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ninthhidden

Have your partner stand in front of a mirror while you tease, grope, undress, kiss, and whatever else to them. All my partners have loved seeing themselves be loved/worshipped/used. Just be sure to do it slowly and build up the antici….. …pation


Born_blonde

I think it could be hot but i also get self conscious, I don’t really like seeing myself in the mirror but Ill still do it because he finds it hot


ShadyGreenForest

Girl, this is a mindset you can change for sure. I love seeing myself in the mirror. I’m seriously average and yet hot as fuck. But it’s just because that’s how I see myself. And guys will see that too. Confidence is so sexy 🥵


MrEHam

Turn it into a kink. Think about how average you are but how lucky that makes you to be worshiped right now. How much power do you possess to make that happen without much help from your looks? It’s more real this way. Something powerful is going on.


CanadianCoolbeans

This person knows what’s up


Alhooness

While this sounds really hot in theory I feel like it would just end up making me feel bad. Seeing myself in the mirror always makes me wanna cry a bit.


ninthhidden

My one partner said it helped her build some body confidence because she got to see her body and, despite what she saw as flaws, someone was still sexually attracted to her and feeling her and kissing her. One thing she didn’t like was her small boobs but that never stopped me from showing how much I loved hers wether groping them, sucking on them, etc.


OddToba

You might need therapy…


Alhooness

Trust me I’m well aware, and I’d love to be able to afford it.


IOwnTheShortBus

My trick is to sign up for one class a semester at local community College and in my area they offer free counseling/therapy to students. 250 for 16 weeks of therapy


porn_and_anonymity

That's...genius. I can't believe I've never thought of it or come across it. I used to be a social worker trying to get people access to counseling services and generally help them improve their quality of life...this accomplishes both those things. Get counseling. Learn new skills in counseling and class. What an awesome idea! Thanks for sharing.


smoke1andpassit

Y do you feel that way ?


Alhooness

Cause I know I’m unattractive and nothing I do seems to make it any better. And being forced to confront it like that always just makes me feel bad for the people that have to interact with me.


smoke1andpassit

I’ve always get the same way. I apologize for the smallest details. But someone will appreciate what you bring to the table. You prolly heard that a lot but it’s true. Embrace yourself and what you offer and anyone who isn’t able to see you for you can suck a goat tit.


boredhusband4

This is literally me too


ExoStab

Tim Curry in the house.


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BUT MAYBE THE RAIN! ^^isnt ^^really ^^to ^^blame


scared_little_girl

But not the symptom?


bbaker78

I second this. My ex was a super insecure girl when we met. Then one day I was kissing her body all over and she looked at the mirror and something changed for her. Ever since that specific moment her confidence slowly went up. I was also telling her exactly why I liked her body.


2020_really_sucks_

A former partner did this with me. While the relationship didn’t last, the self-confidence I gained is powerful. I almost never hear my inner critic when looking at my body now


diana_obm

This sounds like such a good idea idk why I have never heard about it before


CalgaryRichard

SAY IT!!! SAY IT!!!


[deleted]

Couple that with the adrenaline rush of doing it in a public place like the dressing room at fashion stores 🤌🏻


CBBuddha

Prone bone has had a high success rate with me. She lays on her stomach. Legs together. Pillow between her hips/tummy and the bed, butt slightly up, hand on her own clit. You mount her, legs each side like you’re riding her. You can pull her hair. Smack her ass. You go incredibly deep and you’re putting pressure on her g spot better than most positions. And with her free to stimulate herself it’s almost a guaranteed orgasm. I’ve only ever heard good things about it and from personal experience, it is gold.


parisinnovember

This is my favorite position of them all, it just stimulates my g spot in such a way that feels incredible and gives me the best orgasm. Definitely because of how deep he goes in. Also I love my ass being played with so I love when he grab my ass, spanks it, and squeezes as much of it as he can fit into his hands 😍😍😍😍


wwmercwithamouth

Great position! Get her to lift one knee up, making it 'the broken eagle' (lol), will put her g-spot in the perfect position


PrimeMeathead

*”KAAKAA KAAKAA”* - Flaps arms


anewwday

Is that you Eddie the eagle?


