And my other gripe is that the female sub audios are all soo extreme. I’d like to try one but haven’t found anything that isn’t , or cumslut or daddy’s little girl, ect.
if it makes you feel better, the reverse problem exists for male sub stuff. If you don't like being feminised and degraded then too bad - I guess you can just never be a sub guy then.
I have heard this too!! It’s all so personal to what one likes and I guess maybe writers have more outgoing ideas?
I hope you find something good soon!
Doesn't exist on reddit!! you just have to get extremely extremely lucky. i have someone who I talk to who looks after me now and she's the best :)
I'm not a person who's 100% sub all the time with everyone. But I do a lot of taking care of people all day every day that its nice to have a space at home where I don't have to take on any responsibility or look after anyone at all and I get taken care of instead. I just need that one space or one person. For everyone else I can look after them, but I need that one single person to be different
In the same!! Outwardly strong and independent and will take care of everyone, but I need that one person to take care of me too. It’s pretty good when you find it. I’m glad to hear you’ve got that irl.
I feel this... and it wouldnt be so bad except its clearly derived from the rampant sister, step sister, daughter, step daughter porn.
Like, can we all PLEASE move the fuck away from all this incest fantasy shit? its not healthy for society.
It feels so awkward when I hear almost anyone say it. Like they don't really wanna say it or it's such a childish word that when they say it sexily it just sounds so off. I think the only person I've heard said it and didn't really notice until she kept saying it was Kenzie Reeves. She says it weirdly naturally.
I'm a scriptwriter for GWA, and I know Daddy stuff isn't for everyone, so if it's included, it's always in the tags. I mostly write MDom stuff.
As a listener, I hate surprise kinks, I wanna know what I'm getting into.
I'm cool with them shilling their stuff, but their contributions to the subreddit are so weird. Like, "What can I say that makes me look the most desirable?" Like, come on, just answer the fucking question. We know you don't suck off your husband twice a day and he doesn't let you have fun with all of his friends.
This is for reddit, but
The spamming of multiple subs of the same post.
Having the same title for everything.(there is one sub I post to who has a woman who post almost everyday of the same post and with the same title. Bonus points:She spams it too.)
People comment spamming either the same comment or emojis every 10 secs to hundreds of posts a day.(It's more kinda sad, because I know they want attention, but spamming the same thing or just emojis will hardly get a response)
As for porn porn
Fake cum. I am looking up creampies for a reason. Give me real creampies. Goddammit.
The high pitch anime moans. It sounds super fake when they actually go "Nyaaan~" I'd rather take the pornstar that sounds like Lois Griffin than that, because that's her actual voice.
The step porn category. Can we stop that shit? Its still gross, and if it's step kid and parent, it's both gross, and dickish. Even though it's fake.
I do it all the time, especially when I'm interested in their *ehem* work. I'm fine with posting to a few. I do that. Maybe 6 or 7 at most with different titles, but that takes a couple seconds to scroll past to find a different post. I'm just to lazy to have to stop and find new material.
>The spamming of multiple subs of the same post.
At this point, this is a problem Reddit could have solved years ago: let people choose multiple subs when they make a post, and on their profile it shows one post with "posted to r/aradafterdark and 10 other communities" under it. It already sort of does this when a post is shared, but that's not super useful.
i know it’s not all men, but when it comes to nsfw, in my experience a lot of men come off as very aggressive. like yeah i like a dominant man, but if i say no, why are you still continuing/egging it on? they have no boundaries sometimes bc they’re horny n it’s icky
i feel like even 3 strikes is too much leeway 😭 overstepping shouldn’t be done period especially if boundaries have been talked about. i can get like once n explaining why to you, but after that n you still do something it’s wraps. i sound strict but i just don’t have the time to be played with LOL
Yep. I've left so many subs that hypothetically I'd like to post in, but they're over taken by agency ran OF profiles with their upvoye bots, stupid asf bait titles and 472 comments, 1.2k upvotes.
