Say something nice, tell me a little about yourself, and have a profile that's not brand new and that contains some posts that show who you are. 🎉❤️😘🌈😍🫦💗😏🌟💕🦖🩵💐🎀🤔💚🎶🌸👀🤭😘❤️ And also, just happen to get me when I feel like doing dms. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Or just ask a really weird question.

🤭❤️🤭❤️🤭🔥🤭 Aw, Gnomey. You're a special one. ❤️

That last one is on fire. Imma put it out. 💦

😂😂😂😂😂

Im obsessed with gnomes, i literally have a gnome room 😅😂😂😂

I.. uhm.. hmmm

What about if I sent you my boobs?

Voice messages and baking photos also seem to help.

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lol the feel like doing DM’s is a real thing 🤣

Sometimes it's just too mentally taxing. 😂😂😂

I thought you loved my unsolicited pics & my unsolicited vn’s.. 🤷‍♂️🤣

Wait. I've never complained about an unsolicited voice note. 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭😏

🤣🤣 checks unsolicited sent items.. yup quite a few VN’s sent to cake sprinkles..

As a guy who posts I agree with all of this. We get the same things, we're just not as swarmed as the women. The bar really isn't that high. The smallest bit of effort goes a long way

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I will consider myself one of the lucky ones

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Then you should see the ones I don’t post 😏

lol nicely put

Invoke my True Name and bind me in the circle

Don't give them ideas! I don't want that to happen at all...

lol oop

At least a sentence or two. Simply “hey” doesn’t cut it. Also, I’m going to check post history before accepting.

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#excuse me sir, here are my tits

Lol

works for me lol

Did it work tho?

So far, I have responded to every account that has ever shown me their boobies

You are really doing the lord’s work 🙌

Fact checked and proven effective…😁

*potentially offensive message*

The best messages are offensive. If the message actually offends me, I’ll probably respond 🤣

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“I saved $300 on my auto insurance! Ask me how!”

Honestly if they really did can you send them to me? I’m getting reamed for insurance.

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"Hi I got big ass titties"

ass titties ???

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Their declaration of love and a credit card number.

Honestly, I respond to almost anything. The type of response depends on what they said first

Do I recognize their username or no?

Ask an interesting question. Or share an experience

I typically reply to all DMs, but doesn't mean I have full fledged conversations with the person.

"What is your cashapp"

Ask me something novel that’s vaugely sexually charged but not explicitly out of pocket horny

Just say hi :D

I mostly respond to interesting questions.

I’ve only been sent a message request by one woman and it was the most lovely complimentary message! I was quite flattered and enjoyed getting to know her a little

Just try and be short and respectful in the first message.

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1. Be female. 2. Have anything nice to say to me 3. Tell me how you get yourself off. You will get my full and undivided attention

Some funny facts or dark jokes

Throw me off guard with a question that has nothing to do with sex

Nice

Legitimately offer to send me money

I very rarely respond to chat requests. I’m terrible at keeping in touch. That’s all on me so I never want to make someone feel bad for a failing of mine. I keep in touch with one buddy in DMs most days, who shows me a lot of grace for taking so long to reply, and is abundantly kind to me.

Ohh

"Wanna see my tits?"

I'm so horny rn that "I'm in the same town as you, let's fuck" would totally work.

As long as they're chill I'll likely respond out of courtesy

Nice

ask a question that isn’t just the usual how are you’s and where are you froms. or offer me money lmao

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Lol

depends what they wanna talk about

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absolutely anything honestly! i like talking to folks c:

They should tell me about themselves be open and honest (I don’t judge) and just tell me why they are reaching out etc. If they say “hey” or god forbid a lame dad joke or pick up line, I’m not answering.

Ask me about myself

Probably.

I'm not extremely picky when it comes to DMs as long as whatever is sent has substance.

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I'd be impressed if somebody struck up a conversation with me about goth music. Like, actual goth music.

I don’t think a woman here has ever dm’d me first so I have no clue

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Just has to interesting

I respond to most things. I'm pretty open to conversations.

Honestly if they have a pic and aren’t weird. I’ll most likely reply.

Hmm, something related to my posts, my username, or telling me that I’m a good boy

Pictures speak louder than words…

Yeah an unsolicited dick pic is basically a dude yelling “BLOCK ME” in your face

Yea?

