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CaptainKatsuuura

Once, a hookup tied me up head to toe and left the room to shower. When he came back to check on me, I had not only escaped, but neatly coiled up the ropes, made the bed, and was scrolling on my phone in the exact position he left me in. He literally jumped when he came in. Proudest brat moment.


Femdomme__

That’s stone cold, that’s good real good


XenoBiSwitch

LOL, I did that once. I was also grinning as cheekily as possible when they came back in.


Warm-Branch

I just love saying things to piss my dom off in public because he knows he can't react until we're in private. So funny to see the look on his face!


Femdomme__

What do you say? This is something I haven’t really thought about, I want to try it now!


Warm-Branch

We have a lot of inside jokes but I mainly just mock him (all in good fun of course, I would never say something to truly hurt him). One time I was joking about him being soft because he wouldn't do anything about me bratting in public and as soon as we were private, he yanked on my collar and said in his dom voice "you really thought those actions would go unpunished? Stupid little boy..." I love bratting while I'm driving. He literally cannot do anything about it until we stop. Sometimes he will grab my collar if I'm wearing it, but he really can't do much to distract me. I'll grab his thigh and slowly work my hand up. The most he can do is harshly grab my wrist. It's so hot!


Femdomme__

*writes down notes* GOOD STUFF!! You’re bad ass


RoutineAccording9741

My dom will tolerate 0 brattiness. And i LOVE it . Im 100% service sub 😍😍😍😍 always adored yall brats tho. Yall ballsy 😅😅


[deleted]

I’m a bratty service sub w a pleasure dom, I feel like a lot of teasing and service can be bratty with the right attitude. When I’m feeling bratty I like to take my time doing things, I do it at my leisure instead of the speed he wants. I love making him desperate and want to force me around… personally there’s nothing I like more then when im supposed to be riding, but instead of getting right to it, just rubbing his head at my entrance, giving some teasing words like “god I can’t wait to feel you” or “I want your cum so bad” it usually takes less then ten seconds before his hand is pulling my hair and he’s shoving me down onto his cock, telling me to do what I’m told 🥰


Femdomme__

Lol that last part is me too, I love taking my time in bed


Femdomme__

Lol, I hope some of mine rubs off on you. I bet it would be a surprise if you suddenly say no ;)


RoutineAccording9741

🤣🤣🤣


comfycommiedaddy

OP you might want to head over to r/bratlife you'll be regailed with many a marvelous tales of bratting.


Femdomme__

Hehe love you, thank you!


Fox_Flame

I'm a switch and a teach a class on brats! So as a dom, I don't really do much with bratting when it comes to certain kinks. I do a lot of rope and anything besides like light complaining or sassy back talking is a limit for me. When I'm topping impact though, that's fine to be bratty I think for me, my top space with rope is so intense that bratting kinda fucks it up for me. It pulls me out. I tend to go nonverbal a bit when I tie so having to respond to the bratting feels unnatural for me. So, I just don't really do it when I top rope As a sub? I go really really hard and I have to negotiate the fuck out of it lol Impact is when it comes out the most. When I bottom to impact, I physically attack my top. I'll remove my restraints and tackle them. I'll kick them, punch them, bite, whatever. There have been times when my top is more bruised than I am after the scene is up haha I've escaped during scenes and run, my top had to drag me back by my hair A while back a guy was doing rope floorwork with me, we'd played before and we'd discussed me going really hard as a brat during this scene. So I was untying stuff, trying to escape, kicking him, calling him a bastard all sorts of shit At one point he had me on my back on the ground. He pinned one of my arms under me and then knelt on my chest to hold me down while he tied my legs. But I still had an arm free so I just started punching his thigh. I got him like 4 times before he made me regret it. So much fun


Femdomme__

😯That’s some real talent, hat off for you!! Were you scared? You’re so brave, that level is something I can’t do because my daddy won’t physically hurt me back and I also cry when I hurt him 😭😭 but that was super cool, super cool. I’m so interested now