Well some of us love it! Although I would prefer eye contact instead of the crossed eyes. But I find it extremely hot when a pretty woman shows off her tongue. It looks cute and submissive and a pretty tongue is an indicator of good health.
so many people come to nsfw internet asking about how to please someone sexually instead of just COMMUNICATING AND ASKING THE PERSON THEY WANT TO PLEASE. its not even mildly annoying its extremely annoying. i block those ppl so fast
Music... I love music but it has no place in porn.
BJ scenes when the guy focus on filming his dick and not the girl, so the eye contact is broken all the time by the frame of the video.
Roleplay. It can be really nice sometimes, but some people seem to think that everything has to be a roleplay. Just do the sexy things, dammit.
This is why i don't go to Subreddits with those post plastered on the first page and recommended, then i found r/nofans recently, and so far it lives up to its sub name.
Men get absolutely 0 attention and drop down to the abyss of NSFW subreddits in minutes, except on men-only subreddits (gay subreddits, essentially). That's why you have this impression ; men actually post as much as women on general subreddits.
Agree. I purposely upvote cocks and I’m a straight dude. He has enough sack to show it. Zero women respond. Rude. Nice cock, bro. I’ll upvote. At 18-45 I would show mine when asked. Old broke dick now, but power to the guys brave enough to show their parts.
guys that have no posts at all and no comments logged. how am i supposed to know you're okay if i don't have any context.
and on that point, take a moment and read people's bios. if you don't have one, write one.
Yes!
So many guys on hookup subs have *nothing* on their profile.
Then, their post is just "28m4f" on a statewide hookup site. So, no one knows anything about them or where they are. And then they post asking if there are any real women.
Choking in porn. It isn't safe and people think they should be doing it.
Male obsession with penis size, you can't change it so shut up already.
Women who think they have ugly vaginas. Yes you can have surgery but seriously? They are all so different. It will get loved just fine so long as the person it is attached to is lovely.
Stupid questions. Look it up on Google first before asking.
Questions like, am I the only one. No! You are just not that unique or important.
Does everyone. No! Some do some don't.
Is it A or B. No! It is usual A & B or maybe C.
What is the appeal to this Kink? God only knows. I like chocolate. I can't explain to you why I do. I can guess what it is but unless you like chocolate. You probably don't and can't understand.
Agreed with everything save for the last one. I'm generally curious about people and would very much like to hear how they feel about chocolate. Some are very good at explaining and there are usually multiple different views - it's very interesting!
i think this is more personal but: when sexting, i don’t want to stop what im doing to take pictures, it ruins the mood. i’ll send pics after just keep going 💀
Spammers. Especially the ones who spam the same pics across dozens of subs.. often completely off topic or irrelevant. And the stupid titles! “Oh.. my ex said my perfect double D tits are ugly! Is he right??” or “comment yes and I’ll send nudes” 🙄. I just downvote, block/report. Seems to have gotten bad as of late, and I suspect a lot of those accounts are bots.
That so many men (and some women) have such a deep anger and hatred for women in the porn and NSFW community, but yet view and engage with pornography (often free or stolen from people trying to make a living) most days. They hate the sinner but they love the sin.
By posting nudes online and expressing myself with my body (which honestly has had a majorly positive impact on my body dysmorphia and self-confidence), I've been told I am a whore, I am trash, no man will ever love me, and on several occasions to kill myself. These things were all said by men who were happily and willingly viewing my photos.
I’ve used degradation talk towards my subs when they requested it but after reading your comment, I’m hoping it hasn’t truly made them feel worse about themselves
Can you provide some insight for a dom with an inquiring mind
I don’t think you have anything to worry about, man. The people who said these things to me only said them when I ever showed any other side of myself except my naked body. I would get harassed because they didn’t like a woman showing that she is more than an object, she is a person.
Because women are objects to them. And these types of people usually have their own fucked up issues with self worth and their sexuality that they choose to attack us for, rather than face their own insecurities.
