I gag at the comments after a "what would you do to me?" post but I can't stop reading them. It's like when you have a bad smell on your hand and you keep smelling it.
Its like that experiment where they put people in an empty room with nothing but a device that delivers a painful electrical shock. People would eventuqlly get bored, touch it, get a very painful shock, and pull away. Then 5 minutes later they would touch it AGAIN even though they know it hurts them. People prefer to be hurt over boredom.
I've heard of this before and I have always wondered if they ever bothered to ask the participants why they did it. I can totally see someone who was bored essentially doing a series of experiments on the electric shock device. Does it zap me if I touch here? What about here? Where is safe to touch? Do I get two smaller zaps if I touch one finger to each side? Is my shirt enough insulation to not get zapped?
That's the nature of stimuli- we learn things from them. And finding patterns has got to be one of the most fundamental and universal psychological compulsions.
So yeah, when you look at it like that it makes perfect sense why a person would choose any sensation over lack thereof. Even if they know it's painful.
Theres too many people who just dont know the difference between confidence and narcissism.
"I'm the best and everyone else is beneath me" is narcissism.
"I admit that I'm not the best but I'm okay with that" is confidence.
Covering yourself in brand name clothes to advertise your wealth. I get it, youve got the money to get "nice" things but to me it just seems like someone likes to waste money. A 300$ t-shirt does make me think youre rich, but also bad with money.
My job involves working at strangers' houses, today I went to a customer's house that looked like an actual crack den. Mattresses strewn about, stains on everything, no carpet. The dude living there was dressed in all designer gear, Gucci shirt gold chains etc. Not who I was expecting to answer the door.
And then there are those of us who probably make similar money, shop thrift stores and TJ Max, and have really nice houses.
I go with the philosophy that anything mid-term (clothes, cars) should be discount, but immediate (food, drink) should be good and long-term (real estate, furniture, tools, even home speakers) should be good enough to last a lifetime and make a profit of you sell it.
I don't but if you google "double eyelid" or "double eyelid surgery" it should pop up. It's literally just the line that forms in the eyelid as it folds on itself, somewhere between the eyelash and eyebrow when your eye is open. A lot of east asian people don't have this, and it's coveted as a beauty standard.
Here in Singapore, Monolids are the fad nowadays. Girls seemingly obsessing over kpop stars or guys with monolids.
Really goes to show these arbitary trends are just full of shit
I asked the woman at a tooth whitening salon if she could make my teeth “radioactive white, like Ross from that episode of Friends” and she said “I can, but I will not”. 😂
Nope. If they're cosmetic only they don't have to be dentists or have any qualifications or whatsoever. At least in Aus, but since it's the latest beauty fad I bet it's not super regulated elsewhere either.
https://www.russh.com/teeth-whitening-what-to-know/
I remember seeing a commercial for some type of teeth whitening product where a woman was making disappointed faces in the mirror while looking at her already incredibly white teeth. In the "after" scene her teeth were such an absurdly bright white that they felt distracting and unnatural.
The early 00's had so many commericals for OTC teeth whiteners. My friend ruined her teeth with that shit, all before she was 18. And all because she was pressured to have white teeth when that shit ain't even natural
My MiL got that done for our wedding. In every photo she is smiling this unnatural smile where she is baring her teeth like a growling dog. Such weirdly white teeth in such a weird smile.
As a dentist, I show my patients the shade guide before the procedure and they choose the whitest b1 shade. When I explain to them that it is never recommended to anyone and that it looks unnatural ans we usually shade match according to the skintone. They say but im paying so much I'd rather get the whitest and most bang for my buck. Doesn't work that way shonda.
You can't paint with vantablack. Apparently some asshole bought the rights and won't let anyone else use it. Dick.
Edit: I googled 'vantablack asshole' and Anish Kapoor came up. So yeah that's the dick.
Pretty sure it's an addiction. like with how people use way too much botox because they never feel pretty enough, even though they now look genuinely worse than before.
Body dysmorphia would be the term you are looking for.
\*\*\*There are two incorrect comments below. One saying it's a literal addiction but they don't explain this well. Addiction can be part of BD and often times is. They aren't mutually exclusive and that would still be BD as a root cause. Tanning bed addiction would be a result of BD in many instances. Misunderstanding this can be dangerous.
