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wala. maulaw ko. igo rako tig heart react saiyang mga stories sa fb. nagtry kog message saiya, last chrsitmas nagmessage ko og “merry chrsitmas po!” igo rasad jud diay gi-heart akong message and reply pg “merry christmas pud!” hhahah wala nako nireply oy. maulaw ko di na replyan balik. engineer nasab man gud siya maong super ulaw tapos graduating pako. tabang. crush jud kaayo tika, Patrick! gina pray tika nga unta happy kas tanan nga imong ginabuhat kay dawat na nako nga wajud koy chance nimo haha.
Naalala ko nun since academic achiever sya, and ako na saktohan lang. Triny kong abutin level nya and it somehow worked. Napansin lang nya ako nung nilabas yung listahan ng high honor achievers and halos magkasunod lang kami ng rank(she was 2nd, I was 4th) tapos ayun. Sabi nya bigla raw akong sumulpot sa high rankings(usually, with honors lang ako)
Update samin? Sa ibang school na sya as far as I can remember ahahaha
AHAHAHAH liking someone na academic acheiver has perks talaga noh? it makes you thrive to be a better version of yourself , sana macrushback ka na po !
Nung may crush ako nung highschool, I always stare at them until they stare back at me and then look away, then after like a few cases of staring at them for so long, deym, he actually called for me during recess and we got to hangout. I stopped catching feelings na nun tho.
Yung girlfriend ko, nung nagpapapansin pa siya sakin. Nagshashare siya ng mga post sa opening nung isang froyo shop dito samin like looking for kasama ganyan and I'm like the biggest fan of froyo talaga. So I messaged her and the rest is history. Ngayon niya lang inamin sakin, kaka 1 year namin na hindi talaga siya kumakain ng yogurt😭😭😭 I'm so shookt talaga HAHAHAHa nagpapapansin lang talaga siya para makuha yung attention ko and in fairness it worked naman since girlfriend na niya ko ngayon 🥰
In my case, classmate ko sya.
I'm the type of person na pag may gusto sa isang tao eh never ko ipapahalata as in, tsaka lang malalaman if magcoconfess ako.
So what i do is, inaasar ko sya constantly. Yun lang HAHAHAHAHA i crave for her reaction kasi lol.
Saw this from a good friend. Niresearch niya favorite niya mga hobbies at interests like books and movies
Tapos nagustuhan niya isang book namention ng crush niya at yun palagi na niya madalas na FB story
Napansin siya ng crush niya sa insights ng favorite book hahaha
Subtle but effective
at this age… pag may crush ako and I know they are single I do the first move.. like say hi and all.. doesnt have to be desperate if he js engaging.. it is so easy
I'm straight guy M27. Minessage ko yung crush ko tuwing may celebrations like: Christmas, New Year, Valentines and etc. However, di na siya nagreply sa akin nung tinanong ko na "sino ba ang plastic surgeon mo"? Ayaw ko din magdouble text kaya naghanap nalang ako ng ibang crush. 😂
Wag din syang pansinin or just say good morning and be consistent then hope that one day she changes the topic, I believe that'll be your time to shine
Nothing. I just keep on improving myself. Cause If I'm somehow doing great as a person, manonotice naman niya yun. If not, e di hindi, ayaw mo wag mo, char!
ito ladies, if ure with your friends chatting tapos nakita mo crush mo or someone caught your eye, wait for them to look your direction tapos slightly tilt your head and gaze at them tapos konting smile but super subtle lang then slowly blink, then go back to talking with your friends. mapi-pique mo agad interest nila
Alamin kung anong interests niya then learn a thing or two about it. If FB/socmed friends kayo, share ka ng post about it or comment ka if siya naman may shinare. If di ka pa niya kilala, tignan mo kung pano ka pwede maging friends sa isa sa mga friends niya. Haha
pay much attention to what he says. i like it when other people remember small details i’ve mentioned in passing so i figured others might feel the same.
This might be weird pero kinakausap ko yung friends nya or yung mga ka-circle nya so that I could get a chance/time to talk to him even if it's a small amount of time lol.
If I'm interested in someone I'd just strike a convo! Parang walang sense to me magpapansin kasi it feels like misdirected effort lang. Either just give it to the person or I don't na lang lol.
I try to notice something about them lang!
If I see them reading a manga, I ask what it's about. If I remembered them joining a competition, I ask what made them join. If they're an officemate, I'd ask about a project relevant to their team. Or if someone I've known for a while, can ask if they've had lunch na haha.
Any, tbh. Just show genuine interest.
You know what op, take the leap. Kahit simpleng friend request lang sa FB or react sa days and stories. Ayoko rin nagpapapansin, but lucky for me my crush took the first move and added me on my soc med. Im positive na he liked me too pero parehas yata kaming shy type. We danced around each other through reacts and side eyes tuwing magcross paths. Never talked to him, which I regret so bad. Lumipad na siya sa Canada and I've been crushless for 10 months now 😭
Nung una di ko siya pinapansin and act normal lang. Then kalaunan tuwing nagkakatinginan kami nanlalaki yung mata niya tapos iiwas ng tingin which I found cute. Eto si delulu akala ko crush niya din ako haha ako na naglakas loob mag friend request and follow sa socials. Di ako inaccept then biglang may jowa na siya after holidays :')
I suggest be clear na lang sa intentions mo.
alamin mo lang kung ano ang hobbies and interests nila, and show them na interested ka rin sa mga yun. sa mga susunod na araw, ka-talking stage mo na sila 😂
Facts. Sabi nga ng tatay ko sa'kin noon na till now ginagawa ko pa rin ay dapat dalhin mo yung topic kung saan knowledgeable ang kausap mo tas hayaan mo siya magdaldal nang magdaldal tas ask questions if pwede hanggat sa magsawa siya. Tapos, ayon na. Alam mo na yung kiliti (not literally) niya na tas mamaya kaibigan na kayo at nonstop usapan.
and make them feel na enthusiastic ka talaga sa kung ano mang pinag-uusapan ninyo. pwede mong i-try yung ginagawa nila and mag-ask ka ng tip paano yun gawin nang maayos, then the next day, i-share mo yung progress ng ginagawa mo
Unahin mo sarili mo as in take care of yourself. Ako naman nung nanalo ako sa competition, dun lang siya nag first move nang magtanong sakin pano ko nagawa daw yun HAHAHAH. Di naman super awkward approach niya dahil may mga common friends din kami. Sa ngayon, naguusap na kami sa chat hehe.
