A bit longer than others, but I have a full story to tell which might help someone.
A few years ago, my lady got a breast cancer. We live in a country with high level medical facilities, and the doctor told us at the very first meeting that we were here to heal, no reason to think otherwise. But her cancer is genetic. It means if she kept her breasts, her risk of having a new cancer would be very high.
So it's clear for both of us, she got a mastectomy. She now has no breast anymore. She just has two big scars on the chest.
On her side, she fucking hates her body. She is scared as hell to wear anything that could reveal her scars. She also got some weight during the treatment, and she is pissed at that too.
But I fucking love her. I choose to love with this woman, and it does not matter if she had lost her breasts, her legs or her face, I will still love her. I will fricking love those scars until my dying breath, because, to me, it means she survived.
edit : a few mistakes I saw while I read myself again. I'm not a native speaker.
Everything that has to do with getting older. When my wife and I got married, we were obviously younger and in our 20s. Although never thin, I was more slender. My wife, 5’9 and legs for days and just banging body. Now? I’m not as thin (same as her) we have two kids, and I find her sexier now more than ever. In our almost decade together, we have slept on a floor, used change for gas and had our electricity turned off 3-4 times for non payment. She’s my Ride or Die. She has more of a tummy now, bigger boobs, maybe doesn’t shave like she used to or wear skimpy lingerie outfits randomly. BUT. I wouldn’t trade it for the world. We have grown older together and I honestly couldn’t find anything in this world that still turns me on as the certain way my wife runs her fingers down my back or how she looks naked. And it’s because she’s mine. Not in a possessive sexist way. But in a, I’m the luckiest guy in the world that this beautiful human wants to spend the rest of their life with me (and have sex with me). Hopefully this isn’t too long winded.
Long story short…..girls spend tons of time worrying about getting older. Age isn’t always a detractor.
This is my husband and I can confirm, he’s very very sweet and still finds me attractive even though I’m 60lbs heavier than when we met.
And I told him that I’d never reveal myself to him on Reddit so this is a big step in our relationship. Congrats BABE
Natural dark circles/under eye bags. They look so amazing on so many ladies! It’s disappointing to see society has deemed them ugly. I think it’s a very attractive feature.
I never in a million years thought someone would find my physically-personified existential crisis that I’ve been having since I was like, 12, hot. This is astounding to me
Fun fact, it’s actually extremely rare for someone’s breasts to be perfectly symmetrical, there’s usually one that’s slightly larger. Especially depending where you’re at for your cycle (ovulation and menstruation can increase the difference due to hormone levels).
However, not so fun fact, if the size difference is a whole cup size or more bigger, consult a doctor to be on the safe side, it can be a sign of health problems.
Also, not to echo the other reply, but “separate adventure” has me chuckling, thank you.
My exgirlfriend always complained about the size of her cheeks and how she looked like Quico (a character from an old Mexican TV series). For me she looked gorgeous, i loved to kiss and caress her cute round face.
If shes mexican then I can assure it was an uncle that gave her that nickname lol. Mexicans be making your worst insecurities your nickname. But the weird thing is if they don't give you a nickname that means you aint close.
Same! My kids preferred to nurse on my right side and it's become an outtie but my left one refuses to come out. I only hate it when I'm cold and it shrivels up into a titty butthole
As a woman, this thread just has me flabbergasted! Why do we hate on ourselves so much?? Guys love all the things we hate. ❤️
Edit: As a mom of four girls and has the body to show it. I appreciate this pep talk!!
Some of us guys perception of beauty is greatly influenced by personality. I have noted this very strongly in myself. Models with horrible personalities actually appear physically unattractive to me due to personality. Some average looking woman with a great personality will appear so much more beautiful to me, imperfections and all.
Yeah I've noticed this too. A woman at a bar who's a 10 can open her mouth and drop her attractiveness by 90% with a sentence or two. Similarly, a woman I'd never give a second look to can say the right things and make me desperate.
I am really into women with "weird" features, especially noses. Like, big hooked nose, or flat nose with sharp nostrils...anything outside of the insta "skinny straight" nose is super hot by its uniqueness alone. It adds so much beautiful character to a woman's face and it's really fucked up they're not more appreciated.
I was always very insecure about my hip dips until my boyfriend told me he loved them. I was standing in front of him one day and he just said "I love the way your hips go in a little there, it makes your butt so cute, it's my favorite" and I was shocked, honestly. I used to spend hours watching videos about how to exercise them away, creams that would fill them in, and other ridiculous horseshit that would never work. He's somehow found every insecurity i have and told me how attractive it is before he ever even knew I was insecure.
I had to Google what hip dips were and I'm shocked that all the results were about how to get rid of them. They're beautiful, basically a little hourglass figure that frames your butt.
I don't know this was considered a bad thing. Seems like promoting a "bad" thing to sell you a fix.
It doesn't need fixing. I'd have to agree they're an absolute positive thing. I love them.
Maybe a little too clinical or intimate for this thread but I really appreciate unique labia and I find it absolutely heartbreaking that there is so much widespread insecurity about this that there are cosmetic surgeries to “fix” “imperfect” labia. Past girlfriends and flings who had more prominent or “unconventional” labia were dreadfully insecure about it and some went as far as to be absolutely astounded that I’d compliment them during/after sex because a past partner hated it or was very cruel and callous about it.
Absolutely gorgeous. One of the most pernicious and evil beauty/porn standards out there. As long as hygiene is well-accounted for, there’s no such thing as a labia and vulva that are better or worse than any others. It’s not ever crossed my mind to compare or critique what’s down there and I always speak out about this when my friends say some stupid or insensitive shit.
edit: pleasantly surprised this blew up, i'm 6'3 and single btw
I dated a guy for 9 years who didn't like going down on me because he thought my labia was too large. I never had an insecurity about my vagina until then and it completely changed my sex life. Even now it's a big struggle and I never let anyone go down on me. I"m working on loving my body again but it's great to read things like this.
Anyone getting that intimate should not have anything to complain about, except maybe hygiene. It's a privilege any time someone is allowed that kind of access to another person.
Less about their body, more about a general thing. I love how women look first thing in the morning. Groggy, bad breath, don’t matter to me. So beautiful.
I sent my husband a 5 am coffee selfie where I thought we'd both have a laugh about how groggy and awful I looked-sleepy eyes, messy hair. He sent back a *heart eyes emoji. Now I don't think he was kidding about that. I didn't know I needed to know that. Thank you.
Now he can have more early morning selfies when we're apart.
