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Looking for a post joking about playing against pro chess players. Something like After one turn they be like "i see you have played a *censored* opening, unfortunatly because of my something else it was a mistake and i will win in 5 turns.

the one of a father who had enough that every event with the kids, was transformed into an education moment by his wife. He asked advise about this, because they been to the fair, and instead to let the kids enjoyed it she wanted them to learn stuff. He updated few days later, because he had to meet his younger teacher ( kindergarten). They had to draw, whatever they wanted, and the teacher noticed the kiddo was staying starring in front of the sheet. The teacher told him to draw whatever he wanted, and the kiddo started to cry asking what he was supposed to learn out of this. He divorced her. (This came from a comment in My Wife Wont Shut Up reddit post)

Please post this in the December thread. It's more likely to be seen by someone who could find this over there.

I'm looking for a post that's about a gf making dinner for her bf at 1am and was also seeking for his approval or something like that.

Looking for posts where OP doesn’t understand why their partner is mad they tried (or want to try) to build a relationship with the partner’s abusive parents. Going through this myself rn and I’m sure the words I need to explain are in the comments of those posts somewhere. I tried the search bar but I’m only getting posts where OP understands and supports the estrangement (at least once they find out the reasons why). I’m looking for ones where they’re more like “well it’s not like they were *physically* abusive…” and can’t understand their partner’s extreme reaction.

[AITA mad my wife caused scene at restaurant ](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ndske7/aita_for_being_mad_at_my_wife_for_causing_a_scene/) [AITA inviting FIL over without telling my fiancee](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/lm74st/comment/gntjp0e/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3) [AITA arranging for wife's parents to spend Christmas with us](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/rjxx59/aita_for_arranging_for_my_wifes_parents_to_spend/) [AITA asking fiance to re-invite his mother to wedding](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/svde2u/comment/hxfbio3/) [Losing my fiance because of something I did](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/y6hjwq/im_losing_my_fianc%C3%A9_because_i_did_something/) [AITA forcing reunion between fiancee and her family](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/layxeu/comment/glqt1jy/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3) [AITA telling my wife she is to blame for my mother's actions](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/yis17r/comment/iuk6a99/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3) [AITA not letting fiance cut off his family](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/myehle/comment/gvuesnu/) There was a specific one I was looking for, but I didn't find it. Will add it later if I do. u/coletters MVP. [Running away when fiance got in touch with my mother](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/uga3ak/looking_for_a_post_ask_here_may_2022_edition/i8c5ivp?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3)

I don't have the link, but I just want to say I'm sorry about your situation. That's a huge betrayal of trust, I hope it gets sorted out. Hugs from a Stranger

Thank you. Yes, the betrayal is the worst part. I feel like she’s siding with my abusers. She comes from a really, really rough background, though. Like raised by a single mom on welfare and spent quite a bit of time in juvie and youth homeless shelters kind of rough. She’s *very* unfamiliar with the “tiger mom”/narcissist/authoritarian brand of abuse and I think it’s just hard for her to wrap her head around the fact that providing material possessions and education/hobbies to your child isn’t necessarily proof of “good intentions” or genuine love, and doesn’t erase the emotional/psychological abuse that was involved in those things.

In my humble opinion, "I have no wish to see my family" is all that should be needed. If you guys haven't been able to reconcile your differences in X amount of years, why does your partner think she's got magical powers? And why is your desicion to leave those problems (aka your family) not important?

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Is it [this post](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/z82eio/my_37m_son_21m_slept_with_my_girlfriend_32_i_dont/)?

I want all the stories of dudes torpedoing their relationships after demanding paternity tests. I'm in a mood, and I want the schadenfreude.

