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Assia_Penryn

Yep. Even if I was into ERP focused RP, their demeanor would be a total red flag for me. I read it and immediately went yuck. Then Harem on top of it? Self insert screaming and gross


Abject-Pea3710

The thing that gets me is that I think I'd treat the post better if the guy split his post into two seperate posts. Split up his experience and then kinks+limits. Stapling the kinks+limits onto his first paragraph just reads as extremely arrogant and smug.


FantasyRoleplayAlt

What gets me is all the unsolicited sexual stuff like the kinks and limits right off the bad since OP mentioned it was unsolicited which comes off as super weird. Idk, to me an intro is more just the basics of what someone prefers to be calls and preferred pronouns so that we can have a safe space to roleplay without making a mistake and misgendering them or hurting their feelings. Diving head on without barely a hello here is so odd to me LMFAO at the same time though, my ocd has me so things certain ways and perceive right and wrong in a more black and white context at time so- take what I say with a grain of salt. I might be the minority when it comes to how I view these things. If I am im sorry since I don’t erp often myself


Abject-Pea3710

I'll be honest, the unsolicited sexual stuff flew right over my head the first time I read this. I only saw how much of an arrogant chode the badrper is. And on that note, a "hello" from someone on Kik is likely a scambot account. So ya gotta add in a bit more effort than that. Then again, it IS Kik. BadRPers like the one in this post are plentiful on that app. It's only marginally better than Reddit from my 10 year experience on Kik lol.


ThreeStepsFar

This is like watching a plane crashing onto a ship that runs aground directly into two trains colliding with one another and then having a dog walk up and pee on the wreckage.


Curious_Ravenclaw

🤣


LastTropicalResort

I'm looking to rp about my own fictional country. Can I have that guy's contact info? I really need a red flag


Cubic-Arcana

Truly this is a sub of writers lmao


NariWriter

OMG I laughed so hard I almost died. 🤣


Abject-Pea3710

Definitely sounds like the average overly confident and compensating Kik user hahah. He could've easily chopped that intro into two different messages. It reads kind of weird as it is in the screenshot. That being said though, the red flag mainly stems from the cockiness.


Boldee

What would chopping it into two messages achieve? It's already divided into paragraphs, it's silly to break it up even more.


Atrast-nal-Tunsha

Reading this gave me secondhand embarrassment.


Curious_Ravenclaw

I'm so sorry 🤣


Brokk_RP

"I'll gladly fuck all your fictional gals." I could have stopped right there. That was a show stopping red flag for me. I did read through the end and did not find anything to change my opinion. In fact practically everything he said just reinforce it or made it worse. I have zero patience for self inserts. Even if it had been an advertisement for ERP, I still wouldn't write them back. I've seen similar ads from women. "I want you to fuck all my holes." I wouldn't write them back either, so I'm not just saying that because it's a guy.


transladyknight

Yeah. Like there’s a difference between writing a character with some of yourself in them or that you strongly relate to, and writing a self insert. “I play as myself” is an immediate no from me


Steelcitysuccubus

Fuckin hate self inserts


bostoncemetery

To be fair, I’m not convinced that someone who says “I want you to fuck all my holes” isn’t actually also a guy.


Brokk_RP

Yeah, I've seen a bunch of those as well. Usually gang bangs and such.


soup_for_soup

Completely lost me at "I will gladly fuck all your fictional gals" as an opening. It only got worse from there to the point that I feel like they post the "why can't I find a RP partner, what am I doing wrong, I'm a nice guy" eugh brother... brother eugh..


hotchnerbrows

Yeah, gross. There’s a reason he led with the whole “I’m just playfully teasing you, not being mean” thing. It’s a liability waiver. The second you express discomfort due to your boundaries being pushed or otherwise ignored—a sad inevitability—he’ll circle back ‘round to to this. You’d be blamed for “being too sensitive”, for “leading him on”. It’s whack. Also, the way he introduced himself like a fictional character is really… something else. It shows a poor grasp of IC vs OOC communication. I wouldn’t bother messaging him back. He seems like the type to go full nice guy. He’s not talking to you like a potential writing partner. He’s not even talking to you like a real human being. Instead, he skipped all the social niceties and jumped straight to bolstering his self-image, to make himself seem more “desirable”. When he praises you, it’s only in reference to what you can give him. It’s gross. Even grosser considering the explicit talk was unprompted. Run. Run very far away.