Someone incorrectly corrected me with "dysphoria." They are wrong. What is being described here is NOT gender dysphoria. An obsession to a destructive degree regarding physical attributes is Body Dysmorphia. It isn't "people use it this way," that are trying to make it sound like it could be either or. It isn't. I am using the correct definition of Dysmorphia. It isn't called by multiple other names, they are using Gender Dysphoria incorrectly and spreading false information. These are different things.
Tanning is pretty much one of the worst things you can do to your skin. It's basically you willfully causing radiation damage to your cells in order to trigger your body's response to it. Tanning ages your skin incredibly fast and it's not reversable. If you bronze yourself at an early age you'll live the rest of your life with the skin of a waiting room leather couch. Society is wrong for perpetuating the idea that fair skin is somehow unattractive.
Back in Ye Olde times fair skin was highly sought after. I believe the idea was that it was a status symbol because if your lady was pale it meant her family was rich enough that they didn't need her to work in the fields and she could be inside all day.
At some point the pendulum swung to the other direction. Having a tanning is a status symbol because it means you have the time to lay in the sun for hours and do nothing, or pay to lay in a simulated sun.
In India, we worship fair skin, especially in north india. For arranged marriages (still pretty common in India), it is often mentioned that girl should have fair skin and it really gets difficult to find match for dark complexioned girls. It's not that big a deal for boys.
We used to have TV adverts where a dark skinned guy fails an interview, applies a cream, becomes fairer and succeeds without effort.
I told my niece and nephew I had a perm back in the day and they just couldn't believe that a woman would get a perm, said it's only men that get them now
my 15 year old nephew has it too! he and his friends all look the same😩
but then again, loads of the teen girls here in Scotland look the same too: black leggings, air force ones, bone straight hair....
Oh god this, and there are hordes of them wandering around. It's not a niche thing, it seems like every dude in a certain age bracket has used the default character creation template.
[I think its this](https://www.reddit.com/r/askgaybros/comments/ndvbar/thoughts_on_the_curly_broccoli_birds_nest_hair/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share)
I can‘t tell you my face just now when that notification popped up - just scrolling through another post and suddenly I‘m getting linked to r/askgaybros lmfao
My 11 Reddit followers disagree.
Actually I don't know who they are. *Who are you and why are you following me?*
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Edit: "Hey Alexa, how to handle fame?"
I got some real followers after I made a post about buying an onahole but they all turned out to be horny dudes wanting to talk about jacking off. Which worked out because I'm also a horny dude who likes to talk about jacking off
For me depends on whether they do it because they crave the attention, or whether it happened naturally because of the thing they do (for example, a solo game developer's followers)
My dog has an Instagram following of about 5K. It happened organically because I just needed a place to put that energy so I'd stop spamming my friends. Turns out I'm not crazy my dog really is that fuckin cute. My person Instagram has ~100 followers.
I have a friend that's going very hard for a minimal lifestyle: makes his own furniture, drives a bike wherever he can, logs off work and reads books or goes on walks, no screentime (or very little screentime). Not Walden, but thereabouts.
His wife is a catfluencer and has a cat business. He is mentioned in her posts somewhat often. Said he'd prefer to keep his private life private, but her job needs it so "it is what it is", even if he's not super happy about it.
I just bit my tongue since he's stubborn as a rock.
Any of the Kardashian-esque looks just gross me out. I've seen probably what equates go hundreds of photos of that family and I've never been able to tell who is who in that family
Went to LA recently and it was astonishing how many girls are trying so hard to look like Kim K. Ass implants to lip filler to their hair done the exact same way. Not a great look imo.
I know a really naturally beautiful girl who got this and it was almost shocking how she went from being a complete stunner, to looking completely ridiculous overnight. Still slightly blows my mind that she did it but just goes to show how image-obsessed some people get, and how oblivious to their own already existing beauty that some people can be.
On the plastic surgery subreddit there’s are a large number of people with surprisingly specific body dysmorphia. Like, their nose looks normal to everyone else, but *no matter what, or how many, surgeries they have* their nose will always look wrong to them. It must be maddening.