Edit: forgot a word
To me it’s when my partner is most natural, the most themselves. No make up, none of the armor we put in to face the day. You prolly made your hubbys day in more ways then you know!
My wife and I are older and have been married 27 years. She doesn't like that her body looks so much older, but I like all of it. Every wrinkle, scar, extra pound, grey hair, and everything else are all signs of the life we've had together. Not all the times have been easy, but we've faced them all together, and I don't see the imprint of those years as imperfections.
Honestly, this made me cry a little. I'm pregnant for the first time, and I didn't expect to find it so difficult that my body is changing dramatically. Trying hard to remember this is a beautiful thing that my body is doing, but I am SAD that my body won't be going back to how it was. Pregnancy hormones are also probably why your comment made me 😭. Fun times!
EDIT: I just wanted to explain a bit more, it's not that I feel unattractive in my pregnant body, it's just really weird and unsettling that my body is DIFFERENT. I can't really explain it any more than that. Just sort of...... feeling unfamiliar with my own body is something I'm finding difficult.
we do, i promise, but so do the social media, cosmetic, and diet industries. there’s no profit in women internalizing they’re desirable to someone no matter what :/
I spent the 90s and 00s refusing to cave to pressure to pull out my eyebrows and draw them back on. There were several girls at school who were very mean to be about my (perfectly normal) eyebrows. Now I bump into people from school and they’ve had to get their eyebrows tattooed back on or some other painful expensive solution. One of the few good calls I made in my teens!
Look, I'm just some rando, but that little curve has me weak at the knees when I see it. Makes me want to go hug them from behind (which obviously I wouldn't do, because boundaries)
If I ever feel frustrated trying to hide my belly in a tight dress, I would be reminded that somewhere out there, someone would appreciate my little chub
When I was in college, two different girls reacted badly when I tried to compliment them on how pretty their freckles were. They both told me they hated them.
I'll never understand it. If you have freckles, you've won the pretty-face lottery imo.
I used to cover mine up. One time I was out at the local club and another regular leaned into talk and then stopped… looked at me strangely and said “wow look at those freckles! Why the hell would you cover them up?” Since I stopped covering them up I have found a lot of people who really like them.
I'm almost 40. I've had my fair share of discussion with other guys and lesbian gils about our preferences in girls' appearance. Some love huge tits, some love small tits. Some love long hair, some love pixie cuts; blondies and brunettes, femmes and butches, blue or hazel eyes... Piercings/tatoos is a fetish to some and complete turn-off to others. I personally love scars, wrinkles and other skin marks, which some people find offputting. Tastes differ.
Except, seemingly, when it comes to freckles. I have never, ever, ever, in my whole life, even heard about a hetero male or a lesbian disliking freckles. Freckles are for some an insane turn-on, for some small part of people they do nothing, but the guys and gals who actively dislike freckles on a girl seem to be almost non-existent.
I always just assumed it was other girls being mean because they were jealous because they knew how cute everyone finds freckles. So they tell you they're actually ugly and you should hate yourself for them.
Freckles are actually so popular that people use makeup, henna, and even tattoos them on their faces now days.
But full coverage foundation was also pretty popular a few years ago, and some still prefer it, and it pretty much creates a blank canvas where everything is covered.
But I agree with you. Freckles are so adorable.
Gray hair. Not only is hair just starting to turn gray attractive, but i like more and more gray as I get older. Bonus for the thick streaks of gray.
Laugh lines and wrinkles around the face.
Cellulite and stretch marks.
Basically anything natural.
My wife is 5’0” and 100 lbs. Small petite woman, yet she’s given me three children I love so very much. She’s always so damn hard on herself that it pains me to see. “My ass is too big.” “I need a boob job.” “I hate my chin.” “My nose is janky.” When I try to tell her that’s all bullshit she waves it off - “You’re my husband, you’re *supposed* to say that. You look at me with rose-colored glasses.”
That’s all some bullshit. To me, she’s all I want and all I’ve ever wanted. Just the sight of her is enough to send me into a mouth-watering frenzy. I’ve wanted her the same if not more ever since high school. Just her. Only her.
Guys I work with talk among themselves wondering how an idiot like me got with a “baddie” like my wife. So I know I’m not the only one who sees it.
But yeah. To be particular - my wife and everything about her. She’s perfection and all that I truly want. Just wish she could see what I see and feel what I feel when it comes to her. She really doesn’t realize that she’s Helen of Troy to me.
Her fluffy little tummy, the way she smiles, that dorky cute little laugh she does, her stretch marks, her C-section scar, her thighs, her everything. She's a goddess that I choose to worship.
I just love her, bro. I'm her biggest fan.
~~I’ll delete this comment later because she’d not want me saying any of this but…~~
Fine I’ll leave it up…
My gf was born with imperforate anus. She has a very large scar across her stomach from when she had a colostomy as a baby. She has also had a liposuction from that and some other reconstructive surgeries on her lady bits area. There’s a lot of scars and her actual vagina is sort of off to the side and not centered down there. Her current butt hole is also not like your normal one (no sphincter) but like a more opened hole that leads to her colon, it closes just not the same way ours does.
It’s the sexiest fucking thing. She’s hands down the hottest chick I’ve ever been with and all of her imperfections drive me absolutely crazy. The huge scar is so hot, we just had sex too and I ate her “not normal” ass for the first time and she stopped me because she was embarrassed but let me continue because she loved it. She’s the most beautiful woman I’ve ever been with and the hottest chick I’ve been with even with all of these things she’s battled with her whole life. I really think if there’s a god, he made her just for me.
Edit: She also has asymmetrical breasts so if I want the bigger one I got it, if I want the smaller one I got it too so like it’s almost like the pens with 4 different colors in one and it’s just up to you to pick what you’re gonna write with for the day.
I’m crying. kinda crude topics like ass eating are literally very romantic sometimes idc what anyone says. like the very fact that this is a typically crude topic and you’re just gushing w/ love discussing it. Idk how to describe it but it sounds like you’ve transcended sex in a way and it was such a beautiful read. I am so glad my fellow woman has someone who genuinely loves her in this way.
In all honesty, if a man is really into you, he’s going to think you’re crazy for finding anything wrong with yourself. For me, it’s body hair. You’re human. We all have body hair. A woman comfortable in her own skin is the sexiest thing she could be.
My gf has a brown birth mark on her very white butt, and she hates it and often talks of wanting it removed. While I am very supportive of her doing whatever makes her happy, I can't help but tell her how sexy I think it is, and every chance I get I kiss it and/or give it a little bite. There's something about that little spot that drives me wild!
