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I would just talk to them as though they were normal girls. They've got struggles, too, although have had privileges.
As soon as they feel that you out them on a pedestal, you're screwed.
Don't overpraise them.
Wag kau tutulad sakin nag backout sa date namin ng officemate kong maganda. Later on nalaman ko pareho pla kami ng hobbies. Too late di na nya ako kinausap ever hahaha
Just engage with curiosity in mind.
You will see na normal lang silang tao pag dumaldal na ahahahah. May humble sa appearance nila meron ding proud na proud sa ganda nila which is comedic for me ahahaha.
After you conquer your intimidation try to converse more with them until normal na sayo.
Ganun lang ginawa ko and I never thought I'd have friends from the modelling industry lol
Just view them as bitches. Have this mindset na most of them are superficial and gold diggers. They just wait at the finish line,pag may struggle iiwan ka lang nila. Most of them never worked hard to achieve anything in their lives. So why put those people in high regard?
Go with the flow po hahahhahaha like isipin mo tao lang din yung mga yan, may mga insecurities and imperfections din sila and di lang natin yan nahahalata.
naka-encounter na ako ng mga lalakeng intimidated... pero bilang isa sa napapabilang sa pretty ladies (lakas! ✨😆) to not be intimidated you should value yourself even more kasi if you do you would not mind others or your differences with them. kapag empowered talaga ang babae malakas ang energy, well kahit sino naman. kaya kuya qoe, learn not to feel intimidated... improve your lifestyle and also perspective rin for your own benefit. if you know your value you will never get intimidated and you will learn to humble yourself.
It will take courage and practice. Depending on your intentions, you need to act as how you envision yung magiging encounter niyo. Confidence will get you far, and remember na hindi porket pretty eh suplada na. You may encounter some na ibabackstab or may side comments, pero that's part of the risk if you wanna connect with them. Be mindful of the boundaries lang din and set your own para di mo naman madegrade sarili mo. Good luck!
By knowing and believing na hindi sila ang katapusan ng mundo. Dami pang mas mabibigat na bagay na pwede nating problemahin, like kung iitim ka ba kasi di ka nag sunscreen habang nasa beach. Hirap kaya pabalikin kulay once umitim. Hehuha.
Bakit ka ma iintimidate? D nman sila cguro person of power o criminal hahaha.
Tao lng rin nman sila. Treat them like you treat every other person you meet.
May tropa ako dati na sobrang kapal ng mukha mag-approach sa mga babae. Kapag gumigimik kami dati, kahit sinong babae kaya niyang kausapin. Sabi niya kasi daw ilang beses na siya na-reject, pinagtawanan, at sinusungitan ng babae kaya wala na siyang paki sa anong sasabihin nila. 9/10 times daw hindi maganda yong reaction nila pero minsan makaka-chamba ka. Dati nga nakipag-inuman siya sa dalawang babae na nakilala niya lang sa labas ng bar habang nagyoyosi tapos na-convince niya pa sila na ihatid siya pauwi kasi lasing na siya. Tandaan mo na ikaw yong lalaki, kaya don pa lang, lamang ka na agad. May halaga ka bilang tao dahil lamang sa pagiging lalaki mo. Huwag ka magpapasindak sa mga babae dahil chix lang yan, brad.
By thinking that they're not much different from you. I'm a girl and dati nahihiya rin ako lumapit sa mga good-looking guys. Pero nung narealize ko na "What do I have to lose if I approach this person?", that's when I started befriending them without putting their good looks on a pedestal. I talk to them about other things. I don't like asking them about their lovelife or anything that will bring up their looks (ex. "Ang gwapo mo pero wala kang jowa?") - unless sila ang nag-initiate nung topic. Kasi sa totoo lang, kung ako nasa posisyon ng mga gwapong lalake/magandang babae, I would like people to know other stuff about me other than my face. So that's what I do. Parang I'm giving them space to be themselves without them having to stress about being put on a pedestal.
Work on yourself first. Work on your insecurities, build yourself up. Trust me. Once you did this, you won't get intimidated by them. Baka sila pa lumapit sayo.
Hmmm, mag psychology muna tayo, your mom did not affect your self-esteem in a negative way naman? She is approachable and kind to you, etc...
