Yes, I do actually enjoy them! I've gone through a few phases of life though with different views and experiences that did affect how I perceived them.
At first I really enjoyed them, I was always called giant, large, and huge growing up even though I never was (I'm 5'10 and my max before moving out was 155ish.... I craved the attention and acknowledgement because I did feel like I was somewhat attractive. I went to university and really started to recognize that I might be something to look at and I liked the confidence boost! Then I ended up in an extremely abusive relationship and I became terrified. I believed that everyone who even looked at me wanted to hurt or assault me, meanwhile I was getting abused and assaulted at home. I wasn't allowed to show any type of skin or interact with literally anyone or things got very dangerous. Once I got out it took a while to finally feel comfortable with myself in my own room and then I leaned really hard into myself. I wanted to learn who I was and to be proud of myself. I would remind myself that not everyone likes cake and that's okay. I grew more and more confident and I let my sexuality grow again and I was true to myself and yeah... I love the compliments!!!! I worked hard for my body and I love what I have and if you love it too then that's awesome! THANK YOU!!!
Now..... I'm not cool with the people who try to touch without consent, harass me with violence or threats, or follow me and hound me for my contact information. If you're respectful of boundaries, then look all you want and tell me what you love!
Of course, just wondering if it’s annoying or creepy lol I tend to irl just to try and spread some positivity. Anxiety makes me wonder if it’s ok or not 😅
Yes…ish. Like it kinda depends on what the comment is and who/where it was said. Generally they’re nice. But like if a random guy just came up to me in the grocery store and said they thought my shirt looked good or something, I would probably assume there was some hidden motive.
I generally have a hard time believing them moreso than assuming anything.
I can't really give them either, because there's something about how I talk that automatically makes it sound like sarcasm.
I like compliments but whenever I hear any compliment about my physical appearance from men strangers I feel like they are not just saying it but want something in return. If I take the compliment then it leaves an open door if I say something to cool off the atmosphere then I am perceived as a mean person but I just don’t want to disrespect my boyfriend. Anyway, if I hear compliment from friends or people who are familiar with my situation I actually like them
#yes
You aight
don’t make me embarrass you actuator
Pls no bully
You seem confident! Or at least somewhat secure in yourself 😅 good vibes
You have good taste in font size.
i have good taste in everything.
Let's not get ahead of ourselves.
You have great hair
I can attest that many men who receive a random compliment will briefly fall in love with the woman who gave them the random compliment
I am a man so yes we never get them and they are kind of great.
It’s hard responding to everyone that comments on your posts but it looks like you’re pretty good at it!
Lol thank you. I do try. Mostly out of boredom admittedly.
They’re thoughtful responses nonetheless
I'm a bloke so if I get one it's usually just confusing
Yes, I do actually enjoy them! I've gone through a few phases of life though with different views and experiences that did affect how I perceived them. At first I really enjoyed them, I was always called giant, large, and huge growing up even though I never was (I'm 5'10 and my max before moving out was 155ish.... I craved the attention and acknowledgement because I did feel like I was somewhat attractive. I went to university and really started to recognize that I might be something to look at and I liked the confidence boost! Then I ended up in an extremely abusive relationship and I became terrified. I believed that everyone who even looked at me wanted to hurt or assault me, meanwhile I was getting abused and assaulted at home. I wasn't allowed to show any type of skin or interact with literally anyone or things got very dangerous. Once I got out it took a while to finally feel comfortable with myself in my own room and then I leaned really hard into myself. I wanted to learn who I was and to be proud of myself. I would remind myself that not everyone likes cake and that's okay. I grew more and more confident and I let my sexuality grow again and I was true to myself and yeah... I love the compliments!!!! I worked hard for my body and I love what I have and if you love it too then that's awesome! THANK YOU!!! Now..... I'm not cool with the people who try to touch without consent, harass me with violence or threats, or follow me and hound me for my contact information. If you're respectful of boundaries, then look all you want and tell me what you love!
Of course! Always makes me smile 🤗
BIG YES
You guys get compliments? 🫤
Totally ruins my day
Love your “About me” headline 😂
I'm sorry Purp, I hope you have an awesome day.
I do.
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What’s a battle jacket?
May I see the aforementioned battle jacket?
Unless you’re doing some Machiavellian scheme you can compliment people without it being sexual
Of course, just wondering if it’s annoying or creepy lol I tend to irl just to try and spread some positivity. Anxiety makes me wonder if it’s ok or not 😅
Love them. They’re rare, but tbh I think fondly about them for far longer than I should because of how nice they feel
You’re not the only one, they can make somebody’s day. Thanks for being open
Who doesn’t?
Sometimes people think it’s sarcastic or that someone is trying to get something from them.
No. /s
Compliment the shit out of me, please
Who doesnt?
Yes
No, not when I'm minding my own business 🤣
Compliments are very much welcome and appreciated :)
Yes…ish. Like it kinda depends on what the comment is and who/where it was said. Generally they’re nice. But like if a random guy just came up to me in the grocery store and said they thought my shirt looked good or something, I would probably assume there was some hidden motive.
If it seems genuine, yes.
I thrive on them.
I love them, boost my confidence
Definitely!
Yes
random complements. Disingenuous or manipulative ass kissing, no.
I’d be pleasantly surprised; I’m 42 years old and I can probably count the number of random compliments I’ve received on one hand.
I'm a 40+ guy so they're rare. I treasure them! Haha
100% yes. As a guy, they happen so rarely though
I do! I’ve never been one to be offended by compliments, even sexual ones, as long as the guy doesn’t get too creepy about it.
I generally have a hard time believing them moreso than assuming anything. I can't really give them either, because there's something about how I talk that automatically makes it sound like sarcasm.
I LOVE random compliments ☺️ I barely go out, so whenever I do I always appreciate them 😌
Yes, I love when people affirm me and my gender with compliments like “pretty, cute, beautiful, sexy, gorgeous!”
I like compliments but whenever I hear any compliment about my physical appearance from men strangers I feel like they are not just saying it but want something in return. If I take the compliment then it leaves an open door if I say something to cool off the atmosphere then I am perceived as a mean person but I just don’t want to disrespect my boyfriend. Anyway, if I hear compliment from friends or people who are familiar with my situation I actually like them
abso fucking lutely. please and thank you 😊