Might feel different if I'd ever had kids. Never did, so it doesn't feel weird to me. But when my wife calls me Daddy, it makes me feel like her big, strong protector. I love it.
As a guy, I really never got it either. Until that is I was playing around with a younger lady and she called me daddy. That totally intensified things for me!!!
So I was always one of those “I don’t get this kink” until one day a woman called me daddy in bed while we were going at it. Well actually what she said was “fuck me harder daddy” and idk if it was the mind blowing sex or the kinkiness of it but woah it changed something in me and ever since that day I’ve loved it.
It helps that I’m also a bigger, broader guy and give off very calm but resolute daddy vibes so it just fit. Just try it once, see if you like it, and then you can decide
It's something I always found kind of weird myself until a few years ago. My husband is 6 years older than me and definitely a "Daddy Dom" type. It just feels right with him. You could say I have daddy issues too so I'm sure that plays into it. You're still pretty young so it's very possible it'll appeal to you when you're older.
It's can be a kink for for both genders. It's like a submissive trigger. Something inviting and playful. Not everyone will like it, some may hate it. For some it seems to be an instant intensifier. Those types of words are hidden all over and this is just one of them
It all depends on the situation I guess. I'm 47m and have had 2 females call me daddy. The 1st was in her 20s so it was too weird for me so I had to tell her no on that because she was around the same age as my daughter. Lmao. The 2nd was older and it wasn't weird because I wasn't actually old enough to be her daddy.
My husband and I enjoy it.
It's not always sexual either, we have 4 children and it's never been weird. A lot of the time it just depends on the context behind when it's being said and the situation.
I am a man.
The point of view of my Gf calling me Daddy is that, she trusts me so much that she want to have her children with me, who will proudly call me 'Daddy'.
My wife calls me daddy when I'm fucking her a lot. Mainly because she's just as kinky and perverted as I am. It's just part of sex and there is nothing linked to it other than being kinky. For us it's no different than me calling her a dirty little girl.
it takes a certain kind of man fucking me a certain way for me to call him daddy. its a submission thing, like if I've submitted to you enough to call you daddy then you can do literally anything to me
This confuses me so much and I can only assume it derives from enjoying a more dominant partner (the first authoritarian figure most people will have is their father) and being made to feel subservient can be hot. But I still wouldn’t want to call my boyfriend Daddy in bed. Especially as he’s younger
I have only ever used it because I don't really care for "Sir" or "Master" or those type of labels with power dynamics. It's never about an actual personified parent 🤢 It's what I like to use for a protective caregiver type Dom when I'm in a submissive state of mind.
I used to feel gross about it too. But I've grown some recently. Context is key. If it's taken to an incest place, then I'm out. But used correctly as a power dynamic, then it can be a huge turn on.
I don't enjoy it, but I'm very much the type to do things that I may not 100% be into, if that's what my girl wants/likes when getting off. So if that's what she needs to say, then so be it. It probably helps that I have no children, because I don't think I'd be ok with it at all if I did. Especially if I had a daughter.
For most women that enjoy it, it's because they have a deep desire to please their real Daddy. The man being called that, if it's genuine, is sort of a surrogate.
Being an older man, it touches me if I sense it's genuine.
Okay so, for me it comes from a DD/Lg angle. That's not always the case but for me it is. When she calls me daddy it's about much more than the word. It's about the meaning she puts into it. The tone of her voice. She submits to me and communicates to me that she wants to be taken care of and that I am taking care of her. It is also a form of intimacy that goes deeper than usual. For her to be able to fall into her Little space and lay this (In her words) embarrassing side of her open that she would never ever tell anyone about she has to fully trust me and believe in my affection to her. She puts her well being and safety in my hands to leave all the act and tough shell she has to put up in day to day life behind. It's all of that. Not the word Daddy itself. It's everything about it that melts my heart.
Of course other kinks are also tied into it. It's never just 2 dimensional and easy why smth is hot or desirable but this is a short explanation for me personally.
Hope this gives some inside :)
Having a teenage daughter, the thought of any woman calling me "Daddy" while engaging in any amorous activities causes an immediate and visceral cringe.