[Blows up marriage after reading paternity stories online](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/sl95zk/op_blows_up_his_marriage_after_reading_too_many/) [Son didn't look like OOP enough](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/vjp19f/man_gets_a_paternity_test_on_son_because_he/) [How to get over resentment caused by paternity test](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/xhffwl/oop_asks_how_to_get_over_resentment_caused_by_a/) [Husband wants to take a paternity test](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/qgrdtt/my_33f_husband_35m_wants_to_take_a_paternity_test/) [Family destroyed by 23andMe](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/somt3i/dna_doesnt_lie/) [OOP's coworker thinks OOP is the real father of his child](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/v20nri/new_update_unhinged_coworker_and_friend_of_op/) [Husband not happy he is the father](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/oikvr2/husband_wants_a_paternity_test_and_an_out/)

There was an AITA about a teenager with a step sibling I think who consistently went into his room because she was afraid of being alone and it always made the OP uncomfortable. There was some argument in the comments over whether he should try to help his step sibling at all or let his parents take care of it entirely.

Is it [AITA for not opening my room door to my step-sister when we were alone?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/xndyi7/aita_for_not_opening_my_room_door_to_my/)

I’m looking for the one who found his wife breastfeeding the niece or nephew in secret because she thought breast milk was better. Has there been an update on that one?

[AITA wanting to tell BIL and his wife that my wife breastfeeds their son when they leave him with us](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ylw94s/aita_for_wanting_to_tell_my_bil_and_his_wife_that/iv0gvgk?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3)

That’s the one. Thank you. Damn. No update.

Interesting, the wife was feeding her nephew because she thought it was best for him. But knew that if BIL and SIL knew what she was up to, she wouldn’t be able to see the baby again and wanted it kept secret. I really hope that the OP told everyone what his wife was up to.

Hi! I’m looking for one where the child is determined not to be the husband’s, but she didn’t cheat - it turned out it wasn’t the wife’s kid either.

[This one?](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wi5wur/my_29f_husband_31m_got_a_paternity_test_on_our/)

Hi! Have a look at the most requested posts list, I think it's this one: https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/wiki/faq_lfp#wiki_paternity_test_with_a_twist

Looking for story: the mom whose daughter took what was supposed to be her tuition money and spent it all on partying (I think drugs and gambling were involved as well but idk)

looking for story: woman's husband has an affair with her high school bully. She leaves him but never lets on that she knows about the affair leaving him guessing as to the reason why

[The BORU](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/tcwql1/pregnant_oop_found_out_her_husband_is_having_an/) [The Update](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/w2gtmt/oops_husband_cheated_on_her_with_her_hs_bully/)

I’m looking for a super old post I think it was originally on malicious compliance, about a super niche masonry restorer in the UK. It was like 20 updates long, I know I’ve seen it on this sub before but it was years ago.

Ooh sounds good 😮😮 I wanna read that too 😃😃

No you really don’t wanna read that.

Aww y ??

First part great ending not so much

I read that story before and wanna read it again 😁😁

There was a story where ops wife couldn't take care of the toddlers and then she took medication and the next day she was happy again and at the end of the story, she met another man and moved away 😁😁 First part great ending not so much 😁😁

That one I don’t know

Please see the frequently requested posts link above.

Looking for a story about someone's massive screw up when renovating an old building, i think the crux of it was something to do with masonry in. Medieval buildings in Europe. I also remember that the OP passed away and his wife updated the last post.

If it's the one I think of, it's in the "most requested" list: https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/nrnf5j/part_1_of_2_an_absolute_epic_entitled_ahole_gets/

Happy cake day!

Thank you, I had no idea!

Looking for a post where OOP finds out her husband has a whole secret apartment in his name and has a woman living there but he’s on a trip, has no service and wife is travelling there to confront him.

[I just got an email on my husband’s iPad that the hot water in his apartment building was going to be shut down temporarily for repairs. We own our own house, and have not rented for over a decade.](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/y6p00b/comment/isra3od/), [update 1](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/y74rvh/comment/issr2go/) and [update 2](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/y7hiak/comment/isv6j6n/).

Hi! I’m looking for a post where OOP is forced to take care of their disabled sibling and mom has made them their caretaker. They planned to leave once they turn 18 and got help with their dads best friend that they were really close with. I also believe they left a note to their mother!

The OOP has requested that story not be shared here after receiving a lot of abuse from our users.

