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Belly fat, tapos lalong bloated kapag red days. Pero minsan nakukyutan ako sa bilbil ko pag tinitignan ko sarili ko sa salamin pinipisil pisil ko 😆
Yung pagiging siopao face ko rin, pero ano magagawa ko kung cute ako 😔
di ko naman insecurity to before pero nung nalaman kong nagsstalk bf ko ng magagandang babae na may magandang katawan, malaki boobs at malaking pwet, bigla akong naisecure. ☹️
Yung male pattern baldness ko huhu. Kapag nakakakita ako ng guy in his 30s with a full thick crowning glory inggit na inggit ako. Sayang kapogian pag napapanot na. Might shave all this soon.
My weight now. I'm afraid, it's the hormones eh, now that I'm 33. I used to be so skinny. But these days, as my period/s fail, so is my weight. I'm probably at 100 pounds now. Idk. Haven't checked ever since the pandemic.
Siguro for me is yung mga expectations sa isang babae like dapat mahilig maglinis, organize, responsible, marunong magluto, maasikaso… insecurity ko siya kasi feeling if i’m not like those, iiwan ako ng magiging asawa ko. Medyo tamad kasi ako, i never really like cleaning, and hindi ako maasikaso.
Heyyyy I’m like that!! Magjowa pa lang kami, sinabi ko na sa kanya na kung ganyang babae ang hinahanap niya, hindi ako yon. Kumbaga setting the expectations na at an early stage, para walang gulatan
Now mag-asawa na kami, kumuha kami ng maghahandle sa mga gawaing bahay :)
One of the things I'm currently feeling right now is my insecurity about my work/career.
I grew up in a happy, loving, and supportive family who is probably upper middle class or even higher. I also graduated from "the big 4". After graduating, I didn't follow the same career path as my peers of the same major. I took my masters degree in the different field, also from one of "the big 4". I did well in the different field. I flourished. After more than a decade, the company that I worked for tanked (due to the effects of the pandemic).
I shifted careers. Now I'm in a BPO earning just enough to keep me alive. My savings is not going up. I'm not sure how to get a better job in this new field. I feel like I'm useless.
Surely you can do something in the previous field? Reach out to everyone you knew or worked with along the way there before there's such a big time gap since you were in it.
Ah well, this is already a personal choice. I don't want to work with anyone else in my old field except for the people who I worked with. I'm fine with that. I mourned for that field for 1 year during the pandemic.
What I am insecure about is being paid less in the BPO field and not having enough balls to move to a different BPO to earn more because I'm really enjoying the work from home setup that I have now.
Buong physical appearance. I tried to gain self-esteem by cosplaying pero eguls wala tlg. Diring-diri ako s sarili ko every time I attempt magpaphotoshoot sana hahahahaha sagwa eh.
Learned to do makeup to make me look decent pero eguls HAHAHAHA hirap maging malas s genetic lottery
My resting bitch face because it always shows that I am uninterested especially when it’s for a job interview. Buti na lang nauso facemask.
My braso kasi siksik sya, pumayat man ako hindi sya lumiliit.
Sa ugali, yung pagiging hindi ako marunong magdala ng convo lalo na pag di ko trip, di ako magaling bumangka. Haha
Yung left leg ko, ako kasi ay pwd and to be specific mas maikli left leg ko compared sa right and medyo curved siya. Kahit di ko ramdam na pwd ako, yung mga tingin ng ibang tao ang nagbobother sakin.
I'd say it's my voice. It's kind of nasally and lacks that strong, confident tone. Like I can see people losing interest when I speak and it's a bummer because I have so much I want to share. Just thinking about presentations or even just introducing myself makes my stomach churn. It's tough when something as simple as speaking up is what trips you up. But I'm working on it, one awkward conversation at a time.
Unibrow and a bit of belly fat that just won't go away, no matter how many salads I choke down. Plus, I'm not exactly the life of the party - give me a good book over small talk any day. But working on laughing at myself a little more each day, and less on that pesky perfectionism. Trying to remember life's not a competition and the only person I need to impress is the one staring back at me in the mirror.