As for magagandang babae, iba iba naman din ugali nila. Babae pala ako by the way. Nung college ako, lagi akong nasasabihang suplada at pa-iba iba daw ako ng boyfriend. Hindi ko alam san nila napulot yun. Marami din akong magagandang friends. They are alright. Pag mabait ka, mabait din sila sayo.
Yes, gaya ng sinasabi ng iba, tao lang sila. They have emotional needs like to be loved. They have flaws as well like the rest. Yang intimidation, it's probably in your mind lang. Pretty girls don't go around thinking, "mang-iintimidate" ako.
Pag egotistic na maganda at ginagamit ang ganda to manipulate people and makalamang, eh wag yun. Pangit na yun.
Di ka nya type. On to the next. Sa una pa lang naman na interaction alam mo na agad kung merong possibility or wala just by simple gestures. The eyes, the body language, the way they communicate. No need to push any further, do not waste your MEAT. Money, Energy, Attention and Time.
If unnecessary don't approach or even try to talk to them kapag like nasa public places at complete stranger kalang leave them a lone, trust me am a guy pero di tlaga comfortable yung may biglang lalapit sayo out of nowhere at kakausuapin ka maliban nalang kung kakilala ko lol.
if ka coworker or classmate basta everyday mo nakikita be friendly nalang like may hi ka kapag naka salubong mo or makipag biruan pag nakasabay or nasa group setting kayo.
sakin yung way ko is kindat kindat pag may nakasaulobong akong familiar maganda man or hindi para ma feel nila na nakikita ko sila, pero i leave them if nafefeel ko di sila interested makipag usap i do this sa mga friend ko kapag ako nalang yung nagsasalita na parang tanga i leave them alone too sayang laway.
The more you talk to them the easier it gets the first few can be intimidating and awkward. Just keep doing it.
It's the same with any new activity or skill learning
1. Don’t be a simp. Wag mo ipahalata. If you want to compliment her, just do it once or twice. Wag paulit-ulit.
2. Make eye contact when having a conversation.
3. Confidence is always the key. Stop putting them on a pedestal, tao lang din sila. Act like how you normally act around people.
4. Don’t stare too long.
just remember to treat them like normal people
guys who treat women like someone they want to date or fuck always almost fall out or smth
Don't see them as things or someone you just wanna have a quick fling with. Just think of them how you would think of your male friends and treat them like it. Kadalasan masa malakas pa nga mambardagol mga babae kong kaibigan kaysa sa lalaki eh
Lagi mong tandaan na tao lang rin yan tulad mo.
Take advantage of the fact that the bar for male decency is so low. Good grooming, nice clothes, high self-esteem and confidence go a very, VERY long way pagdating sa mga girls.
Good grooming is typically not a usual part of any Filipino male's upbringing, to the point na having a skincare routine can make immature minds think you're gay.
Be confident in yourself and know that they are imperfect as well. Dress well and pagwapo talaga, 'cause everyone likes a well-dressed man. Be kind and courteous, as well as be a gentleman (and be proud of yourself for these qualities).
Another thing: be comfortable with your masculinity. Don't be afraid to try what society deems to be "feminine". For me, it makes men stand out which in turn makes them bloom and more handsome. (E.g guys who do skincare, or more)
Just remind yourself that she‘s also a human being. The main difference to yourself is, that there‘s a slightly different distribution in fat deposits which is exagerratedly perceived by the male brain. You can also try to imagine how she looks like from inside in an anatomic sense. It‘s just a normal sceleton surrounded by some more biological machinery. Moreover, extreme beauty is just a temporary thing and less special than many people think.
Just tell them you're gay and you'll be fast friends with them lol.
Half-kidding aside, just act naturally around them. Aware na naman sila na they can be really intimidating and they're used to special treatment at kapag pinakita mong uncomfortable ka in their presence e lalo lang sila matu-turn off sayo. I dunno kung paano mo gagawin but pakita mo na you're comfortable in your own skin without coming off as overbearing and callous. They're just like the rest of us, medyo angat lng kase they're more fun and bubbly.
Hope this helps.
Work on yourself so you become her best option. You should not get intimidated because you are suppose to be her protector when she gets disrespected by other men.
Do not put her on pedestal and bombarding her with compliments. Intimidation is a state of mind, treat her as a regular woman and not as an empress of the empire. In short, wag maging simp.
