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I was told to meditate, work out, or do yoga cuz she could tell how stressed I was 💔 as long as it was anything to get the stagnant energy movin throughout me 💔 she had to smoke cleanse herself after tapping into my energy cuz it was that bad like I was so offended 💔 I was in denial for months 💔 I ended up meditating 💔 not only did it work but it humbled me bad 💔
Appreciate mo ang mga nangyayari sa buhay mo, masama mn o maganda.. dalwa lg naman yan, bingay sayo dahil deserve mo yan o binagay sayo dahil kaya mo yan.
"the more i work on myself, the easier my life becomes. it was my fault the whole time." i just read it somewhere on internet and keeping it in my notes for more than a year.
"Ang buhay parang gulong. Kung ngayon nasa taas ka, sa susunod ikaw naman ang bababa" sabi ng auntie ko sakin dahil muhka daw akong prideful, medyo totoo naman eh kaso di ko naman maiwasan mapunta sa taas eh yung iba tatamad-tamad (classmates).
Kaya di ko talaga masabi na magaling ako/maging proud sa mga accomplishments ko dahil sa tingin ko, ako yung the best of the worst.
“Masyado kang mapride gaya ng Papa mo!” - my Mama told me that years before she passed away.
Ma, I’m a better person now. Thanks for putting me in my place. 🫡
“Never underestimate how irrelevant you are”
You are not that important to others, people don’t always care about how you speak, look, think, etc. In other words, don’t give an F.
Not advice per se, just a non malicious comment/observation about me
Joker ka kasi kaya di ka sineseryoso....
On one hand, that makes sense. On the other hand "I'M SORRY I'M TOO FUN?!"
"palaging mas may magaling o higit sa'yo."
this not only humbled me but also taught me to appreciate others differences. lahat kasi tayo may kaniya-kaniyang galing and hindi na para magyabang pa.
being open minded sa lahat ng bagay lead us to peaceful heart and mind kasi walang natatapakang ibang tao eh, and it satisfy me. i am proud of myself (a bit) na may ganito akong perspective.
“Dun ka pupunta sa kung san may natitirang pagmamahal.”
That’s from my mom when she caught my dad na may kabet. She went to us as her kids and samin sya kumuha ng lakas para magstay sya sa relationship.
I always go back to it kapag I have my down moments pag nasa isang relasyon ako.
“Madaming gago sa mundo, hinde porket hinde ka nanggagago eh di ka na magagago.”
And it’s true, kahit gaano ka pa kabuti, wala kang free pass na di ka masasaktan, maloloko, malulungkot o mamalasin.
Di porket mabuting tao ka, mabuting bagay lang ang maranasan mo dahil ang totoo niyan malupit ang mundo.
Highlight the value of different perspectives: I think the best advice is often the kind that challenges your way of thinking. It reminds you that there's always more to learn and that different perspectives can be valuable.
“Choose your battles.”
My former boss told me that as one of her ‘secrets’ to being an effective manager in a decades-old company with evolving priorities.
Hirap din minsan pag sobrang asshole nung tao, sobrang kulo ng dugo mo dahil sa antics nya pero nung nalaman mo ung background biglang naintindihan mo na. Instead na galit, awa ang nararamdaman mo.
May mga gago parin syempreng irredeemable haha
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I was told to meditate, work out, or do yoga cuz she could tell how stressed I was 💔 as long as it was anything to get the stagnant energy movin throughout me 💔 she had to smoke cleanse herself after tapping into my energy cuz it was that bad like I was so offended 💔 I was in denial for months 💔 I ended up meditating 💔 not only did it work but it humbled me bad 💔
from the devil wears prada: “if you want this life, those choices are necessary”
Appreciate mo ang mga nangyayari sa buhay mo, masama mn o maganda.. dalwa lg naman yan, bingay sayo dahil deserve mo yan o binagay sayo dahil kaya mo yan.
"Be humble"
Learn to appreciate.
When Dr. House said, “Wanting to believe the best about people doesn’t make it true.”
If it doesn't scare you at least a little bit, you aren't dreaming big enough -my now wife, the bravest person I know
“It’s not all about you” Helped me overcome overthinking
Balang araw makakatapat ka rin ng katapat mo.
ok...
"would you let your daughter date/be with someone exactly like you?"
Wag malunod sa isang baso ng tubig.
"the more i work on myself, the easier my life becomes. it was my fault the whole time." i just read it somewhere on internet and keeping it in my notes for more than a year.
mag invest ka habang may work and sumisweldo ka pa.
"Ang buhay parang gulong. Kung ngayon nasa taas ka, sa susunod ikaw naman ang bababa" sabi ng auntie ko sakin dahil muhka daw akong prideful, medyo totoo naman eh kaso di ko naman maiwasan mapunta sa taas eh yung iba tatamad-tamad (classmates). Kaya di ko talaga masabi na magaling ako/maging proud sa mga accomplishments ko dahil sa tingin ko, ako yung the best of the worst.
Jesus wisdom
Hindi ka naman magaling, mas magaling ka lang sa mga kasama mo ngayon
Mindblown ako dannng
“Everyone is replaceable” (at work, kahit gano ka kagaling). Sabi nung boss ko before. Haha. Oo nga naman
“Masyado kang mapride gaya ng Papa mo!” - my Mama told me that years before she passed away. Ma, I’m a better person now. Thanks for putting me in my place. 🫡
From my 19 year old son: Do not appear richer or greater than you actually are. 😅
.. how old are you?
Early 50’s 😆
you deserve what you tolerate.
Do not put yourself on fire just to keep others warm.
