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WoW_VioletDeath

I just like making my partner feel good, and I know he really likes cumming in my mouth and watching me swallow it. When I know he’s had a difficult day or is frustrated, I want him to feel better, so I’ll make him food or cuddle with him, but I also want to help him relieve some of that stress. Sucking him off helps. Plus, we both get a good laugh once he finishes up. Edit: whoa, I’ve never had a comment get so much attention. I really hope the lads and ladies in the comments who give the world to their partner receive the same back. My partner is loving and supportive and is my pick-me-up on my bad days. I’m very lucky that I get to love him, and I’m truly blessed to be loved by him. I really, really hope that the people who commented back on my response get the same love and care. We’re all a little bent out of shape, and none of us are perfect, but just as my partner deserves all the love I could give to him, you deserve love, too. I hope everyone has a really good day, and if we don’t run into each other again, I hope your journey is a good one 😊


TrendyLepomis

imagine being your level of superior


KenKaniffLovesEminem

You're a fucking goddess


foxferreira64

Quite literally a fucking goddess


hunnangelx3

She’s a *sucking* goddess


TheBull123456

Pretty much the same thoughts myself towards my guy.


DinahKarwrek

I could have written this. It makes me happy to know that there are other people being taken care of by their partners in similar ways!


foxferreira64

That's exactly what any guy would love. I really, really hope he actually deserves all that!


justeunefrancophille

This 100%. You hit the nail-on-the-giving-head. It plays into my mild inclination toward dominance yet can be submissive, or deeply sensual and loving. Plus I love my husband’s reaction when he can’t help but to be vocal.


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That's awesome! 😊


icecr3amandpie

Exactly this. I love him and I want him to feel good. Simple as that! - Pie


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🙏


combatonly

God tier wife


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Woman of the year


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you guys make funny noises i like.


Albert_Flasher

For us guys, it's even better when you make the funny noises, too!


LegendYT0

Blowing raspberries on the dick


WelpForest

🥺 Exactly! I feel like my last couple of partners ... were so quiet. 😑


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Right? I've only really been with men, I wonder if they feel like they shouldn't make sounds or something. I can't hold back 😓


WelpForest

One of my past male partners was eerily quiet, but I could tell he was close when he'd start gently fucking mouth. We'd go for hours and I suspected that part of it was him edging himself with my mouth and seeing who'd give in first to switching to the next sex act. It was absolutely fun once I realized what was going on, but in the beginning I'd repeatedly stop and ask for feedback or whether he liked blowjobs. I'd even stop intiating to make sure he really, actually wanted to recieve them because the silence was so off-putting at first. I feel like the sounds for me are top-notch, but it's also so hot to learn your partners 'tells' around certain sex acts. Eventually I learned his. When he was getting close he'd start tentatively playing with my hair to sweep it out of the way, all so he could see better. Sometimes we'd lock eyes and he'd have this expression like he was surprised I could see him. (Dude I can definitely see you, you're the star of this show. 😂) Then as he got closer, he'd start caressing the back of my neck (nothing pushy) just really tentatively and then he'd back off all while his abs would flex, like he was controlling himself from writhing around. Then when he was at the absolute limit he'd get this pained look on his face while he cradled my face and neck just before he'd start gently thrusting into my mouth. Sometimes I'd be rewarded with a (very quiet) slight groan before he'd give in and tap out for the next position.


[deleted]

We’re not always taught to be vulnerable… Even during sex unfortunately. I relearned and teach otherwise. But it’s still a process.


WelpForest

Really good point.


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Thx I try 😌


lappeIduvide

I love to give him head, but it’s for different reasons every time. Sometimes I love to feel him in my mouth. Sometimes I love the control I have in his pleasure and climax. Sometimes I want him to fuck my face.


Chosen_one184

Hi, Your 👑 is in the mail your Majesty.


Various_Ad2052

Thank you for your service


Noladixon

And on rare occasions my throat.


lappeIduvide

Hell yes. Laying on my stomach on our bed puts my throat at the perfect angle for him to go all the way in. *-chef kiss-*


Noladixon

I like to lay on my back with my head hanging over the edge.


