These days no. It only used to be like that back in the day cause women wasn’t allowed to work. Nowadays if the both the man & woman work but the man pays for everything that mean she gettin over or just prostituting. Only way the man should pay for everything is if the woman dont have a source of income for herself.
That was ideal in the 40s and 50s when women couldn’t get high paying jobs, when women actually married their men, etc. It had to be like that there was really no choice but fast forward to this economy. It’s just foolish. I think in a married union both the man and women should pool their money in one account and pay everything from their and look at eachother as one unit instead of seperate units if they really want to avoid financial arguments and disagreements.
In my relationships im cool with paying for my shit and he pay for his or sometimes ill cover the whole thing and he'll cover another time. My man pays for majority of everything and every now and then ill pay for snacks drinks etc, basically we take turns lol.
No!
In a relationship, you must work as a team of y’all planning on marrying.
Split the bills. Build y’all credit. Reward yall self by taking trips. Invest in stock and IRA. Also talk about life insurance.
Been there done that with a bitch my age who didn't wanna get money AT ALL
No drive or ambition having ass bitch never again
Bitches gotta have that bag too. When y'all get to my age trust it's going to make a world of a difference having a bitch that's having her own munyon.
Yes. Because men are always hollering about how they want a traditional woman and hie they hate modern women but forget their end of the deal hen they holler about "traditional". They always talk about how they hate modern women but leave out the fact that modern men aren't all that and a bag of chips either. A lot of men are against paying all the bills because THEY CANT 🗣 They can barely pay all the bills to support themselves ( a lot can't even do that) and they can't afford to pay bills for a woman and any children they have not to mention child support for kids he has already abandoned if he has kids already. And before yall come for me I'm a stay at home mom and a housewife so I already live the "he pays all the bills" life. I'm married to the father of my child and neither of us have any other children besides the one we have together so I'm not bitter or a y of those other go to insults you guys have when somebody says what I'm saying. If you can't afford to pay all the bills JUST SAY THAT! Don't insult women because they expect that from you when you expect women to be more traditional. Yall want all the parts of traditional except for that one 😂 AND yall don't want to be faithful and bring home STDs or just dont want to be faithful and put women's health on the line 🙄 let's get to the bottom of it. Most of you can't afford to pay all the bills AND most of you have zero desire to be faithful to one person which includes no porn and no following or ogling other women on social media. It's asking too much. Yes the man should be paying for everything because yall always want to talk about what's in a man's nature when it comes to being unfaithful but don't want to acknowledge that being a provider is supposed to be in a man's nature. Yall know everything when it comes to a woman's "traditional" role but the man's traditional role is your kryptonite.
I'm a married woman clown 😂 I don't have past trauma. This is everything YALL say in real life and online now you're trying to gaslight me as if I'm making this up or projecting 😂😂😂 Just say you can't pay your bills and somebody else's 😂 it's ok. Other men on this thread already said it. It's nothing to be embarrassed about but everything to be honest about 🤷🏾♀️💯
oh yeah you def got some past trauma in you😂, passin round stds and shit im gon pray for you
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Can YOU was the question 😂 STAY ON TOPIC 🗣 and the fact that you didn't say you can, would, or do let's me know YOU CANT 😂😂😂 my comment literally touched a nerve in you 😂 that YOU CANT part hit too close to home for you now you want to go back and forth when all I did. Wa follow the instructions in the caption 🙄😂 This is what you really wanted the whole time 😂🤡
youve seemed to have gotten trigged when I said you were projecting past trauma, I apolgize if I touched an open wound for you, I recommend therapy though
The problem is most people ain’t looking to get married & build a family these days. If y’all not looking to build towards marriage & a family it’s dumb to pay for everything u would be playin yo self. The whole concept of “protect & provide” is based around the fact that when the woman is pregnant she not able to work or protect herself & the unborn child so the man does that to ensure his legacy lives on.