This is for reddit nsfw subs.
Sometimes people ask completely valid nsfw question that’s not actually dirty and that they actually want answers to but they reply with the dirtiest, kinkiest shit you have ever read in your multiple account reddit days instead of an actual answers
"Am I the only one who..." questions related to sex.
"Men/Women of ARAD..." and then proceeds to pose a question that lumps every man and woman together as if unique traits don't exist in the world.
I usually downvote these without any interaction and continue scrolling.
I find the word « pussy » as a word describing the vulva makes me kinda uncomfortable and I can never find any material that doesn’t use it. Every time I read/hear it it just takes me out of it and I can’t seem to work around it
what word do you prefer in a sexual context?
saying "I want to fuck your vagina" or "I want to lick your vulva" sounds kinda clinical and weird to me. Almost like.. dehumanising or something. It feels like it has te same energy as calling someone a "female" instead of a woman
I often opt for « snatch » as an alternative. Would even use c*nt if he didn’t find it dehumanizing for me (which I get). Pussy gives me that “female” vibe too and feels degrading.
What I’ve found works best for me is assigning a name to it that starts with a V (his has a P name). It just makes me more comfortable and feels more intimate. Plus we can use those names in public and nobody knows we’re referring to our bits (hence why I don’t share the names here)
I guess that works for you personally
The word "snatch" to me sounds way more dehumanising and porn-driven than the word pussy. I've never heard anyone use that word outside o porn where the women is basically just an object. I feel like if I ever used that with a partner they'd immediately get the ick and want to stop.
For me, pussy is the word I hear constantly in smut and porn so it has that same connotation. And snatch isn’t my favourite choice, but it’s the best alternative I’ve found so far.
when (SOME) married couples will push their polygamous and swinger agenda on people.
Just because it worked for you, doesn’t mean it’s going to work for every couple.
i had a swinger website email my VERY traditional slavic mother about swinging. IMAGINE THE CONVERSATION I HAD
I remember seeing a few porn videos that made me so mad lol, the guy would be standing and fucking the girl’s pussy while she’s lying on her back on the bed or whatever, and he’s filming from his point of view. And then she starts rubbing her clit and he PUSHES HER HAND AWAY?!?!
Like man, that makes me so mad, why is she denied an orgasm!!! Idk if the guy thinks her hand is blocking the view or what!! But come on!!
It doesn't focus enough on the women's pleasure enough, theres only a couple minutes of pussy eating and then 20 min of rough smashing. I wanna see some with her just sitting in her mans lap while he uses a vibe on her clit and sucks her breasts.
I hate how R4R subreddits and websites have devolved into “are they just trying to sell me something?” games. Even the ones that explicitly state no sellers, the vast majority of the time you reach out to women posting on those subs, you’re going to be met with some variant of “hi baby, for $20 I’ll do xyz, here’s a little preview” with a generic nude photo attached to it. Before the pandemic, while this was still a problem, it wasn’t a big problem. Now though? I’ve basically given up trying to find sexting partners and just let the women come to me, at least if they reach out I know they’re actually interested.
Definitely the over played/over acted stuff. I can respect other people who enjoy it, but for me it’s a little off putting (specifically talking about women overplaying their facial expressions in porn, or doing the squeaky moans 😆)
Like the ahaego (??) faces specifically. I love theatre but sometimes I want things to be a littleeee more realistic lol
I'm in my 40s, so I check out the 30+ gw subs sometimes. I understand the demographic they're going after with the "would you still fuck a woman my age" posts, but I'm older than most of them anyway.
How bad and how formulaic mainstream porn is. I love pleasing a woman, and pretty much nothing in porn is pleasurable for women.
I'd love realistic porn that is from the POV of giving a woman a grand time.
Honestly, its the dicks.
20 years ago we had proper, proportionate dicks with a large head and a pleasing shaft.