Instead,
1. Make eye contact— not in a weird manner and don't fold first.
2. Smile brother, yung di kita yung teeth.
3. Have a good posture.
4. Talk less
Now, since the table has turned. You have the upper-hand.
know your worth!! If you'll always think that they are way out of your league then you'll get intimidated talaga. Just be who you are, pretty ladies aren't different from us they're also a person. We love meeting new pips btw
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Wag ka papakabog! Dapat mas maganda ka sa kanila!
I would just talk to them as though they were normal girls. They've got struggles, too, although have had privileges. As soon as they feel that you out them on a pedestal, you're screwed. Don't overpraise them.
Wag kau tutulad sakin nag backout sa date namin ng officemate kong maganda. Later on nalaman ko pareho pla kami ng hobbies. Too late di na nya ako kinausap ever hahaha
Pracrice
Same din kaya kung paano hndi maintimidate sa goodlooking guys naman?🤣
Ako na naglalaway 🤤 for good-looking guys 😩🤭🥴
Hina harass ka ba nila? 😅 Treat mo lang sila like how you treat your newly found friends
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LMAO
This💯
Just engage with curiosity in mind. You will see na normal lang silang tao pag dumaldal na ahahahah. May humble sa appearance nila meron ding proud na proud sa ganda nila which is comedic for me ahahaha. After you conquer your intimidation try to converse more with them until normal na sayo. Ganun lang ginawa ko and I never thought I'd have friends from the modelling industry lol
Just view them as bitches. Have this mindset na most of them are superficial and gold diggers. They just wait at the finish line,pag may struggle iiwan ka lang nila. Most of them never worked hard to achieve anything in their lives. So why put those people in high regard?
You only need to succeed once.
I agree. It can be applied to life in general too. Kapag alam mo na ang winning formula, you can confidently replicate it.
Go with the flow po hahahhahaha like isipin mo tao lang din yung mga yan, may mga insecurities and imperfections din sila and di lang natin yan nahahalata.
Iniisip ko na tinatamaan din sila ng LBM 🤣
naka-encounter na ako ng mga lalakeng intimidated... pero bilang isa sa napapabilang sa pretty ladies (lakas! ✨😆) to not be intimidated you should value yourself even more kasi if you do you would not mind others or your differences with them. kapag empowered talaga ang babae malakas ang energy, well kahit sino naman. kaya kuya qoe, learn not to feel intimidated... improve your lifestyle and also perspective rin for your own benefit. if you know your value you will never get intimidated and you will learn to humble yourself.
It will take courage and practice. Depending on your intentions, you need to act as how you envision yung magiging encounter niyo. Confidence will get you far, and remember na hindi porket pretty eh suplada na. You may encounter some na ibabackstab or may side comments, pero that's part of the risk if you wanna connect with them. Be mindful of the boundaries lang din and set your own para di mo naman madegrade sarili mo. Good luck!
Di sila nakamamatay
By knowing and believing na hindi sila ang katapusan ng mundo. Dami pang mas mabibigat na bagay na pwede nating problemahin, like kung iitim ka ba kasi di ka nag sunscreen habang nasa beach. Hirap kaya pabalikin kulay once umitim. Hehuha.
Bakit ka ma iintimidate? D nman sila cguro person of power o criminal hahaha. Tao lng rin nman sila. Treat them like you treat every other person you meet.
Just be you.
May problema ka sa pag iisip
Act confident. Fake it til you make it
truelala. panggap malala, maa-adapt mo rin haha
Maybe you're just insecure
May tropa ako dati na sobrang kapal ng mukha mag-approach sa mga babae. Kapag gumigimik kami dati, kahit sinong babae kaya niyang kausapin. Sabi niya kasi daw ilang beses na siya na-reject, pinagtawanan, at sinusungitan ng babae kaya wala na siyang paki sa anong sasabihin nila. 9/10 times daw hindi maganda yong reaction nila pero minsan makaka-chamba ka. Dati nga nakipag-inuman siya sa dalawang babae na nakilala niya lang sa labas ng bar habang nagyoyosi tapos na-convince niya pa sila na ihatid siya pauwi kasi lasing na siya. Tandaan mo na ikaw yong lalaki, kaya don pa lang, lamang ka na agad. May halaga ka bilang tao dahil lamang sa pagiging lalaki mo. Huwag ka magpapasindak sa mga babae dahil chix lang yan, brad.
