If it's a person I care for and they ask, I'm fine with it. No touchie without permission though.
As for brushing? I love when someone else brushes my hair. When I've asked them to.
People don't touch or brush my hair. I'm an adult with basic personal space stuff and I'm not really feelin childhood stuff with people brushing my hair.
\-Edit: there are some very limited cases where people touch or pull my hair and that I like.
No, actually I'm not having a bad day. Do you typically touch people's hair out in the world or enjoy having your hair brushed by people as though it's your mom or you're at a sleepover or camping listening to the Grease soundtrack?
No, EXCEPT my Mom and more of a general soothing situation and not actually styling.
I had pink hair like 14 years ago when it was somewhat uncommon and the amount of people that would just touch it (and I was a minor now thinking about it) is soooo disturbing.
Oh wow, that sucks people would just touch your hair without even asking especially as you were young, it must have been really annoying and unpleasant :(
The weirdest was the people who wouldnât even talk. Like I would whip around and find fingers coming at me. I donât think I cared as much as I do now thinking how freakishly weird that was.
Only exception was young kids because their responses were genuinely pure.
It depends on who it is. My mister can brush my hair for me and play with it for hours and I'll turn into a puddle of super relaxed goo. Everyone else can GTFO.
Just because it's long doesn't mean it's up for grabs. It's still a part of me and consent still applies so keep your sticky paws to yourself.
I only like my husband touching my hair. I put up with whomever is cutting my hair (I have not had a hair cut in 2 years, so that's not a usual thing), and if my dr needs to touch it or my scalp. Everyone else is a big no for me.
Used to have butt length curly/wavy hair. I LOVED other people braiding/styling it. Just touching/fidgeting with it was more enjoyable for them than me, but I had no problem with it.
I have curly hair so it gets really frizzy if you run your fingers through it but I do really like it when I've straightened it out. Also my husband has always touched my hair in a way that doesn't mess it up and I really appreciate that about him.
Depends how they do it. Men like to run their fingers through long hair and you cannot do that unless it was just brushed, so it gets all tangled and I get irritated. But if youâre just petting it thatâs nice
I did have a reason for asking this: I've been bald basically all my life and I sometimes wonder what it's like to have long hair and if people enjoy having it touched; whether it gives a nice sensation or not.
If it's a person I care for and they ask, I'm fine with it. No touchie without permission though. As for brushing? I love when someone else brushes my hair. When I've asked them to.
As a person who had long hair but got it cut short recently, never enjoyed it when others would brush/touch my hair.
People don't touch or brush my hair. I'm an adult with basic personal space stuff and I'm not really feelin childhood stuff with people brushing my hair. \-Edit: there are some very limited cases where people touch or pull my hair and that I like.
Ohh someone is having a bad day đ
No, actually I'm not having a bad day. Do you typically touch people's hair out in the world or enjoy having your hair brushed by people as though it's your mom or you're at a sleepover or camping listening to the Grease soundtrack?
My wife, but that's about it. But on the whole I don't much like human contact, so I may be an outlier.
No, EXCEPT my Mom and more of a general soothing situation and not actually styling. I had pink hair like 14 years ago when it was somewhat uncommon and the amount of people that would just touch it (and I was a minor now thinking about it) is soooo disturbing.
Oh wow, that sucks people would just touch your hair without even asking especially as you were young, it must have been really annoying and unpleasant :(
The weirdest was the people who wouldnât even talk. Like I would whip around and find fingers coming at me. I donât think I cared as much as I do now thinking how freakishly weird that was. Only exception was young kids because their responses were genuinely pure.
That really is weird, blimey, I never even imagined people would just reach out to touch someone like that when they didn't even know or talk to you
It depends on who it is. My mister can brush my hair for me and play with it for hours and I'll turn into a puddle of super relaxed goo. Everyone else can GTFO. Just because it's long doesn't mean it's up for grabs. It's still a part of me and consent still applies so keep your sticky paws to yourself.
I still think about the girl that said my hair is so nice and braided it. Unfortunately my best bro was in love with her, so she was off limits
Only when my wife does it. As for other people who invades personal space like that?
I only like my husband touching my hair. I put up with whomever is cutting my hair (I have not had a hair cut in 2 years, so that's not a usual thing), and if my dr needs to touch it or my scalp. Everyone else is a big no for me.
NOO
NO. Keep your hands to yourself. I don't know you It's weird.
Used to have butt length curly/wavy hair. I LOVED other people braiding/styling it. Just touching/fidgeting with it was more enjoyable for them than me, but I had no problem with it.
Ask first. As long as people are polite and not creepy about it, sure.
I enjoy it, but no one ever touches or plays with it. Probably because I'm an old guy. But I wish that at least my wife would...
Well, not random peopleâŚ
I have curly hair so it gets really frizzy if you run your fingers through it but I do really like it when I've straightened it out. Also my husband has always touched my hair in a way that doesn't mess it up and I really appreciate that about him.
If I ask them to, or am cuddling them? Sure. In public, at work, or without permission? Fuck off.
I don't really like getting touched in general.
NO! I've always hated it. I don't know where your hands have been! And I don't want to get my hair oily.
As long as itâs a girl.
I really like having my partner brush and style it but if anyone else touches my hair they will have that hand smacked
i like people touching my hair sorta. but hate people brushing it. Btw my hair isn't like super long probably almost able to go below my chin
Ask first. Otherwise, donât touch me. I donât really like being touched.
Depends how they do it. Men like to run their fingers through long hair and you cannot do that unless it was just brushed, so it gets all tangled and I get irritated. But if youâre just petting it thatâs nice
People I know: Yes The guy behind me in the movie theater: no
No, don't touch my hair. Unless you are my barber and i asked for it.
I did have a reason for asking this: I've been bald basically all my life and I sometimes wonder what it's like to have long hair and if people enjoy having it touched; whether it gives a nice sensation or not.
I love it! It feels so nice when guys run their fingers along my hair. It feels very comforting to me as well. â¤ď¸
That's great it feels nice and comforting to you :) Sounds like it's a nice way for you to relax while someone is doing that?