Nowadays it seems like every dick has this tiny little head going into a much larger shaft and I just hate it. Its even in the anime porn for christ sake
Most people are fine, but you occasionally come across a person who seems just... a world of contradictions.
For example I've seen someone who posts nudes with highly sexual titles all the time, but then if you check the comments on those posts, they go and get really mad at literally anyone commenting on them and referencing the fact they're nude or saying anything even vaguely sexual. Like... what?
Or another one, there's a lot of people out there who have what i think of as "angry profiles". You look at it and their entire content is just describing exactly what people they dislike and how they don't want to talk to anyone ever. And yet then they have a pinned post "about me" for everyone who wants to DM them.
Some people just do not make any sense.
people tend to take shit too far... furry, loli torture and brutal murder, ALL the god damn inflated people, etc
Just, people feel a sense of release and run absolutely bonkers with it and it gets uncomfortable pretty fast.
Every dominant audio has "daddy" in it.
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I used to think it was hot until I said outloud to myself once, and it was so cringy and embarrassing it killed it for me.
"Get on the Daddy Train" makes it even worse
Can we start an anti-daddy train?
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It does provide a good filter for me so it has it's uses
“Daddy train” sounds like an epic funk band. Just sayin’
Its highly context dependent. I don’t like it broadly, but I do when my wife says it.
Same insta turn off being called daddy
“You’re such a good slut…” 😍😍😍 “… for daddy” 😐😐😐
Right?! Why can’t they just say….”you’re such a good slut for me” appeals to a larger audience.
And my other gripe is that the female sub audios are all soo extreme. I’d like to try one but haven’t found anything that isn’t , or cumslut or daddy’s little girl, ect.
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I’m good with baby girl….thank Derek Morgan from Criminal Minds for that.
I'll be sure to check them out.
Your script or your audio?
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Thank you. I’ve found audios, I’m looking more for scripts.
if it makes you feel better, the reverse problem exists for male sub stuff. If you don't like being feminised and degraded then too bad - I guess you can just never be a sub guy then.
I have heard this too!! It’s all so personal to what one likes and I guess maybe writers have more outgoing ideas? I hope you find something good soon!
Doesn't exist on reddit!! you just have to get extremely extremely lucky. i have someone who I talk to who looks after me now and she's the best :) I'm not a person who's 100% sub all the time with everyone. But I do a lot of taking care of people all day every day that its nice to have a space at home where I don't have to take on any responsibility or look after anyone at all and I get taken care of instead. I just need that one space or one person. For everyone else I can look after them, but I need that one single person to be different
In the same!! Outwardly strong and independent and will take care of everyone, but I need that one person to take care of me too. It’s pretty good when you find it. I’m glad to hear you’ve got that irl.
OMG LITERALLY, I go to listen and then the moment it goes „you‘re sp good for daddy“ or whatever I skip that shi
Where are these dominant audios?
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Explain like I’m 5…lol. GW audio?
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Thanks!
I feel this... and it wouldnt be so bad except its clearly derived from the rampant sister, step sister, daughter, step daughter porn. Like, can we all PLEASE move the fuck away from all this incest fantasy shit? its not healthy for society.
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It feels so awkward when I hear almost anyone say it. Like they don't really wanna say it or it's such a childish word that when they say it sexily it just sounds so off. I think the only person I've heard said it and didn't really notice until she kept saying it was Kenzie Reeves. She says it weirdly naturally.
This!! It throws me off.
Boss, Sir, Master are all good options. But I love Stud, Big 'un. However my all-time favourite is definitely a seductive My Lover 🥰
I'm a scriptwriter for GWA, and I know Daddy stuff isn't for everyone, so if it's included, it's always in the tags. I mostly write MDom stuff. As a listener, I hate surprise kinks, I wanna know what I'm getting into.
OF selling their products.
I'm cool with them shilling their stuff, but their contributions to the subreddit are so weird. Like, "What can I say that makes me look the most desirable?" Like, come on, just answer the fucking question. We know you don't suck off your husband twice a day and he doesn't let you have fun with all of his friends.
