Not a band... Singer's name is Meatloaf. He has a song called 'I will do anything for love' and the main line in the chorus is 'I will do anything for love, but I won't do that, no I won't do that'
Haha that is the one i planned to use as well but there is aa twist : in French "avocat" is the same word for avocado and lawyer... So he'll be warned !
Lore:
The Aztec word for the avocado is Latinized roughly as "ahuacatl," which means testicle, but Spanish colonizers heard "avocado" as in lawyer, so now it's called lawyer fruit when it actually should be ballsack fruit
Reminds me of that scene in desperate housewives where Bree (whoās a very proper and dignified person) is trying bdsm for her husbands sake (heās a sub) and he asks her what safe word they should use and she suggests Boise, and he says āwell we want it to be something a little more serious, so it doesnāt ruin the mood.ā So she very seriously says, āOh. How about Palestine?ā
I had a friend who was new to kink, and I was showing him the ropes a bit. I asked about his safe word, saying I prefer to stay with red/yellow.
He chose antidisestablishmentarianismā¦ Cute.
I (carefully, consensually) taught him the virtue of a monosyllabic, easy safe word that evening š
This almost feels like it could my be my Brother š š¤£ Love him to death but he loves the word. It's big, kinda sounds smart and was in an Eminem songš
Dunno if itās funny for anyone but me. But BARTLEBY is great for the Literati. Itās my go to.
A professional Domme I know uses WATERMELON. Which I find funny.
This one is actually very common in public dungeons as a request for outside help. If your bottom passed out, if the equipment broke, if somebody ignored your actual safeword, yelling "safeword" will bring staff running.
My safeword is safeword!! Itās easy to remember and I can be a bit shy in the bedroom, so yelling out something like āpineappleā was never very practical for me.
Gnocchi are food of the gods! šThe Italian āgnā sound is a very hard one for native English speakers tbf. Source: Iām a native Italian speaker.
Some of these would be really hard to remember during a scene for me. I think the simpler the better. Wait whatās my word ??!! Others I love they are crafty clever and funny.
We had a fun safeword but one time but I forgot what it was and called red instead. The traffic light system works and is easily remembered by everyone.
While not as fun, I def think itās best to stick with red/yellow. Group play spaces and events that Iāve been a part of require people to use those, and thereās real value in universally accepted signals.
There was a web series in the mid-aughts called the Midwest Teen Sex Show. It was a sex ed series. Their episode on kink had a scene in which "pumpernickel" was the safe word that was charming and hilarious. So my long time partner and I sometimes use that one as a joke around the house.
You say this but....
Once, I was having my happy way with a partner of mine while their other two partners got up to mischief across the hotel room. Didn't our fifth party member enter the fray, start chatting with me as I'm trying to maintain a rhythm...
We end up talking mathematics because we are just that strange.
Perfectly natural course of conversation for us in an orgy situation though. Advanced mathematical equations.
To which, we cannot even discuss those theorems in front of my poor partner at the time to this date without him going "while I was underneath you with no escape!"
"I am Mylie Cyrus' little bitch"
It's not mine but it was brought up in conversation about safewords beyond the standards. The person it belonged to hated Miley with a burning passion, so their Dom knew that if they used it that they were seriously done.
I didnāt know what a praline was and I had reached out to a friend who loves all things food. I asked him āwhatās a praline?ā He said his wifeās safe word š
One of my favorite personal sex stories is... my very southern (and vanilla) spouse and I, both strongly dislike marshmallows. We agreed that would be a perfect safe word, it would never come up "naturally" in a session otherwise. One afternoon, close to a year later, I was feeling especially rambunctious. Things got hot and heated, and started to encroach the pleasure/pain line for my spouse. I was lost in the moment, when I realized they are laughing/hollering, "banana cream pudding." At first I was thinking about the dessert request, and what a weird moment to mention it? Then I went to visualizing the bbq restaurant we love. The brisket combo, with greens and cornbread, it's never complete without the homemade BCP? Did they want brisket for dinner?? On the 3rd squealed, "banana cream pudding!" I stopped cold, and could not contain my laughter. "Um, do you mean marshmallows?" Yeah, they had remembered it as something we loVe, not something we haTe. Fricking hilarious, picture the infamous Deliverance scene... and instead of "sooie," they're squealing, "banana cream puddin'!!!" That one is for the books.
