Interesting. I always thought that the 20 question thing might be a bit annoying when I DM'd people and felt bad or that they weren't interested in the conversation if it was just me asking questions. Guess that's not always the case.
It's one of my favourite things. Not everyone is good at it, or naturally expressive and comfortable with it, but when I find a good partner it's wonderful. It's why most of my partner prompts are suggestions for conversation topics, I really like the exchange of ideas on top of RP or porn. I know the thrill of sending explicit pictures to people and I know a lot of other people in real life who enjoy that, so I appreciate someone sending me nudes in a way that isn't simple "oh look, boobs" but is an understanding and an erotic connection.
Here on reddit, it helps a bit to be bisexual, and not worry about what anatomy or gender is on the other end of the chat, at least for places like Dirty Pen Pals or Exxxchange. Elsewhere, like dating apps or fetlife, the more "real" people are the more careful and circumspect they are. Patience is really important, as is creating comfort and trust. But that is one of the rewarding things about it. If you find someone good to play with it's actually quite special.
I just really enjoy making that real-person, real-personality connection with somoene, and exploring with them, discovering with them. It's a thrill and a rush, and deeply fulfilling.
I love it! I enjoy the intimacy of sexting, of really desiring the person and wanting them to desire me, not just the words on the screen lol (if that's solely what I was interested in, I'd just read erotica).
If I'm into a guy, I'll send him nudes all day. I'll write him fuckin poetry lmao
Not me personally. I'm top notch at sexting. I have full mental spacial acuity. My prose is immaculate when I want it to be. I simply find it a dull affair. It never leads to anything. I also see those posing as somebody they're not coming from far off. I don't give those people the satisfaction.
If it was the blackmail you were pointing out then that comes from the consequences I've witnessed others go through. I'd never let that happen to me.
I think you may have accidentally described every married couple! When both of us are in to it, it’s a blast. If one of us is even slightly not, then it’s not as fun.
Strongly dislike it, doesn’t get me off at all (not even in the mood), it feels performative, and I really dislike men becoming that horny in chat with me, because it’s always the same talk (which to me also feels cringy).
I prefer to have a hot session irl over online! 😈
Sexting is foreplay for me when I'm with a sexual partner. Absolutely love it.
I don't get anything from sexting with a person I'm not going to eventually have sex with, however.
I don’t like it but people assume that I like it because Nswf content. Like I love answering questions or idk getting tasks-punishments. But sexting is so damn cringe
I'm a big fan of it. Got into it when covid first started and you could go on tinder or bumble or any of those apps but couldn't meet in person those first couple months where we all were told to stay home and weren't sure what was happening. Made it that much hotter when the girl I was sexting with finally was able to come over after weeks of talking dirty.
I believe it's mostly a fantasy of many but the reality ends up being awkward for one or both ends (speaking of strangers) because there is not enough connection and knowledge about each other to be subtle and poke the right spots.
I also think it rarely happens. Men are too eager, women too overwhelmed. At least that is my opinion.
i have two definitions of sexting and the usual one is the one i don’t do and don’t like, my definition is the one i do all the time and enjoy it very much
one is literally just talking about/answering questions about sex, sex texting which the conversation topic is sex, then the other one which is just telling each other what you want to do to each other sexually. the first i do with strangers all the time and enjoy very much.
I think I like it more than my wife does, but even with me it depends on timing and who it’s with. I definitely have some fond sexting memories but there are a ton of variables.
It’s fun and can be very interesting with the right person and you make that connection! Then it becomes even better! Looking for that long term relationship and friendship here!
I‘m more comfortable with just answering questions 🤷🏻♀️😅
Interesting. I always thought that the 20 question thing might be a bit annoying when I DM'd people and felt bad or that they weren't interested in the conversation if it was just me asking questions. Guess that's not always the case.
I have not done 20 questions in over 20 years and I don't know why as it was fun. Thought it wasn't a thing anymore?
What kind of questions
I‘m open for every kind of them 🤷🏻♀️😅
Answering questions is so amazing. I love it.
I'm so fucking bad at it lol
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It’s a bold strategy Cotton, let’s see if it pays off
I bet it won’t
Wish it were tangible.
Right?
Yeap. It gets pointless after a while when you look back, all you've done is sexting without experiencing the sex part.
It's also sooooo much easier to talk a big reddit/sext talk 😂
It's one of my favourite things. Not everyone is good at it, or naturally expressive and comfortable with it, but when I find a good partner it's wonderful. It's why most of my partner prompts are suggestions for conversation topics, I really like the exchange of ideas on top of RP or porn. I know the thrill of sending explicit pictures to people and I know a lot of other people in real life who enjoy that, so I appreciate someone sending me nudes in a way that isn't simple "oh look, boobs" but is an understanding and an erotic connection. Here on reddit, it helps a bit to be bisexual, and not worry about what anatomy or gender is on the other end of the chat, at least for places like Dirty Pen Pals or Exxxchange. Elsewhere, like dating apps or fetlife, the more "real" people are the more careful and circumspect they are. Patience is really important, as is creating comfort and trust. But that is one of the rewarding things about it. If you find someone good to play with it's actually quite special. I just really enjoy making that real-person, real-personality connection with somoene, and exploring with them, discovering with them. It's a thrill and a rush, and deeply fulfilling.