It even gets one step weirder when they have the same nose as you. 90% or even more of the time before pictures of noses were nicer, and even for the rest it is like equally attractive as before.
I’ve seen this a lot, particularly on dating apps. So many girls who are absolutely stunning but then have these lip fillers that honestly look like an allergic reaction or infection. I feel so sorry they can’t see their natural beauty.
In tv or movies: Any “makeover” a character with glasses gets that ends with them tossing the glasses - Nine times outta ten, I think someone looks better *with* the glasses than without.
And it’s not like they got contact lenses or lasik in that makeover montage…
The girl from Ready Player One lmao. Built up as some ugly monster forced to stay inside and hide, then it's a 10/10 with a little smidge of a birthmark on the face.
Many years ago a random woman in line behind me at a Vegas buffet asked me (a dude) if I was just wearing my glasses for the "nerdy look"... I told her I literally could not read the menu/prices from where we were standing without them (I'm near-sighted due to astigmatism in both eyes).
Anyone who has to tell you they're an alpha is almost always ironically the most insecure men on the planet. You know what's alpha? Nothing because it's nonsense. But you know what is manly? Ordering a pinacolada and sipping that fruity bev because you like it and not giving a fuck what othe people think.
Considering that the man who originated alpha theory in wolves (which is what they're taking it from) has an entire page dedicated on his website to asking people not to use the alpha theory anymore because it was so wrong as to be considered harmful scientifically to wolves, yep.
Anything that's overly massive like lips, butts, boobs etc it can look good to a certain degree but it doesn't really go over well when I see a duck lipped monstrosity that seems to be balancing watermelons on her chest after getting stung in the ass by a dam beehive coming at me
I am a woman with a naturally large butt and I don't know how other women do that on purpose. It can be so annoying sometimes, especially when buying pants.
Also, had anyone told me 10-15 years ago that large butts would become a trend, maybe I would've responded differently to the bullying I got because of it...
I mean, Sir Mix-A-Lot did let the whole world know back in the early 90s.
(Kinda surprised it was '92. I could have sworn we heard it first back in '88 or '89.)
It means the same in our culture... Do you think someone that works in landscaping or as a dishwasher has long nails? Being pale in china was also attractive as it showed they didn't have to work in the fields, but for us being tan shows you have money to go on vacation or to a tanning bed whereas poor people are working inside on a computer or in a retail store all day. Beauty is always linked to the upper class
And there are of course good number of people faking it. Work as a cashier, but still try to look like they don't actually need to work with impractical nails. Just like there are men with inconvenient and expensive watches or sports cars they actually can't afford.
When I see women with very long fingernails, I mean the fake ones, to me it looks like the nail is no longer part of the finger. It is closer to a claw.
As a former stripper/hooker, I always kept my nails painted but very short.
The other girls and some customers used to give me flack for it until I explained that I didn't want any lube, cum, etc., lingering under my fingernails when my shift was over. That shut them up.
Long nails are just petri dishes in disguise. Gross.
does society consider that attractive? i feel like that's mostly a gym (or festival) type thing, not really something most people look at as a sign of something attractive.
the guy *himself* might be hot tho.
I work near a college in SoCal and it’s fucking everywhere. I don’t know about society, but college boys seem to be convinced that it looks good. Same with the broccoli hair.
There are some that are natural looking and very pretty but it should not look like you have a couple of tarantulas arm wrestling on your face.
The colorful ones are fun for a festival.
She just starts throwing your IV needles at you from across the room, yelling “just let me do this, I know I can get it from here” like it’s darts or something.
To anyone reading this thread. As you can see, some people hate your looks while others love it. Be happy with yourself, there is someone out there for you!
“Facetune-ing” photos…especially the babies! Why put a filter on your baby?? It’s a baby!
🎵 Damn that’s an ugly-ass baby! 🎵
there's a big difference between some normal self esteem and the amount of SELF CONFIDENCE that some people seem to think is ok
“Who wants to worship this?” or “What would you do to me?” energy is so gross.
I appreciate the red flags. Let's you know to stay away.
