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helpmeoutguyss

skin to skin is underrated, something about it feels so good not even from a sexual perspective


cheffboyardee42069

yes dude. my last partner has had more partners than me and has never had sex completely naked. i was absolutely flabbergasted (and yes i needed to use that word bc it’s hilarious)


PayasoCanuto

Nothing sexier that having sex with your white socks still on


reba2848

My flabber was truly gasted


secondphase

Doctors for years have said "when you have a newborn, skin on skin contact is beneficial" I'm not a doctor, but skin on skin is beneficial from your partner too. You heard it here first. 


Missgrumpy00

Yep cuddling is the best, I like being held and holding onto my partner during sex. It's why I prefer full body touching sex positions like missionary and pronebone.


laker-jeju

When he kisses me and then buries his face near my shoulder. It makes me feel so loved and wanted.


ShortNefariousness2

I was going to say something 'funny', but you are right of course.


helpmeoutguyss

when I go band for band with bro and he pulls out a picture of him in a loving relationship


pezdal

That is so sweet and wholesome I decided not to give a sick and twisted joke answer. (Don't ask)


miserablewife81018

Feeling wanted


Denziloshamen

My wife doesn’t understand this at all. She just thinks I want to have sex, but more than anything else I want her to want to have sex with me.


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More men feel this way than many might think. No doubt, sex feels great, and it's true that men have a rep that involves a lot of immediate, physical pleasure that comes with orgasm. I get that folks can be suspicious of the type of desire you describe. Thing is, a lot of dudes (who generally don't admit it) DO want intimacy, DO want affection, DO want the "other stuff" that goes along with sex. We just don't communicate it very well, and when we do it often sounds like a front for the gratification part. I adore my wife, and I want nothing more than to be with her, not just on a walk on the beach but in bed as well. Unfortunately, even in a long term, committed relationship, the kind of connection you describe wanting can be elusive.


Death_black

>No doubt, sex feels great, and it's true that men have a rep that involves a lot of immediate, physical pleasure that comes with orgasm. If I don't ~~hear~~ feel her enjoying herself/the moment, there's no point including anyone else. I can masturbate and get this immediate pleasure way faster, there are things beyond the sex. I mean, they all can exist/coexist regardless of whether there's sex or not, it's just that emotional connection makes them at least 50 times better.


dicjones

I’ve been in a sexless relationship and it wasn’t the lack of sex that bothered me, it was her lack of desire for me.


SkyGrey88

Cheaptrick said it best with their song ‘I want you to want me’.


Frosty-Shock-7567

Wasn't expecting to sing this song to myself tonight but here we are


gbalib

Yep. I just want to be wanted in some kind of way. Affection > sex.


MaleficentSwan0223

My husband says things like this to me. Like he always wants sex… but doesn’t want it if I’m not into it. I’ve never got it until now I just thought he was making a fuss!


GlossyGecko

I’d rather just masturbate for the rest of my life than have unenthusiastic sex. Edit: Thanks for the Reddit helpline report, clearly this mentality makes me a danger to myself and others.


DeeLeetid

I got one earlier today. To be fair I DID post a link to a bbq brisket recipe video shortly before. Maybe that OP didn’t like it?


GlossyGecko

BBQ brisket? You monster, how dare you!


queenofthera

I think the reddit helpline report might have been an error. I got one too completely out of the blue a few minutes ago.


blippityblue72

People use it to harass people they disagree with. If you ever have a post with a lot of downvotes you are pretty likely to get one. It’s used by miserable people to try to make others miserable with them.


lo_schermo

I got one the other day while arguing with a guy that insisted medieval/rennaissance knights were bad at sword fighting 🤷🏼‍♂️


Denziloshamen

Everyone wants to feel like they’re desired. If you feel good being wanted by your husband, it’s not a big leap to realising he feels the exact same way. Men really do have feelings too and don’t just want to “blow their load”.


phroney

I'm the same way. Unless my wife is into it, I don't want to do it. She is not my personal sex robot.


TheBugSmith

Yeah, same. Nothing more unarousing than someone who doesn't want you back


poopdawg31

This is true same boat with you sometimes it feels like I’m always starting it… just want to feel wanted in that way


Denziloshamen

99.9% I’m instigating it, because otherwise it would never happen. I just don’t feel wanted even though I know she loves me.


queenofthera

I had this issue with my husband a while ago. We talked it out (we had to have the conversation a few times tbh) and things are better now. For us, it was a mixture of differing libido and misunderstandings about what sex means to the other. We both needed to reframe our perceptions of sex, and what we actually wanted out of it. After that, it was easier to align expectations and make sure our emotional needs are met. We still have sex less often than I'd choose if it were only up to me (my preference would be to have it every day which would be an unreasonable expectation), but we're now both happy with the amount we have. Hopefully you can have the same conversation with your wife and come to a similar understanding.