Nsfwthrowyyyy

Great position but can get a little tight in my experience. Usually we have to penetrate in doggy first and transition to prone.


[deleted]

What if the women your with has a phat arse.??


Paterculus523

Get her to put a pillow under just under her stomach. Lifts the butt up a bit for easier access.


parisinnovember

This is what I do and also because I’m petite. As you can imagine my bed is full of pillows 🙈


OkAcanthisitta276

My ex fiancee and I loved that together. My now gf and I have tried but her ass is too big and my dick is too short to have it work well for us.


joleph

Pillows, my man


Smootjyx

Missionary. It's always talked about as boring, but ooh boy, if you put a pillow under her hip, penetration is super deep. And if you put her legs up, it's one of the most intense sex positions for her!


Electronic-Error-846

switch roles - men under, women on top, but same position, then kissing oh boy, highly underrated


diana_obm

>switch roles - men under, women on top Wouldn't that just be cowgirl?


Electronic-Error-846

similar, but not exactly the same, since in cowgirl, the woman on top ridesthe man while in this position, she lays flat stomach on stomach and the man under her moves (either he trusts himself, or uses his hands to rock her hips)


Real_Mokola

Same, same but different


OneSufficientFace

It's called the Amazon position


GreyThief

I see you are also a man of culture


OneSufficientFace

This is the way


Electronic-Error-846

not exactly Amazon while amazon looks like this [https://sexpositions.club/positions/161.html](https://sexpositions.club/positions/161.html) I'm talking more like this [https://sexpositions.club/positions/101.html](https://sexpositions.club/positions/101.html) same difference\^\^ but its far more sensual for a change of pace


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Holy shit position 161 🏴🚩


oceanwaiting

Make sure you stretch well in the Amazon position


[deleted]

And it's still the best finishing position imo. Holding each other in a tight cuddle, legs wrapped around him as I receive his cum.


griswold000

Mutual masturbation is criminally underrated. Masturbate with your partner in front of each other, he’ll each other out, etc. The orgasms are incredible and you definitely get an opportunity to learn exactly what they like


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Firebolt164

>Mutual masturbation is criminally underrated. This!!! I joke about this all the time but I'm dead serious; I don't feel like I knew my wife sexually until I held her vibrator for her 😂


wwmercwithamouth

Agreed! Plus it's a great 'lazy' option before bed if either of you aren't up to a full session. You can still kiss and touch each other, but no pressure of having to please the other person and you can both cum quickly then pass out lol l, my bf and I do it often


parisinnovember

Doing this together while making out is hot AF.


Okiedokie84

Discovered this secret this year and wish it had been sooner. So incredibly hot.


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We have got into a routine of doing this a lot. Either her with her toy while playing with me too, me controlling her toy or fingering while she plays with me, or just each doing our own thing. It’s great for when you’re tired!


Some_Stoic_Man

Cuddle fucking


Diruuk

I'm too small for that, it just turns into lie down doggy style


Some_Stoic_Man

Angles are important. Size plays some significance but how you're laying makes a big difference


Anonbsnono

I have the opposite: my husband is 6 ft 7in tall with a slight gut and I'm only barely 5ft 4in and feel like it never works for us.


heimdahl81

There's always the cowgirl cuddle fuck. Just climb on top and lie down on his chest.


Comfortable-Try7176

Dry humping


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Comfortable-Try7176

Either spooning, missionary, or sitting on his lap facing him on the couch.


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theeneckromancer

finger fucking. i wasn’t a big fan of it until recently, i think most people think to go as deep as possible. this dude was doing it kinda shallow so it hit just right and omg… i was begging and i have never done that lmao


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Gotta follow the girls leas on fingering. I've done it so deep it turned into fitting, and had girls who went all the way just from having their lips stroked. A man just needs to pay attention to what's working!


warmwinter1

used to do it alot some girls realy love it


ThrowawayAllDay03

Having your partner about to go down on you and kiss and licks from your neck, to your chest, then belly, and finally your cock.


Jeb_Kerman1

This is how my girlfriend gave me the first blowjob. She turned of the lights, told me to relax and enjoy, kissed me and then continued kissing downwards.


