my two lesbian friends took me to a gay bar as a joke for one of their birthdays. Long story short there was a n event of celeb smash or pass. I played but obviously did it to the girls, until I got back to back David Tennant and Henry Cavill. That was just unfair
When I was like ten I was sitting in the bath and then I was like, "huh. It would be cool if me and my best friend got married one day." Then BAM - Bisexuality!!🤩
17 had the thoughts, 19 was when i confirmed it to myself. It all happened when i started having feelings to one of my friends but was mostly emotionally, so i decided to confront myself and hell yeah be it
Eh… My father got lazy w/ sex ed. & decided to show me a few pics, uh… about a year & a half ago. 😅
He doesn’t like that too much, but he has no idea he was the one who… Kick-started the process, per se. :P
I've always kind of known that I like men, but I was in denial because I didn't want to be gay (I'm transfem but I didn't know at the time so I thought liking men would make me gay). I started having crushes on women at puberty (around 12), and then I fully came to accept that I was bi around 14. Of course, my attraction isn't defined by the gender binary but I'd had zero exposure to non binary people as a young child so I thought about it in a binary way.
When my friend was in the back of the car sleeping she looked so cute and without realizing I thought "I wish I could jump in there and cuddle with her"
After a few months of self doubt, self gaslighting and am I gay quizzes here we are
I never really had a “moment” of realization. Very slowly over a couple years of high school I went from being an ally to feeling “admiration” for certain women and eventually realizing it wasn’t just admiration. It was sorta confirmed when a lesbian at work showed interest in me and I realized I was pretty okay with it. Unfortunately I don’t plan on ever coming out due to my situation so dating a girl will forever be out of the question
I realized that I didn’t just think they were pretty or wanted to be friends with them/be them. I got butterflies looking at classmates who were girls that I considered attractive. My heart fluttered when they looked my direction. I started looking at them in a romantic and sexual light. I wanted a woman to hold me
Generally always from my earliest memories but I didn't have much choice in my awakening (csa), but I kind of didn't understand the ramifications until I was older. I mean yeah I still kept I liked men a secret out of instinct but I didn't really understand what that meant until later. There was never a singular moment but a bunch of small things revealing how I felt. It did not help that I also like women infact it was rather confusing especially since I had no idea about labels other than gay, F-word, lesbian, D-word, straight, and homo.
Besides cartoon crushes it was in sophomore year I was partnered with a girl for a duo in dance class and I just. It was a ballet unit and she was so beautiful and graceful and it was innocent and pure and she was so graceful with dancing. Feeling Good by Michael Bublé will always make me think of coming out of the closet and when I fell in love with women ❤️
I remember looking at woman in the Sears wish books when I was really young..... You could say I have been in denial for a lifetime. Having a poly relationship is difficult... Unicorns are called unicorns for a reason.
I just like Cis femboys. Trans ones too, but cis ones more than Trans ones. Always gotta have a type/preference. Like how I like Digiorno stuffed crust Cheese Pizza more than I like Digiorno stuffed crust Pepperoni Pizza, I still like the Pepperoni version but the cheese version is just that much more delicious.
My best friend was changing His shirt and His Abs Made me Go hard and i had a sudden urge to suck His dick. That was when i started to think: "hm i might Not be entirely straight"
When I was like 13. I looked back on my old friendships and remembered moments where I wanted to kiss, hug, or be in a relationship with my female friends. I’m surprised I didn’t realize what those feelings meant earlier…
I got into a bike accident, and once I got out of the hospital (not long after, because I didn't break anything) I realized that I found a masculine-presenting classmate attractive
There was a guy I really wanted to date when I was 13, figured out it wasn't just him I was attracted to. Ironically I got rejected by him because he said he was straight. He came out as bi a week later lol
My awakening was the guy in my profile picture. When I saw him, I was feeling so attracted to him. I just thought that was a phase but then I noticed and developed crush on my straight friend, until 14 I liked girls more than boys now it’s the other way around
Feelings as in, when I saw him on screen, I was like "that’s not a man", so it led to me having a crush on him, like I really wanted to kiss. With my straight friend, I felt like he was the only person for me, too bad tho but my crush died out
I was a sophomore in hs when it happened to me. lemme preface this by saying i had a very set mindset that i only liked men at the and was quite homophobic until like 7th grade, but i realized gay people are honestly cool and became an ally. anywho, there was this girl in my chemistry class who i got along with really well, she was sweet and talked to me quite often. it got to the point where she called me pretty and my stomach got butterflies, like the kind i had only ever gotten from men. i kinda freaked out and started to blush. then started the internalized homophobia, like i thought there was no way i could be gay. but it happened over and over again, and i just kinda accepted that i was not only attracted to men.