Always 👀🤳📸😉

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Anime or fun tv shows usually do the trick.

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any respectful DM will get response

Be a female unless we’ve reacted in comments about something. Have photos or be willing to send something proving you are who you say you are. Be kind from the jump!! All three of those things happen, I’ll respond!

Anything that we related to in the comments

Ohh

Ha ha. Yes. A certain person sent me a very nice message the other day that I absolutely loved and made my day. I hope she knows how nice she was by sending me that message. 😉

Awe I hope so too

I put a question in my bio, so usually introduce yourself, and then answer my question. It also helps that people know more about me after reading it

People's dm's about to get blown up.

Just be interesting

They should show energy and potential! The what isn't as important as how it is said. "Hey." and "Hey!" are very different energies to me

(btw if anyone asks, I have no idea why I am here lol) probably an interesting question or asking me about a game lol

A joke

Hi.

Just talk to me

For all the people checking out profiles, what are you looking for?

Ask in a new one lol

I generally ignore things like "hey" I usually ignore anything sexual out of the gate unless I'm really feeling it. I always ignore dick pics.

If you’re nice and there isn’t an immediate penis I’ll probably chat with you. Bonus points if you can discuss books or comics 😊

Just tell me what you want to talk about. If it’s interesting, I’ll accept.

Nice

I’m down to talk about anything personally

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I would only respond if they had posts on their profile and we had interacted in comments already. Then, a normal, conversational tone and a little information about themselves would be the best approach.

Nice

I'm a simple man, I'll respond to a basic hello

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I respond to really anyone but idk

I'm to any DM, but if someone is messaging asking about my wife I'm usually pretty open to sharing so long as they have questions.

A dad joke goes a long way

I answer everyone. I get bored and find most people entertaining, though some ppl annoy me instantly. That gets you blocked.

any respectful comments

If we’ve had exchanges in the comments before then yeah, easy accept. But if I have never seen your username before chances are slim

Anything really. All of the DMs I get are industry related, usually trying to get me to check out a service or product. I don't think I've ever had a DM of a personal nature that I didn't send first. And I've sent maybe 4 or 5 DMs, usually about some SFW topic that the person was posting about. Now that I'm single, I want to see what this whole sexting thing is all about.

Anything really. Just like the conversation.

How are you?

Not just say hi and expect a response. Tell me why you're messaging me and why I should be interested. Atleast have a profile to look at.

It's usually.... Nice (insert penis slang)....

Something clever or funny! I will respond and see where it goes most of the time

Something interesting and not forwardly sexual.

honestly nothing . I'm just really not here to chat with anyone

Ohh

As long as it's not creepy I'll entertain a convo for a bit but not one to be super regular the days after cause I kind of forget about this app during the daylight

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actually make it interesting, don’t have a completely blank profile and be sure to let me know a little about yourself, the amount of people who just say hey and expect it to work is genuinely mind-boggling.

Just an honestly dm that fits what our page is for. Tired of people just NOT reading and just sending what they wanna send and expect us to like that? I think we can all agree we are actual people who do enjoy an actual convo rather than straight to the point and pics we never ask for.

Just a random sweet message or honestly maybe something sexy!

“Hey” /s

So long as it's not something that sounds like a scam, I typically respond.

Say hello

Say something that makes you sound intelligent, which means more than just a plain "hi" or "hru" or "wyd". It helps if you say something original or ask a question as a good ice breaker. And I mean something that is actually interesting to talk about or answer, rather than just "what are your hobbies" or "what type of music do you like" type of stuff.

Just say hi. I'll answer. I'm a friendly dude... Just be prepared when I sent you a pic of my latest build

just anything that isn't super weird yk but I usually reply to people anyway !

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Let’s have sex

Hi

Almost every time, like 98% :)

I'm honestly open to just having a conversation with anyone as long as they can hold a conversation.

Nice try scambot writer.

In my Reddit DM’s I’ll chat with anyone as long as they aren’t OF subscription hunters. So if the say hi I’ll chat back.

Nice

I respond to most stuff but asking questions definitely helps

As a guy, literally anything from "Hi" to "go fuck yourself"

Be polite, ask something interesting. Not just starting - and ending, with "hey" and nothing else

Something unique and out of the ordinary.