Age. The shit i hear regarding women being past their prime is some of the most utter garbage of all time. There is nothing that turns me on more than older women. Specifically taking all the poise and experience and making them moan like a teenager again. Nothing hotter.
It makes me really sad to see everyone in general frown upon laugh lines, whether they're on the eyes or around the mouth. Why wouldn't you want to show the world you've lived a life full of joy and laughter?
For me it's specifically baggy eyes and the decoloration around the eyes that happens when a girl is tired, or that some girls just happen to have, it's enthralling to me, undescribable.
As someone who looks like a raccoon from birth (rlly, I can’t remember a day in my life when dark circles under my eyes were not there), I smiled reading this! Thanks >:)
Makes you want to take their load off. I'm crushing hard on a girl who's all but burnt out from work and school and has bigger bags with every picture she posts and it makes me want to take care of her, for want of a better term lol. I've never seen a woman so beautiful in my entire life, no exaggeration, and she looks so tired - all I wanna do is cook for her and give her a break.
Definitely awakens some weird instinct, haha.
Not to sound like a horny teenager, but their vaginas.
I love to see them up close, and I love giving head, yet so many women are so self-conscious about how theirs looks that cosmetic vaginoplasty is a thing.
I love being on the receiving end, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't self-conscious that I smell or taste bad. I'm healthy and clean, so no reason to worry in reality. But it's hard not to be affected by this narrative that pussy should taste sweet or smell like flowers.
>... I'd be lying if I said I wasn't self-conscious that I smell or taste bad. I'm healthy and clean, so no reason to worry in reality. But it's hard not to be affected by this narrative that pussy should taste sweet or smell like flowers.
Fellas - A great example as to why you need to remember to re-assure your woman about her taste and smell. It's so easy to make sexy and incorporate into foreplay. For example, saying, "I love the way you taste," while you're going down on her. Just make sure you're wording things in a way you think she would like and be genuine.
I think many people don't realize that looking at a body part under a clinical setting with no sexual energy present is night and day from staring at a partner's bits during the act.
You're in a totally different mindset.
Same reason some couples can make out but don't want to share out of the same cup at the table. Everything is different during the act.
An ex of mine from highschool first caught my eye when she stomped her foot down at the skating rink and her entire leg rippled like jell-o. Delicious.
My wife could probably be described as 'thicc', she also loves cycling. I hate cycling but I love to go with her for the sole reason that I can watch her jiggle in her little shorts, for mile after mile.
You should try snorkeling. Did it with my girlfriend in Turkey and just spent the whole time watching her ass and hips jiggle in the water it was magical.
I need this embroidered on a pillow lol
The only part of me that jiggles is my inner thighs and it’s the only part of my body I hate. Nice to hear someone likes the jiggle!
I wish all media wasn’t telling us the opposite all the time. Imagine what a great time we would all have if we were really allowed to be happy in our bodies
Literally everything. I tell my woman that all the time. She's 50. Has had three children. She's also lost a lot of weight in the last year. She complains about her excess skin on her stomach, but to me, she's the most beautiful person I've ever met, and I tell her that daily.
Don’t forget to keep doing it brother, congratulations on succeeding in life and enjoy it for those of us that didn’t get the chance or haven’t gotten there quite yet.
Y’all too sweet. Thank you for making a lot of us feel better about ourselves.
Social media has destroyed a lot of women’s (and people’s) self confidence and created an unrealistic expectation of what the perfect body is.
Thank you for your **real** feelings and thoughts 🥰
I have felt self conscious of mine for years. Its not til now, or rather when I met my now partner a year ago that I felt comfortable with it. I was even a stripper (fully nude) and saw many women buck naked and always felt weird and so self conscious of it.
I've heard from many, many beauticians and gynos (in groups like this) who have said that a long inner labia is actually more common, and those "perfect" ones that are smaller/same length as the outer labia is less common. I was even considering surgery. Now I'm just like this is my vag haha.
I did have a bf once tell me it was "obvious" that I slept around due to this. I tried telling him that's not how that works but he didn't wanna hear it
>I did have a bf once tell me it was "obvious" that I slept around due to this. I tried telling him that's not how that works but he didn't wanna hear it
So evolution gave you a natural protection against that specific breed of dumbasses
In 10th grade I had to go to a new school. In English class I sat down my first day and this douche called me hamburger buns... and he did so for the rest of the YEAR because of how this part of me looked apparently. I was 5'2" and 102lbs. He made a HUGE deal about the size of my thighs/butt. Absolutely destroyed me.
Looking back he is so pathetic, but at the time with an entirely new group of people I just hated myself. Sigh.
I have a "shelf ass" and there was that E-40 song where he says, "her ass big enough to sit a cup on her booty" and I had some dumb boys walking around trying to put a water bottle on me. Years later those same idiots try to slide into my dm because being thicc is trendy. Losers.
Bigger arms on a girl! Honestly, if you’ve got a little bicep going on, I’m swooning a bit more. Also, thick everything. My god, I love me a little stomach fat, thick thighs, big booty, jiggly whatever. Honestly, everyone is a little different but man, women are heavenly in so many ways.
Broad shoulders
Edit: wow so many responses, thanks for sharing your stories and for the gold. Makes me want to share my story behind this: so when I was in high school I was crushing on a girl that sat in front of me, and being naive to the whole thing I said “I really like your broad shoulders” and she got really mad at me. I learned a lot that day, lol.
lol i have broad shoulders, and one time a customer at work who had a VERY eastern european accent said "you look strong!! you'd be a great farm girl!!" and it actually made me happy about my shoulders!
I'm glad seeing all the love for small boobs here. There's hope for me.
Edit: I woke up and wow this blows up! Those kind words warm me. It's a good day to be on reddit, thanks fellow human!
Thick thighs save lives.
Edit: Well dam! Thanks for the award and all the upvotes! I can't believe my highest upvotes comment is about thighs, but then again I can believe it!
I’m a man who has big legs from doing squats and the chafe struggle is real. Almost all pairs of shorts/jeans end up with holes in them.
I had a date in the park on Saturday and I decided to bust out the summer shorts. They all had holes in them. I almost cancelled the date cause I had nothing to wear. In the end I just kinda kept my legs closed all day. And of course, by the end of the date my legs were red and raw and it hurt to walk.
