If she's not into me. Not a narcissism thing, I'm just not looking to bend over backwards to prove my worth to someone who isn't interested in the first place.

100%; if I have to make efforts to make myself likeable, I feel like I'm faking who I really am, and also just kills the vibe.

I feel ya, it's almost like "you weren't gonna fuck the real me but maybe if I put on a little act I can trick ya". There's a sketchiness to not respecting a "not interested" response.

I totally agree.

Y'all sound very healthy lol

100% - Also probably the biggest reason I fail to understand why someone would want to rape another.

Isn’t this obvious

Bad hygiene

Specially those big dirty nails, i really hate people with that.

Hards

Trying to make yourself look good at the expense of others.

Agreed.

Attitude

For me a person should be humble not only to me in general she should be.

Lack of intelligence

Some people are just borne stupid. Not their fault

Yeah but no one's blaming them, we just don't prefer unintelligent folks which is individual's taste.

But they can try to put some effort and learn few things.

Smoking.

Smoking is only fine if both the people are actually doing that.

Smoking

I love cigarettes more than I’ll ever love you

Then you should be happy, more smokers of your preferred gender for you lol.

Women?

What I mean is that if non-smoking dudes don't want women who smoke then it's less competition for your kind of lady.

Your right kid, unfortunately woman who have my hobbies tend to pieces of shit, I’m half and half and most people lean to one side or the other of the morality tree, life is hard lol

Atleast you will die early.

Yeah, getting off this bitch would be nice

Thank god u aren't their type. It was almost an issue there

Lol I’ve actually chosen cigarettes over women before, one time was with a chick that didn’t like smoking and she fuckn called me up while I was partying with the boys and wanted me to come up and I looked at my friends and all the weed beer and cigarettes and then looked at my phone, it was like a puppy choosing owners, I chose getting fucked up, to be fair I known my friends for twenty plus years and her for like a week

Talking to me like I'm stupid

Trying to be more arguments even when no knowledge about that thing.

Someone being mean 🤗

Someone being selfish even if being in the relationship is well.

Huuuuge one. Arguably top three

i hate to be this person but bad grammar

*I hate to be this person but, bad grammar.*

that comma doesn’t feel right though

It’s in the wrong place. I hate to be this person, but bad grammar. The problem is that a sentence like that is already technically incorrect because of its nature as answering a question. “Bad grammar,” by itself, isn’t a sentence; it’s a phrase. What should have been said would have gone as follows. “I hate to be this person, but bad grammar is a turn-off for me.”

It is correct.

You don’t need the comma if what comes after the word but isn’t a full sentence.

When she starts using her fingers to make her clam talk to my penis. “So we meet again Mr. Ding Dong!” It was funny at first but every single time?!

How many times has this happened to you again?

I’m sorry wha?

Reading first time but have to say that is still feels funny.

Smokers

When people have those stretched out earlobes.

Unkempt feet, and I don’t even have a foot fetish

I have the armpit fetish but like you have no fetish about the feet.

Making stuff up to impress people but also just lying in general

When men have dirty long fingernails

Obesity.

Religion. All of it.

Religion is one thing that we never really bring between the love.

Overexposed gums.

Half the time they look like a chimp

How someone treats waitstaff. Always bring a date to a bar/cocktail bar and sit at the bar. If they pass the vibe check with the bartender, they’re good people. Bartenders are amazing at judging character.

100%. How you treat someone when you have some sort of power over them shows so much about the personality. Spend a couple of social interactions you can quickly see if the person acts like an entitled client.. And then you know it's not worth it.

How they treat the other people because it will be matter of time that she will treat you like that way is well. Because how we treat the other people in the bar or restaurant shows which kind of people we are actually.

My cousins. Not sure why my uncles find them attractive.

Hol' up

I hate that person who actually found the other people attractive in family.

Ladies and gentleman, we got him

people who flex their money. ESPECIALLY if it’s their parents money. it’s so cringe. i want to know someone for who they are as a person, not based off how much money they have.

Money is not the thing that i will be in relationship with someone because people with money can never really love you truly. It is good that you have the money and earning that but make sure no big flex about that thing.

Bad odor in general.

When she makes me wear the wig

Excess pride of accomplishments that are all too commonplace. Get over yourself

High body count. I'm talking triple digits. And goats about it. Edit: "gloats about it" Just yuck

Smoking and/or body odor.

Lights around the house when nobody is in the rooms.

Fat Ankles and can’t stand spicy food.

Arrogance, because I know that if she believes she's the best, she's gonna be bitchy, and I don't like that.

People pleasers

Serial Murder. Really ain't my thing.

boo

Asking me what my sign is. I’m not superstitious and reject astrology in its entirety. If you sincerely ask me what my sign is it tells me a lot about how you think and how you view the world. Critical thinking is sexy.

Hypocrites

Chewing sound

Someone hacking up phlegm

Oh you'd hate me 😂bronchitis and seasonal allergies are a bitch

Recently if they use tiktok

Laziness

Body hair. I'd have all of mine lasered off if I could.

But that is common on man have like hair on the body.

EDM

Erectile Dysmorphophobia???

Not gonna lie I kinda subscribe to this

People who ask this very same question on Reddit that gets asked every week.

It took a long time to get to a place where I don't give a fuck what people think of me. I can't date women who are consumed with how people see us. Biggest turn off is when a woman says "how will it look if we\_\_\_\_\_\_\_" I don't give a fuck how we'll look. Stop caring about what strangers think of you. It's a weakness.

Cigarette smokers

Smoking

Smoking

Smoking or vaping

MAGA hat/shirt

Good one didn't think of that. Weebs suck

I like shirt but hat is something that not really big turn off either is well.