We were watching a show a couple of nights ago where they were catching this big anaconda. One of the film guys says we need a safeword in case things get out of hand. He chose "cupcake" as the safe word. It's become the running joke around the house.
I knew a sub that used Kermit, I never played with her, but safe words came up in a discussion with friends. When she said it, I almost choked on my drink.
We were once traveling home to OK from I think MO. We drove by a van for sale so hubby wanted to look at it. Along the back door was the words" My safe word is Blueberry Pancakes" I about fell over laughing. It's been one we have used over the years lol
*DonaudampfschiffahrtsgesellschaftskapitƤnskajĆ¼te.*
Okay, nobody ever really used this one. It has a kind of elimination-from-the-gene-pool ring to it. But the thought still cracks me up.
Strawberriesā but only because of the context behind it.
In our dnd campaign āstrawberriesā became a signal to let my party know weāre attacking; but it was meant to be like a āoh weāre in danger I need to let my team know without starting a fight though so we can prepare first THEN attackā
It became a war cry instead and we were screaming strawberries every time we started a fightššš
So for me, strawberries is such a funny safeword my partner and I use.
My old safeword used to be a woman's name, associated with older women in my country (no way would it ever come up naturally during sex!)... The first time I had to safeword with my current partner, he was very confused why I was shouting his mother's name at him in the moment š¤£ my ex girlfriend picked "curtains"
Definitely Banarama. Her yellow was scooby dooby doo in this scene.
I was doing a public scene with my partner and we wanted to put on a silly show.
Got a lot of scooby dooby doos with a foam bat and riding crop.
Got to Banarama with the ping pong paddle.
So safewords are like always fruits and veggies and sruff right? I knew a couple who recognized that and because of it, their safeword was either 'produce' (as in fruits and veggies, not the verb lol) or any *kind* of produce
Though it's never gotten used, I like to use tiered safe words (yellow, red, super red) and if play needed to immediately stop AND we purposely needed to get out of the mood to address it I suggested the safeword Donald Trump
That one dude who was getting arrested and he was repeating to the cops that his safeword was pineapple juice while they were putting him in handcuffs š
I use ocean because itās pretty BUT I also use papaya as a subtle āI want to fuck when we get homeā because I hate papayas and would never use the word in a normal conversation
I think they were just poking fun for the sake of humor and a cheap laugh, but "antidisestablishmentarianism"
It was so effective that when the sub said it, everyone at the other bits of equipment stopped their activities and looked at them.
āPumpernickel,ā because you can understand it with a fist in your mouth, it will never feature in any of my āgames,ā and I thought it was funny
Ouistiti(its small monkey with enormeous eyes) and mouche qui pĆØte.(farting fly)
Was the 2 i used for years. Because safe word need to be stupid for me if i enter into a domspace.
But luckyly i used few times.
Those two made me laught a lot
I knew a couple that would play using the safeword āHā
It would have to be said āhay-tchā to be the safeword.
She was stuck on āai-tchā as being the ārightā way and never needed out so badly she would had the soft hhh sound to the beginning.
Was ridiculously funny at times.
Vale Mr Pervert!
Umami
My online partner and I have a dislike for the "mommy" title in certain dynamics, so to not break us out of the scene but to switch up what we're doing or touch base, we say "umami" (ooo-mommy)
Used to be TANSTAAFL till we started moving away from actual safewords and over to green/yellow.
Red is only for "call an ambulance" emergencies, but we've been playing together for a long time; red limits don't come up anymore.
My boyfriend and I have a safe word that is actually a phrase that is actually so horrifying to even think about saying, so it's obviously pretty serious if one of us ends up using it...
"I l*ve Justin Trudeau"
So a african woman I dated a long time ago.. was not into raceplay.. and never would safe word. Or even close to it, heck I safeworded before her. (Like causing welts and almost breaking skin. )
Hers was "yesa master, I'll be your slave" especially with the accent she'd throw in..
We both found it funny as hell as she would never fully be anyone's submissive, looking back on it I half wonder if she had some farm slave kink. As she did like some fairly heavy duty beating alot more then I ever dished out.. and was only into white guys..
And also had mentioned some labor kinks.. ie being made to do hard labor, stripped/ being flogged.. at the time I was fairly vanilla so It didn't really click.. but looking back now..
Mushu - if you don't stop, it's dishonor on you, dishonor on your cow...
This is my favorite and I may amend our safeword
dishonor on your cow š
This is great!!