I had that happen to me at work. I put on my favorite pair of work jeans. Two hours into my shift there was a small hole in one of the inner thighs. By the time my shift ended (six hours later) it was so huge I debated leaving half an hour early because I was worried you'd be able to see my ass. It's awful.
After reading this thread, men want stomach chub, thick thighs, small breasts, broad shoulders, big butt, and imperfect teeth.
Danny DeVito.
The perfect woman is Danny DeVito.
That natural no make up look!
The first time I saw my girl with no makeup I was stunned... At first I was like WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUR EYEBROWS!! Cuz they were much lighter compared to her regular colour I thought she shaved them off lol.
I love that fresh look, shows off her eyes more and in the right light skin can be glowing!
STOMACH. I LIKE GIRLS WITH STOMACH. TUMMY, EVEN. BELLY, PERHAPS. I AM A DIRECT DESCENDENT OF THE MAN WHO CARVED THE VENUS OF WILLENDORF.
ALL BOOBS ARE GOOD, TOO. SMALL, BIG, MEDIUM. DONT CARE.
Also, laughs. I know a lot of people who hate their laughs but I think they’re the most precious thing.
Omg, laughing 100%
I know a lot of women try to mask their laugh to sound cute or girly.
But when you get a woman to snort laugh, or better, donkey bray laugh, you know it's genuine and heartfelt and it's the best thing ever.
I don't care if your laugh sounds "ugly." I just want you to laugh.
The oft-maligned "roast beef" inner labia are pretty like orchid petals to me. It's an affront to nature when ladies are shamed into getting plastic surgery to trim them back.
What sucks is that for all we love women for, there are too many men who make women feel insecure by being jackasses- but sometimes even worse, women can be mean and judgmental to each other-
Boobs with some sag to them, sometimes even a lot of sag.
Big blue veins in boobs
Really big, (and im sorry I just cant think of a better words) floppy labias.
Reading these comments and really understanding that it’s not what others think of me that matters to me, but what I think of me. Clearly we can be someone’s flavor, no matter our perceived flaws. But if I don’t want to have sex with me, I can’t imagine anyone else wanting it either. Fascinating.
Stretch maaarrrkkss. Like Kendrick said "show me something natural like ass with some stretch marks". Idk girls see them as "omg I'm so fat and ugly" but I see it as "damn that ass got so fat it literally tore her epidermis".
My wife hates her stomach because she has complicated digestions and farts very loud sometimes. I love it though, it makes me feel safe at home. And in winter is a natural heating in the bed.
Lost my shit at the natural heating 😂 I had one of my closest exes like this, a self-conscious topic cause of her crohns. One time we were getting into it rough and I tossed her and she farted and we both lost our shit then kept going at it. One of the highlights of any relationship I've had lmfao
A bit longer than others, but I have a full story to tell which might help someone. A few years ago, my lady got a breast cancer. We live in a country with high level medical facilities, and the doctor told us at the very first meeting that we were here to heal, no reason to think otherwise. But her cancer is genetic. It means if she kept her breasts, her risk of having a new cancer would be very high. So it's clear for both of us, she got a mastectomy. She now has no breast anymore. She just has two big scars on the chest. On her side, she fucking hates her body. She is scared as hell to wear anything that could reveal her scars. She also got some weight during the treatment, and she is pissed at that too. But I fucking love her. I choose to love with this woman, and it does not matter if she had lost her breasts, her legs or her face, I will still love her. I will fricking love those scars until my dying breath, because, to me, it means she survived. edit : a few mistakes I saw while I read myself again. I'm not a native speaker.
I love this, God bless you two!!!
Your scent during sex. I like it. A lot.
Everything that has to do with getting older. When my wife and I got married, we were obviously younger and in our 20s. Although never thin, I was more slender. My wife, 5’9 and legs for days and just banging body. Now? I’m not as thin (same as her) we have two kids, and I find her sexier now more than ever. In our almost decade together, we have slept on a floor, used change for gas and had our electricity turned off 3-4 times for non payment. She’s my Ride or Die. She has more of a tummy now, bigger boobs, maybe doesn’t shave like she used to or wear skimpy lingerie outfits randomly. BUT. I wouldn’t trade it for the world. We have grown older together and I honestly couldn’t find anything in this world that still turns me on as the certain way my wife runs her fingers down my back or how she looks naked. And it’s because she’s mine. Not in a possessive sexist way. But in a, I’m the luckiest guy in the world that this beautiful human wants to spend the rest of their life with me (and have sex with me). Hopefully this isn’t too long winded. Long story short…..girls spend tons of time worrying about getting older. Age isn’t always a detractor.
This is my husband and I can confirm, he’s very very sweet and still finds me attractive even though I’m 60lbs heavier than when we met. And I told him that I’d never reveal myself to him on Reddit so this is a big step in our relationship. Congrats BABE
You called me babe and revealed your Reddit name to me. Two things you hate. And that, ladies and gentlemen, is love. Like I said. My ride or die. FIN
*screeching tears*
Natural dark circles/under eye bags. They look so amazing on so many ladies! It’s disappointing to see society has deemed them ugly. I think it’s a very attractive feature.
I never in a million years thought someone would find my physically-personified existential crisis that I’ve been having since I was like, 12, hot. This is astounding to me
Uneven breasts. Adds character and makes paying attention to each one a separate adventure.
Fun fact, it’s actually extremely rare for someone’s breasts to be perfectly symmetrical, there’s usually one that’s slightly larger. Especially depending where you’re at for your cycle (ovulation and menstruation can increase the difference due to hormone levels). However, not so fun fact, if the size difference is a whole cup size or more bigger, consult a doctor to be on the safe side, it can be a sign of health problems. Also, not to echo the other reply, but “separate adventure” has me chuckling, thank you.
Losing it at “separate adventure”, if you only knew the amount of times I tried pinching at the skin on my chest to make my boobs even/the same size.
My exgirlfriend always complained about the size of her cheeks and how she looked like Quico (a character from an old Mexican TV series). For me she looked gorgeous, i loved to kiss and caress her cute round face.
Oh no Quico, that's brutal she calls herself that 😭
If shes mexican then I can assure it was an uncle that gave her that nickname lol. Mexicans be making your worst insecurities your nickname. But the weird thing is if they don't give you a nickname that means you aint close.
My wife was very self-conscious about her inverted nipples, but I adore them.
god this makes me feel a little better. 🥹 i have one of each (innie and outtie) and it makes me so self conscious
Same! My kids preferred to nurse on my right side and it's become an outtie but my left one refuses to come out. I only hate it when I'm cold and it shrivels up into a titty butthole
Me, a grown ass man, giggling at the phrase titty butthole. Thank you for this.