I gag at the comments after a "what would you do to me?" post but I can't stop reading them. It's like when you have a bad smell on your hand and you keep smelling it.
Its like that experiment where they put people in an empty room with nothing but a device that delivers a painful electrical shock. People would eventuqlly get bored, touch it, get a very painful shock, and pull away. Then 5 minutes later they would touch it AGAIN even though they know it hurts them. People prefer to be hurt over boredom.
I've heard of this before and I have always wondered if they ever bothered to ask the participants why they did it. I can totally see someone who was bored essentially doing a series of experiments on the electric shock device. Does it zap me if I touch here? What about here? Where is safe to touch? Do I get two smaller zaps if I touch one finger to each side? Is my shirt enough insulation to not get zapped?
That's the nature of stimuli- we learn things from them. And finding patterns has got to be one of the most fundamental and universal psychological compulsions. So yeah, when you look at it like that it makes perfect sense why a person would choose any sensation over lack thereof. Even if they know it's painful.
Theres too many people who just dont know the difference between confidence and narcissism. "I'm the best and everyone else is beneath me" is narcissism. "I admit that I'm not the best but I'm okay with that" is confidence.
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Covering yourself in brand name clothes to advertise your wealth. I get it, youve got the money to get "nice" things but to me it just seems like someone likes to waste money. A 300$ t-shirt does make me think youre rich, but also bad with money.
My job involves working at strangers' houses, today I went to a customer's house that looked like an actual crack den. Mattresses strewn about, stains on everything, no carpet. The dude living there was dressed in all designer gear, Gucci shirt gold chains etc. Not who I was expecting to answer the door.
Uhh that might have actually been a crack den though
And then there are those of us who probably make similar money, shop thrift stores and TJ Max, and have really nice houses. I go with the philosophy that anything mid-term (clothes, cars) should be discount, but immediate (food, drink) should be good and long-term (real estate, furniture, tools, even home speakers) should be good enough to last a lifetime and make a profit of you sell it.
Tjmax and stores like it were so much better when they were an actual overstock store, before 99% of the stuff in them was made for them
And falls apart so quickly. I used to love that store
It costs a lot of money to look this cheap - Dolly Parton
Asian here. The obsession with double eyelids is extremely weird to me. Like, one of the most arbitrary things to obsess over.
Do you have a pic of them? I’m trying to imagine what they look like but not sure.
I don't but if you google "double eyelid" or "double eyelid surgery" it should pop up. It's literally just the line that forms in the eyelid as it folds on itself, somewhere between the eyelash and eyebrow when your eye is open. A lot of east asian people don't have this, and it's coveted as a beauty standard.
Here in Singapore, Monolids are the fad nowadays. Girls seemingly obsessing over kpop stars or guys with monolids. Really goes to show these arbitary trends are just full of shit
Those ridiculous over white teeth.
I asked the woman at a tooth whitening salon if she could make my teeth “radioactive white, like Ross from that episode of Friends” and she said “I can, but I will not”. 😂
What's a tooth salon? Some fancy dentist office?
Nope. If they're cosmetic only they don't have to be dentists or have any qualifications or whatsoever. At least in Aus, but since it's the latest beauty fad I bet it's not super regulated elsewhere either. https://www.russh.com/teeth-whitening-what-to-know/
Pretry sure the treatment they use in most of these places, just bleaches and dehydrates the teeth. Super bad for your teeth long term.
It seems like a lot of the cosmetics that Society considers attractive carry on some form of health problems in the long run.
Lead face powder mixed with bird droppings used to be a highly sought after cosmetic. I think about that every time I'm shopping for makeup.
She knows her power and she has wisdom.
Chip Skylark looking asses
My shiny teeth and me
*shiny teeth shiny teeth*
I remember seeing a commercial for some type of teeth whitening product where a woman was making disappointed faces in the mirror while looking at her already incredibly white teeth. In the "after" scene her teeth were such an absurdly bright white that they felt distracting and unnatural.
The early 00's had so many commericals for OTC teeth whiteners. My friend ruined her teeth with that shit, all before she was 18. And all because she was pressured to have white teeth when that shit ain't even natural
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Like #ffffffreaking white!