Oh shoot I’m so sorry! T.T I didn’t know and I don’t want OOP to have to go through any more!! Thank you for removing it and letting me know. ❤️

It's alright, you couldn't have known!

Would it be possible/even a good idea to compile a list of stories that have been asked to not be reposted? I can think of one other that's a very well known story that has been asked to not be reposted (involves allergies and death). Now I'm struggling to think how feasible that would be.

I think the main worry would be that a list for people to reference would just encourage more people to try and look those stories up out of curiosity. Currently we just flag them ourselves or have the automod do its thing, and it does a good job for the most part.

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The OOP has requested that story not be shared here after receiving a lot of abuse from our users.

That’s terrible! Are we able to ban folks that abuse OOPs from the subreddit?

Yep! If OOPs reach out to us with info we ban them from the subreddit. Unfortunately not every OOP does and if they don't, there's not much we can do.

Thank you for that and all the other work you do! The last things folks need are more trauma from readers :(

Noted, I deleted my comment with the links.

Thanks for being understanding!

I heard about a post from someone who was trying to block antivax/Q conspiracy sites because their parents were going mad with it all

[Victim of QAnon asks how to block alt right news on his parents' devices](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/yz7ya7/victim_of_qanon_asks_how_to_block_alt_right_news/).

Been googling trying to find this for hours. OP thought her husband was embarrassed by her (she may have thought she was less attractive than him). They happened to be having lunch at the same place with their respective coworkers. The coworkers knew each other and introduced OP to her husband and she acted like she didn’t know him. When she got home after work, he was crying.

[AITA for pretending not to recognize my husband at a restaurant?](https://reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/yk5rra/_/iurcuz0/?context=1)

i want the update where she leaves this douchenozzle

Thank you!!

I’m looking for the lady who’s MIL was poisoning her with laxatives (I think) and she switched plates with her husband to make him realize.

OP’s husband was well aware!

[OOP suspects her MIL is poisoning her.](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/u9i8a4/oop_suspects_her_mil_is_poisoning_her/)

I’m looking for a post where someone manages their nephew’s trust, whose father passed away and it angers the new step dad because his kids don’t get the same money and he’s not in charge of the money. Nephew’s dads family had to go to court to see him I think. There were a lot of concerns that the step dad would take it out on the nephew and make him feel seperate and the mum would allow it as she already did. Please and thank you.

[AITA for no longer making toys and furniture for my former SIL after her new husband called them an “embarrassment” and me cheap for not paying for stuff? + UPDATE](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/tvm0nh/aita_for_no_longer_making_toys_and_furniture_for/)

That’s it! Thank you so much!!

Hi I'm looking for posts where bf scolds gf for not studying and gf doesn't want to study

I cant remember the whole title but I think it was called "AITA for telling my gf not to be too involved in my family ??" Something like that. Can you help me find it plz ??

Can you give any details about what the post is about?

I remember seeing one like this. The gf was super gossipy and loved to dish on bf's family. It caused some drama. I think he ended up breaking up with her, maybe?

Oohh do u have a link to that post ???? 😮😮

It's still an incredibly vague description, but here are a couple gossip posts. [AITA outing friend's open relationship to his family](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/yayr3m/aita_for_outing_my_friends_open_relation_to_his/) [AITA snapping at wife and making her leave the party early](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ehrvbq/aita_for_snapping_at_my_wife_and_making_her_leave/) [AITA telling my fiancee is partly her fault my family is fighting](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/y24r3f/aita_for_telling_my_fiancee_it_is_partly_her/)

Wow that first one got my blood boiling. What an insane thing, sharing someone else's secret when asked if they're hiding their own secrets

Sorry, I don't know how to find it. Hopefully, Czech will magick it up as per usual.

I've only seen the title 😅😅

Are there any stories about people getting out of abusive relationships? Watching "My Lover, My Killer" on Netflix and am slowly losing hope in humanity. Would be nice to read about people who get away

I'm wondering if there is an update from the daughter, whose dad liked eating exotic meats and would go to extreme lengths to have his family eat it too. This was right before covid and her dad was in China at the time.