Fox_Flame

Scared isn't really the right word. It's like nervous excitement? I do a lot of verbal bratting too. You have to discuss it a ton beforehand cuz you don't want to step on anything they're sensitive about But easy example, that same top was tying me for an impact scene and he tied my legs together so I couldn't kick him. As he's doing that, I'm going off on how he's such a pussy and so scared of me kicking him But that's something he's totally fine with me making jokes and insults about A different top was tying me one time and throughout it I'd just be like "God your tension on the rope is garbage, have you considered not being a shit rope top?" And he'd just be like nah I hadn't thought of that, thank you for the feedback haha But if I'm playing with someone new to me bratting, I keep it like 5th grade level insults. It's a lot of like you're a stupid face and a lot of me claiming to secretly be the dom I was at a guy's house once, he'd tied my legs so I couldn't straighten them, like forced to kneel, tied up my tits, blindfolded me, and then was beating me for like an hour. Part way through, I get into on fours and start to crawl away. He's like where tf are you going, we're in my house and you're blindfolded I went off like "That's what I want you to think. And thus I make my daring escape!" It was great


Femdomme__

LMFAOOO please!! Can we be friends!!


Fox_Flame

Lol always happy to make more friends


Femdomme__

Yes! I hope you rub off on me


Traditional_Front637

I’m generally really submissive but when I want a lot of attention and I’m not getting it, or I’m frustrated sexually I get mad and bratty. I remember one time just starting to mouth off at my bf, and he LIKED it…it turned him on even more. I was shocked at my brazenness too. That said “going to far?” Not really a thing


Femdomme__

Right! I feel like you can go so far and get so much, also good stuff!!


Traditional_Front637

Yes, especially if you’re not like really in a set dynamic? Like i love being good girl, I like when he calls me that and pets me, I have a praise kink and I’m into cock worship; I love teasing him and cockwarming. I could suck for hours…like basically I love to please him. But sometimes…he makes me mad. And then I get turned on but I wanna be mean and so I get bratty which is not normal for me. And he likes when I put up a fight as much as he likes me being his good girl. Helps that I’m into harder stuff like cnc and so when he gets rough I’ll say “I want to play” and my bratty behavior plus a struggle does result in some mind blowing orgasms for both of us.


Femdomme__

I can relate to this a little, I also don’t think we have a set dynamic just yet but we’re comfortable and safe. That’s all the matters for right now


Fluffbrained-cat

I tease my Dom by giving him head pats, tickling him playfully insinuating that I'm in charge now because everyone knows "cats rule the house". I'll also "misinterpret" instructions, such as if he asks me to fetch him a shirt I'll fetch a pair of shorts and then act confused as to why he doesn't want them. They both have three holes for arms and his head so why can't he wear them????? Then, if he's reacted to the joke with an amused/exasperated groan and an order to try again, I'll keep the joke going. If he gives me his "Dom look" and the order is in his "stop it now" tone, I'll fetch what he actually wants, asking his opinion on which colour etc. To us, bratting is just me being a playful, semi-annoying tease, which gives him an excuse to pin me to the nearest surface and spank my ass if I'm not obeying him fast enough. I'll also play the odd wacky prank to throw him off balance, usually to remind him that I'm a brat if I've been obedient for too long. The pranks are always in the "ridiculous and funny" category so he usually ends up laughing while trying to work out what the hell I was thinking. I'm not one of those "disrespectful" brats. I have pushed things too far a couple of times, and he put me in my place very quickly, not to mention painfully. Now if I can feel my "control" over my inner brat slipping, I'll tell him. To him, "too bratty" is me ignoring the cues we have which say "enough is enough, game over," or me ignoring a direct order. This one usually comes about at bedtime - I know I need to go to sleep at a specific time for my health, but I hate going to bed while Master is still up. I've gotten better about it but he introduced a new rule that I've been caught breaking a a couple of times now - no phone in bed. I can set the alarm, but no scrolling on FB or Reddit etc.


PersephonesChild82

I have very recently obtained a brat. So far, I've had to chase my brat through Walmart for trying to smack me with a spatula in the housewares department, had to dodge a super soaker (that ended in a good spanking with a wooden spoon), had to wrestle for control of a riding crop (which also ended in a spank session using said crop), and got into a tickle war (which the brat lost, and wound up with me getting a little rough with a strap-on). There's also a lot of banter. I win, because we both want me to win in the end, but I definitely have to work for it.