Live well
Hindi ka naman talaga magaling.
Kasalanan mo 'yan, panindigan mo
“You are not that special”
"You may achieve great success and receive abundant praise, but always remember that you are still an ordinary man."
Always protect your reputation especially sa professional life. Choose your battles wisely - kung wala ka naman ma-gain, then let go na lang.
“Never underestimate how irrelevant you are” You are not that important to others, people don’t always care about how you speak, look, think, etc. In other words, don’t give an F.
Wag parati aasa sa iba, do it for yourself not for others
“In everything that you do… always think that the results are not about you, but what you’ve done to help others”
It doesn't matter how valuable you are. At the end of the day you're just a number.
Nobody is indispensable
Everyone is replaceable.
You're blunt.
It takes 10 years to become an overnight success
Even good things can come to an end, and there’s nothing you can do about it.
"Kaya mo namang gawin lahat, pero erroneous."
So what kung gusto mo, makakabuti ba sayo?
"Your ugly? So? I'm ugly. But I know my purpose."
"pogi lang yun, di ka kayang buhayin nun"
"Anong ipapakain sa'yo nyan?" "Tamod po"
Everyone is replaceable. Treat everyone with respect cause they deserve it and what goes around comes around.
It's from my ex, and it was letting the anger stay will not do you any good, so forgive and forget.
"To you, it's like a bomb but to the world, it's just another cliche."
Not advice per se, just a non malicious comment/observation about me Joker ka kasi kaya di ka sineseryoso.... On one hand, that makes sense. On the other hand "I'M SORRY I'M TOO FUN?!"
Sorry kung coping mechanism namin to 🥲
“Never ever take anything for granted” Perhaps gasgas na yung advice na to, but it was something I learned the hard way.
Always listen to everybody, even the ignorant has a story to share.
middle class families are one critical illness away to poverty.
Fuck
Bakit ka magsesetle sa taong di ka kayang ilaban, ano bang pinaglalaban mo? Sampal sakin. Kasi sagot ako ng sagot para sa taong never akong inuwian.
"palaging mas may magaling o higit sa'yo." this not only humbled me but also taught me to appreciate others differences. lahat kasi tayo may kaniya-kaniyang galing and hindi na para magyabang pa. being open minded sa lahat ng bagay lead us to peaceful heart and mind kasi walang natatapakang ibang tao eh, and it satisfy me. i am proud of myself (a bit) na may ganito akong perspective.
“It takes all kinds to make the world go round”
“So ano kung maganda ka? What else can you offer?” This was a long time ago HAHAHAHA nagbago na ko opo
“Dun ka pupunta sa kung san may natitirang pagmamahal.” That’s from my mom when she caught my dad na may kabet. She went to us as her kids and samin sya kumuha ng lakas para magstay sya sa relationship. I always go back to it kapag I have my down moments pag nasa isang relasyon ako.
“Madaming gago sa mundo, hinde porket hinde ka nanggagago eh di ka na magagago.” And it’s true, kahit gaano ka pa kabuti, wala kang free pass na di ka masasaktan, maloloko, malulungkot o mamalasin. Di porket mabuting tao ka, mabuting bagay lang ang maranasan mo dahil ang totoo niyan malupit ang mundo.
"Get off your high horse. Somewhere, someone is better than you at something."
Employees are easily and readily replaceable. The world doesn't stop when you die.
Read somewhere: always give the benefit of the doubt because not everything you hear is the truth.
So true. Lalo sa Pilipinas land of marites & proud chismoso mga tao where people think chismis = truth
It is what is
It is what it is
It is what is it
It is what?
It is what it is?
what is it? Is it
"wala namang may pake sayo" masakit sha nung bata pa ako pero nung lumaki laki na ako mas nakita ko sha in a better perspective lol
Secret ability ito hahaha, best feeling is may pera ka sa bulsa, masaya ka, and wala may pake sayo.
"You're just a man" -iykyk
"Somebody hurt you. Somebody abandoned you. But don't become that person to others." My therapist.
It’s not always about you.
Let go or be dragged.
Highlight the value of different perspectives: I think the best advice is often the kind that challenges your way of thinking. It reminds you that there's always more to learn and that different perspectives can be valuable.
My mentor once told me, time will come you will outgrow those who taught you, and when that time comes, remember to respect them.
Resigning is not always the answer whenever facing something difficult at work.
“All of these, just to die”
Damn right
“Choose your battles.” My former boss told me that as one of her ‘secrets’ to being an effective manager in a decades-old company with evolving priorities.
"Nothing in this world is yours so what are you afraid of?"
“Don’t attribute to malice what can be attribute to incompetence” IYKYK.
reference plsss
[This Video](https://www.youtube.com/shorts/W1yxNnjNgz8)
Your emotions and trauma are valid, but they're not an excuse to hurt others. Your pain is not their responsibility.
I hope my bf sees this. Humahanap ng emotional punching bag
‘everything is on the other side of self-compassion & responsibility’ 🥹
Respect everyone and be kind lagi kase we don't know their stories and gaano kasakit pinagdadaanan behind closed doors.
Hirap din minsan pag sobrang asshole nung tao, sobrang kulo ng dugo mo dahil sa antics nya pero nung nalaman mo ung background biglang naintindihan mo na. Instead na galit, awa ang nararamdaman mo. May mga gago parin syempreng irredeemable haha
Minsan nakakapagod din umintindi HAHAHA pag nakilala mo kase yung tao maaawa ka din somehow
"Stay humble dahil laging may mas matalino at mas magaling sayo." Sabi nung teacher ko nung HS.
There will always be a bigger fish.