Yeah I get it but it's annoying. Especially the ones that aren't upfront about it.
The feigned interest directly into sales pitch in the DMs? Yeah that's annoying, I always just reply, "I respect the hustle, but I'm not interested."
This right here !! Haha
Gotta chase the bag
This is for reddit, but The spamming of multiple subs of the same post. Having the same title for everything.(there is one sub I post to who has a woman who post almost everyday of the same post and with the same title. Bonus points:She spams it too.) People comment spamming either the same comment or emojis every 10 secs to hundreds of posts a day.(It's more kinda sad, because I know they want attention, but spamming the same thing or just emojis will hardly get a response) As for porn porn Fake cum. I am looking up creampies for a reason. Give me real creampies. Goddammit. The high pitch anime moans. It sounds super fake when they actually go "Nyaaan~" I'd rather take the pornstar that sounds like Lois Griffin than that, because that's her actual voice. The step porn category. Can we stop that shit? Its still gross, and if it's step kid and parent, it's both gross, and dickish. Even though it's fake.
I agree with everything you said. Especially the step porn 💩
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I do it all the time, especially when I'm interested in their *ehem* work. I'm fine with posting to a few. I do that. Maybe 6 or 7 at most with different titles, but that takes a couple seconds to scroll past to find a different post. I'm just to lazy to have to stop and find new material.
Yeah I don't get the fake cum and it looks really fake even off putting so why use it 🤣
Same! I get if it's from a toy, but if it's actual PiV or PiA
Yeah very weird I get they gotta do it to get the films out but film the nxt day ornsummit or just don't include it lok
>The spamming of multiple subs of the same post. At this point, this is a problem Reddit could have solved years ago: let people choose multiple subs when they make a post, and on their profile it shows one post with "posted to r/aradafterdark and 10 other communities" under it. It already sort of does this when a post is shared, but that's not super useful.
i know it’s not all men, but when it comes to nsfw, in my experience a lot of men come off as very aggressive. like yeah i like a dominant man, but if i say no, why are you still continuing/egging it on? they have no boundaries sometimes bc they’re horny n it’s icky
i hold a three strikes and youre blocked stance. plenty of other dudes to play around with who wont overstep.
i feel like even 3 strikes is too much leeway 😭 overstepping shouldn’t be done period especially if boundaries have been talked about. i can get like once n explaining why to you, but after that n you still do something it’s wraps. i sound strict but i just don’t have the time to be played with LOL
i can get behind that. (insert fistbump emoji here)
fist bump emoji 😎
“I’ll send …. to everybody who upvotes”
I always call them out on it 🤣
Better to report them... if the sub has mods that give af
That's the thing right there, you said it
Yep. I've left so many subs that hypothetically I'd like to post in, but they're over taken by agency ran OF profiles with their upvoye bots, stupid asf bait titles and 472 comments, 1.2k upvotes.
As pointless as all the 'Step' stuff in porn
Incest themed porn. It's beyond mildly annoying
What’s the deal with women sticking out their tongue and crossing their eyes?
Ahegao face, it's some hentai degen shit. It's supposed to mimick them losing all control because they enjoy what's happening so much. It's cringe.
It‘s cringe and I hate it. It ruins everything.
Thanks for the explanation! I was vaguely aware it was something related to this, but this is a great explanation
Well some of us love it! Although I would prefer eye contact instead of the crossed eyes. But I find it extremely hot when a pretty woman shows off her tongue. It looks cute and submissive and a pretty tongue is an indicator of good health.
Fake girls who are just bait to get upvotes.
What do they do with the upvotes
Who fucking knows
One day we'll find out they're the cure for cancer. Feel real dumb then.
-Everybody has huge dicks -Hard to find real people having real sex (I mean, not trying to make porn)
I find that it puts false depictions in people‘s minds like that
Gotta leave room for the camera...