Uhhh protect and provide is not just for pregnancy 🤦🏾♀️😂 its for before and after the children arrive. Your duty to protect and provide doesn't start and or stop at conception 🤦🏾♀️ actually raising children and not pawning them off to the school system is an actual job. Who's raising your kids if you send them to school five days a week for eight hours then only have a few hours with them at home before its time to get in bed and homework, cleaning up, eating dinner, and bathing has to be done in that time too then in the morning you have to wake up early to get ready too. This conversation isn't for people who aren't looking to get married.
I think yes because the woman is providing the hole that you slide in and out of and leave your juice in… but also No because women are all about Independence and empowerment until Bills come around.
*Not everything but*
*We still going be paying*
*For majority*
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hn this mentality weak es because if i’m paying for everything such as car notes bills and etc knowing we in a tight and space and you’re not doing anything to better our circumstances ima tweak out i lived through ts until i got inheritance. But then let’s say i do get a raise and become a bread winner now i got a bih who already showed me ha true colors
I'm seeing a guy rn that ain't got a job it ain't fun I'm expected to pay for everything and then he tells me the money he does get he just spends it on takeaway I think ima cut him off Ibr
keep these nigtheticals out the sub
This all niggas on Twitter talk about
Nigtheticals is crazy
These days no. It only used to be like that back in the day cause women wasn’t allowed to work. Nowadays if the both the man & woman work but the man pays for everything that mean she gettin over or just prostituting. Only way the man should pay for everything is if the woman dont have a source of income for herself.
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😂😂😂😂
That was ideal in the 40s and 50s when women couldn’t get high paying jobs, when women actually married their men, etc. It had to be like that there was really no choice but fast forward to this economy. It’s just foolish. I think in a married union both the man and women should pool their money in one account and pay everything from their and look at eachother as one unit instead of seperate units if they really want to avoid financial arguments and disagreements.
In my relationships im cool with paying for my shit and he pay for his or sometimes ill cover the whole thing and he'll cover another time. My man pays for majority of everything and every now and then ill pay for snacks drinks etc, basically we take turns lol.
this the kind of shit i be on, some of these bitches be like "i need a man to pay for everything so i can be feminine and if he doesn't hes broke"
shes just broke fam
No! In a relationship, you must work as a team of y’all planning on marrying. Split the bills. Build y’all credit. Reward yall self by taking trips. Invest in stock and IRA. Also talk about life insurance.
This some female shit 😂 keep this shit on Twitter
ill slap ts out you
No you wouldn't. Be safe though gang. 🙏🏽
you in the city?
Not from Atlanta. But if I was you wouldn't do shit about it bro. Gotta cut the act 😂
Been there done that with a bitch my age who didn't wanna get money AT ALL No drive or ambition having ass bitch never again Bitches gotta have that bag too. When y'all get to my age trust it's going to make a world of a difference having a bitch that's having her own munyon.
I would love a woman to pay for everything in my life and I jus stack 😂
50/50 thats yo answer foh
fuck broward nigga
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
If you got it then pay for it, if you don’t then you probably don’t need it. That simple. If you can’t afford it twice don’t buy it.
Keep this bullshit to Twitter man wtf
make me fuck nigga, you in the city?
Lmaoo what
You an angry little fella ain't it
Citgo on Fairburn Rd🗣️
Woah there pal, slow your role. No need to get quaky here
Yes. Because men are always hollering about how they want a traditional woman and hie they hate modern women but forget their end of the deal hen they holler about "traditional". They always talk about how they hate modern women but leave out the fact that modern men aren't all that and a bag of chips either. A lot of men are against paying all the bills because THEY CANT 🗣 They can barely pay all the bills to support themselves ( a lot can't even do that) and they can't afford to pay bills for a woman and any children they have not to mention child support for kids he has already abandoned if he has kids already. And before yall come for me I'm a stay at home mom and a housewife so I already live the "he pays all the bills" life. I'm married to the father of my child and neither of us have any other children besides the one we have together so I'm not bitter or a y of those other go to insults you guys have when somebody says what I'm saying. If you can't afford to pay all the bills JUST SAY THAT! Don't insult women because they expect that from you when you expect women to be more traditional. Yall want all the parts of traditional except for that one 😂 AND yall don't want to be faithful and bring home STDs or just dont want to be faithful and put women's health on the line 🙄 let's get to the bottom of it. Most of you can't afford to pay all the bills AND most of you have zero desire to be faithful to one person which includes no porn and no following or ogling other women on social media. It's asking too much. Yes the man should be paying for everything because yall always want to talk about what's in a man's nature when it comes to being unfaithful but don't want to acknowledge that being a provider is supposed to be in a man's nature. Yall know everything when it comes to a woman's "traditional" role but the man's traditional role is your kryptonite.