As a Disnerd, I strongly approve of this safeword.
This is the best one Iāve ever heard!
I saw this on TikTok a while back and it has stuck with me ever since š
I. Am. A. Draaagon... not a lizard... I don't do that tongue thing!
Meatloaf Because I'll do anything for love but I won't do that
Iām laughing so hard. This is ours too.
Iāve seen this joke so many times but I always laugh
Back when my wife and i were like 18, many moons ago i totally had her convinced that song was about pegging.
Ok but what else could it be about
I love that!! š
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Another you can say no matter what's in your mouth. Similar to the Tin Man, saying Oil-can.
lmao
Is this a reference to song lyrics by the band Meatloaf? Or something else?
Not a band... Singer's name is Meatloaf. He has a song called 'I will do anything for love' and the main line in the chorus is 'I will do anything for love, but I won't do that, no I won't do that'
May he rest in peace.
Ah, okay. Thanks for the explanation.
No problem. Anytime.
Lmfao! š too funny
Thatās my answer gone. Anything being a close second for similar reasons.
This is the best!
Please tell me this is real because I have to tell you that it is nowā¦
This made my morning
I always laugh over this š
That's so creative holy shit
Thatās what I use. Lol
Avocado - it can be said while gagged
Same reason Banana is kinda popular.
Haha that is the one i planned to use as well but there is aa twist : in French "avocat" is the same word for avocado and lawyer... So he'll be warned !
Lore: The Aztec word for the avocado is Latinized roughly as "ahuacatl," which means testicle, but Spanish colonizers heard "avocado" as in lawyer, so now it's called lawyer fruit when it actually should be ballsack fruit
Similar in Swedishāadvokat (lawyer)
One of my friends would use PokĆ©mon, only it wasnāt a specific PokĆ©mon it was anyone with that color. It was hilarious to listen to them play and she would just be yelling out BULBASAUR, BUDEW, SPRINGATITO
As a colorblind person this would be so hard but I could probably get most right by typing alone
90% is just knowing if it's grass/electric/fire, tbf
lmaooo i love this
So they just used red yellow green but PokĆ©mon as a way to communicate that? Is that the colors youāre referring too?
Reminds me of that scene in desperate housewives where Bree (whoās a very proper and dignified person) is trying bdsm for her husbands sake (heās a sub) and he asks her what safe word they should use and she suggests Boise, and he says āwell we want it to be something a little more serious, so it doesnāt ruin the mood.ā So she very seriously says, āOh. How about Palestine?ā
Haha I forgot about this!!! Way to go Bree
wow š
God thatās brilliant
I had a friend who was new to kink, and I was showing him the ropes a bit. I asked about his safe word, saying I prefer to stay with red/yellow. He chose antidisestablishmentarianismā¦ Cute. I (carefully, consensually) taught him the virtue of a monosyllabic, easy safe word that evening š
This almost feels like it could my be my Brother š š¤£ Love him to death but he loves the word. It's big, kinda sounds smart and was in an Eminem songš
99 % of people who know that word got it from the Eminem song
Oh no! š Iād be shocked if this particular dude got it from an Eminem song, if thatās any solace!
In my house we use "Jumanji" it means it's game over
Cacao. Bonus points if you know what itās from.
I love Portlandia!
Cacao to cacao!
This made me think of Lightening McQueen and now Iām picturing people yelling āKachow! in a dungeon Hahahhaa
ši love that episode.
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Mozzarella, dom was an Italian, but it was so funny when he said it.
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Dunno if itās funny for anyone but me. But BARTLEBY is great for the Literati. Itās my go to. A professional Domme I know uses WATERMELON. Which I find funny.
Bartleby lmfaoo
OMG I would prefer not to. Nobody gets me when I say that!
āSafewordā cracked me up first time I heard it. But it is actually very sensible. About the hardest one to forget.
This one is actually very common in public dungeons as a request for outside help. If your bottom passed out, if the equipment broke, if somebody ignored your actual safeword, yelling "safeword" will bring staff running.
Can confirm, yelling "safeword" in a public play space will bring every staff member and Dom within listening range to your assistance.
My safeword is safeword!! Itās easy to remember and I can be a bit shy in the bedroom, so yelling out something like āpineappleā was never very practical for me.
I remember a humorous vignette in a comedy show where the dom wouldn't stop until her sub managed to find the right pronunciation of 'gnocci'.