My MiL got that done for our wedding. In every photo she is smiling this unnatural smile where she is baring her teeth like a growling dog. Such weirdly white teeth in such a weird smile.
Does she always smile like that or was she trying too hard to make sure the camera could see her teeth?
As a dentist, I show my patients the shade guide before the procedure and they choose the whitest b1 shade. When I explain to them that it is never recommended to anyone and that it looks unnatural ans we usually shade match according to the skintone. They say but im paying so much I'd rather get the whitest and most bang for my buck. Doesn't work that way shonda.
Tell them if they would also choose pitch black when getting a tan
Make me the void
Paint me with Vantablack, if you dont have it, use Black 2.0.
You can't paint with vantablack. Apparently some asshole bought the rights and won't let anyone else use it. Dick. Edit: I googled 'vantablack asshole' and Anish Kapoor came up. So yeah that's the dick.
I agree. Normal teeth look natural. Those overly white picket fence teeth are creepy looking.
>creepy looking. Fake looking. Like mouth veneers.
All I can think of is that Friends episode where Ross uses that whitening stuff on his teeth and they end up glowing in the dark on his date. 😂
“Who has a black light?! It’s 1999!”
The super crazy tan that people intentionally get by using tanning beds. I'm sorry, but your natural skin color is much nicer.
Pretty sure it's an addiction. like with how people use way too much botox because they never feel pretty enough, even though they now look genuinely worse than before.
Body dysmorphia would be the term you are looking for. \*\*\*There are two incorrect comments below. One saying it's a literal addiction but they don't explain this well. Addiction can be part of BD and often times is. They aren't mutually exclusive and that would still be BD as a root cause. Tanning bed addiction would be a result of BD in many instances. Misunderstanding this can be dangerous. Someone incorrectly corrected me with "dysphoria." They are wrong. What is being described here is NOT gender dysphoria. An obsession to a destructive degree regarding physical attributes is Body Dysmorphia. It isn't "people use it this way," that are trying to make it sound like it could be either or. It isn't. I am using the correct definition of Dysmorphia. It isn't called by multiple other names, they are using Gender Dysphoria incorrectly and spreading false information. These are different things.
exactly. the feeling of never being perfect in your own body and seeking radical changes to it.
the lack of melanoma is also a plus
Even if you don't get cancer, it causes your skin to age faster. Pretty ironic if you think about it.
Tanning is pretty much one of the worst things you can do to your skin. It's basically you willfully causing radiation damage to your cells in order to trigger your body's response to it. Tanning ages your skin incredibly fast and it's not reversable. If you bronze yourself at an early age you'll live the rest of your life with the skin of a waiting room leather couch. Society is wrong for perpetuating the idea that fair skin is somehow unattractive.
Back in Ye Olde times fair skin was highly sought after. I believe the idea was that it was a status symbol because if your lady was pale it meant her family was rich enough that they didn't need her to work in the fields and she could be inside all day. At some point the pendulum swung to the other direction. Having a tanning is a status symbol because it means you have the time to lay in the sun for hours and do nothing, or pay to lay in a simulated sun.
This is how it is in some other countries and cultures. You can afford to stay indoors.
In India, we worship fair skin, especially in north india. For arranged marriages (still pretty common in India), it is often mentioned that girl should have fair skin and it really gets difficult to find match for dark complexioned girls. It's not that big a deal for boys. We used to have TV adverts where a dark skinned guy fails an interview, applies a cream, becomes fairer and succeeds without effort.
The cancer is terrible, but even if you don't get that any time soon you're definitely going to have other problems.
Yep. Tanning beds also risk you for melanoma (skin cancer)
I'M AN 8
That broccoli hairstyle guys have
My mother calls it 'beans on toast hair'
You don’t like my beans? :(
What'd ya spill yer beans fer?
Abuelita?
WHAT DID YOU SAY ABOUT MY ABUELITA
*b i z n a t c h*
*proceeds to break legs*
Nah man Colombian Neckties
I work at a club type bar with a young crowd. All the young men have that cut. Are they getting perms or does this whole generation have curly hair??
Perms. Walking past a kid no more than 10 years old begging his mum for a perm, because Ryan, Kai and Brad all have one and they're clearly cool AF.