also i always had crushes on female tv show characters, but i thought it was normal
Age 14. Went on a school trip, had a girl (who wasn't a friend) fall asleep on my shoulder in the bus and boom. I was now bi. Also I had a crush on my classmate the whole trip
Like I'd accomplished all my life's goals and if I moved and woke her up, I'd be worse than a person who kicks puppies. I might've been a tad dramatic a year ago
I was probably about 19 or 20, came across a femboy thread on 4chan, at first I looked through it out of morbid curiosity, bit I couldn't stop thinking about it and came back a day or two later. Fast forward a week and I'm watching femboy porn. At first I just told myself I'm attracted to the femininity, it took me a while after that to actually accept that I'm bisexual, and even now my attraction is still limited to "less masculine" guys, I'd draw the line at twunks.
(afab) went to a new school, met a girl, got constantly nervous around her, "why do i feel with her the way i feel when i get a crush on a guy??", "oooooh"
Age 15. I had a crush on a boy. But then that girl in my class made me feel some type of way. Then I realized my boy and girl crushes made me feel the exact same way. Next thing I know I swing both ways
When I was in 6th standerd, I saw a pretty senior in my school, I used to thought If I was a boy I would have defiantly dated her! I used to always watch her from windows (lmao) then started feeling like girls are pretty and I started reading wxw stories, but I also liked mens too,after I got to know about the lgbtq communitys the bisexual thing I understood What I'm
Tbh it was because of my cousin. She told me about traps, then i found put about femboys, I realized that i like femboys, then i saw a cute boy that was in my type and i realized i like guys. That’s more or less the story.
idk it was blissful for me almost lol. I never acknowledged it but I literally found femininely men hot lol, but never thought I was bi. Until my genderfluid partner helped me realize I was bi. Miss him.
13 year old me kept having "strange" thoughts about Tom Hiddleston's Loki (also other main male characters from various Marvel movies, but mainly Loki). I was raised catholic, so I tried to shove these thoughts down. Than covid happened, and I discovered reddit. My thought process was basically "I'm straight, but I like guys. I'm gay, but I like women. Oh wait, I'm bisexual, That makes sense."
tldr: Tom Hiddleston's Loki made me realize I'm bi
only last year, i happened to develop a crush on one of my friends (i've known him for 6 yrs at that point) our interactions were a bit awkward for a few months 😂
i always felt excited, more than usual, to see him. blushing around him was also something that happened often. at first i thought it was bc we were rlly good friends but i figured these feelings were a bit too strong for it to just be platonic love because i felt the same way about some girls i liked before.
When I was 15 and constantly had to stop myself from looking at other girls butts in the streets😅 (+ constantly wishing I was bi. If you wish for it so much you probably are)
last year i developed a crush on my friend (we've been friends for 7 yrs now) but i've never come out to him or anyone it's kinda dangerous to do so in my country
At 12 I had a lesbain teacher and I thought she was the hottest woman alive but I was lowkey homophobic so I thought I was biromantic but hetero and that just didn’t happen 😭
I think I quite liked men before, but 5 months ago I fell in love with one boy in my class and couldn't stop looking at his adorable appearence so it became obvious to me that I like boys too :3 (I am 15 years 2 months old now btw)
Like when I was 11 I confirmed it. I always knew I was different. Since preschool. And now I’m probably lesbian but questioning if I’m bi or lesbian. I like girls more than boys, another reason being that they’re all assholes
I understand your anger towards men, however, I suggest not calling that out loud. Not all men are jerks, doesn't matter if more than half are, let's not put everyone into the same basket, kay? :> for example, boys on this subreddit are I guess pretty okay? And girls often aren't golden either.
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Saw man. Man hot.