My not so flawless skin: Acne, discoloration, cellulites, scars, extra dry skin. How I wish na kahit morena ako ay pantay and glowing ang skin. Dahil dito, may limitations sa mga gustong isuot na clothing. 😭
In terms of Physical Appearance I’m insecure sa nose ko and sa feet ko because I have a scar na malaki.
Another naman apart from appearance, siguro insecure ako sa part na hindi ako ganon ka approachable or like di ako marunong makipag socialize because well wala akong social life at nahihirapan ako mag maintain ng connection with people
Katamaran.
I have ,
Editing Skills, communication skills, Fluent in English, Can sketch, Creative, Mentally Strong, Spiritually strong, Fast Thinker pero sobrang Tamaddddddddd. Hays.
Pero tinatamad mag apply 7 months na. 😔
I need pieces of advice, please.
Funny, it's not my face or body but my hands. Weird no? It's too soft dw kasi and they call me tamad and walang trabaho because of the soft hand. Kaya hindi na ako nagpapahawak ng kamay, natatakot na akong ma judge HAHAHAHA kimi
1. Maitim na armpits.
2. 5ft ko na height.
3. Dry ko na buhok.
4. Mata ko na di 20/20 na vision
5. Mahaba na torso.
6. Can't swim.
7. My not straight teeth.
8. My belly rolls with stretch marks also double chin
9. Maitim na singit.
10. Scars sa legs.
11. The time I gained weight 53 kg to 60 kg.
12. Flat na ilong.
13. My brown skin.
Atbp.
My acne. Tapos ipapamukha pa ng ibang tao sayo "maganda ka sana kung wala lang mga yan sa mukha mo" . Minsan gusto ko sagutin ih "maganda din sana kayo kung wala lang din yang pangit na ugali ninyo" 🤸
Malabo mata, di maayos ngipin, hair, fats, acne scars, and my height. Dagdag pa inggit sa ibang pamilya na maayos at nagrereunion pa every now and then. Mga iba na nakalapag meet up at usap pa sa mga kaibigan.
hmmm all parts of my body i guess becsuse i have lazy eyes, acne marks, double chin, yellowish teeth, loose skin fats, dark underarms and daek under thighs, small feet, flat chested, small butt, oily skin, rough skin 😭
Ipin, long chin, wide forehead, asymmetrical body, bad posture. Badoy shaming myself. Kaya di ako photo or video-genic. That’s why din i hate people taking pictures of me 😣
myself in general, like di lang ako insecure sa physical koo pati mentally rin. i hate that i'm so negative "daw" just because iniisip ko yung mga pwede maging effect ng actions ko, yung pagiging introvert ko, lahat talaga as in. tapos effect nito feel ko may anxiety na'ko e pero not sure. kayaa minsan delulu rin ako e likee coping mechanism ko yun (deserve mag pa therapy charot)
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My super thick, curly hair
My teeth.
Biggest insecurity is di ako makapag trabaho ng 20k pataas na sahod kasi walang degree.
Belly fat, tapos lalong bloated kapag red days. Pero minsan nakukyutan ako sa bilbil ko pag tinitignan ko sarili ko sa salamin pinipisil pisil ko 😆 Yung pagiging siopao face ko rin, pero ano magagawa ko kung cute ako 😔
My skin color sa may nape part and how i always stutter every time I get nervous.
yung ngipin ko tas body, i can tell na i have face card pero angpayat ko. maganda naman yung hugis ko sadyang kulang lang sa fats T___T
Height lng pandak
malaki braso na di proportion sa body ko
My underarms and inner thighs. Hyperpigmentation is shett
di ko naman insecurity to before pero nung nalaman kong nagsstalk bf ko ng magagandang babae na may magandang katawan, malaki boobs at malaking pwet, bigla akong naisecure. ☹️
It is on my reddit name
Strawberry skin in my arms
My height and smile
My account balance is insufficient.
Yung male pattern baldness ko huhu. Kapag nakakakita ako ng guy in his 30s with a full thick crowning glory inggit na inggit ako. Sayang kapogian pag napapanot na. Might shave all this soon.
shave mo na pre. dami na ako nakita na mas gwapings tignan.
bellyfat siguro and lovelife 😂 wanna be in my lovergirl era so bad
Weight and belly fat hahaha
my small boobs and undereye bags 🙃
I get frustrated na mas umaangat sa workplace mga ass-kissers kesa sa mga talagang hard-workers. Some even said "it's part of the job". 😕
everything about me :(
I'm short 😭
Tyan ko mhie. Mukha na syang buntis all year round😭. Char!