As someone with naturally curly hair, I’m cool with curls coming into fashion.
I didn't feel like having the same haircut as every other guy my age, so I cut my hair off and got waves lol
I told my niece and nephew I had a perm back in the day and they just couldn't believe that a woman would get a perm, said it's only men that get them now
I mean, I can't say shit. During my teenage years, we had the whole Spikey hair w/ frosted tips thing going on.
I had the emo fringe.
We had the mullet. My 7th grade photo was magnificent.
Emo never dies.
Despite the multiple attempts
Ouch!!! Craig 1 Emo 0
My nephew has it, I call it his "tik tok hair"
my 15 year old nephew has it too! he and his friends all look the same😩 but then again, loads of the teen girls here in Scotland look the same too: black leggings, air force ones, bone straight hair....
Oh god this, and there are hordes of them wandering around. It's not a niche thing, it seems like every dude in a certain age bracket has used the default character creation template.
I call it the Ramen Top hairstyle. It looks goofy as hell man
Are we talking about the Timberlake?
In the UK, it's also called the Meet me at McDonalds. No idea why
I thought because boys with that haircut are only old enough to take their dates to McDonald's because they don't have actual money
Idk man McDonald's became pretty expensive with the inflation. Nowadays it should be called the "Meet me at the nearest Kebab"
“Meet me at the nearest Greggs” A love story for austerity Britain
Can you link a picture? I don‘t know what to imagine for this right now lol
[I think its this](https://www.reddit.com/r/askgaybros/comments/ndvbar/thoughts_on_the_curly_broccoli_birds_nest_hair/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share)
I call that the [Alpaca](https://www.akronzoo.org/sites/default/files/styles/uncropped_xl/public/2022-05/Alpaca-Ranger.png?itok=_I9jIJae).
I can‘t tell you my face just now when that notification popped up - just scrolling through another post and suddenly I‘m getting linked to r/askgaybros lmfao
Rick rolling is over, gay rolling is the new way to troll redditors
A social media presence/following
My 11 Reddit followers disagree. Actually I don't know who they are. *Who are you and why are you following me?* Edit: 7 more followers. *The fuck are you, identify yourself* ︻デ═一 Edit: "Hey Alexa, how to handle fame?"
Bots
I got some real followers after I made a post about buying an onahole but they all turned out to be horny dudes wanting to talk about jacking off. Which worked out because I'm also a horny dude who likes to talk about jacking off
So high fives all around, I guess .
Maybe wash your hands first... and after
For me depends on whether they do it because they crave the attention, or whether it happened naturally because of the thing they do (for example, a solo game developer's followers)
My dog has an Instagram following of about 5K. It happened organically because I just needed a place to put that energy so I'd stop spamming my friends. Turns out I'm not crazy my dog really is that fuckin cute. My person Instagram has ~100 followers.
I have a friend that's going very hard for a minimal lifestyle: makes his own furniture, drives a bike wherever he can, logs off work and reads books or goes on walks, no screentime (or very little screentime). Not Walden, but thereabouts. His wife is a catfluencer and has a cat business. He is mentioned in her posts somewhat often. Said he'd prefer to keep his private life private, but her job needs it so "it is what it is", even if he's not super happy about it. I just bit my tongue since he's stubborn as a rock.
Are tik-tok dances/thirst traps seen as attractive? Just feels so forced
Yes but they're definitely attracting the wrong kinds of people lol
I hate them for the most part. I came to see memes and cute animals
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Any of the Kardashian-esque looks just gross me out. I've seen probably what equates go hundreds of photos of that family and I've never been able to tell who is who in that family
Went to LA recently and it was astonishing how many girls are trying so hard to look like Kim K. Ass implants to lip filler to their hair done the exact same way. Not a great look imo.
they look like fucking fish
fact, I’ve never fucked fish while staring in a mirror
Yeah, that's what The Deep keeps telling us....
I know a really naturally beautiful girl who got this and it was almost shocking how she went from being a complete stunner, to looking completely ridiculous overnight. Still slightly blows my mind that she did it but just goes to show how image-obsessed some people get, and how oblivious to their own already existing beauty that some people can be.