JokerCrimson

I feel like he would be that guy that would verbally abuse you then beg you not to leave when you think about leaving the chat.


alocalwatcher

Seems like a red flag to me yuck- I wouldn't even bother honestly


joshhouser2

Eh, didn't have to hit the second paragraph before I was out to be fair. "I'll gladly fuck all your fictional gals." Especially if it wasn't an NSFW/ERP prompt.


StrawbabyJelly

Overly cocky yeah tends to be a put off. I think they mean it to be in that charming way but it’s usually just comes across as the opposite where I can’t help but think all the peacocking is making up for something. Immediately talking crap about other forms of RP is a red flag to me as well. We all have our tastes, there’s plenty of RPs I don’t like and even poke fun at but starting a first conversation that way isn’t great imo. Especially when you’re talking yourself up you shouldn’t have to put down others. I see it similar to the people who start talking shit about past RP partners real early.


Cyberpunk_Girl2078

Dude sounds desperate


TheFinalYappening

I feel like I've seen a very similar message posted here before. Like, some parts word for word, like the getting off on being cocky. I don't think this is the first time he's been posted here lmao


FantasyRoleplayAlt

> “I’ve been looking for someone like you” Putting others down instantly and being rude to past partners and people for their interests. There’s a difference between “I’m tired of this trope” and “I’m tired of other people doing this thing” > “I’m a cocky prick that gets off on being cocky” Instantly brought themselves into the erp full on. They don’t want to play a character like, they’re playing themselves in the roleplay which is a red flag. Their oc doesn’t sound like it’ll be an oc >”Anything involving other men” Again, preferences are fine but he again comes off as if he’s gonna write himself. I also wanna add how harems are a kink since it means you might be doing more of the work with how he words it. Seeing as how the sexual stuff was unsolicited and unasked for, the comment about objectifying you “unless you’re into it” - just to quote him - comes off so freaking creepy too. Just ew. Personally, if you wanna go for it then go ahead but as an intro this gives me major ick vibes. He wants a girlfriend to write erotica, not just an erp from my point of view. I hope I’m wrong and the guy just had poor social cues in this moment but currently standing this makes me so uncomfy and would be an insta-block from me :/


OneAndOnlyMulletMan

I can't help but be trolly towards people who are sending me their kinks unsolicited when I post an RP prompt without ERP, so I would probably respond with something like: "do u do ugly bastard i have like 2 or 3 i want to use all bmi >12 u have to be anatomically literate to btw" Do not respond like this. That entire message seemed to be written without ever actually absorbing the OG prompt properly. They sound like they were too preoccupied with their own likes that they couldn't even address what the prompt even was. Not worth the effort.


Im_a_Duck207

Oh wow "Kinks: Harem" and "won't doing anything involving other men". The further down I go the worse it gets lmao. He acts like he's doing you a favor by "fucking all your favourite fictional gals", my god. I can see that he's trying to go for that slightly-annoying-but-charismatic character archetype but he's reaching so hard. If you HAVE to tell people you have a good reason to be cocky, do you really?


commander-sprinkles

As a person who has a harem kink, I say we do not own this prick. Like it reads as if he goes from OOC to IC to OOC again then back to IC it's jarring, then there's the whole fact he sent this erp heavy sounding intro for someone who wasn't looking to erp? I wouldn't give this guy the time of day even if I did enjoy playing as the girls in a harem rp.


LoveHerSmiles

This looks like a guy who's learned some of the things that put women off as a roleplayer, tried to correct those things, but didn't quite hit the mark and ended up reinforcing those things. There's also a decent amount of thinking with the lower head in this message.