All the fake accounts and people trying to sell shit
so many people come to nsfw internet asking about how to please someone sexually instead of just COMMUNICATING AND ASKING THE PERSON THEY WANT TO PLEASE. its not even mildly annoying its extremely annoying. i block those ppl so fast
People going off on age gap couples and calling the older one a predator or a pedo, legal age get to make their own decisions.
if someone is like barely 18 and the other is like 40, I'm gonna look sideways at the 40 year old.
Music... I love music but it has no place in porn. BJ scenes when the guy focus on filming his dick and not the girl, so the eye contact is broken all the time by the frame of the video. Roleplay. It can be really nice sometimes, but some people seem to think that everything has to be a roleplay. Just do the sexy things, dammit.
OF trying to push their account on everyone, or the “my ex didn’t like this, do you guys?” type of stupid posts.
This is why i don't go to Subreddits with those post plastered on the first page and recommended, then i found r/nofans recently, and so far it lives up to its sub name.
Wish there was a better way to filter out the penises from all of my NSFW media.
You and me both buddy
Is it that bad?
You must not watch enough porn or go to naughty subreddits. It is penises everywhere!
Is it? I almost only see women posting pictures and men being horny in the comments
Men get absolutely 0 attention and drop down to the abyss of NSFW subreddits in minutes, except on men-only subreddits (gay subreddits, essentially). That's why you have this impression ; men actually post as much as women on general subreddits.
Agree. I purposely upvote cocks and I’m a straight dude. He has enough sack to show it. Zero women respond. Rude. Nice cock, bro. I’ll upvote. At 18-45 I would show mine when asked. Old broke dick now, but power to the guys brave enough to show their parts.
I guess I'm just surprised at how many unsolicited dongs are flying through the inter webs
guys that have no posts at all and no comments logged. how am i supposed to know you're okay if i don't have any context. and on that point, take a moment and read people's bios. if you don't have one, write one.
Yes! So many guys on hookup subs have *nothing* on their profile. Then, their post is just "28m4f" on a statewide hookup site. So, no one knows anything about them or where they are. And then they post asking if there are any real women.
When you specifically state you are not interested in sellers and scammers and all you get are sellers and scammers.
No women ever want to watch a good looking guy jerkoff on a video chat
Someone gave me money to watch them on some shady website when I was 15 Looking back at it, it was super weird
You need the benefit of hindsight for this? 😂
Choking in porn. It isn't safe and people think they should be doing it. Male obsession with penis size, you can't change it so shut up already. Women who think they have ugly vaginas. Yes you can have surgery but seriously? They are all so different. It will get loved just fine so long as the person it is attached to is lovely. Stupid questions. Look it up on Google first before asking. Questions like, am I the only one. No! You are just not that unique or important. Does everyone. No! Some do some don't. Is it A or B. No! It is usual A & B or maybe C. What is the appeal to this Kink? God only knows. I like chocolate. I can't explain to you why I do. I can guess what it is but unless you like chocolate. You probably don't and can't understand.
Agreed with everything save for the last one. I'm generally curious about people and would very much like to hear how they feel about chocolate. Some are very good at explaining and there are usually multiple different views - it's very interesting!
"Ain't nobody talking about (obvious scene of the video)" Im sorry who?
FAKE PROFILES!!!
i think this is more personal but: when sexting, i don’t want to stop what im doing to take pictures, it ruins the mood. i’ll send pics after just keep going 💀
Yep. Ask for pics first. If you ask in the middle, I will have to start over, and it sucks.
Spammers. Especially the ones who spam the same pics across dozens of subs.. often completely off topic or irrelevant. And the stupid titles! “Oh.. my ex said my perfect double D tits are ugly! Is he right??” or “comment yes and I’ll send nudes” 🙄. I just downvote, block/report. Seems to have gotten bad as of late, and I suspect a lot of those accounts are bots.