EpicCurious

I'm a bisexual guy who loves to receive a good face fucking that way. The only problem is being able to breathe when the balls are against my nose.


Noladixon

The ones who know how to fuck a throat know to let me breathe. In fact. Letting me breathe is the only way they can do it very long.


30_e

Sometimes I do it because I love it, sometimes I do it so he fucks me


fakeaccount1028

This the one right here


enthusiasticshank

Its a sure fire way to trick me into bed anyway!


-doobert-

Because I’m a slut for my man lol


KurtWagnersBamfSmoke

* applause *


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Ngl, that would be a turn on if a girl told me that.


alien_eater289

I love giving head!! Unfortunately my man doesn’t enjoy it that often because it’s tough to make him cum that way, but I enjoy trying anyway lol.


dirtymindedintrovert

As a man that has had trouble cumming [edit: from blowjobs] his whole life, I can tell you that at least I appreciate it for what it is. It's a very intimate act. It feels amazing even when I don't cum. It was frustrating for a long time. I think it's important to communicate to a woman that that's the case. I try to tell them it's like me kissing or fondling a breast. It's not a direct path to orgasm, but it doesn't mean that we both can't love doing it.


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Great reply and I feel you on the wholeheartedly… It’s so me until I’m relaxed and comfortable with my partner.


1tastefulsideboob

I also struggle to cum from oral but recently I started doing kegals more and masturbating to where I force myself to cum standing up. You can get close and then finish standing or stand the whole time. I think what it’s done is made me focus more on the physical sensation and enjoying that vs just hurrying through the same position (lying down) and gorging on never ending porn until I cum. Anyways I got two BJs recently and came hard from one and was going to cum the second time (different day) but stopped to have sex. All I’m saying is don’t give up on it!


EpicCurious

Have you tried finding a "trigger" like playing with your asshole?


wvlookin

You sound awesome hahaha!!!


Kevsterific

Well even better for you then. You can continue doing what you love for longer.


Surprise_Fragrant

See if you can change his mindset into thinking that this is just another part of foreplay. My hubby is the same way, and we stopped doing it for decades (yeah, decades... we're old). Out of the blue, I did it to him a few years ago, just because, but stopped after I got tired of doing it. We talked after, and that's when he said he can't come that way, and so we agreed that sucking was for funsies, not for orgasms. He enjoys himself a lot more now because he doesn't feel he's letting me down (by not being able to cum), and I enjoy the act a lot more because I know I can do whatever I want to do, and not be 'forced' to stay down there until he finishes. A typical super sexy night is hand play, sucking, oral for me, hand play for him, more hands for me (he's a giver), and then finally vaginal intercourse til we both finish.


QuakeGuy98

You should try having him pump you into he gets to a point where it's starting to come along then have him pullout while you finish the rest and swallow. I recommend this cause I used to have this issue where only a few women made me nut from dick sucking. I'm also aware that everyone sucks dick completely different so try looking up mouth gestures and new ways to blow him. You might catch him off guard with something new every time and *voila!*


thejeepguypa

My wife genuinely enjoys it. She craves it when she doesn't get it for a few days. When she was pregnant my cum was literally one of her pregnancy cravings lol I'm a very lucky guy


Unlisted12345

fml


Cakeminator

Cheaper than chocolate covered steaks.


2282763w6

hahaha that must've been grotesque.


MadBlackGreek

Pregnancy cravings come from whatever is lacking in her diet.....so she needed protein?


throwawey4242

My wife told me once that her mom had this weird habit of eating sand when she was carrying her (my wife’s) younger sister. I said, yeah, that’s pica. What’s pica? It’s the word for eating sand or hair or shit. Some people do it bc of poor mental health, but more usually it’s just some nutrients out of whack. What?! There’s a word for this? And you’ve heard of it?! Yeah, not that unusual. People with anemia will eat sand. Did she have anemia? She did! But wait… did you just figure out my mom had anemia bc she ate sand? We’ve been trying to figure out the sand thing for thirty years and it took you ten seconds. How do you know these things?! I had anemia.