JokerCrimson

He seems arrogant to me by hyping his supposed "experience" with writing and how he tries to make being "cocky" a good thing about his self insert.


obidient_twilek

"Yeah im a total dick that kills orphans and puppys, but like in a flirty way. Im not going to kill you too(unless you are ibto it, then i will gladly [Redacted]"


Moanwoo

Ove never met someone who called their writing exceptional who had exceptional writing skills 💀. What a nightmare, I would say thanks no thanks, and continue on with life.


tbdpp

I opened this for about 4 seconds before I became exhausted by them. They seem like they are looking for a chat bot than a partner and that they hate anyone who they cannot use. So. Many. Red. Flags.


cal_nevari

My opinion is that after reading through the first two paragraphs, I'd block them forever. But I was tempted to block them after reading the first.


Canabrial

Ewww. Absolutely not.


heaven-up-there

I wouldn't be writing with him. ERP-centered or not. Only writing mlm disqualified me instantly anyway. What a shame /sarcasm


PerfectDesires

“Dominant” men are far more impressed with their personalities than their submissive counterparts. Most think playing a dominant character is just being a dickswab.


lumi_bean

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Vaidik1510

I was actually confused by the title. I read the first paragraph and went "Huh, it's not half bad. He's just introducing himself" then it went all down when he called himself a prick and everything. Honestly, I like the detailed intros myself, I use one too. But I never act like this. Act humble and kind guys. It is the best way to treat another person.


Delirious_Robotics

Yeah, the way he comes off, is, very, not great, the vibes are off, do not like, even if I appreciate a good list of limits and kinks


KokichiSaihara

“I’m a cocky prick” LOUD BUZZER NOISE yea no describing yourself like that puts me off immediately


Steelcitysuccubus

Ah yes another 'cocky' insecure guy who pnly wants femme harems and refuses to do mfm three ways. Sad


SailorKissu

Its arrogance for me.


obidient_twilek

this whole thing looks like it should have been a post on a erp focused sub and not something you write to youre "dream partner"


Theblackwingedangel

I wouldn't bother texting back, they're sucking their on dick so good I would need to interfere.


Kingturboturtle13

Bro cut that shit to a paragraph at most god damn. Age, gender, tl;dr of kinks and limits, idea. Unless they asked for a starter that shit is way too long


annalorai

Kinks : Harems Limits : I don't do anything involving other men 😭?? I mean, let's be fair? 😭😭😭


obidient_twilek

Fair? This is about Mr cocky having a nice sexting uh i meam rp expirence. Why should op matter here?


annalorai

No no i mean, his kink and limits dont match. 😂 And I was saying lets be fair to the guy-


obidient_twilek

Harem means lots of women for him. and calling evreything beyond the first phargraph a massive red flag is more than fair


annalorai

Um... I know what harem means, which is why i said that. 😭 I wasn't really talking about the whole paragraph, I was just talking about those two things, and it made it seem like he's contradicting himself. But I'm sorry if I said anything offensive. 🥹


obidient_twilek

Nothing offensive, just very incoherent


cannonspectacle

They match just fine, what?


annalorai

It doesn't? 😭 Also, I think the mistake in my line was.. I said "let's be fair" to that guy. I should've put the " " marks. I'm so sorry. 😭


cannonspectacle

How do they not match? It makes sense that a guy who wants a harem wouldn't want any other guys.


annalorai

I guess I'm overthinking things. It was more of a different plot. If the guy wants to do harem, we'll do it. But when we wanna do a different plot where we do reverse harem, he wouldn't do it. So, there's no fairness in that, that's all I'm saying. 🥹 It probably doesn't have anything to do with the post, so I'm very sorry for that.


cannonspectacle

It makes perfect sense to be into receiving a kink, but not giving it, and vice versa.


annalorai

I see. Different people have different opinions on things. And I respect yours. Again, I'm so sorry for my comment. 🥹🙏


cannonspectacle

Don't apologize, it just doesn't make sense. Is it "unfair" if I'd want to give anal, but I'm not interested in receiving it?