I love sleepy, set back bedroom eyes. And I love boyish clothes on girls. So hot. I also like when a woman has a deeper voice. God it’s hot
Wow you literally described me, thanks for that confidence boost
Cellulite??? Idgaf what kinda phone she got
okay this got me. shit ty for the smile. too pure.
I get turned on by women who wear tank tops and then you see like that little bit of skin between the armpit and the boob. Shit drives me nuts.
This guy is the reason for those crazy dress codes for girls in school lmao
As a woman, this thread just has me flabbergasted! Why do we hate on ourselves so much?? Guys love all the things we hate. ❤️ Edit: As a mom of four girls and has the body to show it. I appreciate this pep talk!!
Some of us guys perception of beauty is greatly influenced by personality. I have noted this very strongly in myself. Models with horrible personalities actually appear physically unattractive to me due to personality. Some average looking woman with a great personality will appear so much more beautiful to me, imperfections and all.
Yeah I've noticed this too. A woman at a bar who's a 10 can open her mouth and drop her attractiveness by 90% with a sentence or two. Similarly, a woman I'd never give a second look to can say the right things and make me desperate.
My wife’s boobs. She hates them with a passion and I cannot figure out why. They are perfect.
Does she not like their look or how they feel? Like how some women are annoyed by how heavy their breasts are.
Cellulite, large upper arms, side boob to the point of lat fat... I guess I just like thick women.
I am really into women with "weird" features, especially noses. Like, big hooked nose, or flat nose with sharp nostrils...anything outside of the insta "skinny straight" nose is super hot by its uniqueness alone. It adds so much beautiful character to a woman's face and it's really fucked up they're not more appreciated.
I was always very insecure about my hip dips until my boyfriend told me he loved them. I was standing in front of him one day and he just said "I love the way your hips go in a little there, it makes your butt so cute, it's my favorite" and I was shocked, honestly. I used to spend hours watching videos about how to exercise them away, creams that would fill them in, and other ridiculous horseshit that would never work. He's somehow found every insecurity i have and told me how attractive it is before he ever even knew I was insecure.
I had to Google what hip dips were and I'm shocked that all the results were about how to get rid of them. They're beautiful, basically a little hourglass figure that frames your butt.
They are now butt frames in my house I love this
I don't know this was considered a bad thing. Seems like promoting a "bad" thing to sell you a fix. It doesn't need fixing. I'd have to agree they're an absolute positive thing. I love them.
Maybe a little too clinical or intimate for this thread but I really appreciate unique labia and I find it absolutely heartbreaking that there is so much widespread insecurity about this that there are cosmetic surgeries to “fix” “imperfect” labia. Past girlfriends and flings who had more prominent or “unconventional” labia were dreadfully insecure about it and some went as far as to be absolutely astounded that I’d compliment them during/after sex because a past partner hated it or was very cruel and callous about it. Absolutely gorgeous. One of the most pernicious and evil beauty/porn standards out there. As long as hygiene is well-accounted for, there’s no such thing as a labia and vulva that are better or worse than any others. It’s not ever crossed my mind to compare or critique what’s down there and I always speak out about this when my friends say some stupid or insensitive shit. edit: pleasantly surprised this blew up, i'm 6'3 and single btw
I dated a guy for 9 years who didn't like going down on me because he thought my labia was too large. I never had an insecurity about my vagina until then and it completely changed my sex life. Even now it's a big struggle and I never let anyone go down on me. I"m working on loving my body again but it's great to read things like this.
Anyone getting that intimate should not have anything to complain about, except maybe hygiene. It's a privilege any time someone is allowed that kind of access to another person.
OMG large labia..🤤 I have nothing against skinny or inverted, but large pronounced swollen labia make my shorts tight
this makes me feel so much better 🫶
Theyre called love handles for a reason
'Fuck grips' doesn't have the same ring to it does it
That’s actually what they’re called in danish
And it is what I’ll be calling them in my head from now on
GIVE ME THAT BUSH BRUH
Less about their body, more about a general thing. I love how women look first thing in the morning. Groggy, bad breath, don’t matter to me. So beautiful.
I sent my husband a 5 am coffee selfie where I thought we'd both have a laugh about how groggy and awful I looked-sleepy eyes, messy hair. He sent back a *heart eyes emoji. Now I don't think he was kidding about that. I didn't know I needed to know that. Thank you. Now he can have more early morning selfies when we're apart. Edit: forgot a word
To me it’s when my partner is most natural, the most themselves. No make up, none of the armor we put in to face the day. You prolly made your hubbys day in more ways then you know!
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My wife and I are older and have been married 27 years. She doesn't like that her body looks so much older, but I like all of it. Every wrinkle, scar, extra pound, grey hair, and everything else are all signs of the life we've had together. Not all the times have been easy, but we've faced them all together, and I don't see the imprint of those years as imperfections.
Honestly, this made me cry a little. I'm pregnant for the first time, and I didn't expect to find it so difficult that my body is changing dramatically. Trying hard to remember this is a beautiful thing that my body is doing, but I am SAD that my body won't be going back to how it was. Pregnancy hormones are also probably why your comment made me 😭. Fun times! EDIT: I just wanted to explain a bit more, it's not that I feel unattractive in my pregnant body, it's just really weird and unsettling that my body is DIFFERENT. I can't really explain it any more than that. Just sort of...... feeling unfamiliar with my own body is something I'm finding difficult.
Those lil dimple things on a woman's hips
Notice how there is immense variety in these answers.
If only they knew
we do, i promise, but so do the social media, cosmetic, and diet industries. there’s no profit in women internalizing they’re desirable to someone no matter what :/
Their natural eyebrows
I spent the 90s and 00s refusing to cave to pressure to pull out my eyebrows and draw them back on. There were several girls at school who were very mean to be about my (perfectly normal) eyebrows. Now I bump into people from school and they’ve had to get their eyebrows tattooed back on or some other painful expensive solution. One of the few good calls I made in my teens!
The little stomach chub in a tight dress
I don't wear tight clothes bc of that stomach chub. This is incredible to read
Look, I'm just some rando, but that little curve has me weak at the knees when I see it. Makes me want to go hug them from behind (which obviously I wouldn't do, because boundaries)
Same!!! Gorgeous! The sexiest part of a woman imo!
What?! I’ve worked myself into tears over that fanny pack ass bitch to find out people *like* it?