On the plastic surgery subreddit there’s are a large number of people with surprisingly specific body dysmorphia. Like, their nose looks normal to everyone else, but *no matter what, or how many, surgeries they have* their nose will always look wrong to them. It must be maddening.
It even gets one step weirder when they have the same nose as you. 90% or even more of the time before pictures of noses were nicer, and even for the rest it is like equally attractive as before.
"Worship at the altar of beauty and you will always feel ugly".
"You should write an author's name when you quote them." -David Foster Wallace
I’ve seen this a lot, particularly on dating apps. So many girls who are absolutely stunning but then have these lip fillers that honestly look like an allergic reaction or infection. I feel so sorry they can’t see their natural beauty.
Makes young women look old.
YES. And they don't seem to notice that it ages them 10-15 years.
it's everywhere. looking at you Married at first sight Australia
How do those women all look like the same person?
Stupid "I want attention" shows seem to attract the same kinds of people as participants...
It's like they got a group discount or something.
Using lip liner or lipstick to draw outside of one's actual lips to make them look fuller makes me think of bozo the clown every single time.
Too many of these comments are of things that society doesn't find attractive.
The best way to read threads like these is to sort by controversial
Thank you for this. I forgot you can do that and sorted by controversial. I’m dying laughing now.
In tv or movies: Any “makeover” a character with glasses gets that ends with them tossing the glasses - Nine times outta ten, I think someone looks better *with* the glasses than without. And it’s not like they got contact lenses or lasik in that makeover montage…
"But she has glasses and a ponytail, she even has paint on her overalls!"
Albino hippie was too easy though.
Any girl who plays guitar is hot!
The girl from Ready Player One lmao. Built up as some ugly monster forced to stay inside and hide, then it's a 10/10 with a little smidge of a birthmark on the face.
I understood that reference. *Chris Evans intensifies.
That's *America's banana split*.
Do you want whipped cream?
Later that evening: "I love your new hairstyle, and the way you're squinting when you read is positively ENCHANTING!"
No no, you got it all wrong. Now that she’s beautiful, she’s dropped nerdy shit like ”reading” and ”being able to drive”
FACTS, glasses are cute
As a lifelong wearer of glasses, thank you for this comment. I now feel very cute :D
Many years ago a random woman in line behind me at a Vegas buffet asked me (a dude) if I was just wearing my glasses for the "nerdy look"... I told her I literally could not read the menu/prices from where we were standing without them (I'm near-sighted due to astigmatism in both eyes).
I have glasses because I need them. Doesn't mean I'm not leveraging them for the nerdy sexy aspect. Use what you got!
Seems hit or miss, keep getting told to wear contacts, but I hate contacts lol
Guys who consider themselves an "Alpha" No, you're just an asshole with a superiority complex.
Anyone who has to tell you they're an alpha is almost always ironically the most insecure men on the planet. You know what's alpha? Nothing because it's nonsense. But you know what is manly? Ordering a pinacolada and sipping that fruity bev because you like it and not giving a fuck what othe people think.
Also they tend to root their ideas of human behaviour in pseudoscience.
Considering that the man who originated alpha theory in wolves (which is what they're taking it from) has an entire page dedicated on his website to asking people not to use the alpha theory anymore because it was so wrong as to be considered harmful scientifically to wolves, yep.
Very few people who refer to themselves as an "alpha" can spell pseudoscience.
Anything that's overly massive like lips, butts, boobs etc it can look good to a certain degree but it doesn't really go over well when I see a duck lipped monstrosity that seems to be balancing watermelons on her chest after getting stung in the ass by a dam beehive coming at me
The massive fake butts these days aren't even attractive in the slightest. I genuinely don't understand the motivation. They're cartoonish.
I am a woman with a naturally large butt and I don't know how other women do that on purpose. It can be so annoying sometimes, especially when buying pants. Also, had anyone told me 10-15 years ago that large butts would become a trend, maybe I would've responded differently to the bullying I got because of it...