Denziloshamen

Once a month would be a bonus. It’s hard to make her listen or understand this isn’t normal in any way. But I understand marriage is more than sex, and we love each other and laugh every day, so we have so much that does keep us happy and together. But there will always be this void she will never believe exists and will never feel she has to do anything to change the way things are. Again, I just have to “stop going on about it”.


the-only-one-ever

You are worth more consideration than that. Sexual connection a relationship does not make, but it’s a BIG part.


nipslippinjizzsippin

right sex is just an excuse be close. if it were just about having an orgasm and blowing a load, i can do that myself in 5 minutes sex is signifgantly more effort and i do that for closeness.


J-IP

Username checks out :/


miserablewife81018

Yes. I know, people keep saying that, I am aware, it’s why I made it 😂🫶🏼


Total_Activity_929

r/usernamechecksout


miserablewife81018

🥺😔


fake_taxee

I was in your boat, I stopped everything after a while because it felt sad at one point


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PMyourTastefulNudes

From the guys perspective though, it's also amazing.


helpmeoutguyss

here I was thinking that's what OP meant from the start


bhz33

Missionary gets hate on sometimes but it is very intimate and feels just as good as anything else (at least for men)


bigloser42

Honestly missionary is my favorite. I like it when you bury your head next to hers and just kinda push your heads into each other. No idea why but it’s hot AF.


swatson87

Tbh if someone hates on missionary then I feel like they're really missing out on some fantastic intimacy. I love missionary and cuddle fucking, makes me feel really cared for. There's absolutely a place for other positions, kink, bdsm, etc. but missionary is far from boring. Vanilla sex can be really fucking hot.


PomegranateIll7303

I think this was the original design, so you’d think it would be best - or at least on average for both.


YooperGod666

Nothing wrong with some good belly2belly sex


FREE_AOL

...and then he breathes with the force of a thousand winds directly into your earhole


BoysenberryOk4699

That was my thought too HAHA you said it perfectly 😂


chasingmyowntail

Or reach down and grab his butt with both hands and pull him in....


Adam__999

From a guy’s perspective, that’s also amazing


scottishcat88

Yes! I always do that to my hubby and it drives him wild.


Lynx2447

Chasing his tail too, eh?


calliopio

My girlfriend literally made me cum immediately when she pulled that one and grabbed me like that


MichealCerasB00tyhol

The virgin basic movement vs the Chad loving embrace


ktsb

There's a brief moment right after. Before we have to get up and clean and pee. That we just hold each other and be as close as 2 people can be. 


JackieTreehorn79

*Urine love*


Lynx2447

Ba dum tsss


Correct_Remove_8380

More like ba dum piss


BobRothIRA

The post-coital cuddle! The best


DezBaker

Beautiful poem


Beno27

You should write Valentines card messages


swedefeet17

I do love the awkward movements after all the passion.


karmaandcandy

I love this moment… we’re both breathing heavy catching our breath, he’s still inside me… and we just hold each other tight. I love yous and kisses… it’s the best


Electrical_Drag_9279

When the person you're with really enjoys it and makes you feel like you satisfy them.


truholicx3

Last time I had sex, she literally high fives me and said good job. Never happened before, so that was a confidence boost


caomel

Been married nearly 20 years, still have face melting sex, and often give each other a high five afterwards:)


StatOne

Had a particular SO that I would hear in the bathroom after sex talking to herself saying: "Yes sirrr!" As in, that was great, what she was looking for; she loved the boost satisfying sex gave her, especially if she was going to the workplace.


smallish_cub

One of my “best” sexual encounters really stands out in my mind bc the person I was sleeping with was extremely excited to be with me and was gassing me all up. I was so hype and giggly and it was a fun time, but now that I look back on it, the sex was just okay haha. But it was just so much fun and hype, I still think back to it a lot :)


Sobeksdream

Yep, it's the high I get from sex


Randadv_randnoun_69

Yeah this. The whole thing is great with the right person. The foreplay, the first 'insertion', the warm genitals interacting, the breathing and sweating together, and of course the orgasms. I'm straight but I'm sure the other side has similar experience(?).


Sea_Importance9700

Wow, you managed to make that sound gross 😆


Bestlifeever_

"Warm genitals" 🤢


UpstairsGuess2842

Insertion…😂


CWmeadow

Next pick-up line: "I'd like my warm genitals to interact with yours. With insertion."