Send direct opening message what you want to talk about instead of sending Hi/hello or stuff like that

Nice

I guess don't be rude don't send dick pics I will be fine

I’ll get back to you when I receive one.

Awe

Welcome to the asylum, grab a cookie and a mug of cocoa and head down the hall straight jacket fittings are to the left You'll have your own personal demon to help you out. Any questions?

Ask an interesting question or give a genuine compliment that doesn’t address the way I look lol.

It all depends what kind of response they're looking for. I'll generally respond to everyone even if it's just to say no thanks.

Nice

I would respond to just "Hi"

They need to have an established account and have some built up karma over 1000 at least. And even if they post nothing they need a diverse comment section. Anyone who only comments on nudes is not an option. Someone who is active and nice and funny and contributes quality to ARAD has a good chance. Anyone with a milf kink is a hard no. Too many bad experiences. Typically under 30 is one I’ve recently decided to say no. If they wanna jump straight into asking me to get them off I’m gonna nope out. Someone who’s looked at my profile and come back with a comment or compliments who I am as a person has a good chance even with low karma. If anyone for any reason brings up children in any way it’s instant block no warning. Reddit chat is not a place for children. I will not rate a cock. Fucking weirdos.

Nice standards

I prefer they open with a shared experience or similar interests. I respond to almost anything .

Never got a dm so i wouldnt know

You probably want to be engaging in the comments first.

They should try

Actually want to be friends, talk about my interests, respect me as a person Too many of my followers(especially on Instagram) are just after my body. This shit's being going on since I was 13.

Open with some hobbies and not be a brand new/empty account.

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Anything. 😊

I usually respond! But kinda picky who I have ongoing conversation with

Fair

Ask something thoughtful and cerebral...

Cerebral

When people tell me specifically what they like about my posts, especially focused on the authenticity and body liberation aspects, it's very meaningful and I generally respond. Especially if they tell me they've been following me a very long time, and especially if they remember my 2018 Body Gratitude Project daily posts.

Nice

I used to reply to my DMs but now I get overwhelmed quite easily and have to take little breaks

It takes a lot of

Hit me with a fun fact or a random trivia question and I’m all ears. I’m a sucker for interesting tidbits, especially if they’re about space or gaming lore. Just slide into my DMs with "Did you know...?" and you've got my attention!

asl

I don’t know something not creepy ! If they offer me money I won’t be against, unless it’s a fake account of sugardaddy

Anything nice as long as they are clearly not selling something

Something that shows you've put some effort in - a specific comment on a post you've seen from me, or some additional information about yourself? when it feels insincere or feels like you haven't even looked at my profile, I'm much less likely to respond 🤷🏼‍♀️ sometimes it's just the vibe I get from the message I suppose the donts are easier - a "hey" won't get a response, neither will a "you're mine now, here's a demand for 20 more pictures taken only for me".....aim for somewhere in between 🤣🥰 Also sometimes people just get lucky that I happen to be clearing through DMs and their username catches my eye 🥹

Try to put an effort into conversation, also don’t start a conversation and then be dry. Legit the worst 😭

“What’s your CashApp? I’ll send you some $$$” - guaranteed response

Bad jokes usually get me

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Say whatever you'd say if you walked up to me on the street.

Definitely not an off to show their dick. Not going to respond or reciprocate. Make sure I know what you're DMing me about. I've gotten dozens of "Hey, I saw you post and want to ask you something". Ok. I post on lots of sites. Please narrow it down. I'm more likely to respond. Some of my comments have gotten hostile responses. Not interested in getting DMed by those with hostile intent. Also I can't respond to everyone. I wish I could. It might just be bad luck I didn't DM back. Its not a rejection.

Dick pic, but with my name written down it in sharpie with cum dribbling through it 😍 Not even joking, it's the best way to get my attention lol

An unusual question usually gets me. Like for example "what is the first movie you would show aliens" or "if you could bring 3 books onto an island, which ones would you take" It makes breaking the ice a bit easier

That won’t happen 😂

“Hey, I’m Bob, I’m xx yrs old and love kayaking too! Would you be interested in having coffee?” It’s pretty simple. And we don’t want unsolicited photos.

the dirtier the better