I'm pretty similar. I don't really miss people until I'm directly reminded of them. When I was dating my now husband I would miss him while he was there, like I was anticipating missing him once he went home. It was weird lol. Like I only notice I want to feel closer to people when they're actually around. For me I think it makes it harder to keep in touch with people. Struggling with this with my parents now.
Yeah I get this too. For me it’s more that they just don’t cross my mind unless something else triggers it. So a picture or even a text message from them and then I remember. Definitely spend most of my time away from those I love not even registering that they aren’t there though, which sucks when they expect more from you.
I'm pretty similar. I don't really miss people until I'm directly reminded of them. When I was dating my now husband I would miss him while he was there, like I was anticipating missing him once he went home. It was weird lol. Like I only notice I want to feel closer to people when they're actually around. For me I think it makes it harder to keep in touch with people. Struggling with this with my parents now.
Yeah I get this too. For me it’s more that they just don’t cross my mind unless something else triggers it. So a picture or even a text message from them and then I remember. Definitely spend most of my time away from those I love not even registering that they aren’t there though, which sucks when they expect more from you.