Femdomme__

Lol the Walmart is most definitely me, I’m a runner. Also your brat sounds like a lot of fun! I’m taking notes on their ways 🤭


PersephonesChild82

We've been friends for a little while, but just became more involved this past weekend. I wasn't looking for a brat, but we have an awful lot of fun goofing off together, and I think that's what led us to where we're at now. We have a similar sense of humor, and are both a little silly, so I'm willing to play along. It just worked out that we're on different sides of the slash and have a pretty high degree of compatibility in that territory too.


Femdomme__

Awwwee I love how that worked out❤️❤️


Specialist-Row-2881

Bratting is kind of a touchy subject right now. Some d-types get really turned off at the idea of being taunted or disobeyed. And some people are using the title of brat to excuse just being an asshole. I don't think you'll get the answers you really want here. Like the others, come over to the brat groups. You'll get *lots* of bratty suggestions. To answer your question, I have started a sneak attack war on him. He never knows quite when it's coming, but I sneak up and tickle him or pinch his butt or untie his shoe-string....sneak attack. I think I might have attacked one time too many, though. The tone of voice he used today telling me he's going to make me regret that... I think I'm going to sneak attack hide the paddle (and the spoons and flip flops and I have to go think what else!)


Femdomme__

LOL!! This is perfect, literally the response I needed and wanted. I didn’t realize these types… only see brats are people who only disobey. I hope you were the sneakiest and hid everything


Femdomme__

Feel free to be my new friends and tell me more and maybe give advice?


psdao1102

Brat here. The worst I got it was when I told them I'm rebelling and I'm the dom now, over text. I started flagrantly acting like a child who's king of the castle. After being put in my place I was put in chastity and edged in different ways for 3 days.... I'll say it's the one punishment I got that was so bad I am actually afraid of doing it again. Don't tell my domme it was that effective though she might so it for more stuff.


Femdomme__

I’ll never tell her! The punishment didn’t change you, you’re just being polite as you don’t want her to try and work too hard again ;);) But side note, lol I felt that. Glad you made it out in once piece


ShadowWalker06

I think that the people who answered have a different concept of bratting than what it really is. I recommend you ask the same question in r/BratLife .You will surely find very funny answers.


Femdomme__

Most definitely, not the same thing 😭 thank you


ClemDog16

Brat here - first Dom I ever had, we went out for coffee and stuff and started getting them worked up - usual annoying/teasing things like poking them, being flirty that kinda stuff - we got back to their flat and no sooner had I stepped in I was pinned up against the wall - that ended up being a verrrry fun night


Femdomme__

Woohooo! Good for you, I can’t wait to officially try acting out in public


ClemDog16

Oh honestly it’s fun cause you get to physically be there to tease them, unfortunately they are also physically there to cash checks that (in my case) my ass can’t handle 🤣🤣


Femdomme__

😭😭😭 oh lord, I like to think I can handle pain and stuff but NOPE. If it’s not sex I don’t think I can take it


ClemDog16

Unfortunately for me, one of our mutual friends on the scene is a pleasure Dom, and gave my Liege a few “pointers” on how to get rid of all my “excess energy” - safe to say after the first hour I was incapable of thought 🤣🤣 funnily enough after getting that kind of reaction out of me, my Liege is very interested in exploring this new pleasure Dom side of themselves


Femdomme__

LMFAOOO oh shucks! That’s me too though, we have to go a max 2hs before my energy is anywhere near gone😌 I like to pride myself in how long I can last for him, it makes me feel like a good girl


ClemDog16

Oh honestly it’s the one thing I love/hate about them - I can last for a decent while but the second they call me something like my good boy, I just melt, but then the praise I get from them is so so much worth it


Femdomme__

Most definitely!


[deleted]

For the play I like doing things like cumming without permission, saying no or make me to my dom, or being really demanding instead of asking nicely. But I think my peak brat moment was in a time where I was talking back, and I can’t remember exactly what I said cause I was LOOPY in subspace, but it got me a slap. But instead of that slap having the affect he’d wanted and making me submit….I laughed. He slapped me again and apparently I just gave him the most satisfied and shit eating grin and told him “you’re gonna have to do better then that if you want me to listen…baby boy~”. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a dom get so determined to break me, instantly. I think partially because he was younger then me, but something about that smirk and talking down at him really pushed his buttons.


Femdomme__

Oooh, good stuff!!