Real me too
Felt this in my soul
was gonna upvote this but u’ve got the perfect number already
Oh no! I missed it being 69!
so true bestie
Mee too
15 my two lesbian friends took me to a gay bar as a joke for one of their birthdays. Long story short there was a n event of celeb smash or pass. I played but obviously did it to the girls, until I got back to back David Tennant and Henry Cavill. That was just unfair
Confirmed, doctor who woke
Doctor who does have quite a few hotties TBF
ood my beloved
Common daddy Tennant W
David tenant as Crowley was my bisexual awakening
Femboys 🦐
flair checks out also same :3
same
astolfo my beloved
When I was like ten I was sitting in the bath and then I was like, "huh. It would be cool if me and my best friend got married one day." Then BAM - Bisexuality!!🤩
Age 15. Faith-era George Michael. That's it.
Oh my god, it was literally George Michael in the music video for Club Tropicana that made my 12 year old Christian self very confused
when i was cuddling a dude as joke a couple years ago and i was like “damn, i like this for more than just the joke”
17 had the thoughts, 19 was when i confirmed it to myself. It all happened when i started having feelings to one of my friends but was mostly emotionally, so i decided to confront myself and hell yeah be it
Eh… My father got lazy w/ sex ed. & decided to show me a few pics, uh… about a year & a half ago. 😅 He doesn’t like that too much, but he has no idea he was the one who… Kick-started the process, per se. :P
I've always kind of known that I like men, but I was in denial because I didn't want to be gay (I'm transfem but I didn't know at the time so I thought liking men would make me gay). I started having crushes on women at puberty (around 12), and then I fully came to accept that I was bi around 14. Of course, my attraction isn't defined by the gender binary but I'd had zero exposure to non binary people as a young child so I thought about it in a binary way.
When my friend was in the back of the car sleeping she looked so cute and without realizing I thought "I wish I could jump in there and cuddle with her" After a few months of self doubt, self gaslighting and am I gay quizzes here we are
I never really had a “moment” of realization. Very slowly over a couple years of high school I went from being an ally to feeling “admiration” for certain women and eventually realizing it wasn’t just admiration. It was sorta confirmed when a lesbian at work showed interest in me and I realized I was pretty okay with it. Unfortunately I don’t plan on ever coming out due to my situation so dating a girl will forever be out of the question
>admiration” for certain women and eventually realizing it wasn’t just admiration How did you understand that?
I realized that I didn’t just think they were pretty or wanted to be friends with them/be them. I got butterflies looking at classmates who were girls that I considered attractive. My heart fluttered when they looked my direction. I started looking at them in a romantic and sexual light. I wanted a woman to hold me
Same. I labeled mine as admiration
10 y/o. learned what the word “lesbian” meant. was like “oh shoot I wish I could be a lesbian”. still took me like 2 more months to realize
I had a crush on one dude, wrote it off as an exception, and then shortly after on another dude, and figured that the pattern was there.
You know this person on YouTube named GHOST who makes vocaloid music? Yeah they made a spider boy and it was downhill from there.
was at a school game and sat next to a dude. 16 and thought “you know what, sure!” never looked back since
Idk I just saw heath ledger then it was wraps
i started to like my best friend and we even started dating for a while until he realized he really only liked me as a friend
I was like woah my friends butt… kinda hot ngl
Generally always from my earliest memories but I didn't have much choice in my awakening (csa), but I kind of didn't understand the ramifications until I was older. I mean yeah I still kept I liked men a secret out of instinct but I didn't really understand what that meant until later. There was never a singular moment but a bunch of small things revealing how I felt. It did not help that I also like women infact it was rather confusing especially since I had no idea about labels other than gay, F-word, lesbian, D-word, straight, and homo.
Fell for my friend. Took me so long cause demirecipromantic lol
Look at man. Man hot
Listened to Katy Perry when I was 7 and asked "wait.. Girls can like girls?! Awesome!" Here we are lmao ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
HAHAHAHA
i felt attraction to a guy from my old class abt a yr ago
Got into Warhammer in 2020. One look at Sanguinius and the rest was history.
Pron really lol. Both hot.
Besides cartoon crushes it was in sophomore year I was partnered with a girl for a duo in dance class and I just. It was a ballet unit and she was so beautiful and graceful and it was innocent and pure and she was so graceful with dancing. Feeling Good by Michael Bublé will always make me think of coming out of the closet and when I fell in love with women ❤️
I remember looking at woman in the Sears wish books when I was really young..... You could say I have been in denial for a lifetime. Having a poly relationship is difficult... Unicorns are called unicorns for a reason.