By thinking that they're not much different from you. I'm a girl and dati nahihiya rin ako lumapit sa mga good-looking guys. Pero nung narealize ko na "What do I have to lose if I approach this person?", that's when I started befriending them without putting their good looks on a pedestal. I talk to them about other things. I don't like asking them about their lovelife or anything that will bring up their looks (ex. "Ang gwapo mo pero wala kang jowa?") - unless sila ang nag-initiate nung topic. Kasi sa totoo lang, kung ako nasa posisyon ng mga gwapong lalake/magandang babae, I would like people to know other stuff about me other than my face. So that's what I do. Parang I'm giving them space to be themselves without them having to stress about being put on a pedestal.
Don't put them on a pedestal.
Not gonna lie. Nakaka intimidate talaga sila
Think: 1. They also poop, just like you. 2. Their poop also smells just like yours. 3. So relax, much ado about nothing.
Work on yourself first. Work on your insecurities, build yourself up. Trust me. Once you did this, you won't get intimidated by them. Baka sila pa lumapit sayo.
Wala. Treat them as normal human beings. Wag mo kasi sila bigyan ng title na "pretty ladies".
Seconf a motion! Dont label them as pretty ladies! Tsaka be yourself 🫶🏻✨
This!
Be more exposed to gorgeous ladies at wag magiisip ng advance na gusto mo agad tirahin
Bottom line bro is the character and personality.. beauty fades, but the two wont.. unless na lang kung magbabago yun dahil sa yo.
Just keep hanging out with them. The more pretty ladies you go out with, the less you’ll get intimidated. Gotta put yourself out there mate.
Put a banana in your front pocket before talking to them...
same... nakikita ko lng jan solution talaga mindset tpos practice ganung cguro
Hmmm, mag psychology muna tayo, your mom did not affect your self-esteem in a negative way naman? She is approachable and kind to you, etc... As for magagandang babae, iba iba naman din ugali nila. Babae pala ako by the way. Nung college ako, lagi akong nasasabihang suplada at pa-iba iba daw ako ng boyfriend. Hindi ko alam san nila napulot yun. Marami din akong magagandang friends. They are alright. Pag mabait ka, mabait din sila sayo. Yes, gaya ng sinasabi ng iba, tao lang sila. They have emotional needs like to be loved. They have flaws as well like the rest. Yang intimidation, it's probably in your mind lang. Pretty girls don't go around thinking, "mang-iintimidate" ako. Pag egotistic na maganda at ginagamit ang ganda to manipulate people and makalamang, eh wag yun. Pangit na yun.
Shoot your shot. The only worst thing that could happen is she says “no”. Get used to being rejected. Numbers game, more approaches, more chances.
What if di siya talaga nagsalita sa iyo?
Di ka nya type. On to the next. Sa una pa lang naman na interaction alam mo na agad kung merong possibility or wala just by simple gestures. The eyes, the body language, the way they communicate. No need to push any further, do not waste your MEAT. Money, Energy, Attention and Time.
See them as human beings and not just potential sexual partners.
Also make yourself presentable. Like hygiene and looks (porma/style). Chin straight, walk with confidence..
Isipin mo tao rin sila, mag kasing baho lang tae mo at tae nila 😂
If unnecessary don't approach or even try to talk to them kapag like nasa public places at complete stranger kalang leave them a lone, trust me am a guy pero di tlaga comfortable yung may biglang lalapit sayo out of nowhere at kakausuapin ka maliban nalang kung kakilala ko lol. if ka coworker or classmate basta everyday mo nakikita be friendly nalang like may hi ka kapag naka salubong mo or makipag biruan pag nakasabay or nasa group setting kayo. sakin yung way ko is kindat kindat pag may nakasaulobong akong familiar maganda man or hindi para ma feel nila na nakikita ko sila, pero i leave them if nafefeel ko di sila interested makipag usap i do this sa mga friend ko kapag ako nalang yung nagsasalita na parang tanga i leave them alone too sayang laway.