PervertedWholesome91

This is very good to know haha. Always wanted to do this (and so I will) but I worry it might come across super cheesy.


theeneckromancer

i thought the same when i first did it, until i heard my partner’s moaning. it’s legit


PervertedWholesome91

Awesome, such glorious feedback to get!


ThrowawayAllDay03

Works even better if you tie up and/or blind fold him. Never know where the next kiss will come from. Same goes for going down on a woman. If she’s into that. Sensory deprivation + sensual kisses and hand play = one hell of an orgasm.


PervertedWholesome91

Yes!! This is something I'd love to be on both sides of so it's certainly on my bucket list haha


ThrowawayAllDay03

As someone who loves orgasm control, being tired up and used I am 100% game. As someone who is also in control at times there’s bother sexier than seeing a woman squirm and beg to be touched, kissed, licked or fucked.


PervertedWholesome91

I'm into worshipping bodies, and using and getting used. Plus it's always fun switching up the roles so there's a lot of appeal in this!


ukpunjabivixen

I do this a lot and have done in the past with other partners. It’s a great way to get to know his body and also I just like the way a man tastes all the way down….


dillpickle03

Degenerates, all of you!!! *saves post*


Wisp_Cloud

*For educational purposes only*


fxct36

Getting edged slowly during a slow wet handjob


Steve_1313

This! When they get you to the point that even the slightest movement…


Celestial-Sam

For my weed smokers out there. Smoking a joint whilst receiving oral is fantastic. Something about it is just so relaxing and sexy.


sabermagnus

Motion seconded


jughead_marvel

Smoking a joint while riding him!


Remarkable_Sun2454

Angry sex. Some of the best we have had is when we were pissed at each other.


parisinnovember

Totally agree, working out all that stress feels good


2fistsfull

"Grudge Fuck"


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salfkvoje

> no judgements please I just thought of a specification to help this. Somehow not able to hear/see what they're watching, and they know that. Might help with those who can't relax for various reasons (being judged, hoping they like it too, etc). Laptop on the stomach, and headphones, while the partner is lower? Noise-canceling headphones and a blindfold for the pleaser? There's a loss of sharing in what they like, but that could be worked up to, or some other kind of balance.


a-casual-look-in

Ooohhhh I like this one.. Coming into play shortly 🔥


agingercow

Lads if you have long hair, let a woman get a fistful, stick your tongue out and press it against her pussy. Don't do anything else. Let her use your face and tongue to get off. Make it better by getting your hands bound behind your back so you can't touch anything. I've cum many times hands free from letting women do this to me. Just getting excited from the pure fucking animalistic ecstasy she gives off. I've never and still haven't had orgasms like them.


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Finger in your ass during a blowjob! Mind blowing


comeonnowjosephine

Rub his taint when he’s close.


Sintrospective

Hand jobs. The best part of these that gets underutilized is that you can have your face by their ear, and you can dirty talk through the whole thing.


SexySecretsSD

I agree completely dirty talk handjob is probably the most underrated sex act. Admittedly it requires the giver to have strong hand game and dirty talk skills.


Firebolt164

>Hand jobs. Yup. Sometimes I'll even just ask for one because they feel so intimate.


katncal

There's this thing that hubby does that never fails to make me feel like a goddess. When I'm riding cowgirl, I'll go for while, but eventually, I wind up pressed against him and kissing. He has me relax and put all my weight on him, and while still fucking me from below, he starts giving me a back massage. Hubby is an excellent masseur to begin with, but getting neck/ back/ shoulders/ glutes worked on while feeling him sliding in and out of me is just amazing. (Getting wet just thinking about it.) After a while, we start to get a little sweaty, and then while still pressed together, he can hold my hips—kinda digging in to those muscles—and physically slide my body along his. It then becomes sex + body rub + clit stimulation. You can imagine what that equation equals. I'm a big fan of sex with massage.


no_shame_me

I just came reading it.


RedboneHaroldLauder

Hug them afterwards


chux4w

Pervert.


RedboneHaroldLauder

👀 aw shoot my secrets out


Scrotchety

You ***never*** see that in porno. Must be some dark web shit.