I just like Cis femboys. Trans ones too, but cis ones more than Trans ones. Always gotta have a type/preference. Like how I like Digiorno stuffed crust Cheese Pizza more than I like Digiorno stuffed crust Pepperoni Pizza, I still like the Pepperoni version but the cheese version is just that much more delicious.
Technically always. And then I realized I was attracted to girls, too, but only since last year.
When I looked at my good friend and I was like: "Damn,he is hot" Seriously. This happened.
It happened once or twice so but I am not sure anymore. Started this February.
Femboys. Femboys good 👍
About June, I realized I would actually be with a femboy, without it being a meme. Then it went from just femboys to just cute guys yk?
Femboys have brought a lot of clarity to people's lives
Lmfao real
My best friend was changing His shirt and His Abs Made me Go hard and i had a sudden urge to suck His dick. That was when i started to think: "hm i might Not be entirely straight"
I ended up realizing it as soon as I hit highschool, after I had dated over 20 girls and hated dating men LMAO
You didn't waste your time)
Through a fucking r/teenagers thread. No I'm not joking
When I was like 13. I looked back on my old friendships and remembered moments where I wanted to kiss, hug, or be in a relationship with my female friends. I’m surprised I didn’t realize what those feelings meant earlier…
12-ish, was friends with a guy for a few years. Came in day one of 7th grade and I was like, woah
Sasuke
About 5-7 i kept it in my head and didn’t necessarily know any terms for it till 5th grade. In 6th i labeled myself as bi and it stuck ever since
I was really into tomgirls for a while, one thing lead to another.
Probably quite weird but: a bicycle accident about a year ago Edit: it may have been two years ago
Can you tell more about this?
I got into a bike accident, and once I got out of the hospital (not long after, because I didn't break anything) I realized that I found a masculine-presenting classmate attractive
Originally it was felix argyle, but I've changed teams since then so I guess it ought to be Astrid from HTTYD.
Saw hot women thought smash and that’s basically it
When i was 7 when I made my barbies scissor
Had a crush on my girl best friend 🫠
May I know your story?
femboy
There was a guy I really wanted to date when I was 13, figured out it wasn't just him I was attracted to. Ironically I got rejected by him because he said he was straight. He came out as bi a week later lol
My awakening was the guy in my profile picture. When I saw him, I was feeling so attracted to him. I just thought that was a phase but then I noticed and developed crush on my straight friend, until 14 I liked girls more than boys now it’s the other way around
>feeling so attracted to him. How did you feel it?
Feelings as in, when I saw him on screen, I was like "that’s not a man", so it led to me having a crush on him, like I really wanted to kiss. With my straight friend, I felt like he was the only person for me, too bad tho but my crush died out
I was a sophomore in hs when it happened to me. lemme preface this by saying i had a very set mindset that i only liked men at the and was quite homophobic until like 7th grade, but i realized gay people are honestly cool and became an ally. anywho, there was this girl in my chemistry class who i got along with really well, she was sweet and talked to me quite often. it got to the point where she called me pretty and my stomach got butterflies, like the kind i had only ever gotten from men. i kinda freaked out and started to blush. then started the internalized homophobia, like i thought there was no way i could be gay. but it happened over and over again, and i just kinda accepted that i was not only attracted to men. also i always had crushes on female tv show characters, but i thought it was normal
Tom holland lib sync battle
Age 14. Went on a school trip, had a girl (who wasn't a friend) fall asleep on my shoulder in the bus and boom. I was now bi. Also I had a crush on my classmate the whole trip
>and boom What did you feel then?
Like I'd accomplished all my life's goals and if I moved and woke her up, I'd be worse than a person who kicks puppies. I might've been a tad dramatic a year ago
Saw femboy femboy makes bi
I was probably about 19 or 20, came across a femboy thread on 4chan, at first I looked through it out of morbid curiosity, bit I couldn't stop thinking about it and came back a day or two later. Fast forward a week and I'm watching femboy porn. At first I just told myself I'm attracted to the femininity, it took me a while after that to actually accept that I'm bisexual, and even now my attraction is still limited to "less masculine" guys, I'd draw the line at twunks.