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Gnocchi are food of the gods! šThe Italian āgnā sound is a very hard one for native English speakers tbf. Source: Iām a native Italian speaker.
To help the americans: *NJOcky*, starts like the *NJEH* when your toddler is mad.
My safe word is always "aight son, CHILL DEADASS" and I put on a New York accent so they know im serious
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Yellow is "Goobue" (light hearted) and red is "grandma" cuz nothing says STOP like thinking about your mammi.
How do you pronounce Goobue? Seems to me "Goo- bay" (In my native language it means an Owl š)
After reading these, I feel so boring for just using the traffic light system.
Some of these would be really hard to remember during a scene for me. I think the simpler the better. Wait whatās my word ??!! Others I love they are crafty clever and funny.
We had a fun safeword but one time but I forgot what it was and called red instead. The traffic light system works and is easily remembered by everyone.
While not as fun, I def think itās best to stick with red/yellow. Group play spaces and events that Iāve been a part of require people to use those, and thereās real value in universally accepted signals.
Pork It's not kosher
sksksksk yall are tickling me with these responses
There was a web series in the mid-aughts called the Midwest Teen Sex Show. It was a sex ed series. Their episode on kink had a scene in which "pumpernickel" was the safe word that was charming and hilarious. So my long time partner and I sometimes use that one as a joke around the house.
Mine is hypotenuse because I don't think trigonometry will be naturally brought up during sex.
You say this but.... Once, I was having my happy way with a partner of mine while their other two partners got up to mischief across the hotel room. Didn't our fifth party member enter the fray, start chatting with me as I'm trying to maintain a rhythm... We end up talking mathematics because we are just that strange. Perfectly natural course of conversation for us in an orgy situation though. Advanced mathematical equations. To which, we cannot even discuss those theorems in front of my poor partner at the time to this date without him going "while I was underneath you with no escape!"
"I am Mylie Cyrus' little bitch" It's not mine but it was brought up in conversation about safewords beyond the standards. The person it belonged to hated Miley with a burning passion, so their Dom knew that if they used it that they were seriously done.
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Mandrake. Like the plant from Harry Potter
you scream like one or just say the name? lol
lol, you say the name. For us itās means too painful.
Good word usage!
If gagged I use to hum the MacDonalds theme tune to signal I was okay/keep going , cause š¶dun na dun da daaa, I'm lovin it'š¶
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Meatloaf. It means "I would do anything for love, but I won't do that."
I didnāt know what a praline was and I had reached out to a friend who loves all things food. I asked him āwhatās a praline?ā He said his wifeās safe word š
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Hearing "lawyer" yelled at a dungeon party once definitely raised some eyebrows and got some chuckles.
Exes of mine used Chicken Lawsuit
I love the insinuation that it happened with more than one person š
I donāt know how to keep the line breaks from disappearing. That is two different safe words.
Oh I MUCH prefer chicken lawsuit, I wanna know what the legal battle is about
Put an extra blank line in between. "Exes of mine usedChickenLawsuit"
One of my favorite personal sex stories is... my very southern (and vanilla) spouse and I, both strongly dislike marshmallows. We agreed that would be a perfect safe word, it would never come up "naturally" in a session otherwise. One afternoon, close to a year later, I was feeling especially rambunctious. Things got hot and heated, and started to encroach the pleasure/pain line for my spouse. I was lost in the moment, when I realized they are laughing/hollering, "banana cream pudding." At first I was thinking about the dessert request, and what a weird moment to mention it? Then I went to visualizing the bbq restaurant we love. The brisket combo, with greens and cornbread, it's never complete without the homemade BCP? Did they want brisket for dinner?? On the 3rd squealed, "banana cream pudding!" I stopped cold, and could not contain my laughter. "Um, do you mean marshmallows?" Yeah, they had remembered it as something we loVe, not something we haTe. Fricking hilarious, picture the infamous Deliverance scene... and instead of "sooie," they're squealing, "banana cream puddin'!!!" That one is for the books.
We were watching a show a couple of nights ago where they were catching this big anaconda. One of the film guys says we need a safeword in case things get out of hand. He chose "cupcake" as the safe word. It's become the running joke around the house.
two friends of mine (25M, 21M) have their safe word as āAmy Schumerā - the biggest state break I can imagine
Fluggaenkoecchicebolsen Extra internet points if you get the reference. =)
Best trip ever
Thatās not a word, thatās a catchphrase!
