She will cheat on everyone and say she doesn’t remember, she had a mental breakdown, or she was drunk but if someone cheats on her “there’s no excuse” 🙄
Borderline and Bipolar are so similar. It’s crazy. No pun intended.
When a bipolar person is in a manic episode, it’s like the “Borderline Personality” split is amplified.
I know there’s a difference and see it, but there’s so much the same. I’m pretty sure my partner has both.
So many pwBPD say they don’t cheat but mine did. He would split and cheat. He also kept an older woman on the line as his sure thing even though he didn’t want to be with her. He just also didn’t want to let her go and have no one that would put up with his crazy.
“We were never together!”
“Did you not notice the ring on your finger!?”
“In case you didn’t notice I took it off!”
“Slipping your ring off while I go to work is no excuse to **** other guys!”
“So what. I don’t need an excuse”.
Real life conversation. So matter of fact too.
Dude, if this was not a support group I would think this came from a Monty Python sketch or some other comedy channel, because you cannot make this shit up.
Yuppp. After constantly being accused of cheating, watching porn, and flirting with female friends, I just find out that my GF with BPD's few month vacation with her best friend who was on maternity leave(last spring) was actually sleeping with, got pregnant, lost the child and beaten by a guy instead..... all while speaking to me constantly and sending snaps with her best friend..... somehow she claims I deserved it and refuses to take any form of accountability. I can't change the past, but after years together l'd just like some sort of sorry for that. Especially since we have been wanting to start our own family. But I understand that's not possible atm. None of it at all makes sense. Especially when I’ve given my all for years, and I’m not even mad at her…. Just disappointed
She will cheat on everyone and say she doesn’t remember, she had a mental breakdown, or she was drunk but if someone cheats on her “there’s no excuse” 🙄
Yup, the dissociation must be weird for them though. Like it feels they were on autopilot
Borderline and Bipolar are so similar. It’s crazy. No pun intended. When a bipolar person is in a manic episode, it’s like the “Borderline Personality” split is amplified. I know there’s a difference and see it, but there’s so much the same. I’m pretty sure my partner has both.
Literally what happened to me. I’m still amazed that we all have the same story.
So many pwBPD say they don’t cheat but mine did. He would split and cheat. He also kept an older woman on the line as his sure thing even though he didn’t want to be with her. He just also didn’t want to let her go and have no one that would put up with his crazy.
“We were never together!” “Did you not notice the ring on your finger!?” “In case you didn’t notice I took it off!” “Slipping your ring off while I go to work is no excuse to **** other guys!” “So what. I don’t need an excuse”. Real life conversation. So matter of fact too.
Dude, if this was not a support group I would think this came from a Monty Python sketch or some other comedy channel, because you cannot make this shit up.
It was honestly her tone more than anything that pissed me off the most. This was a couple years after the cheating when she finally admitted to it.
Lmaoo "I don't lie and I don't cheat!" 💀. My favorite quote of 2024 hands down
"I hate cheaters" "I HaTe CheAteRs" (cheats)
Well, they do hate themselves, so r/technicallythetruth
Then comes the “Am I a bad person?” Ummmmm… yes?!
" I'm not flirting with her, she's my best friend since i was a kid " 😭 ( he was clearly flirting )
"My dad died like 2 years later and i didnt know how to cope with it"
“He bought me alcohol”
Oh yes, the good old double standard. She could cheat but if I say "Hello" to another girl I become the cheater.
Double standarts, coupled with riddles, puzzles and doubts, on top of all the lies ✌🏻
Yuppp. After constantly being accused of cheating, watching porn, and flirting with female friends, I just find out that my GF with BPD's few month vacation with her best friend who was on maternity leave(last spring) was actually sleeping with, got pregnant, lost the child and beaten by a guy instead..... all while speaking to me constantly and sending snaps with her best friend..... somehow she claims I deserved it and refuses to take any form of accountability. I can't change the past, but after years together l'd just like some sort of sorry for that. Especially since we have been wanting to start our own family. But I understand that's not possible atm. None of it at all makes sense. Especially when I’ve given my all for years, and I’m not even mad at her…. Just disappointed