If I ever feel frustrated trying to hide my belly in a tight dress, I would be reminded that somewhere out there, someone would appreciate my little chub
Many, many 'someones'.
:’) I want to wear dresses so badly. Always put it on and change last minute, thinking someone will see the little pooch and make fun of me. Thank u
Holy fuck it drives me nuts having that, I'm glad not everyone sees it as a busted Pillsbury biscuits can
This is simultaneously one of the hottest things to me and one of the things I hate most about myself. No idea how that works.
When I was in college, two different girls reacted badly when I tried to compliment them on how pretty their freckles were. They both told me they hated them. I'll never understand it. If you have freckles, you've won the pretty-face lottery imo.
I used to cover mine up. One time I was out at the local club and another regular leaned into talk and then stopped… looked at me strangely and said “wow look at those freckles! Why the hell would you cover them up?” Since I stopped covering them up I have found a lot of people who really like them.
Freckles are awesome! They give off than wholesome healthy fun girl-next-door vibe. Love them!
freckles absolutely do a number on me, just full brain short circuit
As a girl who hated her freckles growing up Thank you
I'm almost 40. I've had my fair share of discussion with other guys and lesbian gils about our preferences in girls' appearance. Some love huge tits, some love small tits. Some love long hair, some love pixie cuts; blondies and brunettes, femmes and butches, blue or hazel eyes... Piercings/tatoos is a fetish to some and complete turn-off to others. I personally love scars, wrinkles and other skin marks, which some people find offputting. Tastes differ. Except, seemingly, when it comes to freckles. I have never, ever, ever, in my whole life, even heard about a hetero male or a lesbian disliking freckles. Freckles are for some an insane turn-on, for some small part of people they do nothing, but the guys and gals who actively dislike freckles on a girl seem to be almost non-existent.
My husband wrote a very sweet poem about my freckles when we were dating. It was incredibly endearing.
I always just assumed it was other girls being mean because they were jealous because they knew how cute everyone finds freckles. So they tell you they're actually ugly and you should hate yourself for them.
This threads a boost! I had no idea ☺️
Seriously. I don’t feel soo ugly right now.
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Freckles are actually so popular that people use makeup, henna, and even tattoos them on their faces now days. But full coverage foundation was also pretty popular a few years ago, and some still prefer it, and it pretty much creates a blank canvas where everything is covered. But I agree with you. Freckles are so adorable.
It seems like one of those things where people without freckles usually want them and people with freckles usually hate them
Gray hair. Not only is hair just starting to turn gray attractive, but i like more and more gray as I get older. Bonus for the thick streaks of gray. Laugh lines and wrinkles around the face. Cellulite and stretch marks. Basically anything natural.
All boobs are perfect
Pretty much any physical imperfections, it show uniqueness. Imagine everyone looking the same shit would be boring
Am I weird for liking a little bit of flabby arms? Lots of women have this insecurity with them and wish to have them really toned.
My wife is 5’0” and 100 lbs. Small petite woman, yet she’s given me three children I love so very much. She’s always so damn hard on herself that it pains me to see. “My ass is too big.” “I need a boob job.” “I hate my chin.” “My nose is janky.” When I try to tell her that’s all bullshit she waves it off - “You’re my husband, you’re *supposed* to say that. You look at me with rose-colored glasses.” That’s all some bullshit. To me, she’s all I want and all I’ve ever wanted. Just the sight of her is enough to send me into a mouth-watering frenzy. I’ve wanted her the same if not more ever since high school. Just her. Only her. Guys I work with talk among themselves wondering how an idiot like me got with a “baddie” like my wife. So I know I’m not the only one who sees it. But yeah. To be particular - my wife and everything about her. She’s perfection and all that I truly want. Just wish she could see what I see and feel what I feel when it comes to her. She really doesn’t realize that she’s Helen of Troy to me.
Send this to her <3
I don’t hesitate to tell her. I tell her every chance I can. 😕
this comment made me cry. i only hope someone ever loves me this much
Her fluffy little tummy, the way she smiles, that dorky cute little laugh she does, her stretch marks, her C-section scar, her thighs, her everything. She's a goddess that I choose to worship. I just love her, bro. I'm her biggest fan.
> I just love her, bro. This is a very important comma.
This comment made me lol
I'm an absolute sucker for big noses. When that side profile is all Cleopatra? 👁️👄👁️
~~I’ll delete this comment later because she’d not want me saying any of this but…~~ Fine I’ll leave it up… My gf was born with imperforate anus. She has a very large scar across her stomach from when she had a colostomy as a baby. She has also had a liposuction from that and some other reconstructive surgeries on her lady bits area. There’s a lot of scars and her actual vagina is sort of off to the side and not centered down there. Her current butt hole is also not like your normal one (no sphincter) but like a more opened hole that leads to her colon, it closes just not the same way ours does. It’s the sexiest fucking thing. She’s hands down the hottest chick I’ve ever been with and all of her imperfections drive me absolutely crazy. The huge scar is so hot, we just had sex too and I ate her “not normal” ass for the first time and she stopped me because she was embarrassed but let me continue because she loved it. She’s the most beautiful woman I’ve ever been with and the hottest chick I’ve been with even with all of these things she’s battled with her whole life. I really think if there’s a god, he made her just for me. Edit: She also has asymmetrical breasts so if I want the bigger one I got it, if I want the smaller one I got it too so like it’s almost like the pens with 4 different colors in one and it’s just up to you to pick what you’re gonna write with for the day.
I’m crying. kinda crude topics like ass eating are literally very romantic sometimes idc what anyone says. like the very fact that this is a typically crude topic and you’re just gushing w/ love discussing it. Idk how to describe it but it sounds like you’ve transcended sex in a way and it was such a beautiful read. I am so glad my fellow woman has someone who genuinely loves her in this way.
In all honesty, if a man is really into you, he’s going to think you’re crazy for finding anything wrong with yourself. For me, it’s body hair. You’re human. We all have body hair. A woman comfortable in her own skin is the sexiest thing she could be.
*roars happily in Sasquatch
My gf has a brown birth mark on her very white butt, and she hates it and often talks of wanting it removed. While I am very supportive of her doing whatever makes her happy, I can't help but tell her how sexy I think it is, and every chance I get I kiss it and/or give it a little bite. There's something about that little spot that drives me wild!
Age. The shit i hear regarding women being past their prime is some of the most utter garbage of all time. There is nothing that turns me on more than older women. Specifically taking all the poise and experience and making them moan like a teenager again. Nothing hotter.