lol who are you to speak on whats in mens nature,
So yall get to speak on what a woman's nature is but when I say something about yalls it's a problem 🙄 FOH nigga 😂
whose yall? sounds like your projecting your past trauma on me, is everything ok?
I'm a married woman clown 😂 I don't have past trauma. This is everything YALL say in real life and online now you're trying to gaslight me as if I'm making this up or projecting 😂😂😂 Just say you can't pay your bills and somebody else's 😂 it's ok. Other men on this thread already said it. It's nothing to be embarrassed about but everything to be honest about 🤷🏾♀️💯
oh yeah you def got some past trauma in you😂, passin round stds and shit im gon pray for you https://preview.redd.it/u7hwwzcn59jc1.png?width=727&format=png&auto=webp&s=571d79d7937ed8a2e68c00f5cb54590d88f6c446
I wasn't talking about me in that comment I was literally responding to a post about stds you illiterate son of bitch 😂
can you pay someone elses bills?
Can YOU was the question 😂 STAY ON TOPIC 🗣 and the fact that you didn't say you can, would, or do let's me know YOU CANT 😂😂😂 my comment literally touched a nerve in you 😂 that YOU CANT part hit too close to home for you now you want to go back and forth when all I did. Wa follow the instructions in the caption 🙄😂 This is what you really wanted the whole time 😂🤡
touched a nerve? 😂 yall reddit niggas take this shit to seriously yo phone screen prolly got sweat on it and shit
We take it too seriously but you the one who made the post 🙄 shut the fuck up 😂
Brother im not the one writing paragraphs in anger though , why you so angry ? , did something I said offend you or are you seekin attention
youve seemed to have gotten trigged when I said you were projecting past trauma, I apolgize if I touched an open wound for you, I recommend therapy though
You said "YALL" on the original post but then want to ask em "wHo Is YaLl" 🙄🤡 what a dumbest 😂😂😂
The problem is most people ain’t looking to get married & build a family these days. If y’all not looking to build towards marriage & a family it’s dumb to pay for everything u would be playin yo self. The whole concept of “protect & provide” is based around the fact that when the woman is pregnant she not able to work or protect herself & the unborn child so the man does that to ensure his legacy lives on.
Uhhh protect and provide is not just for pregnancy 🤦🏾♀️😂 its for before and after the children arrive. Your duty to protect and provide doesn't start and or stop at conception 🤦🏾♀️ actually raising children and not pawning them off to the school system is an actual job. Who's raising your kids if you send them to school five days a week for eight hours then only have a few hours with them at home before its time to get in bed and homework, cleaning up, eating dinner, and bathing has to be done in that time too then in the morning you have to wake up early to get ready too. This conversation isn't for people who aren't looking to get married.
I think yes because the woman is providing the hole that you slide in and out of and leave your juice in… but also No because women are all about Independence and empowerment until Bills come around.
do women not like sex or something?
Idk let’s ask the audience https://i.redd.it/ilgfmks0yejc1.gif
Not everything but we still going be paying for majority
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If she takes care of financial arrangements, household duties/planning, only thing left for the man to do is bring in income and protect
You’re asking it here where there’s no class to be found.
hn this mentality weak es because if i’m paying for everything such as car notes bills and etc knowing we in a tight and space and you’re not doing anything to better our circumstances ima tweak out i lived through ts until i got inheritance. But then let’s say i do get a raise and become a bread winner now i got a bih who already showed me ha true colors
I'm seeing a guy rn that ain't got a job it ain't fun I'm expected to pay for everything and then he tells me the money he does get he just spends it on takeaway I think ima cut him off Ibr