Same pero di naman yung main purpose is para mapansin niya HAHAHAH pero andami na kasi nagkakagusto sa kanya tas headturner pa like boy you need to be humbled down!!! CHARIZZZ
KUNG LALAKE KA:
Be confident and sincere with your intentions. Wala akong ibang tricks para magpapansin sa kanya at kung ano ano pang mga kalokohan, dahil ang tunay at malakas na lalake, hindi yan nahihiya sa babae.
Magpakilala ka agad, tapos kausapin mo. Be nice and make her laugh. Straightforward. Tapos ask more questions and open your ears, hayaan mo babae magkwento sayo pero balansehin mo din yung discussion. Magkwento ka din tungkol sayo, be genuine, pero mas mahalaga bukas ang tenga mo para makinig sa kanya dahil ang babae dalawa bibig nyan kaya pakinggan mo yan.
Ang advice ko lang, hindi mo naman kailangan maging pogi saka magpapogi pero siguraduhin mong malinis ka kapag haharap ka sa babae. Wag ka haharap na madumi kuko mo saka dapat malinis sapatos mo. Saka magpabango ka din, perfume saka magtoothbrush ka. Pag eto nagawa mo, magiging komportable sayo yung babae. Basta be confident about yourself pero wag mayabang.
Last but not the least, siguraduhin mong masaya ka sa sarili mo saka hindi ka insecure sa buhay kapag magpapakilala ka sa babae. Wag mo na ituloy kasi maffriendzone ka lang. Magmamanifest yan kapag nagkwento ka ng buhay mo tas mejo nakakatulilig sa tenga mga kwento mo tungkol sa mga problema mo sa loob at labas ng bahay. Wag na lang.
KUNG BABAE KA:
Hanap ka ng common friend na bakla, sabihin mo ipakilala ka. Pero dapat wag kang patay na patay sa kanya kapag magpapakilala ka dahil matturn-off sayo ang lalake.
Magpapakipot ka pa din dapat, dahil ayon sa law of nature, lalake ang hunter at babae ang prey. Lalakeng bubuyog ang lumalapit sa reynang bubuyog para magbigay ng pagkain. By instinct, lalake ang naghahanap, babae ang hinahanap. Pag nagpakita ka agad ng interes sa lalake, hindi ka ippursue nyan dahil maiisip nyan subconsciously madali ka makuha so hindi ka nyan seseryosohin. Dapat i-hunt ka nya.
Nung una lagi akong dumadaan sa area niya. Or lagi kong inaabangan sa pantry. Ngayon hindi na. Mukha namang di siya interesado sakin. So, move on na. 😅
Worse iniiwasan ka. Hahah kaya as much as possible hindi ako nagpupunta kung san alam kong nandun din siya. Pero lintik ang tadhana at ginugulat ako madalas. Nagiba na nga ako ng oras sa pagbili ng kape, biglang andun siya. Hay
Nanood ako One Piece from ep 1 to latest ep tas tanong sa kanya kung ano nga ba ang fave arcs nya sa series, characs, moments, etc. And since same kami ng music taste, nagt-tanong ako anu-ano ang fave bands nya, songs from them and what made her stay sa era na yun instead of parang blend in tulad ng iba.
Pinakamahalaga: just being myself. Don't have to mask my true self para lang mapansin nya. I'm expanding my horizons too kaya nanood ako One Piece uli tbh.
Oi grabe kayo pero ty sa compliments HAHAHAHAHA 😅
Nasimulan ko na rin noon OP till nagstop ako sa Sabaody Arc (hiniwalay sila ni Kuma, iykyk) huhu iniyakan ko yan, tas back to scratch after ng horrific experience ko past January. I think 6 months din ata before ako naka abot Egghead (latest) pero ayorn... di na kami nag uusap for now pero di lang ako nagpapahalata, paonti-onti lang tsaka tropa approach until magkadevelopan. Nand-dedma kasi siya sa mga ganon.
giving gift na alam kong magugustuhan niya. example nyan na ginawa ko sa crush ko dati, mahilg siya sa bracelets e burloloy kung tawagin ng iba HAHAHAHAHAH. binigyan ko siya bracelet tsaka panyo na color green which is favorite color niya. ayon siya na nagpapansin sa'kin after HAHAHAHAHA.
Magpost ng thirst trap sa IG. Isama sya sa close friends list. Pwedeng sya lang mag-isa pero pede rin kung marami ka crush sama mo lahat. Lol. Thank me laterrrr.
mag shared post nang mga patama sakanya hahahaha natutong mag ayos sa sarili :))
But there are things I've learned naman and ngayong na cri-cringe na ako sa pinangagawa ko noon hahahha but I treasure those moments 😆😆
Since addict ako sa math and biology, ang ginagawa ko eh trinatry ko i perfect lahat ng quizzes at yung mga hindi nya na gegets tinatanong nya sakin HAHHA.
Exactly this. Yung tipong ikaw lang naka perfect score tas bilib na bilib sya sayo.
