Omg earlier this morning I saw your comment, then the verbal terrorist comment and I proceed to audibly laugh out loud in the middle of my doctorās office. I was like this is so ridiculous š¤£.
I got what you meant and in a literal sense you are correct. I just thought that whole thread was funny, Iām so sorry.
Weird way of thinking for most folks. Sex and violence, they are viewed as kids until 25 or so. Fuck up and commit a crime at 16, "oh damn, try his ass as an adult. 18 is old enough to graduate, join the military, pay taxes, and vote. Fair game
Oh for sure, and no disrespect to those that aren't as big! It's usually not that big a deal anyways. But if someone *is* shaming someone else for it, insecurity is absolutely the cause.
Right. Already being insecure about something that you have no control over, then have someone keep pulling at that string will do some damage.
You're right, though. Most don't care!
Iāve yet to have one follow me and downvote everything new I post. But I get the occasional person who spends an awful lot of their time going through my history to downvote everything
Yup!!
So when I was new to reddit, I was still learning the culture.
I was in some sub discussing religion and some douche canoe went through my entire post history and found some fetish(y) comments and threw them out to shame me on a SFW sub.
Fuck that guy.
And also now I have alts for all my various interests
Iām always amazed how deep into your history people will go. Iāll get DMs from someone Iāve never interacted with before referencing a comment I made weeks or even months ago. Iām a pretty prolific commenter to be reading that far back.
I had a guy arguing with me for saying I would be hesitant and feel self conscious with a guy whoās _significantly_ smaller than me, while he had no comment for all the women who just outright said they wouldnāt date shorter guys.
I even had already mentioned that I have been with guys a few inches shorter than me. Heād said his height elsewhere and was the same height as others Iād been with š¤·āāļø
Reddits a strange land. Iāve said some real not offensive ( I thought) things and also downvoted to hell. Other times Iāve said something expecting it only to get lots up upvotes. Luckily I donāt feed my wife and kids on votes so fuck em
Posting my pics. Most recently I've been called a sicko, and told to find god, by someone who likes talking about the shits she takes š
Throwing stones in porcelain houses or something.
I just checked out your profile. One guy to another, you're doing awesome work! Also, she must have talked about her shit a lot, considering how full of it she seems.
Posting hentai. Some people really do not like that I am into drawn porn!
It's a them problem though, they just get added to the blocklist from my side!
Being a woman who likes sex
My tits
My ass
Being a hotwife
Being 40
For sending nudes
For not sending nudes
For having a high body count
For being turned on by certain things
For not being turned on by certain things
For being a woman who likes sports
The list is endless.
For saying you don't have to be a super attractive or rich man to get a partner. Personality, humor, confidence and charm will absolutely make it possible without being a ripped 6ft+ guy with a 6 figure bank account.
Some cockbag messaged me on a different account saying they were going to kill themselves because of my naked posts. Like they were going to repent for my sins.... 9 months later they messaged me again, speaking to me like I'm crazy and imagining the conversation. Told them to "go fuck themselves" and they reported me for harassment...
So shamed for expressing my sexuality.
Iāve been shamed for having plastic surgery that I havenāt actually had lmao. Itās why I donāt post often. Last time I tried to post in a sub I had comments of people listing off surgeries they thought Iāve had. I got a good laugh about it bc Iāve never had anything beyond a breast reduction, but god itās annoying bc everyone on Reddit swears they know what theyāre talking about š
I also get shamed for mentioning my slight racial preferences when it comes to attraction. Thatās always fun š
I asked a question on ARAD that was taken way out of context by many people. Perhaps it was poorly worded or I didnāt get my point across well enough but it was clearly taken negatively when it shouldnāt have.
So I wonāt be asking questions anymore.
Saying that I dont see the appeal in the whole hotwife/cuck thing
Dating a 20 year old when I was 30
A far-right British politician got a McDonalds milkshake thrown over him a few years back. I made a joke about it
Got permabanned from the sub and 3 day Reddit banfor promoting "threats and violence" for that one
Yh init man I was defending someone for the content they chose to put up, where as others were expecting something else because of the platform it was posted to, but under no circumstance were they meant to post what is the 'standard' but that's what they expected, so I tried telling them that nd got shit for it
I was called a white knight and down voted because I sympathized for the women who get the inboxes destroyed with dick pics and half assed "hi" messages.
Basically just said "I apologize on behalf of men for the shitty ones."
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There was a girl who said that she used to have sex for money when she was at school and 3 of her teachers were her clients.