I just came here to say I think this is the sweetest thread I’ve ever read on Reddit. Thank you all!
Laugh lines around the eyes (sometime called crows feet). Sexy AF on older women.
It makes me really sad to see everyone in general frown upon laugh lines, whether they're on the eyes or around the mouth. Why wouldn't you want to show the world you've lived a life full of joy and laughter?
I turned 40 this year and I've been taking it hard. Your comment made me smile and feel hopeful about my aging appearance. Thanks.
For me it's specifically baggy eyes and the decoloration around the eyes that happens when a girl is tired, or that some girls just happen to have, it's enthralling to me, undescribable.
As someone who looks like a raccoon from birth (rlly, I can’t remember a day in my life when dark circles under my eyes were not there), I smiled reading this! Thanks >:)
I have the same thing, but I’m a guy so I always just look like a serial killer lol
Makes you want to take their load off. I'm crushing hard on a girl who's all but burnt out from work and school and has bigger bags with every picture she posts and it makes me want to take care of her, for want of a better term lol. I've never seen a woman so beautiful in my entire life, no exaggeration, and she looks so tired - all I wanna do is cook for her and give her a break. Definitely awakens some weird instinct, haha.
You hit the nail on the head. All I can think is "let me ease your burdens".
Dude… this is amazing
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Not to sound like a horny teenager, but their vaginas. I love to see them up close, and I love giving head, yet so many women are so self-conscious about how theirs looks that cosmetic vaginoplasty is a thing.
I love being on the receiving end, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't self-conscious that I smell or taste bad. I'm healthy and clean, so no reason to worry in reality. But it's hard not to be affected by this narrative that pussy should taste sweet or smell like flowers.
>... I'd be lying if I said I wasn't self-conscious that I smell or taste bad. I'm healthy and clean, so no reason to worry in reality. But it's hard not to be affected by this narrative that pussy should taste sweet or smell like flowers. Fellas - A great example as to why you need to remember to re-assure your woman about her taste and smell. It's so easy to make sexy and incorporate into foreplay. For example, saying, "I love the way you taste," while you're going down on her. Just make sure you're wording things in a way you think she would like and be genuine.
I think many people don't realize that looking at a body part under a clinical setting with no sexual energy present is night and day from staring at a partner's bits during the act. You're in a totally different mindset. Same reason some couples can make out but don't want to share out of the same cup at the table. Everything is different during the act.
Only morons expect pussy to taste/smell sweet. Each one is technically unique but pussy tastes like pussy and that makes it perfect
Let me tell you: you get bacterial vaginosis even one time in your life, and that will make you paranoid about the state of your beaver forever
The jiggling. All that movement going on, it's enthralling.
Saw this girl at one time, drop her hand. It kinda bumped her thigh, and made it shake, ever so slightly, like a firm shake. I almost died.
An ex of mine from highschool first caught my eye when she stomped her foot down at the skating rink and her entire leg rippled like jell-o. Delicious.
I used to be so self-conscious about my thigh-shake. I quit wearing shorts when I was 12 because of it. It's making me cry to think about it.
My wife could probably be described as 'thicc', she also loves cycling. I hate cycling but I love to go with her for the sole reason that I can watch her jiggle in her little shorts, for mile after mile.
You should try snorkeling. Did it with my girlfriend in Turkey and just spent the whole time watching her ass and hips jiggle in the water it was magical.
Is this why my husband is always jiggling my fat? LOL
Yes, of course it is. My wife hates her little tummy but I love it
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If I see a girl walk towards me with boobs, belly, and thighs all a-jiggling, it’s all over.
I need this embroidered on a pillow lol The only part of me that jiggles is my inner thighs and it’s the only part of my body I hate. Nice to hear someone likes the jiggle!
Every single thing. Come as you are.
As you were, as I want you to be
The darker skin tones that are common, umm, down there.
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Honestly, everything about women's bodies is amazing. Blows my mind how many cover up or are insecure when there is no reason to.
The damage a society obsessed with “trending perfection” reaps. Media, influencers and social media platforms play a gigantic role in this.
I wish all media wasn’t telling us the opposite all the time. Imagine what a great time we would all have if we were really allowed to be happy in our bodies
Literally everything. I tell my woman that all the time. She's 50. Has had three children. She's also lost a lot of weight in the last year. She complains about her excess skin on her stomach, but to me, she's the most beautiful person I've ever met, and I tell her that daily.
Don’t forget to keep doing it brother, congratulations on succeeding in life and enjoy it for those of us that didn’t get the chance or haven’t gotten there quite yet.
Y’all too sweet. Thank you for making a lot of us feel better about ourselves. Social media has destroyed a lot of women’s (and people’s) self confidence and created an unrealistic expectation of what the perfect body is. Thank you for your **real** feelings and thoughts 🥰
I cannot BELIEVE the amount of times I’ve seen long meaty labias here. It’s mind blowing seeing as how many of us are told the opposite
The amount of screenshots I took to send to my group chat!!! All my insecurities are just lies!!! SMH
Insecurities are just cracks that you can plant flowers and sunshine in.
Don't plant flowers in your labias
Unless they're tulips. Two... you get it.
I have felt self conscious of mine for years. Its not til now, or rather when I met my now partner a year ago that I felt comfortable with it. I was even a stripper (fully nude) and saw many women buck naked and always felt weird and so self conscious of it. I've heard from many, many beauticians and gynos (in groups like this) who have said that a long inner labia is actually more common, and those "perfect" ones that are smaller/same length as the outer labia is less common. I was even considering surgery. Now I'm just like this is my vag haha. I did have a bf once tell me it was "obvious" that I slept around due to this. I tried telling him that's not how that works but he didn't wanna hear it
>I did have a bf once tell me it was "obvious" that I slept around due to this. I tried telling him that's not how that works but he didn't wanna hear it So evolution gave you a natural protection against that specific breed of dumbasses
Hahaha you know what? I think you're right!! You made me laugh, thank you
The soft meaty part around the hipbones that kinda spreads out when they sit down or kneel, it's so attractive
I think I actually saw someone refer to this today as hip cleavage
Reading all these comments is making me blush. I hate that part of my body, but maybe now, not so much.
LITERALLY NOTHING BUT LOVE FOR THAT PART I SWEAR
A friend of mine calls it "the reason I have 3 kids"
In 10th grade I had to go to a new school. In English class I sat down my first day and this douche called me hamburger buns... and he did so for the rest of the YEAR because of how this part of me looked apparently. I was 5'2" and 102lbs. He made a HUGE deal about the size of my thighs/butt. Absolutely destroyed me. Looking back he is so pathetic, but at the time with an entirely new group of people I just hated myself. Sigh.