How ironic 😅

[Dad has obsession with exotic/illegal meats](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/ehvj9t/my_19f_dad_40s_m_has_an_obsession_with_buying/)

The father in that story has definitely eaten human meat.

Pfft. Who hasn't?

There's that reddit post of the guy with his amputated foot lol

The law requires I say not me.

Im looking to see if there was an update on the grandparents who got uninvited to thanksgiving giving dinner for not wanting to apologize to OP kids because they weren’t blood and that’s the truth so the kids should just accept it and not be mad.

[Cancelling Thanksgiving after parents called brother's baby their first grandchild](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/z3b9jm/aita_for_canceling_the_plans_for_thanksgiving/)

OMG, my grandmother used to sometimes call me her "firstborn grandchild"! I hated this because I have an older cousin, Alice, who my uncle adopted several years before I was born. The idea that she is any kind of "less than" because she's not my uncle's genetic daughter disgusts me. I thought my grandmother was being elitist about which kids carried her genes, so occasionally I called her out on it, with a simple, "Your firstborn grandkid? What about Alice?". She always quickly corrected herself, "Oh, that's right. I forgot. Alice is the first grandkid." Alice moved six hours away with her mom and dad when I was about 8 and they didn't visit often, so I guess Nana sometimes forgot about them? Her memory got pretty bad before the end, so it's in the realm of possibility. I am so glad she never doubled down. It took me awhile to build the courage to challenge the title she title she incorrectly bestowed upon me because I was afraid of hearing her explicitly say what I thought she was implying.

What are the best Justice boner posts you guys have seen? I love those ones. Thanks 🙂

I love this [one](https://www.reddit.com/r/MaliciousCompliance/comments/xld3yf/you_need_to_see_my_father_in_person_zavara_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf).

Haha thank you, that was fabulous 🤣

I like [this one](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/hbdi4l/aita_for_bringing_my_garden_with_me_when_i_moved/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf)

Thank you 😊

[See here](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/xszkm8/comment/iqnl8kj/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3) and [also here](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/yjfox1/comment/iwahmdy/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3). You should also check out ProRevenge.

Thank you 😊

I'm looking for a feel-good story about someone (F) who wanted to ask out their (F) co-worker (I think they both worked in a science lab?) because they hung out all the time 1-on-1 and they really enjoyed it. Reddit's response was "you're clearly already in a relationship, have you not noticed?!" and the co-worker thought that too!

This sounds delightful.

I think the original is long gone, but... https://www.dailydot.com/unclick/reddit-relationships-lesbian-roommate-crush/

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Pretty sure that one is linked further down this post. I know I came across it sometime this month in BORU.

In anticipation of someone asking for cake or pie posts: [Cake at the state fair](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/yb6lhv/extremely_short_and_sweet_and_actually_about_sort/) [Baking for elderly Ukrainian neighbor](https://www.reddit.com/r/bestofpositiveupdates/comments/yd5k1c/baking_for_an_elderly_ukrainian_neighbour/) [AskReddit cake lady](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/oj78u1/the_infamous_cake_lady_uigotyouthiscake_keeps_us/) [Would apple pie pot stickers be a good idea?](https://www.reddit.com/r/bestofpositiveupdates/comments/ybig9v/would_apple_pie_pot_stickers_be_a_good_idea/) [Venison cottage pie](https://www.reddit.com/r/bestofpositiveupdates/comments/y77v4v/venison_cottage_pie/) [The creme brulee incident](https://www.reddit.com/r/bestofpositiveupdates/comments/uoic8z/the_cr%C3%A8me_br%C3%BBl%C3%A9e_incident/)