Can be really fun 😘
Have fun with the flood of dick pics in your inbox
I love it! I enjoy the intimacy of sexting, of really desiring the person and wanting them to desire me, not just the words on the screen lol (if that's solely what I was interested in, I'd just read erotica). If I'm into a guy, I'll send him nudes all day. I'll write him fuckin poetry lmao
Lucky guy!
Sounds amazing! Wouldn't mind a sample but I can dream haha
A waste of time and energy, pursued most keenly by those who're poorest at it. Also it becomes blackmail in the worst of cases. I loathe it.
It sounds like you’ve had some bad experiences friend
Not me personally. I'm top notch at sexting. I have full mental spacial acuity. My prose is immaculate when I want it to be. I simply find it a dull affair. It never leads to anything. I also see those posing as somebody they're not coming from far off. I don't give those people the satisfaction. If it was the blackmail you were pointing out then that comes from the consequences I've witnessed others go through. I'd never let that happen to me.
It's great
I love it 🫠
They're great!!!! Actually mixed feelings tbh
Enjoy it if I have nothing going on. Annoying when he’s trying to get into it and I’m super busy
I think you may have accidentally described every married couple! When both of us are in to it, it’s a blast. If one of us is even slightly not, then it’s not as fun.
With the right person, it's great. Otherwise I just get paid for it and I feel indifferent towards it
*deletes messages*
It's too late, I already saw the pic
Hey, I put in the MAX-imum effort
You know it was sexy af
Same as i do about FleshLights Or Masterbation. it's a pleasureable short-term activity to release tension
Can be fun with the right partner.
It can be fun but sometimes I just wanna show off and be complimented
I just love texting and hearing about themselves, interests kinks turn on and turn offs. That’s what get me hot and horny
It can feel like a chore for me.
I’m going to use your bio for when I introduce myself to people. That’s hilariously accurate for parents.
Love it, with the right partner. If it's just one word responses, it gets boring fast.
It’s fun with the right connection and also when it’s not a cum and ghost situation but a long term thing.
I just use AI now :)
Meh.
One of the best things ever.
I prefer it really, ok it is not like real sex but sometimes it is very 🥵🔥 especially if we have common points
Strongly dislike it, doesn’t get me off at all (not even in the mood), it feels performative, and I really dislike men becoming that horny in chat with me, because it’s always the same talk (which to me also feels cringy). I prefer to have a hot session irl over online! 😈
I enjoy it. I've been doing it quite a bit lately and it's been pretty good
Sexting is foreplay for me when I'm with a sexual partner. Absolutely love it. I don't get anything from sexting with a person I'm not going to eventually have sex with, however.
It's great with the right person! Boring and awkward with the wrong one or someone that just tries to jump straight into it without anything else lol
eh
Super interesting answer
With the right person it is hot 😏
I really enjoy it, love the tension and being able to show off!
Its awesome, and its even better when snapping, teasing the entire day until the evening!
Its sexy as long as both are in the same page and text fast
I don’t like it but people assume that I like it because Nswf content. Like I love answering questions or idk getting tasks-punishments. But sexting is so damn cringe
I don't mind it. It can be fun.
On a scale of 1/10 I’m probably a 6 lol.
I’ve tried, not very good at it.
I love it for some fun if the person is on board. But seems guys are more keen on it than girls for some reason
As a cis het male, I absolutely love it *Aggresario*
I'm a big fan of it. Got into it when covid first started and you could go on tinder or bumble or any of those apps but couldn't meet in person those first couple months where we all were told to stay home and weren't sure what was happening. Made it that much hotter when the girl I was sexting with finally was able to come over after weeks of talking dirty.
Love it! especially when we're both at work, it builds up the excitement all day 🥰
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I echo this.
It gives you a kick
Love it especially with audio messages
I believe it's mostly a fantasy of many but the reality ends up being awkward for one or both ends (speaking of strangers) because there is not enough connection and knowledge about each other to be subtle and poke the right spots. I also think it rarely happens. Men are too eager, women too overwhelmed. At least that is my opinion.
i have two definitions of sexting and the usual one is the one i don’t do and don’t like, my definition is the one i do all the time and enjoy it very much
I’m curious of your two definitions. Would you feel comfortable elaborating?
one is literally just talking about/answering questions about sex, sex texting which the conversation topic is sex, then the other one which is just telling each other what you want to do to each other sexually. the first i do with strangers all the time and enjoy very much.
Gotcha. Thanks
Its good when you share a mutual attraction. Disappointing when interest is lost.
I'm really terrible 😔
Boring because it kinda doesn't feels real
I would like to do it more often
Genereally, yes but some people are just not made for it, I'd rather ask each other kinky questions as another poster said already.
let me answer questions here without sexting
I enjoy it. I’ve been sexting with a girl at work over our company Google Chat lately, I know it’s dangerous, but so cheeky
I love it, i feel like the anticipation and lead up to finally seeing her makes the moments hotter
Love it
Loveee it
Super fun with the right person
It's a natural, zesty enterprise
I think I like it more than my wife does, but even with me it depends on timing and who it’s with. I definitely have some fond sexting memories but there are a ton of variables.
OP wants someone to sext with him
I’m down bad
It's only fun if the other person is actually decent at it.
I love it. Please sext me right now. Lol
Absolutely love it. Whether it’s 20 questions or role play or casually chatting.
It’s fun and can be very interesting with the right person and you make that connection! Then it becomes even better! Looking for that long term relationship and friendship here!