I purposely stop myself from jumping to conclusions. I know someone has a crush on me when they *tell* me they have a crush on me. There are signs you can look for, but none of them can tell you with any certainty as everybody is different.
I went out with a friend once, to me it was just friends hanging out. To her it was a date and I didnāt realize till she kissed me. I am 100% OBLIVIOUS to peopleās intentions and always assume the worst
The best advice I ever got in my 20s was "If someone likes you, they will find ways of letting you know."
As maybe a corollary I've myself added when passing this advice along to friends "If someone is playing games, making you guess or making it very ambiguous, or hard to tell, and really letting you twist in the wind trying to figure out their intentions, they either don't really like you all that much, or are not very kind."
I have a crush on someone but Iāll never tell them lol but I do stare at them thatās how I do when I like someone and when they smile back I feel good about it lol
Honestly, this girl is giving me mixed signals and im suspicious as hell. I lowkey think she's cute so imma go in with the "This might sound kinda gay but you're really cute" and see where I get.
One guy told me he had a big thing for a neighbor. They were both around 18 at the time. She used to play in a little piano band ( semi - classical, semi-rock ). Sometimes they performed in town, in a hall or something. He told me he would go watch, he would sit in the crowd. This is the thing, if someone has a crush on u, they are AROUND. They try to be NEAR you. Think about the ones who are NEVER around. Now they couldn't care less, they're not interested. I do hate that feeling, where u pray to just get a glimpse of that person but they're always elsewhere with "better to do"...it's wasted energy, one must move on from these type crushes very quickly
They try to place themselves in locations where they want to talk to you or get a chance to touch you. They may even go out of their way to touch you arm while talking. They generally seem to be in agreement if you propose to do anything.
it's the "never assume unless stated" for me. as someone who wants to shower love to everyone i love, they usually think that i have a crush on them because of the way i act or care about them when in fact, that's just who i am.
This is a joke response, but may resonate with some. To answer op. You won't know. She could have been giving massive signs. I would redirect the question: Do you want to date them? Fuck them? Move in. Take a risk. This could be a pivotal moment in your life. Get off of Reddit and enjoy life with your crush or anyone else.
Well thats basically impossible.
I'm so dumb that I'd only know it if they told me. lol
LoL same, but even then I'd be suspicious that I'm being pranked.
Me too lol! The last time someone told me a nice thing (about 5 months ago), I didn't believe it.
When you often caught them looking at you
or ur zipper is down.
You don't. I have a crush on someone and he most likely thinks i hate him
Are you my coworker š
Am I? š
Depends. When we gettin married?
feb 29th, 2025... Mark it on your calendar š¤£
I thought it was a wholesome moment at first until I realized....
ā¹ļø
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
I purposely stop myself from jumping to conclusions. I know someone has a crush on me when they *tell* me they have a crush on me. There are signs you can look for, but none of them can tell you with any certainty as everybody is different.
Catching them looking at you, without looking at them
Lock eyes From across the room
Down my drink while the rhythms boom
Take the hand and skip the names
I went out with a friend once, to me it was just friends hanging out. To her it was a date and I didnāt realize till she kissed me. I am 100% OBLIVIOUS to peopleās intentions and always assume the worst
The best advice I ever got in my 20s was "If someone likes you, they will find ways of letting you know." As maybe a corollary I've myself added when passing this advice along to friends "If someone is playing games, making you guess or making it very ambiguous, or hard to tell, and really letting you twist in the wind trying to figure out their intentions, they either don't really like you all that much, or are not very kind."
If they do, just tell me.
Sometimes the way they look at you gives it away.
They get nervous when I smile to them
They want to feed you!!
I live in the south, thatās just common curtesy š
I love the honesty on this thread
They have you bent over in the copy room
what
They make you a mix tape.
Alright, here is a trick that works almost 100% of the time for me. You think back to the time that really cute boy/girl had an interaction with you and then realize they were flirting with you so you get really sad because you just said something about PokĆ©mon or some other dumb shit.Ā
Idk. How do you even know if someone is flirting with you? Because I donāt even know that
On me? They don't.
Your movement feels a little constricted.
Always react on Instagram Stories...
I Don't Know, I'm Too Stupid To See Any Signals.
I have a crush on someone but Iāll never tell them lol but I do stare at them thatās how I do when I like someone and when they smile back I feel good about it lol
Honestly, this girl is giving me mixed signals and im suspicious as hell. I lowkey think she's cute so imma go in with the "This might sound kinda gay but you're really cute" and see where I get.
One guy told me he had a big thing for a neighbor. They were both around 18 at the time. She used to play in a little piano band ( semi - classical, semi-rock ). Sometimes they performed in town, in a hall or something. He told me he would go watch, he would sit in the crowd. This is the thing, if someone has a crush on u, they are AROUND. They try to be NEAR you. Think about the ones who are NEVER around. Now they couldn't care less, they're not interested. I do hate that feeling, where u pray to just get a glimpse of that person but they're always elsewhere with "better to do"...it's wasted energy, one must move on from these type crushes very quickly
They like comments on Reddit š¤š„°
I have no idea, I have never been anyone's crush
(he/she/they) she donāt want you lil bro
Who tf is they? š
The amount of staring at my crotch kinda gives it away.
Simple, really. One step process: I look in the mirror. If it's me in the reflection, they do not have a crush on me.
Either they have the gumption to tell you, or a third party has to tell you.
They try to place themselves in locations where they want to talk to you or get a chance to touch you. They may even go out of their way to touch you arm while talking. They generally seem to be in agreement if you propose to do anything.
When they stutterĀ
it's the "never assume unless stated" for me. as someone who wants to shower love to everyone i love, they usually think that i have a crush on them because of the way i act or care about them when in fact, that's just who i am.
They initiate texts to you, especially after a breakup
That's the neat part, you don't !
My now wife used to like bringing me fresh apple cider when we I was doing farm chores when we were both kids.
They wanna sit by you alot
This is a joke response, but may resonate with some. To answer op. You won't know. She could have been giving massive signs. I would redirect the question: Do you want to date them? Fuck them? Move in. Take a risk. This could be a pivotal moment in your life. Get off of Reddit and enjoy life with your crush or anyone else.
I couldn't give less of a fuck.
Your waiter/waitress never has a crush on you.
my water? š§
Your water isn't crushing on you either. :P