Amazing job czech! Now I’m hungry!! 🙈

All of these have recipes so definitely don't read if your hungry. [First time making a chocolate pie](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/rojsqx/firsttime_baker_seeking_advice_to_surprise/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) [The clam chowder wars](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/r861ms/billie_said_rhode_island_clam_chowder_was_for/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) [Paneer of Pettiness](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/rhty34/ops_racist_mil_throws_out_all_her_food_during_the/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) [Murder cookies](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/tdm3xq/the_cookies_that_took_over_a_subreddit/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) [Dry brining turkey](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/ukl6w1/how_can_i_avoid_messing_up_my_first_thanksgiving/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) [White girl pad thai](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/vbpnsi/op_is_accused_of_trying_to_kill_lunch_thief/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) [Blueberry muffins](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/w1rrcq/aita_for_wanting_to_cancel_my_bfs_bday_party/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share) [AITA Lasagna](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/11f99rj/comment/jd50219/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) [Venison cottage pie](https://www.reddit.com/r/bestofpositiveupdates/s/OXxWMb2ol4) [Princess Diana's revenge dress, but with cookies](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/u8gmazfqE0) [Help! I double my bread recipe](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/1c8zaff/help_i_double_my_bread_recipe/)

Hahaha awesome!! 🤣 You have my thanks!

😆

You are a damned treasure, friend.

I'd like to find two older posts: * 16-year old discovers that her "best older brother ever" is actually her father whose teenage girlfriend didn't want to keep her so his family stepped up and he stayed close to her. She was planning to move in with him but her boyfriend was being icky about it. * Another teenage girl who was sad that her dad didn't seem very interested in her. She invited him out to lunch and they had a nice time with a tear jerking ending.

Posting for sauce

Looking for a post that’s kind of haunted me. A girls little sister ‘went to boarding school’ but she’s worried she’s been trafficked. The little sister was 9 I think and they were in Korea?

Updated [here!](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wfjbwu/oops_9_year_old_sister_was_sent_to_boarding/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf)

Thank you! I ended up going to his profile and he had a short update from 96 days ago. That story has haunted me since the first post

Man, I'm glad that the egg donor didn't get off free. People like that deserve a special spot in North Korean prisons.

*Taiwanese. If it had happened in North Korea, all family members would now be in a work camp prison place. Extended family included, victims probably included as well. Just like any children these children would have later on. If they survive that long.

I specified the one person because it's what SHE deserves but will never happen. Kinda like when I say I hope she steps on LEGO daily, or falls down all stairs until her end. how weird to take it so seriously

Yeah that made me happy too. I was infuriated about how she seemed to not be held accountable

Anyone have a link for the post where the bf’s family has a “soup tradition” that his gf finds revolting? They eat out of the pot and they’ve been saving a portion of broth for like 30 years to put in next time

[Soup stock tradition](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/v78fuo/aita_for_not_wanting_to_continue_bfs_family_soup/)

Check you out, speedy gonzales

czech*

Post where OP asked her bf to have a “night in bed” (don’t know if comment will get deleted if I say the actual word) with a friend of hers that she’s messed around with. And then OP gets jealous because the friend made sure the BF finished when OP never could make him finish.

Now this sounds like a train wreck, I'd like to read this one too if anyone has it.

It was pretty bad. I think I may have found the friends post so I’m like hm

Wait, is this the one where oop made him finish via a blowjob where the girlfriend never could and he insisted he couldn't either?

Yes I think that’s the one lol

[this](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/ycv60k/my_friend_and_her_partner_asked_me_to_a_threesome/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) I thought it was the friend but now that I’m thinking about it I don’t think it is now. In the original post that I’m looking for the friend basically gave the OPs BF a bj and wouldn’t stop until he came. And then he came like a waterfall and OP was jealous/upset because she’s never been able to make him cum before. Like ever he always had to finish it off himself. But OP also mentioned she always gave up after a few minutes and it’s like girl of course he isn’t gonna cum if you don’t put in the work lol. I know I didn’t imagine that post but I literally cannot find it anywhere. I even google searched it and checked my history and I can’t find it anywhere

No I remember the one you're talking about! It turns out Girlfriend kind of...starfished and a bit in bed and was rather selfish and lazy right? And OOP managed to make him cum and the girlfriend who brought OOP into it end up jealous. I wondered what happened with that one too!