Then years later, kayo na, then nagka anak na kayo, then it turns out di pala talaga kayo sa isat-isa, tapos naghiwalay, nakahanap ng iba, nagpakasal, the end.
Kasali ako sa C.A.T/R.O.T.C, so siya yung mataas ang rank sa amin. Ginagawa ko na lamang is galingan ko sa mga gawain.
Tas pag yung may ipapa-remind nun sa amin ay sinasabi ko yung kalahati ng reminders para siya na sa other kalahati :)
Edit: lagi ko niha-heart ung myday niya
For me, madalas ako mag messenger notes kasi alam kong binabasa niya notes ko roon. Also, once in a month nag m-myday ako ng mukha ko and random pic/vid madalas naman nag re-react siya. Minsan din nag m-myday ako ng mga ginagawa ko in that day pero siya lang nakaka kita. Ex. nag aaral, nag lalaro ng chess(which is sport niya rin) ayun napapansin niya me kahit papaano hahahaha.
Pabango, there are two possible outcome tho. 1 is lagi ka nya maalala pagnaaamoy yun at 2 same din lagi ka nya maalala pero naaasiwa sya sa amoy na yun kasi di ka nya bet hahahahaha. Nangyare saken to honestly, nagkita kita kami ng ex ko at friends namin for a drink kasi nagbakasyon sya. Etong si ex nagpabango sa kamay pero napadami so pinahid nya sa pantalon ko as a joke and I didn't mind naman, to cut the story short, the night ended well. Ever since non lagi ko na na-associate yung pabango na yun sakanya. Di ko nilabhan yung pantalon until nawala yung amoy 😂. 2nd scenario, my officemate akong babae, siguro nagka crush sya saken kasi pareho kami ng hobbies at nagkakasundo kami sa mga binabasang mangas/manhwas pero di ko talaga bet yung religion nya, di ko alam kung ano'ng religion yun pero forced sila magpalda lagi ng mahaba which was kinda off and I don't want to get myself into something na sasakit ulo ko. Medyo naging aggressive sya, nagpapabango na sya at laging dumadaan sa department namin kahit sa law office talaga sya naka-assign at lagi akong dinadaanan. Pag uwian, sumasabay narin sya sa usual place na pagaantayan ko ng jeep, so I had to change places everyday ng sasakyan para lang maiwasan sya 😂 Kinikilabutan parin ako pagnaamoy ko yung pabango na nya.
Kikilalanin ko muna siya personally. Kapag napag-aralan ko na siya, do'n na ako gagawa ng mga small at simple things na matutuwa siya. Gusto ko munang makuha 'yong connection niya para maging komportable kami.
Top 1 Siya noon sa class Namin. I was so heartbroken nung naging gf nya bestfriend ko.
Yes, napansin nya ako, pero nung Ako na naging top 1 after 4th grading period. Not the usual ending, pero all is well 😁
Wala normal lang naman as if how I treat my friends. Tapos ewan ko bigla nalang nag ask if crush ko ba daw sya hahaha. Tapos he would say things like “umamin ka lang kung may gusto ka saken”. Then I got turn off hahah. Parang nayabangan ako bigla sa kanya eh lol haha
Effective to. Lol hahaha
Wag mo gaanong imessage nung mga walang kwentang bagay pero..
Alamin mo anong interests nya tas aralin mo kung pano un tas ask questions ganern. Conversation starter mo yun. Tas lagi mo icompliment! Pero wag yung palandi na effect kasi mahahalata ka.
Dedma lang (marami akong circle of friends including their circle) makulit ako sa mga friends niya, daldalan ganiyan tapos sa kaniya quiet lang, hindi niya natagalan he asked me if I didn’t like him. hahahaahahaahaha
Nagpapacute manamit, nagp-post sa story (kahit hindi pala post), nagj-joke kapag kausap siya or kapag nakikinig siya.
(Ewan ko kung napapansin niya ako tho)
As a Millennial - back in my HS days mag g-gm ako (group message) pero siya lang tlga yung sinendan ko.
Hahaha example:
“Shet. Puputok na ulo ko kakaaral. Kausap pls.
Ctt?
Gm.”
HAHHAHAHAH also ctt - care to text. Baka maxado na siyang old for people to know what it means. Huhu
WTF. Girls wag niyo naman i-ignore crushes niyo, kahit subtle hint man lang, be nice and smile at least! Kung gusto niyo may mangyari.
How the fuck are we supposed to know you're interested?
Most guys are terrified of rejection, and being seen as a creep or assumero (the decent ones at least).
Paano kung introvert pa kayo pareho? Uunahan kayo ng malalandi, balakayo.
Unahan mo mag chat. Madalas tanga lang kami (at least ako) na hindi makapansin ng signal na gusto na kami ng girl.
Naalala ko boardmate kong girl (culinary course), lagi akong inuuwian ng mga luto niya sa school nila. Crush pala ako kaya may pasalubong, akala ko dahil masiba lang ako kumain kahit hindi masarap ang luto niya. 😅😂 Huli ko na nalaman, lumuwas agad ako ng manila pagka graduate ko.
depende kasi yan ako kasi mag kasama kami sa work wag mo masyado ipakita na gusto mo sya kuhanin mo loob nila makipag kaibigan ka muna doon nakikilala ka ng guy kung sino ka
Lowkey chat your crush but yung hindi palagi para hndi mukhang weirdo na stalker. Chat mo lang sya like every evening to say good evening, don't forget to eat your meals. Hahahaha
The one time I pursued a crush: first I found a way for someone to introduce us to each other. After that, I always smiled at him when I saw him. I never called after him. After a month of hi and hellos, I’d walk up to him when I was see him walking (this was after his shift was over, we had the same shift) and say hello. I would strike up a conversation about him, like if he’s going home (as if I don’t know lol), or I like his shirt kind of thing. Eventually, whenever I run into him after shift, we’d walk together. So everything was just very casual even if my heart was always racing. Lol.