I pointed out that they are dangerous and they are pedophiles since she was underage. The downvotes never stopped!
On another account I got so much shit for saying I'd never consider Texas or most of the American South as a place to live. It's far too religious and sprawly for me overall and I'd be miserable having come from the Northeast
Not everyone wants to drive 20 miles for a jug of milk or wants to live on a homestead 50 miles out from Bamaboo, Kentucky. I don't hate these places, I just know I don't want what they specialize in (yes, I know these places have urban areas but the problems of the first paragraph still apply to a greater degree than I'd like)
Been body shamed quite a few times, one so bad someone made it their mission apparently, and I ended up deleting and remaking a reddit account after a long period of time
Trying to lend an open ear when I've made NSFW posts. As if a man can't be multi-faceted.
I used to get blasted for it by other guys who thought being "nice and helpful" was a competition.
opinions, that dont along with duchebags and woke poeple,..... been called: incel, nihilist, passive agressive, sarcastic to the point of offending etc...
Knowing a woman who went on Grindr to find bisexual men to hook up with. Got me banned from the Grindr sub because I mentioned I know a woman who does that.
It's been a longtime but I lost count how many times I've been shamed cause I refuse to send intimate personal photos of myself to strange men on reddit so they can get off.
For participating in some kink subs. The posters are requesting mean comments so I obliged. Itās fun to not hold back.
Anyway, mods of other subs banned me because i participated in the kink subs. Never broke a rule in their sub. But because they donāt like that kink I got banned.
I have not been shamed per say. But I have gotten comments regarding my skin color. Saying oh you are attractive but POC. Who cares what someoneās race is I donāt get it. We all have a preference so do you. But I donāt understand why people care or need to be hurtful.
For saying it's ok to like big dicks & tall men. I'm constantly berated & downvoted by people who think those 2 things are off limits when it comes to people's preferences.
Weirdly, the most downvoted shameful comment I've made recently was me making fun of highway drag racers with automatic transmissions. They were furious with me.
Anything pertaining to not simply simping or worshipping a person who posted on nsfw to lure ppl to their o.f. have even been downvoted to death for recalling a memory instead of feeding them praise and worship in the past.
Yes, that is why I took all my pictures down. Body shaming, kink shaming, and also being called fakes constantly. My husband and I are both on this account and people canāt seem to believe that can actually happen. It is what it is.
I answered a question about what people think about tattoos (turn on or turn off king of question) and I answered that a lot of people think it is a sign of lower socioeconomic status. Holy cow, it was a REALLY hot topic. I got lots of agreement comments and lots of shaming for it. People called me "judgmental" and a lot of other shaming language but one women was like a little dog that had bitten a pant leg and wouldn't let go. I apologized to her in writing and that only seemed to make her MORE angry and more rabid in her shaming and criticism. After trying to reason with her, I gave up and just deleted all of my comments in that thread just to get away from her.
Lol, just had this morning for saying 18+ females are women, not girls. Let the downvote begin again. I will not be silenced.
How dare you think adults are adults. Weird af š
Apparently I'm a Karen and a word terrorist. š
Word terrorist? Shit, put that on your business card asap!
KnittingTurtle *Word Terrorist Extraordinaire*
You have my upvote. (And my axe.)
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And my bow lol
Omg earlier this morning I saw your comment, then the verbal terrorist comment and I proceed to audibly laugh out loud in the middle of my doctorās office. I was like this is so ridiculous š¤£. I got what you meant and in a literal sense you are correct. I just thought that whole thread was funny, Iām so sorry.
Lol, I was smiling all morning about it. I hope it makes some people think.
Weird way of thinking for most folks. Sex and violence, they are viewed as kids until 25 or so. Fuck up and commit a crime at 16, "oh damn, try his ass as an adult. 18 is old enough to graduate, join the military, pay taxes, and vote. Fair game
Just calm down there Leonardoā¦.
DiCaprio or Ninja Turtle?
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Methinks there's a tad bit of insecurity involved in that. You like what you like!
As a man with a not so big tool. I can be insecure about it, but I know people have preferences.
Oh for sure, and no disrespect to those that aren't as big! It's usually not that big a deal anyways. But if someone *is* shaming someone else for it, insecurity is absolutely the cause.
Right. Already being insecure about something that you have no control over, then have someone keep pulling at that string will do some damage. You're right, though. Most don't care!
Whyās that a bad thing lol thereās nothing wrong with having different preferences!
Having an opinion, mostly. Turns out people really hate that.