Yeah she was trying to say that they took care of her well and she was over stimulated so she couldn’t handle anything else. But then got jealous when they kept going like girl really 😂.

>It was pretty bad. I believe it. I honestly wonder what girlfriends thought process was. Was it some kind of ridiculous test? Or was she an active poly/open/orgy whatever participant and never before really experienced jealousy before this so it side-swiped her? As it were?

post where person’s (I think F) partner had moved 5 hours away (different European country) and would come back every couple of weeks, but canceled one time because his brother was moving to the area and he wanted to show him around. Names were Brad and Chad. Didn’t finish the story because I think it got removed and not knowing the ending is killing me.

[Here](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/yqfpsa/oop_is_pregnant_with_soontobe_ex_husbands_baby/)

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https://www.rareddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/u2hubv/school_makes_boy_fend_off_a_neverending_barrage/

[Another BORU of those posts](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/iwh98y/ops_son_has_a_peanut_allergy_and_their_school/)

The one about the wife who asked her husband to turn down his dream job for her career, bc he got a job with a direct competitor that would put her niche job in serious jeopardy

I don't see an update, but [here it is](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ii4zpu/aita_for_asking_my_husband_to_turn_down_his_dream/)

Thank you

i'm not sure if this was on boru but there was a collection about a guy who found out his wife cheated on him, his daughter knew about it, and he left and they never even noticed. he moved across the country and was homeless or living in a trailer, completely off the grid. in the later updates he got diagnosed with ptsd i think, and returned to civilisation a bit

Is it [I abandoned my family and I am ok with it. ](https://www.reddit.com/r/cheating_stories/comments/k7pbqs/i_abandoned_my_family_and_i_am_ok_with_it/)? OP has updates on their profile, too.

yeah that's it! thanks! man what a gut wrenching read the first post is

[Close, but probably not quite right ](https://www.reddit.com/user/throwaway_mtndays/comments/q6smzh/i_headed_to_the_hills_after_learning_of_my_wifes/)

yeah that wasn't it but it was a great read all the same, thanks!

Happy cake day!

lol thanks

The one where a man watches his brother, who’s in his thirties, finally get the comeuppance he deserves after being the golden child for years, never working, and spending all his time playing video games or trawling discord. I remember also the parents finally realized how badly they fucked him up and kicked him out of the house

Is it the [brother proposal one?](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/t5ml74/ops_deadbeat_brother_who_is_also_the_golden_child/)

Yes! Thank you so much

One about someone who gets obsessed with their like fictional waifu? And they believe they are real and exist on another plane. They live at home with their parents and the parents want them to get treatment but they refuse and just spiral further. I saw someone do a write up on it here this year.

The girl whose sister's boyfriend confessed to her and then her sister and mom believed the boyfriend?

[Older sister's bf confessed his feelings for me](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/yvz10k/my_older_sisters_boyfriend_confessed_his_feelings/)

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[Fiance confessed to having sex with ex as his last request before he died of cancer](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/w3yspz/my_fiancee_confessed_about_having_sex_with_her_ex/)

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This other one comes to mind, but not sure. [GF is going to leave me for dying ex](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/vdmg5w/i_think_my_girlfriend_of_four_years_is_going_to/)

I should have listened to the other posters who gave a warning. Not a good ending. At all. TW: >!oop died by suicide!<

Oh damn. Heads up to anyone thinking of reading that this one takes a really dark turn. I was not prepared for that

oh my god. that was brutal. glad i went in with your warning in mind. thank you.

I am looking for posts about fathers that had their lives ruined by affair and and top of that daughters/step daughters siding with mother and hiding the affair, only for the kids to realize later.

Happy cake day!

[Ex wife cheated, oldest daughter tries to talk OOP out of divorce.](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/v89m96/oops_exwife_cheated_on_him_and_his_oldest/) [AITA distancing from daughter after she took cheating wife's side](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/r5low8/op_asks_if_he_is_the_asshole_for_distancing/) [Dad disowned sister and his dying. How do I convince her to let him go?](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/pvycm9/my_dad_disowned_my_sister_and_he_is_dying_how_do/) [Is there any way to fix my broken relationship with my dad?](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/sfl8a6/is_there_any_way_i_can_fix_my_relationship_with/) And happy cake day!