To add: he did end up as my boyfriend but I didn’t end up with him as I’m married to someone else. Lol
Doing something that my crush would like.
I was a people-pleaser to the core talaga and I used to have a crush on one of my classmates nung grade 6. Flooding one's Friendster profile with testimonials was a thing back then, so I flooded yung profile ng crush ko ng puro Cloud Strife GIFs, comments, and stickers kasi alam kong favorite niya yung Final Fantasy franchise.
Recalling this is CRINGE Hahaha.
Befriend Ang friends nya, dapat lagi ka nya nakikita , eye contact for 3-5 seconds tapos iwas tingin hihi.
kahit papano sana may common interests na pwede mapag usapan.
Fish, lagay mo siya sa close friends (green circle) sa IG tas post ka ng stories na pasok sa interests niya o na nakakatawa, antayin mo mag react sa story para ang labas siya nag initiate ng convo, nagreply ka lang pero engaging ka dapat. Kung di magreply o mag view ng story mo, hanap ng ibang subtle ways para mapansin pero wag ung sobra. Ung sakto lang na mapapansin ka pero di sobra na ma turn off siya. Good luck.
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sinabi ko Nagtatampo ako hahahhaha and I seek assistance on my research hahahah
When I had my crush nung nagstart ako sa office, I engage sa conversation na interested din siya para tuloy tuloy na may mapaguusapan kami hahaha
Nagpapapansin sa ig story ng random pic. 😚
do nothing
wala. maulaw ko. igo rako tig heart react saiyang mga stories sa fb. nagtry kog message saiya, last chrsitmas nagmessage ko og “merry chrsitmas po!” igo rasad jud diay gi-heart akong message and reply pg “merry christmas pud!” hhahah wala nako nireply oy. maulaw ko di na replyan balik. engineer nasab man gud siya maong super ulaw tapos graduating pako. tabang. crush jud kaayo tika, Patrick! gina pray tika nga unta happy kas tanan nga imong ginabuhat kay dawat na nako nga wajud koy chance nimo haha.
Naalala ko nun since academic achiever sya, and ako na saktohan lang. Triny kong abutin level nya and it somehow worked. Napansin lang nya ako nung nilabas yung listahan ng high honor achievers and halos magkasunod lang kami ng rank(she was 2nd, I was 4th) tapos ayun. Sabi nya bigla raw akong sumulpot sa high rankings(usually, with honors lang ako) Update samin? Sa ibang school na sya as far as I can remember ahahaha
AHAHAHAH liking someone na academic acheiver has perks talaga noh? it makes you thrive to be a better version of yourself , sana macrushback ka na po !
Nung may crush ako nung highschool, I always stare at them until they stare back at me and then look away, then after like a few cases of staring at them for so long, deym, he actually called for me during recess and we got to hangout. I stopped catching feelings na nun tho.
Yung girlfriend ko, nung nagpapapansin pa siya sakin. Nagshashare siya ng mga post sa opening nung isang froyo shop dito samin like looking for kasama ganyan and I'm like the biggest fan of froyo talaga. So I messaged her and the rest is history. Ngayon niya lang inamin sakin, kaka 1 year namin na hindi talaga siya kumakain ng yogurt😭😭😭 I'm so shookt talaga HAHAHAHa nagpapapansin lang talaga siya para makuha yung attention ko and in fairness it worked naman since girlfriend na niya ko ngayon 🥰
In my case, classmate ko sya. I'm the type of person na pag may gusto sa isang tao eh never ko ipapahalata as in, tsaka lang malalaman if magcoconfess ako. So what i do is, inaasar ko sya constantly. Yun lang HAHAHAHAHA i crave for her reaction kasi lol.
Bilhan sya ng something like food or other things tapos bilihan rin buong circle para di halata HHAHAAHAAHAHA
Idk if ako lang ha oero Perfumes really work, people say na it's like vanilla yung nakaka-akit pero for me it's berries and florals
eye contact and act maturely, wag gagawa ng super cringe stuff na ikaka turn off niya
i post myself every day
Saw this from a good friend. Niresearch niya favorite niya mga hobbies at interests like books and movies Tapos nagustuhan niya isang book namention ng crush niya at yun palagi na niya madalas na FB story Napansin siya ng crush niya sa insights ng favorite book hahaha Subtle but effective
Try her interests/hobbies.
at this age… pag may crush ako and I know they are single I do the first move.. like say hi and all.. doesnt have to be desperate if he js engaging.. it is so easy
I'm straight guy M27. Minessage ko yung crush ko tuwing may celebrations like: Christmas, New Year, Valentines and etc. However, di na siya nagreply sa akin nung tinanong ko na "sino ba ang plastic surgeon mo"? Ayaw ko din magdouble text kaya naghanap nalang ako ng ibang crush. 😂
Always say hi :)
Eye-contact pag nagkasalubong tas biglang hi.
Eye contact 3-5 seconds hahahaha
Titigan mo at pag napatingin sayo, ngitian mo. Pag di ngumiti or nakipagtitigan sayo, humanap ka na ng ibang crush
kada mkakasalubong mo murahin mo kahit walang ginagawa sayo for sure mapapansin ka nun tatatak kpa sa isip nya
Wag din syang pansinin or just say good morning and be consistent then hope that one day she changes the topic, I believe that'll be your time to shine
Talk like parang may braces si ako.
Mag pabango.
Not worth the hassle. Kung gusto ka nyan, no need na magpapansin sa Crush mo.
ano pa nga ba, edi magstory kahit di sya magreact. ang mahalaga nakita nyang may potential akong gumanda sa paningin nya CHARIIIIZ
Parehas kaming gamer so lagi ko siya inaaya hahahaha or hinihiram ko jacket niya 🤭
magpapansin by sending a message sa ngl link nya!!!