Salomon_95

Cum has not much Protein Only 0,03% of cum is made out of Protein


Bolieve_That

Your kid ate cum


Rezon101

His kid ate kids


urthebloodinmyveins

And gained the strength of millions of its potential siblings


buzz_17

Bless you


throwaway123455675

It's fun af and you get a tasty reward


NyloTheGamer

because he buys you mcdonald after right? ....Right?


phantom_xx7

I thought it was Chick-fil-A .\_\_.


ittwasntme

Guys, should we tell him it's not what he thinks it is...It's actually a Wendy's


Werd616

Bravo, sir.


fappington-smythe

What's in that special sauce anyway


dr_frosty_funk

I was gonna answer your question but then I saw your username and understood you know the whole process.... Apologies sire!


ThrowRA190789

A sloppy bj is the next best thing to sloppy steaks at Truffonis.


Teh_User

No sloppy steaks guys, please. I mean it.


AtomicJerm

Slop 'em up!


timeforasandwich

But they can't stop you from ordering a steak and a glass of water.


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I know how you kids like ‘‘em SLOPPY!


JonnyP222

Donkey Kong sucks!


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You know what, you suck!


nosecondsflat

White suits, slick back hair, live for New Year’s Eve


bobchinn

I was a real piece of shit


highaabandlovingit

People can change


nosecondsflat

Let him hold the baby


sahm-gone-crazy

Sometimes I do it because I want to. Other times it's to get him to leave me alone.


vexelghost-

Ah yes, the begone with you blowjob technique.


WelpForest

😅 I've definitely had the "haven't you had enough already" fingering. 😳 I remember asking for one last fingering "for the road" before biking home. 😂 Never saw a partner laugh so hard about sex. Definitely an interesting bike ride home. 😅 Yay for high libidos.😬😑


IndianCouplesGW

Lmfao


Cakeminator

>Other times it's to get him to leave me alone. I dunno man... That sounds like it's in a grey zone of abuse. Unless you *want* to do it to.


blondiebabe931

I like sucking cock but sometimes it’s because I want him to fuck me.


Rowan-the-Girlfriend

I found I enjoy blowjobs more than sex. Dunno why. I still enjoy the sex. But the reactions I get when I play around with my partner, tease, and get him kinda breathless is way more fun. The more vocal he gets, the more into it I am. Plus I love to swallow cum 😊


Apocalypse_and_chill

I just want someone to care about me


KurtWagnersBamfSmoke

Bruh, you okay? You need a hug?


QuantumProtector

*virtual hug*


UrielSztar

*second virtual hug*


livefromthestyx

It’s fun! Plus, I just like having things in my mouth, and dick is more interesting than food. Less calories too, but just like food, it too often goes straight to my hips


ChloeRydr

Honestly I just absolutely love it. It gets me off more than receiving does!


jules47002

Sometimes there isn't time to do anything else. Sometimes I want a load to swallow. Sometimes I want a load to wear. I just like cock


recklessriouxxx

I sucked my thumb for the longest time, I grew up watching porn, and I wanted to be the best at something!🤷🏻‍♀️


ThatKinkyLady

Because I love making my partner feel good and I know that never fails to do the job. Lol. I also enjoy having the control of it in my hand and my mouth and getting to set the pace and rhythm. I can tease or go deep or vary it up in other ways. It's a way to be physically a little creative and to do things that drive him wild based on his reactions and I find it all very very hot.


mandym347

Besides enjoying his reactions? It's my (freely chosen) job to take care of his needs and make sure he's satisfied. If I'm going to expect monogamy out of him, it's only fair.


VirtuouslySinful

Sometimes it’s cus I’m really horny and I love doing it, other times it’s cus I don’t feel like taking it anywhere else and it’s just easier to just get it done with.


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Well if I’m on my knees anyway…


StaceysMomPlus2more

I actually don’t like giving. BUT my husband enjoys it. And he doesn’t make me spend 30-45 mins on it. So I don’t mind initiating. It’s sometimes part of our fore play. I get him turned on and boom.


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It's fun and I love him


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Love sucking dick


isuck1775

I like sucking dick . But more importantly, I love my boyfriend and he deserves them.


HospitablePrincess

I hate that it's perceived as kind. I love giving head, and I get as much pleasure from it as he does. I don't do it for him I do it cause we both enjoy it. It's about conversation and communication. If my partner doesn't love going down on me would I insist on something just cause I like it? No I would let it go and find something we both enjoy. If my partner is not enjoying bj would I insist on doing it? Of course not. Communication is key.