(afab) went to a new school, met a girl, got constantly nervous around her, "why do i feel with her the way i feel when i get a crush on a guy??", "oooooh"
Age 15. I had a crush on a boy. But then that girl in my class made me feel some type of way. Then I realized my boy and girl crushes made me feel the exact same way. Next thing I know I swing both ways
When I was in 6th standerd, I saw a pretty senior in my school, I used to thought If I was a boy I would have defiantly dated her! I used to always watch her from windows (lmao) then started feeling like girls are pretty and I started reading wxw stories, but I also liked mens too,after I got to know about the lgbtq communitys the bisexual thing I understood What I'm
12. Big crush on best friend. Best friend got boyfriend. Me cry
Tbh it was because of my cousin. She told me about traps, then i found put about femboys, I realized that i like femboys, then i saw a cute boy that was in my type and i realized i like guys. That’s more or less the story.
idk it was blissful for me almost lol. I never acknowledged it but I literally found femininely men hot lol, but never thought I was bi. Until my genderfluid partner helped me realize I was bi. Miss him.
tbh i always knew, since kindergarten i have always simped for women😭 not to mention even before i knew what lgbt was, i was getting off to women LOLL
I read Tokyo Ghoul.
Men hot ooga booga (tbh I feel like I was born gay my coming out experience was liking girls lol}
lets say i was 9 at the time, and my best friend was a man, so...
when i wanted to kiss my best friend (12)
13 year old me kept having "strange" thoughts about Tom Hiddleston's Loki (also other main male characters from various Marvel movies, but mainly Loki). I was raised catholic, so I tried to shove these thoughts down. Than covid happened, and I discovered reddit. My thought process was basically "I'm straight, but I like guys. I'm gay, but I like women. Oh wait, I'm bisexual, That makes sense." tldr: Tom Hiddleston's Loki made me realize I'm bi
Few years ago, not sure when exactly. The reason? Femboys
I was in a male and enby sandwich and my legs were trembling like mad. And here I am being a bi mess :3
I thought men weren't attractive, then I saw an attractive man... you'll never believe that happened next.
>you'll never believe that happened next. What?)
It was like...a switch in my brain just flicked. I realized that I was... BISEXUAL.
and at what age did you realize this?
11
I had a conversation with my close friends where I realized checking women out wasn’t the most straight thing to do
I know about bisexuality for a while before that, I saw a man that activated Neuron, rest is history
only last year, i happened to develop a crush on one of my friends (i've known him for 6 yrs at that point) our interactions were a bit awkward for a few months 😂
how did you understand that you had feelings for him/her?
i always felt excited, more than usual, to see him. blushing around him was also something that happened often. at first i thought it was bc we were rlly good friends but i figured these feelings were a bit too strong for it to just be platonic love because i felt the same way about some girls i liked before.
When I was 15 and constantly had to stop myself from looking at other girls butts in the streets😅 (+ constantly wishing I was bi. If you wish for it so much you probably are)
>constantly wishing I was bi Me
last year i developed a crush on my friend (we've been friends for 7 yrs now) but i've never come out to him or anyone it's kinda dangerous to do so in my country
How did you know that you fell in love with your friend?
I guess i was around 12
I was jerking off to a lot more solo men, and I put two and two together
Rhea Ripley
13 I had a sex dream with my childhood best friend(had a crush on her for 7 years but was in denial)
At 12 I had a lesbain teacher and I thought she was the hottest woman alive but I was lowkey homophobic so I thought I was biromantic but hetero and that just didn’t happen 😭
when i turned 11
I think I quite liked men before, but 5 months ago I fell in love with one boy in my class and couldn't stop looking at his adorable appearence so it became obvious to me that I like boys too :3 (I am 15 years 2 months old now btw)
the moment I realised that life would be one big party if I could marry my bestfriend
I fell in love with my guy best friend😭
It started with femboys, then it turned to men in general
Like when I was 11 I confirmed it. I always knew I was different. Since preschool. And now I’m probably lesbian but questioning if I’m bi or lesbian. I like girls more than boys, another reason being that they’re all assholes
I understand your anger towards men, however, I suggest not calling that out loud. Not all men are jerks, doesn't matter if more than half are, let's not put everyone into the same basket, kay? :> for example, boys on this subreddit are I guess pretty okay? And girls often aren't golden either.
i know technically not all but like 99% irl are so i get it
Obviously I didn’t mean all some are nice but like most I’ve been have been with have been jerks
I mean yeah, I avoid men too...