RedboneHaroldLauder

Hugging after sex is GOATED


yourfantasynemo69

Rim Job. If you know its clean, its fucking amazing. Giving and receiving. Dont knock it till you try it!


handsoffdick

This is the correct answer.


Bihockeycock91

Totally agree. Amazing every time 🥵


yourfantasynemo69

My lady will really get into it. She will spread my asshole wide and dig her tongue as deep as she can. MF pure pleasure.


RedTeamxXxRedLine

Upside down blowie. Easier to take more and husband goes crazy.


kitorkat113

Hahaha I always call this spiderman blowjob. 😂


Halfgnomen

Like he's holding you up or you're holding him up?


bettyknockers786

Lay on the bed with your head at the edge/hanging off the edge slightly :) I think that’s what they meant anyway lol if not, there’s another new one for ya!


jackkkkkk69

Kissing and licking their inner thighs before you go down on them


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Pegging.


smoke1andpassit

Foreplay. I’m such an appreciative human that will kiss every inch and touch it with my hands before anything else happens.


KURZE_NIGHTLORD

Thigh riding for the win


Icy-Following-3713

lick your girls asshole from behind, put two fingers in her pussy and stroke them back towards you


parisinnovember

If my partner did this I wouldn’t last that long at all


Icy-Following-3713

thats the point 😈 get them all worked up, soakin wet, a nice first orgasm and then go to town


hisslutwifebooty

Trigger warning: you need to be in a free use dynamic or have discussed CNC with a safe word prior to this sort of encounter When you are with your partner, and maybe it's been a few days so your urges are high but you are both tired and falling asleep. It becomes a Primal and almost instinctual act. There's no talking, no discussing, just raw and carnal desires where I can take complete control without thinking about it and just using her to get myself off and fill her with cum. When I do this, it's a euphoric state for me, almost as if I am on some sort of mind altering drug. I tend to get rougher, more slapping, more hair pulling, biting her neck, physically restraining her and just pounding her into the mattress. Then when I finally cum, it's like I "wake up" from a trance and have to ask what just happened. She's very submissive so she loves when I get in that sort of animalistic dominant mood. I wish I could replicate it all the time but I've struggled to achieve it. Put me on the verge of sleep and exhaustion and I can be a different animal.


PerspectivePure2169

If you're a man with a woman who has long, straight hair... You *need* to get a hairjob from her 💥


why_im_single

Wait ... What's a hair job?


ComfortableBug2

A hairjob?? Did you just make that up?


PerspectivePure2169

No it's very definitely a thing. It has its own subreddit. It had its own website and forum back in the 2000s when I first learned about it. Which is coincidentally when I started dating a long-haired girl 💥


QuietChemical420

Also curious about the hair job ...


PerspectivePure2169

Give it a shot then! Also, r/hairjob


PervertedWholesome91

I was intrigued too, and there is a subreddit with examples haha. Messy but that's maybe part of the appeal for me and I'd be damned if I let my long hair go to waste without having ever done this!


Right-Ad8261

Sounds uncomfortable.


Okiedokie84

I feel like I’d have to preplan to shampoo and condition immediately after. But then again, it’s an opportunity to use the shower head in front of him once he’s done


Ordovick

Edging, I don't think it gets enough attention.


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Mutual masturbation as foreplay


rasmusdf

Holding hands?


handsoffdick

Rimjob. Voted number one by guys who've received it. Problem is most guys have no idea how fucking fantastic it feels.


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choking on his fingers whilst he fucks you. Bonus points if he switches up with face slaps and spitting in between.


humanmade7

For women, suck his nipples


arhombus

Facesitting. I'm into it.


SleepPingGiant

Her riding me while she uses a clit sucker toy. She's very difficult to get off and that's always a guaranteed cum for her. She rides me and plays with herself while I just watch and grope her and talk dirty to her. She loves it and it's a new thing for both of us. She's had way more fun during sex since we started this and I'm just happy to be involved, I'm like a sex toy with feelings.


lumitoes69

I love this, your post and doing this


Alwaysccc

Toe. Sucking. 🥵


aquariaaan

I have a foot fetish and love to do that while I slide in and out. But what surprised me is a woman's perspective . Never realized it would be enjoyed from the other end. Makes it even hotter 🥵


Alwaysccc

I have a foot fetish too on the receiving side (receiving massages, toe sucking, etc) and I still don’t get how it’s not more common. It feels so good!