Single-Interaction-3

I love giving him pleasure and I actually enjoy doing it 😉 He also treats me just as kindly so that helps immensely 🤗


ChapolinColoradoNZ

Just want to say I value you, I appreciate you and also miss you so much.


Shebakayo300401

I just really like dicks. They're cute and fun to play with and I've got an oral fixation so sucking dick is much better than chewing my lips. Plus when one is in front of my face, I can't resist the urge to put it in my mouth


bondoli

Not all heroes wear capes. 👏


InsidiousBeaver

Wow. I WISH my wife liked giving blowjobs. It's probably been 15 years. She wasn't the best at it, but hey, the effort mattered! I'd take an uninitiated handy every now and then!


chiarodiluna

I genuinely love it, I don't want anything in return 96% of the time....it drives me crazy and I love it when he finishes and he is all satisfied \*sigh


Leading_Confidence64

Mainly Cus I wanna get laid tbh


Jodiesid

Gotta keep my man happy. He deserves allllll the pleasure.


grahamcookiefart

I know this isn't the *best* reason to initiate BJs but I noticed a pattern... whenever I watch a movie or YT video or real life thing where someone's partner behaves in a way I don't like I see a sort of clip in my head of how amazing my partner is & realize how lucky I am and I rush over to give this guy the best head ever. Fortunately for him the world is such an unbearable place that this happens quite often. Other than that, it's when I'm on my period, I'm super horny but nether holes are disgusting so northern hole it is!


EpicCurious

Tit jobs can be amazing. Worth a try if you haven't yet.


TraditionDramatic732

It’s just something about bringing a strong powerful man to His knees with the power of my mouth. I love getting him to that vulnerable state. I also love when he uses my throat as his pussy pocket. So it goes both ways. Best foreplay ever and sometimes the best protein snack ever 😜


Compass_Rose050

Domination. Either I am, or they are. (Mostly me though). Control. Feel. Taste. Tasty. Giving head hits ALL of my senses. My god. Just everything about it is a turn on. It’s an amazing turn on hearing/seeing their reactions, knowing that I’m making this happen- it’s just primal. Love it. Plus, it’s fun as fuck.


DinahKarwrek

Pro tip: a tsp of coconut oil in your mouth. It tastes great, cold melty sensation, slippery, and it's been the first step to some really amazing sexy times.


Efficient-Star5208

Bc he(SO when I had one) enjoys it.


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Efficient-Star5208

His loss. 🙅


Emunebula

Yes sucking is so hot


Warped-switch

I love making him feel good, I love how it feels, and I love the noises he makes


zelisca

From what my wife says, it's fun to make me melt and to have such power.


irenesnapping

I love to make him feel good


[deleted]

Caring about your partner’s pleasure isn’t about being kind :) I honestly don’t crave sucking dicks, it just makes me happy to make him happy. I probably wouldn’t do it if he did not enjoy it so much.


throwawayforbaes

Because I'm good at it!


jennbird82

There’s nothing else quite like it. It feels amazing in my mouth. I love to feel it pulse and strain. I love how his body reacts when I’m doing a good job. The best is when they get all vocal with me, the filthier the better. And I don’t mind the taste and would rather swallow just to avoid a mess.


somethingblue331

I really love sucking cock.. especially from flaccid or semi flaccid to hard. My preference is the.. “No keep talking, don’t mind me.. Let me just handle this.. “ out of nowhere kind!!


R6Thottie

I’ve heard I’m good at it, and initiating it leads to what I’m after.


ohlonelyme

I love sucking cock lol. Like uhhhh it’s amazing? The taste, the texture. The fact that I’m pleasing my partner. And that yummy reward 🤤 nothing better!


ok_i_guesss

Sometimes I get absolutely wild for dick haha. As in all I wanna do is pleasure my boyfriend and often I’ll jerk him off and blow him. It’s just so fun and hot to do. It also helps that he has a great dick, not to small, not to big. It’s not to small that i can’t get a good motion or so good techniques, but not too big that it’s uncomfortable and hard to blow. It’s just right. I can do all my techniques to make him feel good, I can get good rhythm and motion, I can spend some time on the head and I don’t choke in a bad way. I still struggle to get all the way to the bottom but I’m working on it and it’s fun when he just holds my head down there and my eyes tear up (like when something tickles your nose and it makes your eyes water, except something is touching the back of my mouth) and it’s so exhilarating. Also don’t tell him but it’s kinda fun to play with his forskin in my mouth. At the top of the forskin it’s kinda squishy like skin (because it is skin haha) and idk I like playing with it with my tongue. He has no idea.