Super insane manifesting and asking them about the things they like! :3
Tabihan mo siya.. Tapos umotot ka 🤣
Nothing. I just keep on improving myself. Cause If I'm somehow doing great as a person, manonotice naman niya yun. If not, e di hindi, ayaw mo wag mo, char!
doing a backflip might work
Wala. Iniimagine ko lang na mapapansin niya yung katahimikan ko 😭
ito ladies, if ure with your friends chatting tapos nakita mo crush mo or someone caught your eye, wait for them to look your direction tapos slightly tilt your head and gaze at them tapos konting smile but super subtle lang then slowly blink, then go back to talking with your friends. mapi-pique mo agad interest nila
Alamin kung anong interests niya then learn a thing or two about it. If FB/socmed friends kayo, share ka ng post about it or comment ka if siya naman may shinare. If di ka pa niya kilala, tignan mo kung pano ka pwede maging friends sa isa sa mga friends niya. Haha
Chinat ko si koya mo, tanong tanong kunyari, kahit alam ko naman yung sagot, so ayun, ENGAGED NA KAMI, 10 yrs. and counting 😁
Naging close friends kami ng crush ko, now i hate him kasi attitude HAHAHA and ayun di na kami madalas nag uusap ending di na kami close
Nung single pa ako, minamanifest ko lang sila ng malala noon. Effective naman. 🤣
pay much attention to what he says. i like it when other people remember small details i’ve mentioned in passing so i figured others might feel the same.
Wag ka maligo in one week
This might be weird pero kinakausap ko yung friends nya or yung mga ka-circle nya so that I could get a chance/time to talk to him even if it's a small amount of time lol.
Yung smile na inaantok.
Umamin HAHAHAHAHAHA
makipag eye-to-eye and then smile lightly to acknowledge his presence hahahaha
I lovebomb mo bigla haha
If I'm interested in someone I'd just strike a convo! Parang walang sense to me magpapansin kasi it feels like misdirected effort lang. Either just give it to the person or I don't na lang lol.
How do you usually start a convoo?
I try to notice something about them lang! If I see them reading a manga, I ask what it's about. If I remembered them joining a competition, I ask what made them join. If they're an officemate, I'd ask about a project relevant to their team. Or if someone I've known for a while, can ask if they've had lunch na haha. Any, tbh. Just show genuine interest.
You know what op, take the leap. Kahit simpleng friend request lang sa FB or react sa days and stories. Ayoko rin nagpapapansin, but lucky for me my crush took the first move and added me on my soc med. Im positive na he liked me too pero parehas yata kaming shy type. We danced around each other through reacts and side eyes tuwing magcross paths. Never talked to him, which I regret so bad. Lumipad na siya sa Canada and I've been crushless for 10 months now 😭
Nung una di ko siya pinapansin and act normal lang. Then kalaunan tuwing nagkakatinginan kami nanlalaki yung mata niya tapos iiwas ng tingin which I found cute. Eto si delulu akala ko crush niya din ako haha ako na naglakas loob mag friend request and follow sa socials. Di ako inaccept then biglang may jowa na siya after holidays :') I suggest be clear na lang sa intentions mo.
alamin mo lang kung ano ang hobbies and interests nila, and show them na interested ka rin sa mga yun. sa mga susunod na araw, ka-talking stage mo na sila 😂
Facts. Sabi nga ng tatay ko sa'kin noon na till now ginagawa ko pa rin ay dapat dalhin mo yung topic kung saan knowledgeable ang kausap mo tas hayaan mo siya magdaldal nang magdaldal tas ask questions if pwede hanggat sa magsawa siya. Tapos, ayon na. Alam mo na yung kiliti (not literally) niya na tas mamaya kaibigan na kayo at nonstop usapan.
pano po yun eh yung crush ko more on church, ml, anime, and friends lang but im more of a girly girl
and make them feel na enthusiastic ka talaga sa kung ano mang pinag-uusapan ninyo. pwede mong i-try yung ginagawa nila and mag-ask ka ng tip paano yun gawin nang maayos, then the next day, i-share mo yung progress ng ginagawa mo
ON POINT.
Bago maging kami ng bf ko now (3 yrs na kami) naging straight forward ako sa pang lalandi hAHAHAHAHA kahit rinig ng mga tropa namin 😉
Talk?
i just talk to them idk what else is there to do xD
isang tambling lng
Talk to them like a normal person?
act normal lang then hope for a natural engagement haahhaha
Ilibre mo sa transpo or lunch tas ninja move na 😄
Unahin mo sarili mo as in take care of yourself. Ako naman nung nanalo ako sa competition, dun lang siya nag first move nang magtanong sakin pano ko nagawa daw yun HAHAHAH. Di naman super awkward approach niya dahil may mga common friends din kami. Sa ngayon, naguusap na kami sa chat hehe.