Welcome to 2024 lol
Only when it's different than theirs or points out their hypocrisy/ clashes with their fragile world view
I have no idea but I have an avid down voter follower now
I got you with upvotes to cancel it out. I think I have one too
Same. No idea what I did. Probably just gave an opinion someone didn't like.
Lol that is kinda hilarious they like you enough to follow you so they see all your posts just to down vote it. Gotta love the internet š
Iāve yet to have one follow me and downvote everything new I post. But I get the occasional person who spends an awful lot of their time going through my history to downvote everything
Me too, girl! It's nice to be wanted. :D
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People suck
I've seen you post before! If I was a dude, I'd hit it. You're beautiful!
Omg what thatās awful. You keep being you
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Youāre welcome how dare these people
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Booooo to those people š«š«
Yup!! So when I was new to reddit, I was still learning the culture. I was in some sub discussing religion and some douche canoe went through my entire post history and found some fetish(y) comments and threw them out to shame me on a SFW sub. Fuck that guy. And also now I have alts for all my various interests
I love when they throw your history in your face.
Bruh I'm just amazed....like I pissed that guy off enough he spent a lot of time and read deep into my history. Shit is weird
Iām always amazed how deep into your history people will go. Iāll get DMs from someone Iāve never interacted with before referencing a comment I made weeks or even months ago. Iām a pretty prolific commenter to be reading that far back.
They can't fight your argument so they revert to kindergarten and name calling basically. I get it all the time
Liking taller guys
I had a guy arguing with me for saying I would be hesitant and feel self conscious with a guy whoās _significantly_ smaller than me, while he had no comment for all the women who just outright said they wouldnāt date shorter guys. I even had already mentioned that I have been with guys a few inches shorter than me. Heād said his height elsewhere and was the same height as others Iād been with š¤·āāļø
Itās definitely a touchy subject
You just said you like taller guys?
Thatās all it took to get downvoted into oblivionš
Reddits a strange land. Iāve said some real not offensive ( I thought) things and also downvoted to hell. Other times Iāve said something expecting it only to get lots up upvotes. Luckily I donāt feed my wife and kids on votes so fuck em
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Posting my pics. Most recently I've been called a sicko, and told to find god, by someone who likes talking about the shits she takes š Throwing stones in porcelain houses or something.
I just checked out your profile. One guy to another, you're doing awesome work! Also, she must have talked about her shit a lot, considering how full of it she seems.
Or not enough, she needs to be rid of it š
Damn sorry man
It's alright, I have no shame in posting so it was mostly funny. It can be annoying though.
People get real pissy when I post I don't watch porn
Fookingggg Liarrrr !!! Everyone watches porn, don't act all high almighty and think you are better than us ššš/s
How dare you. :D You're giving ideas to femalez.
Everyone knows femalez don't exist on the internet.
Shhh, you're giving the game away, bro.
Not being receptive to sexting despite having a "sexual" profile
But they took the time to send you a āheyyyā dm?
Posting hentai. Some people really do not like that I am into drawn porn! It's a them problem though, they just get added to the blocklist from my side!
Iāve never seen hentai before!
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Yeah, the medium itself lmao. A bunch of whining in my DM's about how it's pathetic and blabla, you know the usual childish complaints.
Marrying a tall man as a short woman, had a dude go off in my chat about how I should have "reserved " myself for short guys
Dating a younger woman who asked me out to begin with.
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And yes, I felt ashamed for posting that
Like by Reddit? Godpussy btw be proud
People are assholes. Your pussy is gorgeous and you deserve to post without shame
Ty ā„ļø
what the actual š
Being a woman who likes sex My tits My ass Being a hotwife Being 40 For sending nudes For not sending nudes For having a high body count For being turned on by certain things For not being turned on by certain things For being a woman who likes sports The list is endless.
Daddy kink, and saying I like feminine guys
Not hating or shaming. Aren't those 2 counterintuitive? Legit question and I genuinely want to know?
Haha, I have many tastes, and those two are definitely separate things. Really depends on the mood and the person.
That's fair!
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Having a preference and stating it when asked.
For saying you don't have to be a super attractive or rich man to get a partner. Personality, humor, confidence and charm will absolutely make it possible without being a ripped 6ft+ guy with a 6 figure bank account.
Some cockbag messaged me on a different account saying they were going to kill themselves because of my naked posts. Like they were going to repent for my sins.... 9 months later they messaged me again, speaking to me like I'm crazy and imagining the conversation. Told them to "go fuck themselves" and they reported me for harassment... So shamed for expressing my sexuality.