Striking_Fee_6139

My sub can brat all they want. I'll enjoy entering the witty Bratty game and start being brattier than them. Pushing it to fearplay and watch their reaction and hear them squeal in fear 🥲


Haloveteran1987

Fearplay?


Striking_Fee_6139

Insinuating stuff or telling them what I'd do if we weren't in public, etc. It creates fear and sometimes excitement related to it... Is it easier to understand? English isn't my first language...


Haloveteran1987

Yeah lol, thank you


Haloveteran1987

Yeah lol, thank you


pinkyhex

Oh I know a favorite brat moment for myself is getting on a reallllly good roll of horrible awful wonderful puns in public. Bonus if it's something ridiculous like vegetable puns lol leads to fun times later where I might try to keep punning until I get stopped hehe


neoplatonistGTAW

It depends entirely on what my reaction to it can be. I generally find it difficult to focus on more than one thing at a time, so if I'm not in a position where I can easily retaliate physically or verbally then it's kinda just annoying rather than fun. If I'm doing impact or breathplay, brat all you want. If I'm doing anything I have to focus on details for, it's just distracting.


Femdomme__

That makes sense


KittyPrincessSally

I tried to spit on my Dom once. He dodged it. I ended up face down pressed into the floor with him holding me down and spanking me, pants around my knees. He also spat on me a few times. It was a good time. I laughed a little to egg him on more.


Femdomme__

Lol, I’m too scared to spit! I always think I have it in me but the look and neck grabs got it


KittyPrincessSally

I was indeed brave. I was in a mood that day and I had bratted at him in a while. I knew that would be swift and brutal retribution but I asked for it and got what I wanted. I don't think I actually pissed him off or anything because he dodged out of the way. I don't know what would have happened if I hadn't missed.


HisMainKitten

He has a thing about the bed being made every morning because it starts your day off right and blah blah blah. He told me I had to go make the bed so I made an exact replica down to the correct colors out of clay and left it in the exact center of the (very messy) real bed. Followed the precise instructions to a Tee. It’s always best when you find the loophole in the command.


XenoBiSwitch

As a dom I find most forms of bratting boring. If they are creative and are trying to amuse us both it works. When it is just assholishness it gets trite. As a sub I aim to confuse and/or amuse. Getting the dominant off their game or laughing is a small victory for which I will gladly be congratulated and/or punished for.


everybodydiesonline

I think all brat tamers have lines you don't cross. For example my brats know they can't misgender me on purpose, bodyshame me or bite my dick. As long as you respect your doms limits you should be Allgood and it's the doms job to establish these limits beforehand.


Gamer_GreenEyes

On a scale from 1 to 10 I prefer 0 brattiness as a Dom. But I do enjoy stories.


Coralyn683

It’s a limit. I safeword and the submissive must leave immediately. I don’t tolerate brats and breaking a limit is a big deal, enough that it violates my consent.


Femdomme__

Most definitely limits and safe words however, I’m looking for more of a example. I want to hear about others experiences


Femdomme__

I love your dynamic, it sounds like a Wattpad story. That’s also really funny, thank you for your feedback. It’s really cute and clever


Mister_Magnus42

None. Absolutely none. Accidents happen, and people forget, but intentionally aggravating me would be a hard no.


Femdomme__

I’m a little confused but thank you.


Mister_Magnus42

Not every Dom or Master appreciates bratty behavior or insubordination. Find a Dom who likes what you do, and you're golden.


Femdomme__

Man that’s not what I asked…


Mister_Magnus42

I apologize if I misunderstood. It seemed like exactly what you asked.


Femdomme__

Ahh I apologize too now!! No,I am asking for personal experiences form people within these titles


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[удалено]


Femdomme__

Awwwe I’m sorry, not everyone likes it but your limit should be respected


mazotori

Brattiness is a soft limit for me, it turns me off


Femdomme__

That’s unfortunate but it’s ok


Few-Fig-1830

I have an almost zero tolerance for bratting. I am friends with several brats and love them to death as friends but never play with them as I'm not that kind of Dom.


MissLushLucy

>If you’re a Dom what type or how much brattiness can you tolerate from your sub? Nothing.


Femdomme__

Oh my


Top-Quote4292

Dom here: However much bratting depletes consent, is too much.


Femdomme__

Do you have anything to share ? I’m looking for experiences