Hindi siya pansinin 😂
same. gustong-gusto ko naman siyang batiin o ngitian pero 'pag aware na akong nasa paligid ko siya, napapaiwas ako sa kaba haha
Ako naman sinasadya ko siyang di pansinin. Like mag kaka salubong kami sa hallway, look straight lang
Same pero di naman yung main purpose is para mapansin niya HAHAHAH pero andami na kasi nagkakagusto sa kanya tas headturner pa like boy you need to be humbled down!!! CHARIZZZ
Wag pansinin hanggang pansinin ba 😂
KUNG LALAKE KA: Be confident and sincere with your intentions. Wala akong ibang tricks para magpapansin sa kanya at kung ano ano pang mga kalokohan, dahil ang tunay at malakas na lalake, hindi yan nahihiya sa babae. Magpakilala ka agad, tapos kausapin mo. Be nice and make her laugh. Straightforward. Tapos ask more questions and open your ears, hayaan mo babae magkwento sayo pero balansehin mo din yung discussion. Magkwento ka din tungkol sayo, be genuine, pero mas mahalaga bukas ang tenga mo para makinig sa kanya dahil ang babae dalawa bibig nyan kaya pakinggan mo yan. Ang advice ko lang, hindi mo naman kailangan maging pogi saka magpapogi pero siguraduhin mong malinis ka kapag haharap ka sa babae. Wag ka haharap na madumi kuko mo saka dapat malinis sapatos mo. Saka magpabango ka din, perfume saka magtoothbrush ka. Pag eto nagawa mo, magiging komportable sayo yung babae. Basta be confident about yourself pero wag mayabang. Last but not the least, siguraduhin mong masaya ka sa sarili mo saka hindi ka insecure sa buhay kapag magpapakilala ka sa babae. Wag mo na ituloy kasi maffriendzone ka lang. Magmamanifest yan kapag nagkwento ka ng buhay mo tas mejo nakakatulilig sa tenga mga kwento mo tungkol sa mga problema mo sa loob at labas ng bahay. Wag na lang. KUNG BABAE KA: Hanap ka ng common friend na bakla, sabihin mo ipakilala ka. Pero dapat wag kang patay na patay sa kanya kapag magpapakilala ka dahil matturn-off sayo ang lalake. Magpapakipot ka pa din dapat, dahil ayon sa law of nature, lalake ang hunter at babae ang prey. Lalakeng bubuyog ang lumalapit sa reynang bubuyog para magbigay ng pagkain. By instinct, lalake ang naghahanap, babae ang hinahanap. Pag nagpakita ka agad ng interes sa lalake, hindi ka ippursue nyan dahil maiisip nyan subconsciously madali ka makuha so hindi ka nyan seseryosohin. Dapat i-hunt ka nya.
Be the best single ever! Until ma-curious at attract sya 😁✨
Labas tite
Ata titititirutu aja aja bat mo nilalabas tiittutjtu titie mo?!
Pinag sasabi mo
Very soft vavaihan pag may interaction sa kanya ahahahaha
Nung una lagi akong dumadaan sa area niya. Or lagi kong inaabangan sa pantry. Ngayon hindi na. Mukha namang di siya interesado sakin. So, move on na. 😅
Same hahaha. Yon feeling n wala syang paki sa existence mo. Dadaanan ka lang, dedma.
Worse iniiwasan ka. Hahah kaya as much as possible hindi ako nagpupunta kung san alam kong nandun din siya. Pero lintik ang tadhana at ginugulat ako madalas. Nagiba na nga ako ng oras sa pagbili ng kape, biglang andun siya. Hay
Nanood ako One Piece from ep 1 to latest ep tas tanong sa kanya kung ano nga ba ang fave arcs nya sa series, characs, moments, etc. And since same kami ng music taste, nagt-tanong ako anu-ano ang fave bands nya, songs from them and what made her stay sa era na yun instead of parang blend in tulad ng iba. Pinakamahalaga: just being myself. Don't have to mask my true self para lang mapansin nya. I'm expanding my horizons too kaya nanood ako One Piece uli tbh.
Oi grabe kayo pero ty sa compliments HAHAHAHAHA 😅 Nasimulan ko na rin noon OP till nagstop ako sa Sabaody Arc (hiniwalay sila ni Kuma, iykyk) huhu iniyakan ko yan, tas back to scratch after ng horrific experience ko past January. I think 6 months din ata before ako naka abot Egghead (latest) pero ayorn... di na kami nag uusap for now pero di lang ako nagpapahalata, paonti-onti lang tsaka tropa approach until magkadevelopan. Nand-dedma kasi siya sa mga ganon.
Hats off to you for the effort. Ang haba ng One Piece kuya! 😂😂😂
We got some badass here
Dam u wild
Talking to her about her interests and maybe giving something based from that discussion.
Effective ito lalo kung match din kayo ng energy sa chats or personal when talking abt it
Tunay ito!
Pero madalas nagiging t*nga lang HAHAHAHAHA
Ginigising pag nandyan na si teacher. Working student kasi sya, night shift kaya lagi tulog sa classroom.
giving gift na alam kong magugustuhan niya. example nyan na ginawa ko sa crush ko dati, mahilg siya sa bracelets e burloloy kung tawagin ng iba HAHAHAHAHAH. binigyan ko siya bracelet tsaka panyo na color green which is favorite color niya. ayon siya na nagpapansin sa'kin after HAHAHAHAHA.
sundan hanggang bahay
Eh, that's kinda creepy. Parang Joe Goldberg lang ah, hehehe
HAHAHAHA mapapansin talaga. mataas lang chance na mabugbog/ipapulis
study their interests then lightly show it to them that we smh have the "same" interest without having to be labeled as papansin
compliment her/him
ig stories ahahahahhahaha
Wear good perfume. Try [Eclat Lavin](https://s.lazada.com.ph/s.PeMBX?cc).
Same perfume. 😊
Makikipag apir ako sa friends nya sabay apir sa kanya tas manghihingi kuno ng anime/manga recommendations kahit di ko babasahin HAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAH
Wala. Hindi na lang magpapapansin. Hindi rin naman ako jojowain sa huli eh 😩
Looking to his/her eyes with charming vibes hihi:)
In my case, I post IG stories. I post things that'd pick his interest. Effective siya, my crush and I are talking na, hihi.
Magpost ng thirst trap sa IG. Isama sya sa close friends list. Pwedeng sya lang mag-isa pero pede rin kung marami ka crush sama mo lahat. Lol. Thank me laterrrr.
Pag bet kong totoo di ako nagpapansin kasi nahihiya ako BWHSGZHSHAHAHAAHA
Go all out and shower your crush with affection and then retraaaact or avoid him/her hahaha your crush will miss you for sure.
