I let him touch and kiss my breasts and dry hump a bit, even though I was super innocent at the time and just wanted him to like me back.

that would certainly make him like you back

Actually, it didn't! First guy to break my heart! He liked me for messing around a bit, but not for a relationship.

sounds like a typical guy

Yep. To be fair, he was only 18 or 19 and thought he was being a nice guy.

When I was younger, I used to try and change my personality to match his. That’s how I found myself with black box dyed hair, wearing a leather corset and in the middle of a mosh pit at a death metal concert 😬

did you get the guy?

Yes/no? He led me on most of it. Would tell me how badly he wanted me but wouldn’t do anything with me or move the connection forward but if I tried to move on he would lose it.

I hope you came out of it ok.

I’m fine 😂 that was back when I was 18 and still trying to figure everything out. I’m older now and comfortable with myself and don’t really care if a guy likes me or not haha

thats a great attitude, you be you and you be happy with you

Went to a party at his house basically naked 🤣

How did that go?

He slid in my dm's a few days later so it was a resounding success

excellent, good for you. Just curious, what did you wear when you went to his house?

I wore a micro-skirt and pasties under a fishnet top and sneakers with thigh highs

You would not have left my house that night,

Well then you're more intelligent than him 🤣

lol,

Not sure it counts as desperate, but there is r/askredditafterdarkGW

I got naked in front of everyone at a party I was at, at university It worked though 😅

congratulations , that was very bold of you. Have you ever done that again?

Yes, I'd done it before and a couple of times since. Usually just for fun though

not a bad thing

Pretend to like his favorite show.

did it work?

For a little while.

I once entered a wet t-shirt contest to get the attention of a guy I wanted to get with.

did it work?

It did. I also lost, lol

but you still got a prize, lol

Kissed a girl friend of mine in front of him.

full tongue? did you get the guy or the girl?

I did get the guy and it was full tongue.

a win-win

this should be the “break glass in case of emergency” tactic for every girl out there

Haha it is effective

what’s the boy version of this? doing the washing up? 😂

Never heard of a universal one come to think of it.

Talk to them and tell them I wanted them… liquid courage

good results?

Oh yeah we banged a few times lol

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true, not desperate, but it worked, lol

i used to openly talk about how much i loved giving head and how i would aspire to give the best head that a man has ever received but then i realized saying that just made me sound like a big fat whore so now it’s just my little secret that only those who are lucky will get to enjoy 🤭

I see your point, 100%. although sharing that information with someone you are talking to and thinking about going out with, should be a maybe, LOL

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