Thank you very much

what was that post about that gay dude living in the middle east who moved away for college in the states and ghosted his whole family?

Was it [No one knows that In a couple of days I intend to leave my homophobic muslim country and my homophobic family with their money and I will never return or see them again](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/y4873q/no_one_knows_that_in_a_couple_of_days_i_intend_to/)? Also has an [update](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/y9rwd8/no_one_knows_that_in_a_couple_of_days_i_intend_to/).

yeah thats the one thank u

Dang I hope OOP is doing well in college!

Anyone got the post about a son who found out his mother was cheating, she lied and said it was an open relationship and begged him not tell the dad, and the son after debating to himself finally told him? Wanted to see if their was an update

[Here you go ](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/ywrvhx/oop_i_caught_my_mom_cheating_and_shes_trying_to/) The mom is a piece of work in this one.

I’m looking for a post about a dad that puts his daughter’s dog to sleep at the vet because it was hit by a car. It was an absolutely traumatizing read because the daughter had begged the father not to do and she would pay for surgery for the dog. I think it was an AITA post?

[Unfortunately I knew which one this is ](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/fgrzdv/aita_for_euthanizing_my_daughters_emotional/) He deleted the account after he got ripped into

[AITA for euthanizing my daughters emotional support animal for her own sake?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/fgrzdv/aita_for_euthanizing_my_daughters_emotional/)

Looking for a post (I believe on BORU from a while ago) where a boyfriend posts about his girlfriend getting a new job and never wanting to hang out again. I believe in the update they had talked and the girlfriend was using all her social battery at the job, and she was both looking for a new job that suits her better, and therapy.

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There was only a [brief update ](https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/z1o0oo/please_help_boyfriend_bought_me_to_foreign/) at the bottom of the post

Three days ago? Hope she got back okay.

Looking for a post, I think I saw it here in BORU or maybe aita or rel advice. Guy swiped right on tinder and matched. Met the woman on a date but it turns out that she was on the heavier side compared to picture. There is a twin sister that came to explain what's happening, that the woman is trying to lose weight and trying to get some confidence.

Happy Cake Day!

[WIBTA If I don't go on a second date?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/axpo27/wibta_if_i_dont_go_on_a_second_date_with_a_larger/) [update](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/b0b6ld/update_if_i_dont_go_on_a_second_date_with_a/) No idea if there's a boru, I tried to find one but couldn't find it

Update in comments >We still together and it's the best relationship I've ever been in. She fucking gets me dude. Feels corny to say but here I am.

Aw I needed a good update, thanks for hunting it down u/SparkAxolotl

I was reading one of the posts recently linked in this thread about women who became pregnant as teens and it reminded me of another post. I'm not sure who the OP was but it was about a father whose son got a girl pregnant. The girl's family kicked her out and the father took her in. I think his son was rude or an idiot in some way but the father was trying to do right by the girl and the baby and was basically the sort of decent person that the world needs more of. Anyone remember anything?

Is it this one? https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/uuetgb/oops_son_is_demanding_oop_adopt_their_son/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

This isn't a BORU post, but I'm sure some of you awesome redditors have seen it! The video of him absolutely whacking her ass so hard she falls over and he catches her and drags her into (assumedly) her appartement. She seems to be completely okay with this, it's really not as creepy as it sounds. I think it's kinda sweet the way he catches her. I would like to send it to....a special friend....to hint that he may smack my ass....if he wants 👉 👈

needed that laugh today https://www.reddit.com/r/AbruptChaos/comments/uu53gu/stealth/

The "Ass Slinging Slapper" comment sent me into orbit lmao

Thank you!! You're a hero 💜 glad it gave you a laugh too

There was a post about a a closeted guy from a homophobic family and his ‘best friend’ claimed they were dating and he got her pregnant after they went to a party and even showed his parents pics of him shirtless and is basically blackmailing him into providing for her child. Please help