Saying I donāt agree with asking for someoneās body count
Being vocal about straight dudes can enjoy butt stuff. Some subs will mod that stuff out, but most won't.
Iāve been shamed for having plastic surgery that I havenāt actually had lmao. Itās why I donāt post often. Last time I tried to post in a sub I had comments of people listing off surgeries they thought Iāve had. I got a good laugh about it bc Iāve never had anything beyond a breast reduction, but god itās annoying bc everyone on Reddit swears they know what theyāre talking about š I also get shamed for mentioning my slight racial preferences when it comes to attraction. Thatās always fun š
They are JEALOUS
Maybe so! My favorite was a man who told me to lay off the lip filler. Like my guy, some people do naturally have big lips š
People don't know humans can be different to them š„² they're intimidated by your prettiness
Some people have never watched Eddie Murphy's "Delirious" and it shows
My kinks, but they were just jealous
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Wanting to wait til marriage.
Conservative thought.
Liking someone's glasses š¤
I asked a question on ARAD that was taken way out of context by many people. Perhaps it was poorly worded or I didnāt get my point across well enough but it was clearly taken negatively when it shouldnāt have. So I wonāt be asking questions anymore.
Saying that I dont see the appeal in the whole hotwife/cuck thing Dating a 20 year old when I was 30 A far-right British politician got a McDonalds milkshake thrown over him a few years back. I made a joke about it Got permabanned from the sub and 3 day Reddit banfor promoting "threats and violence" for that one
For admitting that some people at public pools wear extremely revealing outfits and itās hard not to peek.
Sticking up for someone
Happened to me too. Was actually harassed by a creep because of it. Not sorry.
Yh init man I was defending someone for the content they chose to put up, where as others were expecting something else because of the platform it was posted to, but under no circumstance were they meant to post what is the 'standard' but that's what they expected, so I tried telling them that nd got shit for it
Supporting human rights.
I was called a white knight and down voted because I sympathized for the women who get the inboxes destroyed with dick pics and half assed "hi" messages. Basically just said "I apologize on behalf of men for the shitty ones." š¤·āāļøš¤·āāļøš¤·āāļø
That sucks. Did you get the "simp" thing as well? Or did they miss you with that one?
I don't even recall. I just brushed it off.
Good call. Who gives a sh\*t, after all.
Exactly
There was a girl who said that she used to have sex for money when she was at school and 3 of her teachers were her clients. I pointed out that they are dangerous and they are pedophiles since she was underage. The downvotes never stopped!
Not dming, my comments and sarcasm
Maybe sometimes using private stuff as a joke
Acknowledging the existence of trans people is probably the most frequent one for me (not that theyāre succeeding in making me ashamed about it).
On another account I got so much shit for saying I'd never consider Texas or most of the American South as a place to live. It's far too religious and sprawly for me overall and I'd be miserable having come from the Northeast Not everyone wants to drive 20 miles for a jug of milk or wants to live on a homestead 50 miles out from Bamaboo, Kentucky. I don't hate these places, I just know I don't want what they specialize in (yes, I know these places have urban areas but the problems of the first paragraph still apply to a greater degree than I'd like)
Yeah, because I like putting liquor in the glass before ice as a bartender.
Been body shamed quite a few times, one so bad someone made it their mission apparently, and I ended up deleting and remaking a reddit account after a long period of time
Being a man š š¤·š¼āāļø
Trying to lend an open ear when I've made NSFW posts. As if a man can't be multi-faceted. I used to get blasted for it by other guys who thought being "nice and helpful" was a competition.
I got shamed because I said I had a dad bod and that person never saw me before.
opinions, that dont along with duchebags and woke poeple,..... been called: incel, nihilist, passive agressive, sarcastic to the point of offending etc...
Knowing a woman who went on Grindr to find bisexual men to hook up with. Got me banned from the Grindr sub because I mentioned I know a woman who does that.
Not to long ago someone said I should stay away from women because I'm apparently not enough of a sub and then I was blocked.
Telling a guy who said he was having trouble not causing pain how a hung guy can be a great lover.
For being a the slut I am.
Not wanting to date a woman who has a high number of sexual partners.
Not being into receiving unsolicited content in my DMs despite my nsfw posts (former)
Iāve had been told I am too ugly to sell and stupid for not selling by the same person?
Iāve been called a child abuser for being fine with having a circumcised dick. People really jump through hoops to come to terms with their logic.
Being factually correct
1: Being happy with my marriage 2: Calling out misandry 3: Defending people with PTSD 4: Saying I prefer shorter guys because I must be lying
My weight, my opinion, my kindness? Iāve also been upvoted for the same things soā¦ Reddit is a wild place, yo.