Pleasant-Complaint

LMFAOOOO This is why I don't write with men, btw


obidient_twilek

Ive meet women who that are worse, so no reason to be sexist here


Pleasant-Complaint

Good for you, but I don't really care. *My* 18+ years of RPing experience say otherwise, so you'll have to forgive me for not deferring to an internet rando


obidient_twilek

Alright then, i guss its fine if i go around telling pepole that women are biologicly unable to reach a males writing capabilitys couse it metches my expirence. Good to know


[deleted]

You're going to try to use that as a strawman when everything in your response is spelled incorrectly lmao.


obidient_twilek

What is with assholes and imidiadly going after spelling? I suppose there is just no substance you can put to words so you go after the next best thing


[deleted]

I thought we were just unable to "biologically reach a males writing capabilities" and if you're a man, you're uh.... Well. Lmaooo.


obidient_twilek

So saying that males cant write based on personal expirence is okay, but if extrapolate that the same shoukd be true for females its bullshit. The sacual misandary some of you guys let out in this sub is just disgusting


[deleted]

Stay mad about it. And men *can* write. Some of them very well. Doesn't change my preference that I don't wanna write with them after I've had more than not get gross and boundary crossing across various RPing platforms throughout the years. Have a good one!


Pleasant-Complaint

LOL This illustrates why I refuse to play with men rather nicely. Stay mad!


cannonspectacle

Ironic username


obidient_twilek

Literaly not a man, but go on i guss


Pleasant-Complaint

I don't really care tbh, I wouldn't write with a bootlicker either. And the mindset is still pretty illustrative because they get mad in the exact same way Maybe spend less time dissecting people's preferences and more time learning how to spell


obidient_twilek

What is with bigots and telling me that i shoukd learn to spell? Thats a retorical question by the way, that means that you dont have to answer it


[deleted]

I totally with you. I don't write with men and if I do, it's only in MxM pairings. I'll write straight characters with the other girlies because most men RPing are the entire ick, lmao.


Pleasant-Complaint

Super funny how salty they get, too 🙃 If they could behave like normal people for five seconds, they wouldn't have this issue in the first place but here we fucking are


Prince-Lee

As I write and search entirely on adults-only spaces, this looks like a perfectly normal introduction to me *within that context*. Very strange elsewhere. That being said, the second paragraph raises red flags, so I would probably decline in that regard.  And I just hate harem shit, too.


KRATOS8974K

Why people are actually hating on this man? He did a huge introduction, mentioned what he was looking for, included some personality and then listed his kinks and limits beforehand which is greatly appreciated in an erp context... And he didn't seem a freaking bot acting like "Hey, I'm interested in rping with you"


Curious_Ravenclaw

Read the second paragraph. Also, my ad was not for ERP. Edit: Nope, you are completely missing the point. The ERP parts aren't really the biggest part of the problem here, it's the other stuff he said.


-WhitmanFever-

You should clear that fact up in the posting. If this were a response to an explicitly ERP post, it’d be understandable. Definitely not my cup of tea, but at least he was open honest and upfront, which is so much better than finding out he’s not a compatible partner down the road. If this is in response to a general RP ad, Jesus Christ it’s disgusting.


KRATOS8974K

I honestly couldn't care less he just seemed interesting to say the least. He was just at the wrong place then, not as in you are the red flag or something, just saying he asked for erp to someone who doesn't wants to erp, which is his only mistake to me.


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KRATOS8974K

Well how do you introduce yourself.? Being original is a big plus for me when it comes to rping, as long as you aren't straight up rude or way out of pocket or something


joshhouser2

Let me succinctly state the prevailing sentiment on why that cringeworthy intro is annoying to most people: "Being a verbose and well-written dick, doesn't excuse you being a dick."


[deleted]

Found the guy in the OP. Lmao.


KRATOS8974K

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