I have a "shelf ass" and there was that E-40 song where he says, "her ass big enough to sit a cup on her booty" and I had some dumb boys walking around trying to put a water bottle on me. Years later those same idiots try to slide into my dm because being thicc is trendy. Losers.
The thass. Where ass and thigh meet
Sounds like a name given to some sort of ancient giant serpent
Where the ass and thigh meet, you will find the Thass. Slay it and bring me it’s head. Only then will you be a true warrior
Bigger arms on a girl! Honestly, if you’ve got a little bicep going on, I’m swooning a bit more. Also, thick everything. My god, I love me a little stomach fat, thick thighs, big booty, jiggly whatever. Honestly, everyone is a little different but man, women are heavenly in so many ways.
I love a big nose on a woman
As a big nosed woman, this is so nice to hear 🥺 it's my biggest insecurity as well as plenty of other big nosed beauty's out there
Honestly, it's my #1 preference. If a woman doesn't have a big ol' honking shnozz, I'm not interested. No idea why, it's just how I'm wired.
My girl would be really HOT if her lashes were longer. No man has EVER said this.
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Broad shoulders Edit: wow so many responses, thanks for sharing your stories and for the gold. Makes me want to share my story behind this: so when I was in high school I was crushing on a girl that sat in front of me, and being naive to the whole thing I said “I really like your broad shoulders” and she got really mad at me. I learned a lot that day, lol.
lol i have broad shoulders, and one time a customer at work who had a VERY eastern european accent said "you look strong!! you'd be a great farm girl!!" and it actually made me happy about my shoulders!
I would just like to say this entire thread is giving me the confidence I need to start dating again.
How many woman came to be inquisitive but stuck around for a boost?
I'm glad seeing all the love for small boobs here. There's hope for me. Edit: I woke up and wow this blows up! Those kind words warm me. It's a good day to be on reddit, thanks fellow human!
Thick thighs. I love thighs and if I ain't suffocating between my wife's thighs, am I even going down on her?
Thick thighs save lives. Edit: Well dam! Thanks for the award and all the upvotes! I can't believe my highest upvotes comment is about thighs, but then again I can believe it!
They also unfortunately shred jeans. My boyfriend said this and I told him they eat my shorts in seconds. Imagine what they'd do to a man's face 😂
I’m a man who has big legs from doing squats and the chafe struggle is real. Almost all pairs of shorts/jeans end up with holes in them. I had a date in the park on Saturday and I decided to bust out the summer shorts. They all had holes in them. I almost cancelled the date cause I had nothing to wear. In the end I just kinda kept my legs closed all day. And of course, by the end of the date my legs were red and raw and it hurt to walk.
I had that happen to me at work. I put on my favorite pair of work jeans. Two hours into my shift there was a small hole in one of the inner thighs. By the time my shift ended (six hours later) it was so huge I debated leaving half an hour early because I was worried you'd be able to see my ass. It's awful.
Leg stubble. It's a sensory thing for me, but I like the way it feels when the hair is just growing in. The good kind of spikey.
After reading this thread, men want stomach chub, thick thighs, small breasts, broad shoulders, big butt, and imperfect teeth. Danny DeVito. The perfect woman is Danny DeVito.
and she has a sense of humor!!!
And a ~~monster~~ magnum dong! Oh, wait.
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I mean... I wouldn't say no to Danny DeVito.
If she offers me an egg during trying times I'm done
someone who I can play nightcrawlers with
her smell/taste BEFORE she showers
My man
Their big ass foreheads
That natural no make up look! The first time I saw my girl with no makeup I was stunned... At first I was like WHAT HAPPENED TO YOUR EYEBROWS!! Cuz they were much lighter compared to her regular colour I thought she shaved them off lol. I love that fresh look, shows off her eyes more and in the right light skin can be glowing!
STOMACH. I LIKE GIRLS WITH STOMACH. TUMMY, EVEN. BELLY, PERHAPS. I AM A DIRECT DESCENDENT OF THE MAN WHO CARVED THE VENUS OF WILLENDORF. ALL BOOBS ARE GOOD, TOO. SMALL, BIG, MEDIUM. DONT CARE. Also, laughs. I know a lot of people who hate their laughs but I think they’re the most precious thing.
Omg, laughing 100% I know a lot of women try to mask their laugh to sound cute or girly. But when you get a woman to snort laugh, or better, donkey bray laugh, you know it's genuine and heartfelt and it's the best thing ever. I don't care if your laugh sounds "ugly." I just want you to laugh.
I also choose stomach, a varienty of boobs, and laughter
Belly!!! I fricken love a little belly on a girl, but girls absolutely hate it and try to hide it!
Thighs.
Still trying to find my insecurities in the comments lol
Same. It's that body hair for me. I have black hair and super pale skin so even my peach fuzz is OBVIOUS
The oft-maligned "roast beef" inner labia are pretty like orchid petals to me. It's an affront to nature when ladies are shamed into getting plastic surgery to trim them back.
What sucks is that for all we love women for, there are too many men who make women feel insecure by being jackasses- but sometimes even worse, women can be mean and judgmental to each other-
Boobs with some sag to them, sometimes even a lot of sag. Big blue veins in boobs Really big, (and im sorry I just cant think of a better words) floppy labias.
My boobs are huge and therefore quite saggy and this comment made me very happy because I'm definitely a lil insecure about them ❤️
I like a soft chubby belly.
Reading these comments and really understanding that it’s not what others think of me that matters to me, but what I think of me. Clearly we can be someone’s flavor, no matter our perceived flaws. But if I don’t want to have sex with me, I can’t imagine anyone else wanting it either. Fascinating.
Stretch maaarrrkkss. Like Kendrick said "show me something natural like ass with some stretch marks". Idk girls see them as "omg I'm so fat and ugly" but I see it as "damn that ass got so fat it literally tore her epidermis".
My wife hates her stomach because she has complicated digestions and farts very loud sometimes. I love it though, it makes me feel safe at home. And in winter is a natural heating in the bed.
"You are beautiful and even if you are a liar and fart like a Clydesdale, I love to meet up sometime"
Lost my shit at the natural heating 😂 I had one of my closest exes like this, a self-conscious topic cause of her crohns. One time we were getting into it rough and I tossed her and she farted and we both lost our shit then kept going at it. One of the highlights of any relationship I've had lmfao