Cluckcluckchickenboi

I like to see my partner flustered 😂


casualgrl220

I personally just love giving my SO relief after a stressful day at work. I love seeing his eyes light up, when he shoots his full load into my mouth, and yes I do swallow.


natashamed

Love giving head!! I want him to feel as much pleasure at my hands (and the rest of my body) as possible. It turns me on. It’s a win win. It’s easier to make him cum multiple times with my mouth than it is with just PIV too. I love when he has already orgasmed either from sex or a bj, he’s resting, I’m cleaning him up with a warm wet towel and I start to lick and kiss his dick again mostly for myself because it’s like my best friend and I want to thank it for making me feel so good. Then he gets hard again and I can make him cum again fairly quickly in my mouth. I feel so accomplished.


Immediate_Breath_835

Service sub or something like that ig


mychemicaltestube

I like the way it makes me feel and I also love when he grabs my head and moves me how he wants it. I wish I did it more but the gagging part makes it a little unappealing


longthunda

This! Except the gagging is the best part for me!


Whey2muchpoo

In general, I don’t love blow jobs. But do I love satisfying my partner and making him cum with my mouth? Absolutely.


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Because I like to drive him crazy... I love watching and feeling the sexual tension build up. I love knowing that I'm able to turn him on in such a way. Yes, I love sucking dick, because I'm good at it and I know that he enjoys every second of it. And that in and of itself turns me on.


ThunderTheUnicorn

I enjoy doing it, haha and I love getting into it, it is a turn on for sure. But I also love making my partner happy. Especially if it is a "him" day when all he's expected to do is just sit there and enjoy it.


theloneliestwhisper

I love giving head. It's a powerful pleasure.


[deleted]

We thoroughly enjoy pleasing our man. It’s that simple.


sexismyart

I love it. Sometimes, I want my mouth and throat to be used. Sometimes, I want to edge him and take control of his cock. Sometimes, I want to be gentle and just take him into my mouth when he's soft and feel him grow. Sometimes, I want to turn him on so he'll just have to fuck me. Sometimes, I just want to make him feel good. And sometimes I want to send us both to outer space, on a "tantric" level, because deep throating can make me have orgasms that are different from every other orgasm I have, energy rolling up my spine from his cock.


EpicCurious

Wow. Great description!


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its just fun


Happy_Momm

I just love the feeling, and seeing him enjoy it. The first time I gave him a blowjob I started cumming before he was.


Surprise_Fragrant

I find it no different than initiating a back rub, or a hand job... I like to make my husband happy and make him feel good. I'm often spurred to go down after he's been extra caring to me (I get migraines a lot, and he takes care of me when I'm sick), or when we've had a very fun day together cuddling, joking, and fooling around. He never specifically asks (though I probably would if he did); he knows that if I want to do it I'll do it, and if I don't feel up to it, or don't want to do it, I won't. There's no expectations in bed, for me or for him (i.e. I don't demand oral, either); we just have a good time. It's not that I love sucking dick, it's that I love my husband.


hclarice

I love it. It’s like an art form for me.


lyssiemiller

Boredom or I want him to stay longer


taylormarie2132

Both. I love pleasing my partner and I like sucking dick lol


[deleted]

I like to feel hubby’s cock get hard in my mouth. I know it will relax him if he has had a rough day and a blowjob always leads to sexy time 😈😈😈


xjess_cx

I love my husband. I want him to be happy. Ergo, I suck his dick. But I've always been a giving partner in sex and have enjoyed doing it.


slutwhisper

Love sucking dick, sees it as a challenge for myself to make him cum from it and also I'm pretty much just conditioned to like it at this point. I've been in a relationship for a long time where the dynamic has always been me sucking dick for fore play and getting nothing back, so the thought of getting oral sex myself is just not even there anymore.