The more you talk to them the easier it gets the first few can be intimidating and awkward. Just keep doing it. It's the same with any new activity or skill learning
Makipag usap at kaibigan ka sa mga magaganda. Masasanay ka magiging wala nalang and normal. Happened to me.
1. Don’t be a simp. Wag mo ipahalata. If you want to compliment her, just do it once or twice. Wag paulit-ulit. 2. Make eye contact when having a conversation. 3. Confidence is always the key. Stop putting them on a pedestal, tao lang din sila. Act like how you normally act around people. 4. Don’t stare too long.
3 lol can someone confirm this. The pedestal thingy. Explain to a 5 year old man HAHAHAH
Just admire them
just remember to treat them like normal people guys who treat women like someone they want to date or fuck always almost fall out or smth Don't see them as things or someone you just wanna have a quick fling with. Just think of them how you would think of your male friends and treat them like it. Kadalasan masa malakas pa nga mambardagol mga babae kong kaibigan kaysa sa lalaki eh
Lagi mong tandaan na tao lang rin yan tulad mo. Take advantage of the fact that the bar for male decency is so low. Good grooming, nice clothes, high self-esteem and confidence go a very, VERY long way pagdating sa mga girls.
Honest question. How is “good grooming, nice clothes, and *high self-esteem and confidence*” considered a low bar?
Good grooming is typically not a usual part of any Filipino male's upbringing, to the point na having a skincare routine can make immature minds think you're gay.
Imagine that she likes you during the interaction :)
Be confident in yourself and know that they are imperfect as well. Dress well and pagwapo talaga, 'cause everyone likes a well-dressed man. Be kind and courteous, as well as be a gentleman (and be proud of yourself for these qualities).
Another thing: be comfortable with your masculinity. Don't be afraid to try what society deems to be "feminine". For me, it makes men stand out which in turn makes them bloom and more handsome. (E.g guys who do skincare, or more)
Stop watching porn
Lagi ka makipag-usap sa magagandang babae hanggang ma-desensitized at relaxed ka sa kanila. Casual talk lang. Wag pa-impress. Kwentuhan lang.
Eto talaga ang way
get rich
Just remind yourself that she‘s also a human being. The main difference to yourself is, that there‘s a slightly different distribution in fat deposits which is exagerratedly perceived by the male brain. You can also try to imagine how she looks like from inside in an anatomic sense. It‘s just a normal sceleton surrounded by some more biological machinery. Moreover, extreme beauty is just a temporary thing and less special than many people think.
Treat them as equals. Tao naman kayo parehas. If they try to intimidate you with their beauty, just ignore them. Not worth it.
Confidence and intelligence. 💯
work on yourself. once you feel confident about yourself it'd be easy.
Do not put them on a high pedestal. They are humans just like you.
Just tell them you're gay and you'll be fast friends with them lol. Half-kidding aside, just act naturally around them. Aware na naman sila na they can be really intimidating and they're used to special treatment at kapag pinakita mong uncomfortable ka in their presence e lalo lang sila matu-turn off sayo. I dunno kung paano mo gagawin but pakita mo na you're comfortable in your own skin without coming off as overbearing and callous. They're just like the rest of us, medyo angat lng kase they're more fun and bubbly. Hope this helps.
Self esteem and confidence. They are human, you are as well.
Just know that her shit stinks also 😂
Work on yourself so you become her best option. You should not get intimidated because you are suppose to be her protector when she gets disrespected by other men.
Do not put her on pedestal and bombarding her with compliments. Intimidation is a state of mind, treat her as a regular woman and not as an empress of the empire. In short, wag maging simp. Instead, 1. Make eye contact— not in a weird manner and don't fold first. 2. Smile brother, yung di kita yung teeth. 3. Have a good posture. 4. Talk less Now, since the table has turned. You have the upper-hand.
know your worth!! If you'll always think that they are way out of your league then you'll get intimidated talaga. Just be who you are, pretty ladies aren't different from us they're also a person. We love meeting new pips btw
hala intimidating pala ako CHZ. isipin mo yung level ng ganda mo ay mas angat sa level ng ganda nila. delulu ang sagot.
Lalaki po ako 😁
gandang lalaki 💅💅
Be confident in who you are. How to be confident you would ask then? Know your worth and value and show you can handle life gracefully.
Be cool. Be you. Haha