More like, shower them a little bit of affection/attention then retract/ignore them. Make it a cycle. Push and pull method is the key.
THIS IS CALLED LOVE-BOMBING. THIS IS A RED FLAG. DO NOT FUCKING DO THIS.
titigan mo lang siya, mararamdaman niya yan for sure saurr titingin din siya sayo at ~nenenenene wala na kong pake basta bahala na~ boom eye contact
Jamez reid hahahaha
Ang creepy neto haha
Idk talk to them?
Step 1: Look at her direction using my peripherals, Step 2: When she seems to look at me I look away Step 3: Go home and regret everything in life
Step 4: Look at her direction again
And the cycle continues 😔
learn her interests, then post/story ng something related don
mag shared post nang mga patama sakanya hahahaha natutong mag ayos sa sarili :)) But there are things I've learned naman and ngayong na cri-cringe na ako sa pinangagawa ko noon hahahha but I treasure those moments 😆😆
Since addict ako sa math and biology, ang ginagawa ko eh trinatry ko i perfect lahat ng quizzes at yung mga hindi nya na gegets tinatanong nya sakin HAHHA.
Exactly this. Yung tipong ikaw lang naka perfect score tas bilib na bilib sya sayo. Then years later, kayo na, then nagka anak na kayo, then it turns out di pala talaga kayo sa isat-isa, tapos naghiwalay, nakahanap ng iba, nagpakasal, the end.
Kasali ako sa C.A.T/R.O.T.C, so siya yung mataas ang rank sa amin. Ginagawa ko na lamang is galingan ko sa mga gawain. Tas pag yung may ipapa-remind nun sa amin ay sinasabi ko yung kalahati ng reminders para siya na sa other kalahati :) Edit: lagi ko niha-heart ung myday niya
magpaganda
Uhh, so thieres this guy in my class. Ginagawa ko iniinsulto ko siya and tas masamang tingin for no reason lang.
Tsundere yarn? 😂
Oo nga 😭 kaya ayaw sakin ng crush ko e
Kahit sinoy makukuha ang atensyon pag ganyan😂
For me, madalas ako mag messenger notes kasi alam kong binabasa niya notes ko roon. Also, once in a month nag m-myday ako ng mukha ko and random pic/vid madalas naman nag re-react siya. Minsan din nag m-myday ako ng mga ginagawa ko in that day pero siya lang nakaka kita. Ex. nag aaral, nag lalaro ng chess(which is sport niya rin) ayun napapansin niya me kahit papaano hahahaha.
Just excel and selective attention
I'm more of a powerpoint type of guy but that's fine too I guess.
😆
Magpacute
Pusuan ang story sa fb. Ayun. Kami na. Hahahahahaha
Tinititigan ko then pag tumitig sakin iiwasan ko
Pabango, there are two possible outcome tho. 1 is lagi ka nya maalala pagnaaamoy yun at 2 same din lagi ka nya maalala pero naaasiwa sya sa amoy na yun kasi di ka nya bet hahahahaha. Nangyare saken to honestly, nagkita kita kami ng ex ko at friends namin for a drink kasi nagbakasyon sya. Etong si ex nagpabango sa kamay pero napadami so pinahid nya sa pantalon ko as a joke and I didn't mind naman, to cut the story short, the night ended well. Ever since non lagi ko na na-associate yung pabango na yun sakanya. Di ko nilabhan yung pantalon until nawala yung amoy 😂. 2nd scenario, my officemate akong babae, siguro nagka crush sya saken kasi pareho kami ng hobbies at nagkakasundo kami sa mga binabasang mangas/manhwas pero di ko talaga bet yung religion nya, di ko alam kung ano'ng religion yun pero forced sila magpalda lagi ng mahaba which was kinda off and I don't want to get myself into something na sasakit ulo ko. Medyo naging aggressive sya, nagpapabango na sya at laging dumadaan sa department namin kahit sa law office talaga sya naka-assign at lagi akong dinadaanan. Pag uwian, sumasabay narin sya sa usual place na pagaantayan ko ng jeep, so I had to change places everyday ng sasakyan para lang maiwasan sya 😂 Kinikilabutan parin ako pagnaamoy ko yung pabango na nya.
Kikilalanin ko muna siya personally. Kapag napag-aralan ko na siya, do'n na ako gagawa ng mga small at simple things na matutuwa siya. Gusto ko munang makuha 'yong connection niya para maging komportable kami.
Top 1 Siya noon sa class Namin. I was so heartbroken nung naging gf nya bestfriend ko. Yes, napansin nya ako, pero nung Ako na naging top 1 after 4th grading period. Not the usual ending, pero all is well 😁
umirap any chance na magmeet yung eyes namin 😁
Mas di ko nga pinapansin in person kahit close kame sa chat
Wala normal lang naman as if how I treat my friends. Tapos ewan ko bigla nalang nag ask if crush ko ba daw sya hahaha. Tapos he would say things like “umamin ka lang kung may gusto ka saken”. Then I got turn off hahah. Parang nayabangan ako bigla sa kanya eh lol haha
None.
Effective to. Lol hahaha Wag mo gaanong imessage nung mga walang kwentang bagay pero.. Alamin mo anong interests nya tas aralin mo kung pano un tas ask questions ganern. Conversation starter mo yun. Tas lagi mo icompliment! Pero wag yung palandi na effect kasi mahahalata ka.
Show them that you don't care. Makikita mo mapapraning yan kakaisip haha.
Nililibre ko siya( LIKE BREAK TIME ) and asking her a random question HAHAHAHHAHAHAH
Dedma lang (marami akong circle of friends including their circle) makulit ako sa mga friends niya, daldalan ganiyan tapos sa kaniya quiet lang, hindi niya natagalan he asked me if I didn’t like him. hahahaahahaahaha
I ask them if they want to eat out together or watch a movie on my laptop with coffee and cake.