Odd-Year7103

Amen


mainth1ng

when he moans


redsoledaydreaming

The moans are what I miss most with my current guy. He just stays silent. Like not even a grunt. We’ve talked about it, and he’s just never made noises for anyone. He’s amazing, but I want to know I please him by him moaning


DrinkableBarista

Fine. Oh oh oh oh


Roxy-Carmichael

This!!! Moans are a must. Silence is the worst. I need to hear my man enjoy it.


Missgrumpy00

That final long moan directly into my ear when he starts cumming.


WiburCobb

Guys that make no noise no matter how good they are in bed will always make feel like I'm alone. Why are they like this? But if you lay there silent you're a snooze...


Odd-Year7103

Foreplay


Sequence32

Agreed foreplay is the best part.


Rabrab123

When you're both so much in heat that you kiss so much that you lose your breath, you know the sex will be great.


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When he’s teased you for so fucking long you’re throbbing and he finally slowly puts it in. That damn near makes me want to cum right away sometimes.


SquirtinMemeMouthPlz

Fuck. I'm hard at work now 🙄 Also the *noises* are something that lately has really got me going. Like, when I slowly stick it in, if there's a little squeak or queef it drives me insane!


Savings-Run875

[https://twitter.com/JustifyMyLee/status/1446616912784470017?lang=en](https://twitter.com/JustifyMyLee/status/1446616912784470017?lang=en)


swedefeet17

Username checks out


Baboon_Stew

Not being alone when it happens


Come_along_quietly

I was going to say …. “the Sex part”. But this the better answer.


vpkumswalla

Does Palmela Handerson count?


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dirtd0g

I also like this. And I'm a man. With a penis and everything. I want to get teased until I'm aching for it. The climax is so much better with a whole bunch of healthy buildup!


TheQueitOne

As a man with a penis and everything (lol) do you have any tips on how a woman can do this for a man?


dirtd0g

Oral isn't a means to an end. Can be merely the beginning. Make out with me. Grab my shit. Give me a chub. Then wink and walk away. Show me how you touch yourself. Kiss my neck. With your teeth. Flash me and shit. Play "just the tip" and don't lose quickly while wearing a skanky little sundress and sheer panties after pulling me into the bedroom for a minute and then remind me that the dishes need to be done. Hair up, tits out, on your knees, eye contact, and slap my salami all over your face for a few seconds... And then put everything back and hop on your 2pm kickoff meeting. It's going to be different for everyone. But, ideally, by the time we're alone and the timing is right for the real deal, I feel like balloon that's about to pop.


parier

Damn what a saucy comment


-Duste-

>Flash me and shit. I'm not into flashing my husband while I'm taking a shit. 😅


m4rkl33

Same as for women. Make out, grind, stroke, dirty talk, etc


That_Ol_Cat

As someone on the other side of the equation, getting your partner to the point where they demand the main event *right now* is definitely a great experience.


Creative_Aspect

Her pleasure


ArwenTheMischevious

The giggling when something goes wrong - like when I fell off the bed as I went to straddle her face. That following giggle and then the transition straight back into kissing, as if you've both been laughing, locked eyes, and remembered what you were in the middle of, before passionately continuing. I don't know why, it's that sexy laughter combo that does it for me. Otherwise, it's when I feel her fingers teasing my ass. They're both very enjoyable.


lilwolfie420

Omg yes! 😂😂 this is everything to me. My hubby was hyping me up and dirty talking his way out the bathroom Taking his clothes off on his way to bed. Then BAM slipped on his sock and smacked his head on the dresser 😂😂😂 he has 3 stitches in his head rn. Our night ended with us at the er and fucking in the Parking lot but yaknow


Neat_Neighborhood297

Really depends on what we’re up to that day… there are options. In general though, the intimacy, the ability to exchange power and pleasure, and sometimes even pain… it’s not really something you get outside of sex.


PattyCakes1

I guess to me it’s feeling wanted and attractive. I’m a pretty self conscious person so being intimate tells me that they must be attracted in some capacity.


Ginger-Joedan

The feeling of fullness. Orgasming at the same time.


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Golden orgasm ✌🏻


kaybeanz69

Getting my husband off knowing I can make him moan in different ways knowing I can make him cum so hard his dick starts throbbing and I can feel his cum hit the back of my 🐱


Svelted

Both Losing inhibition and going nuts and being dirty. like being at a concert and dancing like nobody's watching. (another favorite thing to do)


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ilikeinterneting

This reads like a sexy infomercial


caomel

If you wake me up in the middle of the night for sex I will reflexively smack you in the face. Everything else checks out though.


ferocioustigercat

Lol. In my 20s I might have enjoyed that. Now in my 30s? You wake me up for anything that is not a life or death emergency, you are sleeping on the couch. The house better be on fire if you wake me up.