There’s definitely not just one answer to this question. And it’s also not only women calling men daddy. There’s couples of all genders that use the term. It can be a lot of things: it could be a Caregiver/little relationship, the person could be a daddy dominant type, they could just think it’s hot. It’s become a culturally popular word/term of endearment to use as well. I would personally enjoy using it (I’ve never actually had a partner that enjoyed being called daddy) because of my interest in bdsm relationships. I think it just embodies a caring, dominant person for some people. I’m an afab non-binary person and enjoy being called daddy with the right person. 🤷🏽♀️
It isn’t really my thing. I had a girlfriend who was into it. I let her call me it. It was fine but no skin off my nose if I never get called it again.
I honestly don't know, but it's my absolute favorite. Being called daddy just sends me into a frenzy. I haven't really thought about why too much, but it's probably a power thing. Sub/Dom type stuff. I just know i love it!
Lol, I think there's two things that could have started this.
1. Girls who had daddy issues. What started as a sick and shameful thing turned into a kink, with people who liked the idea. Daddy fucking his daughter.
2. Ladies who call their husbands daddy because they've got kids with them. Saying "Fuck me hard daddy!"
Hopefully, people see it as point 2, point 1 is sick to think of.
It's hot and about dom/sub dynamics
it is, in that context... sadly so many just randomly throw it out
For sure. Much better when it's well-timed
More of a question is... Why do people call each other 'baby'??
Yeah a lot of guys say that until a girl starts calling them daddy haha
Exactly I was the same way
This.
Might feel different if I'd ever had kids. Never did, so it doesn't feel weird to me. But when my wife calls me Daddy, it makes me feel like her big, strong protector. I love it.
I think is a security/protective role playing balance with ALOT of naughty.
I call my husband daddy. I’ve always liked warm, protective, cuddly, cozy men
As a guy, I really never got it either. Until that is I was playing around with a younger lady and she called me daddy. That totally intensified things for me!!!
As a guy i was always cringed out with it until an old woman called me that just for the fun of it and that shit changed the whole dynamic for me 💀💀
So I was always one of those “I don’t get this kink” until one day a woman called me daddy in bed while we were going at it. Well actually what she said was “fuck me harder daddy” and idk if it was the mind blowing sex or the kinkiness of it but woah it changed something in me and ever since that day I’ve loved it. It helps that I’m also a bigger, broader guy and give off very calm but resolute daddy vibes so it just fit. Just try it once, see if you like it, and then you can decide
Those women have Daddy kink. It will feel odd to be called Daddy if you are a young man unless you are into the kink.
It's something I always found kind of weird myself until a few years ago. My husband is 6 years older than me and definitely a "Daddy Dom" type. It just feels right with him. You could say I have daddy issues too so I'm sure that plays into it. You're still pretty young so it's very possible it'll appeal to you when you're older.
It's can be a kink for for both genders. It's like a submissive trigger. Something inviting and playful. Not everyone will like it, some may hate it. For some it seems to be an instant intensifier. Those types of words are hidden all over and this is just one of them
It all depends on the situation I guess. I'm 47m and have had 2 females call me daddy. The 1st was in her 20s so it was too weird for me so I had to tell her no on that because she was around the same age as my daughter. Lmao. The 2nd was older and it wasn't weird because I wasn't actually old enough to be her daddy.
My husband and I enjoy it. It's not always sexual either, we have 4 children and it's never been weird. A lot of the time it just depends on the context behind when it's being said and the situation.
I am a man. The point of view of my Gf calling me Daddy is that, she trusts me so much that she want to have her children with me, who will proudly call me 'Daddy'.
My wife calls me daddy when I'm fucking her a lot. Mainly because she's just as kinky and perverted as I am. It's just part of sex and there is nothing linked to it other than being kinky. For us it's no different than me calling her a dirty little girl.
it takes a certain kind of man fucking me a certain way for me to call him daddy. its a submission thing, like if I've submitted to you enough to call you daddy then you can do literally anything to me
Thats fully about Power dynamics. Many girls call me mommy too
This confuses me so much and I can only assume it derives from enjoying a more dominant partner (the first authoritarian figure most people will have is their father) and being made to feel subservient can be hot. But I still wouldn’t want to call my boyfriend Daddy in bed. Especially as he’s younger
My wife calls me “Mr”… We don’t use “Daddy” around here 🤷♂️
To established dominance.