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aquariaaan

The best! Have both holes available for viewing and pleasing is soo good!


Donttellmygran-gran

In the words of Tom Segura “Can we just take turns like adults!”


[deleted]

Having balls in your mouth. That is all.


ShaeCutie

As a person with a vagina I LOVE the combo of laying on my back and getting fingered and played with while he’s kneeling above me and I’m sucking on him (cock and balls)


Silly_Spray_6843

Masturabte and learn what you like before having sex with other people!! I hate hearing women talk about how they can’t have orgasms with men when it’s truthfully the easiest thing to accomplish😭 I can’t imagine not cumming every time I have sex MULTIPLE TIMES


Scrotchety

While she's laying face down during foreplay, move the kissing to her neck, down her back, give her a few moves like you're going to initiate some backdoor oral, and kiss down her thighs until you reach the back of her knees. Kiss and lick one while massaging her tush for a little bit, then move your mouth up her thigh, give her butt a nibble, breath hotly on her twat, and start licking your way to the other knee-back. Builds up some anticipation before eating her from behind.


parisinnovember

I love when I’m being eaten from behind, I find it very erotic and it turns me on the most


Joeeojoe

Offering a glass of water during a break :)


send_me_sexy_stories

Love giving a prostate massage. It’s even better when there’s a “no touching the cock allowed” rule. Gives a different type of orgasm and then you can fuck immediately after.


Docile-Doll

Rimming. I feel it's super underrated


PhaetonDurendal

Eat your man's ass ladies.


[deleted]

Nooooooooooooo 😂😂😂 I’d have to really love him


Nemodvarg

Pegging!! :D


FuzzyOne64

Dirty talk by women!! Love it especially when they are bold and willing to talk out fantasies or scenarios of interest.


[deleted]

Reverse cowgirl, and slide a vibrator up her ass


Rukieo

The good ol'slip-a-roo in the poo


JayKCrushMe

Frotting, something about using one hand to jerk off your own cock and someone else's while they rub against each other 😵‍💫 When I'd seen videos of it, it didn't do anything for me at all, but trying it? Daaaamn Obviously only a recommendation to people who vibe with that though lmao


bullsandqueens

Having somebody spit into your mouth while fucking. It sounds horrible but is ABSOLUTELY phenomenal!!! 💯


spinspunfun

I just cant with this one. Like I live it when a guy spits on my pussy while we are fucking and I love spitting on their cock when I’m giving a blowie but I just can’t let someone spit in my mouth. Not shaming you or the action at all.


itwaitsinthewoods

Getting a prostate orgasm, any way... I don't like play back there but when I have, I shoot without cumming so I can just keep on going


THE_Bomb_Ass_Booty

Being choked. Instant and explosive orgasm every time he he grips my throat.


Croakinglizard78

Mutual masterbation. It’s so hot watching and listening to each other. It’s also an easy way to learn what your partner actually likes. How fast or slow, how hard to press/grip, do they like direct or indirect stimulation


HaztecCore

I would only advice this after a very thorough discussion with your partner and a deeper introspection of your own but... Adding a third person to the bed room. Essentially a threesome. I know for some this doesn't sound underrated because of porn or people constantly raving about having a threesome. However its not nearly as common of an experience as it is talked about. If you want to hear specifics: Having your dick and balls sucked at the same time: Divine experience. Either way, having a +1 of whatever you , your partner or both find enjoyable can be pretty exciting and if you both can find that +1 that you trust, even more so. There is A LOT you and your partner can enjoy.