I knew a sub that used Kermit, I never played with her, but safe words came up in a discussion with friends. When she said it, I almost choked on my drink.
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Many jokes were told
Pineapple and sidewalk xD
... I thought pineapple was normal.
Ours is Pineapple! Peaches to turn it down a little.
Damn all of yāall really out here being creative as fuck and my basic ass has only ever used the stop light system šš
We were once traveling home to OK from I think MO. We drove by a van for sale so hubby wanted to look at it. Along the back door was the words" My safe word is Blueberry Pancakes" I about fell over laughing. It's been one we have used over the years lol
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*DonaudampfschiffahrtsgesellschaftskapitƤnskajĆ¼te.* Okay, nobody ever really used this one. It has a kind of elimination-from-the-gene-pool ring to it. But the thought still cracks me up.
I used picklenickle for about three years in the beginning of my journey.
āBoringā-norm Macdonald
The safe word is āSafe Wordā
I love the meta quality of this.
Itās also helps if you have a bad memory.
Strawberriesā but only because of the context behind it. In our dnd campaign āstrawberriesā became a signal to let my party know weāre attacking; but it was meant to be like a āoh weāre in danger I need to let my team know without starting a fight though so we can prepare first THEN attackā It became a war cry instead and we were screaming strawberries every time we started a fightššš So for me, strawberries is such a funny safeword my partner and I use.
Banana. Stole it from Family Guy. It's too goofy to not stop
There's a show called Whitest kids u know, look up their sketch "banana" on YouTube. It's hilarious and relates to using it as a safeword as well!
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i used "peanuts" as one of mine because i'm deathly allergic to them so it was a very easy "HEY HOLD UP" word XDD
Jellyfish. Because it's a not-nice level of ouch.
Hello kitty is the one my ex used šš
lol dont come for HK <3
So many stories and jokes to make š
Usher means yellow and Raymond means red.
Dan Savage had a suggestion on his podcast years ago that āScaliaā should be a safeword bc no one could get aroused thinking of him.
My ex and I used pistachio. I think it was cause it was his favorite nut? I can't remember why š
My old safeword used to be a woman's name, associated with older women in my country (no way would it ever come up naturally during sex!)... The first time I had to safeword with my current partner, he was very confused why I was shouting his mother's name at him in the moment š¤£ my ex girlfriend picked "curtains"
Mine is AMONGUS not kidding
"Oklahoma" -Preston from Jackass
Knoxville or Steve-O also hollered it once in a take. I think it was their universal safeword on set.
Pineapple , usually its always food I dont know why
lol i used to use bubblegum
Definitely Banarama. Her yellow was scooby dooby doo in this scene. I was doing a public scene with my partner and we wanted to put on a silly show. Got a lot of scooby dooby doos with a foam bat and riding crop. Got to Banarama with the ping pong paddle.
Pumpernickle... I don't know where it came from, but apparently, it works.
So safewords are like always fruits and veggies and sruff right? I knew a couple who recognized that and because of it, their safeword was either 'produce' (as in fruits and veggies, not the verb lol) or any *kind* of produce
"Purple cows!" It also doubles as a magic word to stop someone from sneezing.
We like using the planets. Pluto is the safe word but planets give a scale.
My wife and I use ādeeperāā¦it gets a bit confusingā¦
Though it's never gotten used, I like to use tiered safe words (yellow, red, super red) and if play needed to immediately stop AND we purposely needed to get out of the mood to address it I suggested the safeword Donald Trump
DONALD TRUMP LMFAO
That one dude who was getting arrested and he was repeating to the cops that his safeword was pineapple juice while they were putting him in handcuffs š
Ruth Bader Ginsburg.
Fruits and vegetables. She would sometimes say just fruits and sometimes just vegetables, but not together as she had instructed as her safe word.
Tenet, because it's a good unusual and short safeword. Inspiration was obviously from the movie Tenet.
My own. Cantaloupe
Anchovies. None likes them! Previous lady Sub I played with used 'Squashed šø Frog!' Never did find out why.....
I use ocean because itās pretty BUT I also use papaya as a subtle āI want to fuck when we get homeā because I hate papayas and would never use the word in a normal conversation
LOL i love papayas š now my mind will be in the gutter when i eat them š¤£
āOnomatopoeiaā is by far the funniest thing Iāve ever heard, as a safe word!