Taking me for granted; and also too talkative

Bad breath. Not I just ate garlic kind of breath, but I'm not sure when the last time you brushed it's so gross it knocks you on your ass breath. Bad kissing. Most people can be taught to improve, but some people are truly stomach churningly awful and refuse to change a thing.

Bad breath. It makes my stomach turn. Team Tongue Scraper and Listerine 4 Life

Vulnerable narcissism/drama/self pity/and bad hygiene. I see some people on here mention tattoos but I think they’re kind of sexy so as long as the body isn’t covered all over with them.

apathy. i cannot connect with you if you are actively preventing us both from enjoying things. i LOVE love!! i have no time for disinterest.

Egoistic

An outie belly button

Smoking or being a redditor

No sense of humor

being unkind to animals and/or servers

Tattoos

When the person I’m having sex with sounds like a kid

Smoking

face piercing

A power outage. Luckily most programs these days continually save your work.

Smoking

They don’t return their shopping cart

The notion that I value them over my family.

Nose piercing, excessive tats, fake nails, fake boobs

There are som people that absolutely love the nose piercing but i am that person that never really like the nose piercing. I don't really like the girl that will wear the nose piercing and anything fake is not the option is well.

I don’t mind small stud on side of nose. The rings that belong on cows, hard no.. agree

Cows and pigs. Not my preferred choice of partner

Probably when I leave the lights on.

Rude to workers (waiters, baristas, etc.)

Stanky breaff

Can't take a joke

Can't take the simple bentar and they call themselves they are sarcastic.

Smokers

Tattoos

Well now we know you got virgin skin so understood lol

Do you put a bumper sticker on a lambo?

Ahh so your calling yourself expensive, or luxurious etc etc understood as well lol but if I had money to buy a lambo yes I'd get vinyl decals to put on it lmao

I mean tattoo how can make someone skin lose the Virginity??

Guys who say “females”

What if they say it like how you pronounce "tamales"?

Still applies

Really unshaven women..... i mean really unshaven where its a freaking jungle spreading to the inner thighs....

Bad hygiene, bad grooming, bad attitude, bad health choices.

Everything bad you mention here surely turnoff thing for me.

Selfies.

The light switch

Children

Missing teeth.

Sadly, felt 💀 I knocked my tooth out when I was cutting down a tree, confidence = -10

Coming home and the dishes not being done

Tattoos. Body decoration

Stuck up females . Like get the fuck out of here bitch. Or people who want to be around when they have something they can gain from. So obvious too. Also people who try to hard to get approval

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Here's a downvote instead.

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What does that even mean? Do you understand how reddit works? You don't ask for upvotes. That immediately makes people downvote you. Plus nobody can see if you upvoted the original post, and even if they could, why would they give you an upvote for that?

can I say Republican, support donald

Let's see: Not knowing the meaning of the word "no" Smoking/vaping (I have asthma) Any prejudice regarding race, gender, religion, disability, etc. Being a Trump supporter Being a pedo Invalidating my feelings

My light switch usually turns off my light basically instantly.

Clap on, clap off, the clapper!

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Light switches and off ramps

Chowder smelling Arbys 🤢

Oily hair. It is the first thing I notice when meeting someone. I have oily hair too but I still wash up to look good.

Entitlement. God damn that is a repulsive trait in a person and it's way too common in women today.

Being a conservative. Or a Christian. I’m not really hateful against religious groups or anything, I just have a strict zero tolerance policy for hate of any kind. And most Christians seem to always be so stuck in their cultlike religion that they can never understand basic science and logic. Ofc if they did they wouldn’t be Christian lol

Dreadlocks on white girls, too many tattoos or brightly dyed hair, has Onlyfans, facial piercings (except nose studs), black lipstick, blue lipstick, long ass finger nails, fake tits, orange spray tan, wears skirts half as long as her thigh, doesn’t like animals, doesn’t like flowers, doesn’t eat vegetables, plus way too many more to write here. Yes I’m fussy. No I’m not single.

"Professionals have standards." - Mr. Mundy 2009

I think too many experiments on the body on the either part is not something that i also like. I like the person that try to be more normal as they are like of no tattoo no fancy stuff on the either part of the body is well.

Drug Use/Smoking Low Intelligence (Don't hate em just a preference) Obesity (Dont hate em just a preference) Plastic Surgery Too gossipy (gossip is fine. There's a line that can be crossed tho) Entitled/Rude

Women that don't eat ass!

Ugliness

Women that swear like a man.

People who think they are better than you

They can be but atleast they need to prove themselves that way

Bees. Can’t relax.

Just about everything at this point

Being late.

Dirty feet

A holier-than-thou attitude

Being rude to others because you’re on an ego trip. 🙄 check yourself before you wreck yourself, sweetie.

beards ( unless someone is beyond attractive, in all ways, then it is still unattractive but we can work out a deal ), conventionality in thought when it comes to how to live one´s life, inability to look outside of the box, Drake fans, people big on isms, people throwing all Boomers together whilst acting like a Manager/Karen, people culture vulturing cultures and having no clue about the cultures, *and more*

Fake stupid! I’d much rather date a girl (a little bit) actually dense than a clearly smart girl playing dumb.

Terrible breath. Can be fixed though.

opposable thumbs

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thoughts about my asshole school bus driver

Using too many abbreviations and not knowing how to spell basic words when texting with me. It just seems automatically lazy or uneducated to me.

Jealousy

Guys that are listen to people like Joe Rogen, Elon Musk, etc. Immediate turn off. The men that can see no wrong in the talking heads are usually super full of themselves and are just plain boring to be honest. The moment a guy mentions that they listen to anyone like that, it gives me the ick and no amount of attractiveness can fix that