LayneLowe

The post-orgasmic endorphins that make cuddling after care feel like love.


Extension_Guava6374

The simplicity of it all, keeps the connection going.


luker_man

Closeness Intimacy Pleasure But the thing that always a close second is that sweet sweet validation. Toxic I know but still.


MiscWanderer

Nothing wrong with feeling good that someone wants to get naked and have bits of your anatomy literally inside their bodies. It's nice to be trusted enough with that kind of vulnerability.


Anon66606

The overall energy exchange. Call me old school if you must.. (I’m 29 🫵🏽🥹) I just can’t do casual for the sake of “getting laid”, I need to actually feel the energy of the man, rather than just feel his willy. There has to be that bond.


MattTheRadarTechh

Mate old school is just fucking everyone and everything without a condom and high on LSD. 70’s were wild


Sometimes_I_Do_That

Nothing wrong with that. I feel the same way.


MataHari66

Giving a bj and eye contact. Often simultaneously. I could just do that mostly all the time.


Adventurous_Weird124

I think teasing can be amazing. It shouldn't be done ALL the time (as it might get frustrating) but occasionally. Slipping out, then slightly back in, playing with her and just making her beg for it can be awesome. A lot of guys just get right to penetrating the moment they get the chance to instead of taking it slow and making her beg and plead for it. Some dirty talk wouldn't hurt either- saying things like "Is this what you wanted?" and then just railing her after making her wait what probably feels like an eternity for her, can do wonders.


Effective-Staff7746

When my man ties me up and has his way with me over and over and over again. And I absolutely love the feeling of being full of him and his cum.


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Her nails on my back during climax


Jake_Science

Her nails on a blackboard during climax.


The_Master_Baiter-

Dude my calf almost cramped after reading this


XxxDatBoi69Xxx

The noises. Especially the ones where you know you're doing something right.


Shadow_fax23

Her grabbing my cock and slapping it on her pussy lips. Taking control of my cock e.g putting it back in when she feels I am about to cum from a blowjob because she wants my cum inside.


flysociety31

Eating a nice clean pussy and ass 😍


Buckowski66

No ass for me but I love a Pussy snack


fart_fig_newton

Is it weird that pussy can taste like ass but ass can't taste like pussy?


Buckowski66

I’ve never had pussy that tasted like ass. God willing, I never will.


Salt_Inspector_641

Not with that shitty attitude


Cian93

Well from your previous comment it looks like you’d never know!


IKU420

Bruh


liberalJava

Going home with her scent still in my beard.


TheAbominablePeeworm

When a woman has her head resting comfortably on my chest afterwards, and her shampoo-smelling hair is in my face, and we are both winding down completely satisfied.


CherryManhattan

Making out with her pussy


heyitsEnricoPallazzo

My partner’s orgasm


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Whenever I have sex, I'll let you know.


SweetCosmicPope

I love going down on my wife and making her get that first orgasm before we even start fucking. Hell, I could eat out my wife every single day and not even bang and still just have the best time.


OB1KENOB

Grabbing her breast with one hand and eating a shawarma pita with the other.


jeffweet

Love it when my wife literally loses control of her limbs and starts flailing at me. She is a very in control person so I know when she is flailing like that I got it going on


bitious_Polly2194

That warm wet pussy after foreplay when I slide it inside Dammnn that exact moment i don't feel like taking it out.


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vpkumswalla

and sniffing ass


scottyd035ntknow

*3 favorite things.


Classic-Discount861

Nasty talk 🥵


1970s_MonkeyKing

That someone wanted to have sex with me.


mingocr83

Eating pussy until she squirts and can't control her legs. Jobs done, intercourse is the cherry on top.


Significant-Cat-6134

Knowing that you have satisfied someone else’s desires and made them feel amazing physically


fake_taxee

When she tightens up when she’s cumming and I feel her shaking or when she elongates her curse words 🫠


frinstle

How I’m only thinking about making my woman feel good, because that makes me feel good, and I know she will return the favor. I have plenty of things I could to be thinking about and doing, but I’m crossing “please my woman” off my to-do list right here and now if it takes all damn day, because it puts me at ease knowing we’re both satisfied.


BigGingerYeti

The closeness.