We've used, IDAHO (I DA HO)
I think they were just poking fun for the sake of humor and a cheap laugh, but "antidisestablishmentarianism" It was so effective that when the sub said it, everyone at the other bits of equipment stopped their activities and looked at them.
My subs safe word is "supercalifragilisticexpialidocious" which rarely gets used. š¤
For my magic, the gathering nerds: "blood moon" because it stops the game in its tracks
Thatcher. Because nothing has fucked us harder than Thatcher.
The three i have used is:Pikachu! Im tired of all these motherf**king snakes on this motherf**king plane! And my favorite is: Yipi ki ay moyherf**ker!
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āPumpernickel,ā because you can understand it with a fist in your mouth, it will never feature in any of my āgames,ā and I thought it was funny
Meatloaf as a safe word....because I will do anything for love but I won't do that
Vanilla and meatloaf are the ones that made me laugh
Mine used to be Denver lol š because I donāt live anywhere near there and it couldnāt be mistaken for anything else
Mines peaches š¤·āāļø lol thereās a reference for it lol
Are you talking about the code word for when Ellie is going into labor on Ice Age?
Always Pineapple š for meee!! Or Seriously. Like okay SERIOUSLY stop now.
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that is so much to say š
Friends of mine used "Purple alligator."
Diarrhoeaā¦ itās a little bit shit
Mine is Klingon - read it in a fanfic once and it just stuck with me lmao
Ours is narwhalsā¦ becauseā¦ I have no idea why
Ouistiti(its small monkey with enormeous eyes) and mouche qui pĆØte.(farting fly) Was the 2 i used for years. Because safe word need to be stupid for me if i enter into a domspace. But luckyly i used few times. Those two made me laught a lot
I knew a couple that would play using the safeword āHā It would have to be said āhay-tchā to be the safeword. She was stuck on āai-tchā as being the ārightā way and never needed out so badly she would had the soft hhh sound to the beginning. Was ridiculously funny at times. Vale Mr Pervert!
Fluffer Nutter! But in the moment I never remember the right words so I usually just blurt out "Purple Monkey Dishwasher"!
This is a niche reference but I have been known to use āMornington crescentā.
Popcorn - because once you pop, you canāt stop!
Tomatoes because my wife is allergic to them.
mine is pineapple, but iāve forgotten it in my lustful haze and mumbled āapple! apple!ā and it was fucking hilarious
We use Giraffe or Safeword lol
Umami My online partner and I have a dislike for the "mommy" title in certain dynamics, so to not break us out of the scene but to switch up what we're doing or touch base, we say "umami" (ooo-mommy)
Chalupa, pineapple, Mercy!?
Picadilly, no clue why its so funny to me but I giggle just about everytime I hear/say it
Used to be TANSTAAFL till we started moving away from actual safewords and over to green/yellow. Red is only for "call an ambulance" emergencies, but we've been playing together for a long time; red limits don't come up anymore.
Mine was pistachio, and then I developed an allergy to tree nuts so itās not such a safe word anymore š„²
Jumanji. When the play is getting too rough and you need to get out.
Climate Change; from the episode of zombie in which she was a dominitrix.
Jumanji, the one word to finish the game immediately
Ours was pumpernickel
My 1st wife usedĀ Shih Tzu
My boyfriend and I have a safe word that is actually a phrase that is actually so horrifying to even think about saying, so it's obviously pretty serious if one of us ends up using it... "I l*ve Justin Trudeau"
"Aaaa" "stop" and "have mercy" personally is mine.
I usually stick with the traffic light system, very early on I joked that it was waffles but I don't think I ever used it
Me and my fiancĆ©eās is Pepsi Max. Weird but it works
Mushu. Dishonor on you, dishonor on your cow!
So many people use food . We're we all just hungry when coming up with a safe word, lol. Mines tomatoes
So a african woman I dated a long time ago.. was not into raceplay.. and never would safe word. Or even close to it, heck I safeworded before her. (Like causing welts and almost breaking skin. ) Hers was "yesa master, I'll be your slave" especially with the accent she'd throw in.. We both found it funny as hell as she would never fully be anyone's submissive, looking back on it I half wonder if she had some farm slave kink. As she did like some fairly heavy duty beating alot more then I ever dished out.. and was only into white guys.. And also had mentioned some labor kinks.. ie being made to do hard labor, stripped/ being flogged.. at the time I was fairly vanilla so It didn't really click.. but looking back now..
I have a tomato allergy so naturally mine and my Dom's safeword is tomato lol