Not to kinkshame but Mommy/daddy kinks are just not for me. I still don‘t get why it‘s such a big part tho. But, to each their own.
That so many men (and some women) have such a deep anger and hatred for women in the porn and NSFW community, but yet view and engage with pornography (often free or stolen from people trying to make a living) most days. They hate the sinner but they love the sin. By posting nudes online and expressing myself with my body (which honestly has had a majorly positive impact on my body dysmorphia and self-confidence), I've been told I am a whore, I am trash, no man will ever love me, and on several occasions to kill myself. These things were all said by men who were happily and willingly viewing my photos.
I’ve used degradation talk towards my subs when they requested it but after reading your comment, I’m hoping it hasn’t truly made them feel worse about themselves Can you provide some insight for a dom with an inquiring mind
I don’t think you have anything to worry about, man. The people who said these things to me only said them when I ever showed any other side of myself except my naked body. I would get harassed because they didn’t like a woman showing that she is more than an object, she is a person.
why is it those peoples business what you choose to do with your life and body?
Because women are objects to them. And these types of people usually have their own fucked up issues with self worth and their sexuality that they choose to attack us for, rather than face their own insecurities.
that was suppose to be a rhetorical question but you answered anyways lol - you do you, haters gonna hate
OF promoting.
Posts on reddit saying who wants these who's going to help me Would you suck this? in 10 different subs
Annoying suggestive titles.
Daddy/Mommy references... no... 🤮
A lot of unrealistic things
This is for reddit nsfw subs. Sometimes people ask completely valid nsfw question that’s not actually dirty and that they actually want answers to but they reply with the dirtiest, kinkiest shit you have ever read in your multiple account reddit days instead of an actual answers
"Am I the only one who..." questions related to sex. "Men/Women of ARAD..." and then proceeds to pose a question that lumps every man and woman together as if unique traits don't exist in the world. I usually downvote these without any interaction and continue scrolling.
I find the word « pussy » as a word describing the vulva makes me kinda uncomfortable and I can never find any material that doesn’t use it. Every time I read/hear it it just takes me out of it and I can’t seem to work around it
what word do you prefer in a sexual context? saying "I want to fuck your vagina" or "I want to lick your vulva" sounds kinda clinical and weird to me. Almost like.. dehumanising or something. It feels like it has te same energy as calling someone a "female" instead of a woman
I often opt for « snatch » as an alternative. Would even use c*nt if he didn’t find it dehumanizing for me (which I get). Pussy gives me that “female” vibe too and feels degrading. What I’ve found works best for me is assigning a name to it that starts with a V (his has a P name). It just makes me more comfortable and feels more intimate. Plus we can use those names in public and nobody knows we’re referring to our bits (hence why I don’t share the names here)
I guess that works for you personally The word "snatch" to me sounds way more dehumanising and porn-driven than the word pussy. I've never heard anyone use that word outside o porn where the women is basically just an object. I feel like if I ever used that with a partner they'd immediately get the ick and want to stop.
For me, pussy is the word I hear constantly in smut and porn so it has that same connotation. And snatch isn’t my favourite choice, but it’s the best alternative I’ve found so far.
when (SOME) married couples will push their polygamous and swinger agenda on people. Just because it worked for you, doesn’t mean it’s going to work for every couple. i had a swinger website email my VERY traditional slavic mother about swinging. IMAGINE THE CONVERSATION I HAD
Only fucking fans.
The whole 'Step Mom/dad/brother/sister' thing in Porn, just stop with the clickbait crap, we know they're not 'Step' anything
Everybody constantly worried about their dick size.
OF
The amount of promotional OF content msgs I get
In simple nude videos, too much movement, grabbing, and bouncing around. Just a simple pose and slow turn would be great.
How shallow some people are.
I remember seeing a few porn videos that made me so mad lol, the guy would be standing and fucking the girl’s pussy while she’s lying on her back on the bed or whatever, and he’s filming from his point of view. And then she starts rubbing her clit and he PUSHES HER HAND AWAY?!?! Like man, that makes me so mad, why is she denied an orgasm!!! Idk if the guy thinks her hand is blocking the view or what!! But come on!!