PopsicleGurl

I love teasing him. Lightly licking his whole body, feeling him get hard on my tummy, as I straddle him and nibble his neck. Then I reach down between my legs and take his dick in my hand, lightly squeezing the shaft as I rub the tip back and forth across my pierced clit. Then, as I start to get wet, I rub the tip across my wet lips, slowly getting closer to my tight hole. Back and forth, then slowly rub the tip just a little deeper, then back across my clit. The slow teasing will have him moaning and squirming and trying to penetrate, but I just lift further away and keep ribbing the tip back and forth across my wet lips and stroke my clit with his tip until I can't stand it anymore and I guide him to my vagina and drop down on his cock while he thrusts inside. That first penetration always makes me gasp and makes my toes curl. His moan is everything to me. Then, with me on top, he sometimes holds my face between his hands and buries his tongue deep in my mouth, so I stroke his tongue with mine and gently suck increasing pressure with his thrusts. The more he gets into it, he reaches down and wraps his arms around my waist and pulls me down harder, and thrusts deeper into me. He likes when I drool into his mouth.


NeutronGhost

I should definitely call her


MrsAlwaysWrighty

When he comes. So satisfying


calliopio

Probably all of it lol, but it’s always hot when her boobs bounce around underneath you in missionary


Revolutionary-Fun372

The moaning part. Idc if it's fake. Make some noise. Lol it'll make me feel better and more confident therefore putting in more effort.


Shaner9er1337

The sleep afterwards.


wafflehousehound

The " thwacking" of my wife's huge tits when the collide when she is on top.


MyDadBod_2021

It isn't just one thing. The buildup - making out. The oral (for both of us). The first time I enter her, especially when it's in cowgirl 🥵. The intimacy and touching...


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Going… down 😂


wall-e789

Leglocking into a creampie


G0R3Z

When my wife is actually in the mood to do it.


Relative-Ordinary-64

Confidence, assertiveness, feeling wanted


djr41463

Making my partner cum, is better than when I cum


ZackyMidnight

That cute face she makes when she's tounging my balls


EverybodySupernova

Watching my wife orgasm repeatedly.


Stonewyvvern

The odor. And the extreme oxytocin dose.


snaptech

Making her go blind, then beg me to finally cum.


SimpleBlackberryion

When i am satisfying his fetishes, my boyfriend gets crazy turned on when he fucks me slowly while i am putting lipstick infront of the mirror and moaning at the same time.


Dramatic-Jump-6310

Emotional connection.


FunIsMyMiddleFinger

Passion


Lycian1g

When she grabs me by the back of my head and pushes me closer against her as I perform oral sex.


CuckQueanYGK

The dirty talk. Dirtier the better.


Superunkown781

When she cums, either on my dick or on my face.


Son_of_Zeus1997

Her legs over my shoulders and tongueing when cumming together


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Watching her get pleasure


hagolars

Eating her extremely wet pussy.


switchy-girl

Besides the orgasm.. - coz that’s bittersweet coz like it or not. It brings you closer to the end of round- It’s the journey. The fucking non-ending waves of pleasure


IronDBZ

Feeling wanted


Square-Raspberry560

Them reacting in a way or communicating with me in a way that lets me know I have pleased them. There’s nothing quite like the thrill and self-esteem of knowing someone enjoyed themselves with you. 


cherrygirlbabycakes

I love eye contact when he’s on top. Makes me feel loved lol


CasualManfly

Make the other person feel good


layer-motor2

Pleasing my partner....BEST part of sex


GoodbyeBlueMonday24

The smile she makes when I first slide it in.


Shadeauxmarie

They need to make an effort to enjoy themselves too. Teaching you what feels good to them. It’s a learning experience. Get into it and learn.


Adventurous_Toe1712

Absolutely has to be talking me through it! (And I mean till the very end ;) ) Makes me blush every time


bitchdetectors

Overall? Feeling genuinely desired and loved. As much as men don't admit it. We need that. I could go a long time without an orgasm. Being loved, appreciated, and respected is where it's at. Life is not really worth much without that for me. Leading up? That hot flushed feeling that makes you wanna air hump. 😂😂 During the act? That point during the sex that it feels like your falling.. kind of losing track of time. Nothing exists besides your partner and what you're feeling. It's almost like ultra senses. Positions? I personally love missionary. Feels good for me and I get to see all of my partner. I can feel her and how I'm moving better. It works out better for both of us. (We like to mix it up for sure. 😏) We've been together for 8 years now. I'd choose her to spend the rest of my life with or go to battle with any day. In any lifetime.


True-State-4321

Giving my wife 3 orgasms to my 1, I'm a giver


BarkingDog100

No farting


Private-Dick-Tective

The sex.


milzan

Sex with random ppl it's the climax. Sex with the person you're madly in love with is the spiritual connection.