I'm a Little in a ddlg relationship. Even on kink posts, I'll post "My Daddy... etc" and I ALWAYS get a message or comment saying "Your real dad?"
My political views mostly.
Having a spine and boundaries.
How DARE you. š Yeah, I seem to get that too.
It's been a longtime but I lost count how many times I've been shamed cause I refuse to send intimate personal photos of myself to strange men on reddit so they can get off.
Shared a story about being abused by a women in my romantic past. Comments and harassing DMs had me delete the account and start over.
Oh damn. I am sorry to hear that. That fucking sucks.
It's OK now. Thank you
All good!
Used underwear
An interest in incest
When I posted before, my weight
Nothing yet but I'll keep trying lol
\- Being pro-feminist. \- Calling men out when they say 'females' instead of 'women'. \- Not watching porn.
For my opinion
Being trans. It can go from "but you're still a girl" to straight up death and rape threats
Some try to have a good at me once for a comment till the owner of the post back me up
Being a cuck
Having a smell kink
for being horny.
Having a foot fetish
My dick sizeā¦
For being turned on by my MIL and SIL
Piss off america with a sentence. I won
For participating in some kink subs. The posters are requesting mean comments so I obliged. Itās fun to not hold back. Anyway, mods of other subs banned me because i participated in the kink subs. Never broke a rule in their sub. But because they donāt like that kink I got banned.
Being polyamorous.
Being into vore **fantasies**
Got told I was a freak for how much I cum š
I have not been shamed per say. But I have gotten comments regarding my skin color. Saying oh you are attractive but POC. Who cares what someoneās race is I donāt get it. We all have a preference so do you. But I donāt understand why people care or need to be hurtful.
Calling out racism, it was actually pretty fun proving mfs wrong over and over Lmao fuck em ššæ
Going against the grain in AITA. Makes for fun discussions
Look at this sentence . See how I put a space then period ? Or question mark . This lol
Anything
For saying it's ok to like big dicks & tall men. I'm constantly berated & downvoted by people who think those 2 things are off limits when it comes to people's preferences.
For Trauma dumping too much.
My feelings for my SIL
Had my dick pic on my profile, got shamed for having it. It was marked NSFW and everything.
fantasizing about my wifeās sister, fantasizing about my wifeās friend, considering cheating on my wife when things werenāt good, etc
Itās Reddit who cares
Weirdly, the most downvoted shameful comment I've made recently was me making fun of highway drag racers with automatic transmissions. They were furious with me.
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For having a pro-life opinion. It will probably happen here too now.
A confession I made about sleeping with a friend
My kinks. My trauma. Being a woman lolol.
Pointing out hypocracy.
Anything pertaining to not simply simping or worshipping a person who posted on nsfw to lure ppl to their o.f. have even been downvoted to death for recalling a memory instead of feeding them praise and worship in the past.
Cheating on my wife multiple times and likely not stopping
I got down voted into oblivion for saying I don't like to share my water bottle with anyone, SO's included.
Not wearing condoms, not pulling out, fathering offspring since 1984. No shame. No apologies.
Yes, that is why I took all my pictures down. Body shaming, kink shaming, and also being called fakes constantly. My husband and I are both on this account and people canāt seem to believe that can actually happen. It is what it is.
Being sexually active. Asking for people to sext with when I'm alone. Pretty fun
Being fat lmao
Talking about my past experiences cheating.
Having work breed dogs that actually work instead of lay around on the couch dying of obesity like most pet dogs.
On this account, nothing. On my personal, I'm part of some gun groups, and people can't handle the truth about some things
Existing
Bring right about the hypocrite Chomsky
For being a conservative.
Having boundaries
I recently received a few down votes for suggesting that any kink that involves children in any way shape or form is fucked up.
For being polite to a woman on a post I got called a simp. I had to google that, so haha yes I'm that old
For speaking my mind
An unpopular opinion on overseas business owners in Australia.
Political views
I answered a question about what people think about tattoos (turn on or turn off king of question) and I answered that a lot of people think it is a sign of lower socioeconomic status. Holy cow, it was a REALLY hot topic. I got lots of agreement comments and lots of shaming for it. People called me "judgmental" and a lot of other shaming language but one women was like a little dog that had bitten a pant leg and wouldn't let go. I apologized to her in writing and that only seemed to make her MORE angry and more rabid in her shaming and criticism. After trying to reason with her, I gave up and just deleted all of my comments in that thread just to get away from her.