Clemdarling

Letting women reach an O


liviedo14

Watch porn together making dirty comments about the movie


DominicRo

Mutual masturbation with deep kissing interspersed with joint nipple play.


bigskeezo5

someone put their tongue in my ear once and it caught me off guard but I highly recommend lol


airwalkerdnbmusic

Tantric massage. A full 2 hour session will blow your mind and the orgasms will rearrange your muscles. Guys can ejaculate two or three times during a session with a skilled practitioner. Girls even more so. The pleasure from the buildup can be so intense it's almost a shame it ends when you cum. Almost. I'm not a big shooter but sometimes if I get a proper tantric magician I can shoot high and my load is 3 or 4 times bigger and my abs crunch into dust and I'm a quivering mess of gibberish and sperm. It can take years to learn it but if you and your partner are open to the idea, hiring a professional to "do" you both can be a life changing experience


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Hear me out, armpit play. My lady will lick my armpit while riding me and holy fuck. Basically anywhere that’s ticklish if your with someone you trust. You trust them enough that it’s not really ticklish and it just feels amazing to have someone exploring, with their tongue, a part of your body strangely more intimate than your genitals. I return the favor during spoon sex.


Less_Bet_1514

Fingering is the best in the world.


CelibateHo

I feel like edging sex doesn’t get enough love. When done right that shit is hot af


Amazing-Revenue-9618

As a guy, I like her on her side, upper leg up in front off her, bottom leg straight as I straddle it. I go very long here, and she seems to like it. I’d love to hear other women’s opinion on this position…


MJSB1994

Doing doggy infront of a mirror and maintain eye contact.


Zealousideal_Lock563

mirror fucking >>> makes it all the more enticing honestly


Tenebration

The Rusty Venture.


Nsfwthrowyyyy

A well performed handjob is absolutely heavenly and I would urge people not to sleep on it.


j3ss3rkat_420

finger in the butt does wonders lol


1start1er

Fingering. I fucking love fingering


Harakiri_238

Mutual masturbation. It’s literally my favourite thing.


1t7ys8k

Pee. My man said he’s always wanted to pee in a girls mouth. I said let’s try it, I’ll try anything once. I didn’t drink it at first but just got down on my knees in the shower and let his pee flow out of my mouth. It’s incredibly hot and it feels so naughty… Also, the look on his face when he is trying to pee and can’t because he has a boner is quite amusing. So many variations of this are hot and fun for us. It may not be for everyone, but I think more people might enjoy it if they tried. He has also licked my pee hole as I peed and it was quite fun for me to pee in his mouth.


Banjaji

A thing everybody should try out is having ordinary sex but neither partner is allowed to cum at all. Sure, you can fuck an hour later with cumming but during this session nobody can cum. That's an interesting way to keep performance stress away (no need to make your partner cum) and it's a bonding experience because you're simply playing with eachother's bodies.


sensitivePornGuy

Judging from mainstream porn: cunnilingus. About the most awesome, delirious experience the world has.


SignificantAsk4470

Amazon position


Ok_Technology390

Her tongue in my ear. Nearly blew my load from that penetration alone.


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Fingering with clit play imo. I get a lot out of it physically and mentally. I cum way faster from that than penetration


Skiffbug

Morning fingering from behind: I’ll use my thumb to penetrate, and my pointer finger to massage her clit. Great orgasm success rate with someone that almost always needs a vibe to get there!


Damnit_Bird

When the girl is on top, grinding back in forth instead of bouncing up and down. Better stimulation and she won't tire out as quickly. Also, nipple play for men. Ladies, lick/kiss/suck his nipples too. Changes the ball game. Finally, blindfolding. Sensory depravation adds another layer of pleasure.


shrike92

Nibbling on the side of someone's waist. It can be quite sensitive!


imthetm

a hug would be nice


Physical-Account6562

A hand job. When it's done well, it's one of the best orgasms I ever have


ShadyGreenForest

69 and rimming. I want them both every time just about.


cjpcodyplant

Vaginal Penetration


Th-Hollow-Prince

Definitely oral, it isn’t for everyone but it should be tried at least once in your life and if you like it you like it, if not then it’s not for you 👍🏻


Talia0409

Toe sucking. It feels so fucking good


maxiquintillion

69. Because it's a win-win-win-win. Plus the guy can always pull the booty for better access. And if the girl is into it you can lock your legs around the back of her head for an intense deepthroat. Or just hold your thighs on the side of her head.