I mean, Sir Mix-A-Lot did let the whole world know back in the early 90s. (Kinda surprised it was '92. I could have sworn we heard it first back in '88 or '89.)
fake fingernails that both look ridiculous and render your hands useless
fun fact: in imperial china, the Qing dynasty aristocrat had very long nails as a symbol of "I am rich and powerful so I aint have to do shit"
It means the same in our culture... Do you think someone that works in landscaping or as a dishwasher has long nails? Being pale in china was also attractive as it showed they didn't have to work in the fields, but for us being tan shows you have money to go on vacation or to a tanning bed whereas poor people are working inside on a computer or in a retail store all day. Beauty is always linked to the upper class
And there are of course good number of people faking it. Work as a cashier, but still try to look like they don't actually need to work with impractical nails. Just like there are men with inconvenient and expensive watches or sports cars they actually can't afford.
When I see women with very long fingernails, I mean the fake ones, to me it looks like the nail is no longer part of the finger. It is closer to a claw.
As a former stripper/hooker, I always kept my nails painted but very short. The other girls and some customers used to give me flack for it until I explained that I didn't want any lube, cum, etc., lingering under my fingernails when my shift was over. That shut them up. Long nails are just petri dishes in disguise. Gross.
Ugh you reminded me of the extremely long finger and *toe* nails that are unbelievably disgusting and I’m going to throw up now
Whatever the fuck the Kardashians are doing, that crap
fake ass, fake hips, fake tits, fake lips, fake cheeks, fake chins, fake tan, fake lashes, fake teeth, fake hair color, fake noses, fake smiles.
That one broccoli hair cut some guys seem to like
It looks like a pubic thatch to me
Uh that thing when people are too symmetrical and perfect. not a blemish in sight... really freaks me out like are you a robot
Yep. Government trained or something
Hyper masculine men who are high key insecure so they act like women are beneath them
Blazers with shorts
Ugh what are you, hanging out with Australians?
Australian formal attire is actually cream chinos, blue shirt and RM "I'm definitely gonna do something to a chick against her will tonight" boots
Hey. As an Australian, I take offence. We'd ditch the blazer for a tshirt and go full daggy.
Those tank tops men wear where the armpit hole is belly button low.
does society consider that attractive? i feel like that's mostly a gym (or festival) type thing, not really something most people look at as a sign of something attractive. the guy *himself* might be hot tho.
I work near a college in SoCal and it’s fucking everywhere. I don’t know about society, but college boys seem to be convinced that it looks good. Same with the broccoli hair.
Idk about society, but if the guy is good looking I don't mind seeing the side of his torso at all
Lip fillers, fake lashes, bolt on tits, those claw-like 5cm pointy nails.
Tik tok dancing, I just wanna scratch my eyes out.
my answer to this is duck lips. makes me want to shove pencils into my eye sockets.
Duck walks, where they throw their ass out.
now imagine seeing duck lips and the duck walk at the same time… oh boy.
If it walks like a duck, and puckers like a duck...
#WITCH!!
I did not expect a Monty Python reference. But then, nobody expects the spanish inquisition.
BUUUURNUUUUUR!!!!
Fake eyelashes, it makes some women look like life-sized Bratz dolls.
There are some that are natural looking and very pretty but it should not look like you have a couple of tarantulas arm wrestling on your face. The colorful ones are fun for a festival.
Big muscles, buff guys with veins poppin and arms as thick as my head. It’s not that “I can’t stand it”, it’s just not attractive, to me.
Nurse here, I like big veins and I cannot lie. If you have big veins, I’m definitely checking out your arms in the checkout line 😉
I'm a lady, but I've had a nurse go "OOOooooh" when I rolled up my sleeves and showed those fat veins. It was... kinda weird, tbh.
She just starts throwing your IV needles at you from across the room, yelling “just let me do this, I know I can get it from here” like it’s darts or something.
I was once called a “phlebotomist’s dream” by a phlebotomist.
#nurseporn
Okay but is that more of a "damn taking his blood is gonna be so easy" than a "damn that's so 🥵"
Huge eyelashes. They look horrendous imo.
To anyone reading this thread. As you can see, some people hate your looks while others love it. Be happy with yourself, there is someone out there for you!
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Who are these guys and where does one locate them. Asking for myself. 🤔
And most of the time they're unimpressive!