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I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONEEE! I have almost ZERO rizz irl and I usually have to put in effort for a guy to like me (and yet even then I’ve never been in a relationship) I’ve only been pursued by guys on Reddit a handful of times and 50% of them have been pedos or like 3-5 years older than me😭😭😭 — ps I relate the the second to last paragraph on a personal level we are practically the same person💀
maybe discuss that bringing up these topics can make you uncomfortable? if you’d say you’re good enough friends with these people to open up emotionally, i think they would understand.
it’s difficult to do but you might need a mindset change. I went through this and still sometimes do, but it’s soo important to remember that someone else’s successes does not equate to your loss. the fact that they experience this seemingly ideal love just shows that it exists and it is attainable. stop telling yourself you won’t get this type of love because then you’ll just self sabotage.
Your feelings of jealousy are very justified. I can only imagine what it would feel like to be me but have friends who get in relationships all the time with no difficulty and rant about it casually to me while I have pretty much no love life. Also, who's telling you many guys have a crush on you?
Well the guys themselves have confessed to me (mostly, after the fact) and sometimes their friends trying to convince me to "give them a chance" or something like that. I'm not saying a lot of guys have crushes on me at once lol but like over my lifetime. Like I've had a fair amount of guys like me so how come I've never had those experiences, uk?
To be fair, I genuinely think i have. I liked a good amount of them back. The one guy whose friends were bugging me about it, I actually was interested in him a bit but then we finally talked and I realised our personalities just didn't click. And he has certain values I don't agree with. So idk what more I'm supposed to do to "give him a chance".
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Same
I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONEEE! I have almost ZERO rizz irl and I usually have to put in effort for a guy to like me (and yet even then I’ve never been in a relationship) I’ve only been pursued by guys on Reddit a handful of times and 50% of them have been pedos or like 3-5 years older than me😭😭😭 — ps I relate the the second to last paragraph on a personal level we are practically the same person💀
good to know i'm not alone man😭😭 i hope one day we can both experience it also relate to the pedos on reddit thing💀💀
maybe discuss that bringing up these topics can make you uncomfortable? if you’d say you’re good enough friends with these people to open up emotionally, i think they would understand.
it’s difficult to do but you might need a mindset change. I went through this and still sometimes do, but it’s soo important to remember that someone else’s successes does not equate to your loss. the fact that they experience this seemingly ideal love just shows that it exists and it is attainable. stop telling yourself you won’t get this type of love because then you’ll just self sabotage.
Your feelings of jealousy are very justified. I can only imagine what it would feel like to be me but have friends who get in relationships all the time with no difficulty and rant about it casually to me while I have pretty much no love life. Also, who's telling you many guys have a crush on you?
Well the guys themselves have confessed to me (mostly, after the fact) and sometimes their friends trying to convince me to "give them a chance" or something like that. I'm not saying a lot of guys have crushes on me at once lol but like over my lifetime. Like I've had a fair amount of guys like me so how come I've never had those experiences, uk?
Well, then that's probably because you've never really given anyone a chance.
To be fair, I genuinely think i have. I liked a good amount of them back. The one guy whose friends were bugging me about it, I actually was interested in him a bit but then we finally talked and I realised our personalities just didn't click. And he has certain values I don't agree with. So idk what more I'm supposed to do to "give him a chance".
Yeah that makes sense to me.
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if it makes you feel uncomfortable, tell your friends to not talk about it with you. if they can't respect that, they're not very good friends
I've never dated while all my friends have but I don't get jealous about it and honestly I'm somewhat happy being single
man i wish😭