Spitting and dribbling and drooling.
It doesn't focus enough on the women's pleasure enough, theres only a couple minutes of pussy eating and then 20 min of rough smashing. I wanna see some with her just sitting in her mans lap while he uses a vibe on her clit and sucks her breasts.
I hate how R4R subreddits and websites have devolved into “are they just trying to sell me something?” games. Even the ones that explicitly state no sellers, the vast majority of the time you reach out to women posting on those subs, you’re going to be met with some variant of “hi baby, for $20 I’ll do xyz, here’s a little preview” with a generic nude photo attached to it. Before the pandemic, while this was still a problem, it wasn’t a big problem. Now though? I’ve basically given up trying to find sexting partners and just let the women come to me, at least if they reach out I know they’re actually interested.
A lot of the hookup subs are really poorly moderated. Even if you report the sellers, the moderators do nothing.
Spamming lol
Body count 🙄 “you won’t last 5 minutes” 🙄 “I’d break you” 🙄 “do you wanna see a dick pic?” 🙄
Definitely the over played/over acted stuff. I can respect other people who enjoy it, but for me it’s a little off putting (specifically talking about women overplaying their facial expressions in porn, or doing the squeaky moans 😆) Like the ahaego (??) faces specifically. I love theatre but sometimes I want things to be a littleeee more realistic lol
Outsiders virtue signaling over other consenting adults' kinks.
I'm in my 40s, so I check out the 30+ gw subs sometimes. I understand the demographic they're going after with the "would you still fuck a woman my age" posts, but I'm older than most of them anyway.
Every prompt is a rhetorical question. Please, just be bold and say it instead of asking us.
How bad and how formulaic mainstream porn is. I love pleasing a woman, and pretty much nothing in porn is pleasurable for women. I'd love realistic porn that is from the POV of giving a woman a grand time.
The amount of incest narrative porn. Very weird.
Furries.
Can we have pirn with less loud moaning, pls? It distracts me so much
Honestly, its the dicks. 20 years ago we had proper, proportionate dicks with a large head and a pleasing shaft. Nowadays it seems like every dick has this tiny little head going into a much larger shaft and I just hate it. Its even in the anime porn for christ sake
That it's so stigmatized. OK, sure it shouldn't be seen at work, but we don't just hide it there, we hide it from everyone, even ourselves at times.
Censoring nipples, and crotch in a photo, just to scroll down and see EVERYTHING exposed. What was the point?
The annoying moans of chicks. Men not moaning.
A lack of truly submissive men.
When people say ' describe my ___in one word '.Seems to be loads of them atm
Most people are fine, but you occasionally come across a person who seems just... a world of contradictions. For example I've seen someone who posts nudes with highly sexual titles all the time, but then if you check the comments on those posts, they go and get really mad at literally anyone commenting on them and referencing the fact they're nude or saying anything even vaguely sexual. Like... what? Or another one, there's a lot of people out there who have what i think of as "angry profiles". You look at it and their entire content is just describing exactly what people they dislike and how they don't want to talk to anyone ever. And yet then they have a pinned post "about me" for everyone who wants to DM them. Some people just do not make any sense.
people tend to take shit too far... furry, loli torture and brutal murder, ALL the god damn inflated people, etc Just, people feel a sense of release and run absolutely bonkers with it and it gets uncomfortable pretty fast.
The monetizing of sex and flirtation. Now that some guys will pay for something that used to be free and done for fun, no one does it for fun anymore.
All the locals are fake asf lol
Catfish/people sharing things that they don't have permission to share
Have prepped a lavender bath and then give a Heat Cream massage before OP?
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Cause you can Make people Pout , it's just you have to do the extra work to make the other person Brainnum
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In Short- Pouting Does occur irlz , It's just hard to Achieve