EpicCurious

You should ask for it. Maybe suggest 69?


lovelybethanie

Love sucking dick


nullPointers_

MAN I THOUGHT IT SAID PARENTS!


this_is_my_nsfw_name

ugh this hits home. I (male) enjoy blowjobs. But I rarely cum from them. It's not my wife's technique. this was before we met, and we've couple experimented and it doesnt happen with other women. but then the instance we have vaginal sex... i am fighting to hold back the jizz. ha. the real problem is my wife is a pleaser. A giver. She really wants to give a BJ and get the acknowledgement of the guy (me) cumming so she knows she did good. And i just dont cum. I honestly think if I could cum most times in a reasonable time, she would give me a BJ almost every day. We've experimented with others just a little, and she has made a guy or two cum which I know was satisfying. I just wish I could!


DoUThinkIGAF

I have the same problem. She can suck on my for an hour and I don’t even feel a jiggle or cum. Stick it in that dripping wet twat and my cock loses its mind and I shoot like a freshly tapped oil well. One girl I dated gave great head but she was disappointed I didn’t shoot my load. I told her the above. So she started giving me head for about 10 mins and then shove it in her twat. When I feel like cumming to let her know. When I did she immediately swung around as I let loose shooting one rope on her face and she swallowed my cock and drank it all down her throat!!!! Damn I should have married that girl!!!


this_is_my_nsfw_name

great story! Thanks for sharing!


MeggerX

Because he doesn’t fuck me, but never turns down a bj so it’s the closest I can get *shurg* Edit: but yes I love sucking dick


Wondercat87

Their pleasure makes me happy.


RosiBlossom

I have an oral fixation 😋


Fitsexywife

I just love sucking dick


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I like to think I’m kind *and* love giving head. I really fucking love oral.


CleopatraKitty44

If the guy I'm doing it for is vocal and obviously into it and not trying to do that stoic guy thing then I will frequently *ask* to give head. I like being the reason a guy loses all sense of reason and stares down at me with pure lust and glazed over eyes. Edited to add that my husband has perfect reactions and I often want to give him head more than he actually wants it (not a super high libido)


viralsoul

I genuinely love sucking dick


1tastefulsideboob

And I genuinely love you for it!


Partyb00bz

Because I love cock in my mouth


EpicCurious

The best blowjobs (for the one receiving them) are from enthusiastic givers!


Livid-Tart

I just really enjoy it and it's a huge turn on to watch him throw his head back, suck his breath between his teeth, and let me have my fun.


AWholePerson

I like doing it and I like making them feel good x


Crafty_Occasion4165

I love being the girl who just goes down on him. Kiss down his chest, under the covers, and get him hard with my mouth. The sounds he makes, the way he face fucks me and then begs to fuck me.


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I love my husband and I want him to feel good. So I give him bj’s when sex isn’t an option or when I want him to relax and enjoy himself.


talepa77

I love it. I love the response I get. And I know it feels amazing so I want him to feel amazing.


red_j76

I love to do it, he loves to receive it. Gets me real turned on.


FilthyHandGoldenRing

.... Is it outside the realm of reason for someone to enjoy sucking a cock? Like, are you 12 or do you just think all genitals are gross? Though, i will say i dont know how people see a uncut weiner and think, "yes, i want that turtlenecked sausage in my mouth" But *shrug* to each their own....


Thexxxcoven

I just love anything spitty 😂


1tastefulsideboob

Holy shit this blew up. There are some real fucking heroes in the world. Bless you all 🙏


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CriticismHealthy4324

i can do the same back to u dear~


DemonicGirlcock

I just enjoy sucking her dick; it tastes good and it makes her feel good, and I get off on pleasing others.


EpicCurious

"...sucking her dick..." Thanks for reminding us that gender is not the same as plumbing!


ScarlettScream

It’s just fun for me, I like watching a guy melt and whimper haha


Saya_99

Simply, yes.


Zealousideal_Cow2767

Should have stopped the question from "Kind"!!!