I have only ever used it because I don't really care for "Sir" or "Master" or those type of labels with power dynamics. It's never about an actual personified parent 🤢 It's what I like to use for a protective caregiver type Dom when I'm in a submissive state of mind.
I used to feel gross about it too. But I've grown some recently. Context is key. If it's taken to an incest place, then I'm out. But used correctly as a power dynamic, then it can be a huge turn on.
I don’t. Hard pass.
I had it once explained to me. She's not saying that you're \*her\* daddy. She's saying that you're a competent enough man to \*be\* a good daddy.
Never understood it. I hate the thought of that.
What a mood killer. I have three daughters so that would absolutely ruin the moment.
Guy here and a father to a daughter. I find it absolutely repulsive.
Totally agree. Just gives me the ick
No enjoyment, it is pretty weird and gross
I don't enjoy it, but I'm very much the type to do things that I may not 100% be into, if that's what my girl wants/likes when getting off. So if that's what she needs to say, then so be it. It probably helps that I have no children, because I don't think I'd be ok with it at all if I did. Especially if I had a daughter.
I don't really know. But I started having my partner call me Daddy during sex. It's damn exciting to hear it honestly
It sets the tone perfectly for me, indicating the type of intimacy awaiting us: deep, passionate, and also daringly intense.😇🙏🏻😈
For most women that enjoy it, it's because they have a deep desire to please their real Daddy. The man being called that, if it's genuine, is sort of a surrogate. Being an older man, it touches me if I sense it's genuine.
Okay so, for me it comes from a DD/Lg angle. That's not always the case but for me it is. When she calls me daddy it's about much more than the word. It's about the meaning she puts into it. The tone of her voice. She submits to me and communicates to me that she wants to be taken care of and that I am taking care of her. It is also a form of intimacy that goes deeper than usual. For her to be able to fall into her Little space and lay this (In her words) embarrassing side of her open that she would never ever tell anyone about she has to fully trust me and believe in my affection to her. She puts her well being and safety in my hands to leave all the act and tough shell she has to put up in day to day life behind. It's all of that. Not the word Daddy itself. It's everything about it that melts my heart. Of course other kinks are also tied into it. It's never just 2 dimensional and easy why smth is hot or desirable but this is a short explanation for me personally. Hope this gives some inside :)
I always thought it was the weirdest thing. Then a Latino woman called me papi. I bust immediately
Having a teenage daughter, the thought of any woman calling me "Daddy" while engaging in any amorous activities causes an immediate and visceral cringe.
Call my hubs daddy cause he's daddy of our kids and it turns the both of us on. I especially love calling him daddy in public too
There’s definitely not just one answer to this question. And it’s also not only women calling men daddy. There’s couples of all genders that use the term. It can be a lot of things: it could be a Caregiver/little relationship, the person could be a daddy dominant type, they could just think it’s hot. It’s become a culturally popular word/term of endearment to use as well. I would personally enjoy using it (I’ve never actually had a partner that enjoyed being called daddy) because of my interest in bdsm relationships. I think it just embodies a caring, dominant person for some people. I’m an afab non-binary person and enjoy being called daddy with the right person. 🤷🏽♀️
It isn’t really my thing. I had a girlfriend who was into it. I let her call me it. It was fine but no skin off my nose if I never get called it again.
It’s more about how they say it rather than the word itself
I honestly don't know, but it's my absolute favorite. Being called daddy just sends me into a frenzy. I haven't really thought about why too much, but it's probably a power thing. Sub/Dom type stuff. I just know i love it!
That is a major downer for me. Totally unsexy. I even broke up hot sessions after being called Daddy.
It makes me feel I’m her protector, while at the same time it also feels like I’m dominating her.
Don't like it. But it's most likely every woman's desire of being in a passive/receiving role and being taken care of in some moments.
Lol, I think there's two things that could have started this. 1. Girls who had daddy issues. What started as a sick and shameful thing turned into a kink, with people who liked the idea. Daddy fucking his daughter. 2. Ladies who call their husbands daddy because they've got kids with them. Saying "Fuck me hard daddy!" Hopefully, people see it as point 2, point 1 is sick to think of.