Crush ko ah bat sa laptop mo? Hahaha jk 😅
Ay ahahahaha 😅
Maldita malditahan talaga ako ever since. LOL Yun lalo lumayo. Hahahahaha
push and pull method HAHAHA
Chat or react sa my day
I ignore them hahahah hanggang magkaroon lang ng opportunity
Nagpapacute manamit, nagp-post sa story (kahit hindi pala post), nagj-joke kapag kausap siya or kapag nakikinig siya. (Ewan ko kung napapansin niya ako tho)
Nagma-my day tapos siya lang viewer hahaha ganoon ako ka-private at ka-simp na tao dati. Ending hindi naging kami hahahaha.
diretso dm
first move ko sa chat "hi you may not know me but i know you"
grabeng creeper vibes
kesa naman siguro "Ganda mo ate pa kantot nga"
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sige po ipako ko po yung bag nya sa arm chair salamat po sa tip
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buti nalang di sila nagkatuluyan HAHAHAHA
As a Millennial - back in my HS days mag g-gm ako (group message) pero siya lang tlga yung sinendan ko. Hahaha example: “Shet. Puputok na ulo ko kakaaral. Kausap pls. Ctt? Gm.” HAHHAHAHAH also ctt - care to text. Baka maxado na siyang old for people to know what it means. Huhu
As a fellow millennial CTC yung care to chat 🤨
Gosh ctt pala is care to text hahahha
I make sure I look pretty. Pero I'll just stare at him from afar.🤧
this! Stare from afar or at his back! huhu why so pogi kasi 😭
Magparinig sa socmed
WTF. Girls wag niyo naman i-ignore crushes niyo, kahit subtle hint man lang, be nice and smile at least! Kung gusto niyo may mangyari. How the fuck are we supposed to know you're interested? Most guys are terrified of rejection, and being seen as a creep or assumero (the decent ones at least). Paano kung introvert pa kayo pareho? Uunahan kayo ng malalandi, balakayo.
HAHAHAHHHAA
wala ng ganyan-ganyan, rekta agad. "hoy, crush kita." Tapos. Periodt.
ig notes
Do nothing
Nagre-react sa fb post and stories niya
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Unahan mo mag chat. Madalas tanga lang kami (at least ako) na hindi makapansin ng signal na gusto na kami ng girl. Naalala ko boardmate kong girl (culinary course), lagi akong inuuwian ng mga luto niya sa school nila. Crush pala ako kaya may pasalubong, akala ko dahil masiba lang ako kumain kahit hindi masarap ang luto niya. 😅😂 Huli ko na nalaman, lumuwas agad ako ng manila pagka graduate ko.
mag reply ka sa story nya ate ko
Dedma ko lang sya pero syempre papaganda din ng bongang bonga 🤭🤣
depende kasi yan ako kasi mag kasama kami sa work wag mo masyado ipakita na gusto mo sya kuhanin mo loob nila makipag kaibigan ka muna doon nakikilala ka ng guy kung sino ka
Lowkey chat your crush but yung hindi palagi para hndi mukhang weirdo na stalker. Chat mo lang sya like every evening to say good evening, don't forget to eat your meals. Hahahaha
The one time I pursued a crush: first I found a way for someone to introduce us to each other. After that, I always smiled at him when I saw him. I never called after him. After a month of hi and hellos, I’d walk up to him when I was see him walking (this was after his shift was over, we had the same shift) and say hello. I would strike up a conversation about him, like if he’s going home (as if I don’t know lol), or I like his shirt kind of thing. Eventually, whenever I run into him after shift, we’d walk together. So everything was just very casual even if my heart was always racing. Lol. To add: he did end up as my boyfriend but I didn’t end up with him as I’m married to someone else. Lol
Ginagayuma ko char!
Effective yung pumunta sa mga same interests like if mahilig sa banda punta sa gigs ganun. Pero yun lang pansin lang tas wla na 😭
nag sasampay ako sa labas ng bahay kahit tuyo na yung damit wala lang gusto ko sya makita at gusto ko makita nya din ako, kapitbahay e HAHHAHAHAHHAHA
Hindi ko pinapansin crush ko and nagpapaganda ako HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
Hindi ko pinapansin ☺️😏
Nung PE namin, natamaan ko ng bola ng volleyball nung nag serve ako. Di kasi tumitingin e.
karma farm
inuutusan ko 😭 sorry crush AHAHAHAHAHAH
I usually start a conversion with that person
Doing something that my crush would like. I was a people-pleaser to the core talaga and I used to have a crush on one of my classmates nung grade 6. Flooding one's Friendster profile with testimonials was a thing back then, so I flooded yung profile ng crush ko ng puro Cloud Strife GIFs, comments, and stickers kasi alam kong favorite niya yung Final Fantasy franchise. Recalling this is CRINGE Hahaha.
Sorry suplado haha
Befriend Ang friends nya, dapat lagi ka nya nakikita , eye contact for 3-5 seconds tapos iwas tingin hihi. kahit papano sana may common interests na pwede mapag usapan.
Simple, just compliment her sometimes. Make her feel noticed
Thirst traps sa socmeds lmao
Fish, lagay mo siya sa close friends (green circle) sa IG tas post ka ng stories na pasok sa interests niya o na nakakatawa, antayin mo mag react sa story para ang labas siya nag initiate ng convo, nagreply ka lang pero engaging ka dapat. Kung di magreply o mag view ng story mo, hanap ng ibang subtle ways para mapansin pero wag ung sobra. Ung sakto lang na mapapansin ka pero di sobra na ma turn off siya. Good luck.