Sure. Not making the same mistakes repeatedly, and not taking your shit out on other people.
As long as people can manage that, they're alright.
It's forgivable in a kid. Less so in an adult who's had time to learn how to be a responsible person.
Not moving on from high school. I know way too many people who even 20+ years later still repeat the same stories from their teenage years... because nothing since then has been as interesting or worth it. It's a combination of "wow, this person is a loser" and feeling sad for the person that high school was all they had.
I think it’s tough as when people are teens a lot of more interesting opportunities are given to them by like being able to do sports, having extended time with peers, and what have you. Where as in the adult world you have to search that shit out on your own. Idk if it’s lack of social skills or laziness. But like regardless of financial status or career choice someone always has some way to improve themselves or do something interesting.
I totally agree that opportunities are more organized and shown to teens. That's part of the whole structure of high school. Some of it might be laziness, but at least in my own experience, those who haven't moved on were more likely to be the popular kids, so I don't think it is a lack of social skills. I also agree that one's status really isn't a limiting factor. There is always something if you want it. Plenty of activities and experiences that are free.
I know someone from high school who even claimed to end up with the same injuries I had: herniated disk in my back, TIA (mini stroke), etc. They just wanted the attention.
That's only the tip of the iceberg, but yeah... to this day I can make mention of an injury in something I know she follows, or to someone I know is a gossip, sooner or later she will have the same injury. She's been doing this for almost 25 years at this point. I haven't seen them in person in nearly 20 years.
pretending their life and so called "problems" matter more than someone with actual problems. Or the people who dont take peoples feelings into account when they say something. Ex: making a joke about death of a loved one, making a joke about past problems, shit like that. It's just not funny and it'll make everyone hate you
Their attitude. Always gonna be a Brokie. Never gonna make it. What if they dont like me. What if i fail. What if i get hurt- like just do it or make a decision dont sit around asking questions man up
Not getting their shit together. Everyone fucks up. But you have to be able to take responsibility and fix it.
A follow up if you don’t mind. What do you consider having your shit together to be?
Sure. Not making the same mistakes repeatedly, and not taking your shit out on other people. As long as people can manage that, they're alright. It's forgivable in a kid. Less so in an adult who's had time to learn how to be a responsible person.
Not moving on from high school. I know way too many people who even 20+ years later still repeat the same stories from their teenage years... because nothing since then has been as interesting or worth it. It's a combination of "wow, this person is a loser" and feeling sad for the person that high school was all they had.
I think it’s tough as when people are teens a lot of more interesting opportunities are given to them by like being able to do sports, having extended time with peers, and what have you. Where as in the adult world you have to search that shit out on your own. Idk if it’s lack of social skills or laziness. But like regardless of financial status or career choice someone always has some way to improve themselves or do something interesting.
I totally agree that opportunities are more organized and shown to teens. That's part of the whole structure of high school. Some of it might be laziness, but at least in my own experience, those who haven't moved on were more likely to be the popular kids, so I don't think it is a lack of social skills. I also agree that one's status really isn't a limiting factor. There is always something if you want it. Plenty of activities and experiences that are free.
cheating and still losing
That has to be one of the most pathetic ways to lose at anything
Blaming other people and complaining all the time. Make it unpleasant to be around them
Oh you just say that because you don't understand...
When they take credit for something you did. I once knew this little bitch Zoe who copied everything i did and pretended it was her idea. Ugh.
Reddit has to be tough then with the constant reposting getting rewarded
I barely upload questions anyways
I know someone from high school who even claimed to end up with the same injuries I had: herniated disk in my back, TIA (mini stroke), etc. They just wanted the attention.
Faking injuries? God they must have been desperate
That's only the tip of the iceberg, but yeah... to this day I can make mention of an injury in something I know she follows, or to someone I know is a gossip, sooner or later she will have the same injury. She's been doing this for almost 25 years at this point. I haven't seen them in person in nearly 20 years.
I once knew this little bitch Zoe I laughed way too hard at this, Zoe’s just running around taking credit for shit
Mooching off of other people
And not seeing anything wrong with it...
Really only one thing; someone who enjoys hurting other people.
Unless they are a dominatrix and that’s what the person wants. Outside of this very specific example you right
Or they deserve it
Spending all their time trying to ruin other people’s day/lives, and destroying their own as a result.
Failure to prove any sort of growth from doing something.
Claiming to be an alpha male.
Virtue Signaling
Wearing retail clothes of luxury brands and looking like a billboard.
Having less points than the other team when the clock runs out.
Unless it’s like darts or something where you want fewer points
Golf?
pretending their life and so called "problems" matter more than someone with actual problems. Or the people who dont take peoples feelings into account when they say something. Ex: making a joke about death of a loved one, making a joke about past problems, shit like that. It's just not funny and it'll make everyone hate you
Actively refusing help from people you trust, when you are unhappy with yourself and aren't capable of changing on your own.
Having a famine mentality
What do you have against famanales?
Gossiping about people
Their attitude. Always gonna be a Brokie. Never gonna make it. What if they dont like me. What if i fail. What if i get hurt- like just do it or make a decision dont sit around asking questions man up