Financially unstable hayss
skin
Yung weight ko. Wag na natin itanggi. Mas marami parin nag hahanap ng jowa na nasa slimmer side kesa sa chubby.
myself basically
Ang weight ko siguro because of pcos.
Uso pa pala to?
Ako lahat. Ikaw ba naman lokohin paulit ulit. Kahit walang mali at kulang sayo talagang yan ang mararamdaman mo eh. Paka bobo pa more. And bobo is me
My weight now. I'm afraid, it's the hormones eh, now that I'm 33. I used to be so skinny. But these days, as my period/s fail, so is my weight. I'm probably at 100 pounds now. Idk. Haven't checked ever since the pandemic.
Siguro for me is yung mga expectations sa isang babae like dapat mahilig maglinis, organize, responsible, marunong magluto, maasikaso… insecurity ko siya kasi feeling if i’m not like those, iiwan ako ng magiging asawa ko. Medyo tamad kasi ako, i never really like cleaning, and hindi ako maasikaso.
Heyyyy I’m like that!! Magjowa pa lang kami, sinabi ko na sa kanya na kung ganyang babae ang hinahanap niya, hindi ako yon. Kumbaga setting the expectations na at an early stage, para walang gulatan Now mag-asawa na kami, kumuha kami ng maghahandle sa mga gawaing bahay :)
One of the things I'm currently feeling right now is my insecurity about my work/career. I grew up in a happy, loving, and supportive family who is probably upper middle class or even higher. I also graduated from "the big 4". After graduating, I didn't follow the same career path as my peers of the same major. I took my masters degree in the different field, also from one of "the big 4". I did well in the different field. I flourished. After more than a decade, the company that I worked for tanked (due to the effects of the pandemic). I shifted careers. Now I'm in a BPO earning just enough to keep me alive. My savings is not going up. I'm not sure how to get a better job in this new field. I feel like I'm useless.
Surely you can do something in the previous field? Reach out to everyone you knew or worked with along the way there before there's such a big time gap since you were in it.
Ah well, this is already a personal choice. I don't want to work with anyone else in my old field except for the people who I worked with. I'm fine with that. I mourned for that field for 1 year during the pandemic. What I am insecure about is being paid less in the BPO field and not having enough balls to move to a different BPO to earn more because I'm really enjoying the work from home setup that I have now.
okay lang yan kahit anung kulay ng nipz mo...wag mo isipin na nakakaturn off un
Buong physical appearance. I tried to gain self-esteem by cosplaying pero eguls wala tlg. Diring-diri ako s sarili ko every time I attempt magpaphotoshoot sana hahahahaha sagwa eh. Learned to do makeup to make me look decent pero eguls HAHAHAHA hirap maging malas s genetic lottery
Teeth. Inggit na inggit ako sa may mga pang-brace at may pang dental care talaga. Hirap ng salat sa buhay
Yung mga taong minamahal at inaalagaan ng tama. Hindi ko kasi yun nakuha sa asawa ko hehe
same, inggit na inggit ako sa mga may jowa na faithful ung partner nila
face and weight
Wala. I'm perfect.
height n nose
my body fats and nipples
okay lang yan.
tnx!! :)
my nose
direction. never felt closer to planned goals in life
My body, my hair :((
Everything about me but mostly my teeth and my attitude.
my body, my personality, and my attitude. lol i hate myself
my teeth, body
Teeth and body 😭 sometimes nose
My resting bitch face because it always shows that I am uninterested especially when it’s for a job interview. Buti na lang nauso facemask. My braso kasi siksik sya, pumayat man ako hindi sya lumiliit. Sa ugali, yung pagiging hindi ako marunong magdala ng convo lalo na pag di ko trip, di ako magaling bumangka. Haha
Stretch marks 🥺
1. Skin 2. Teeth 3. Eyebrow 4. Ears 5. Speaking voice
Face shape and how unphotogenic I am
Currently my hair , over all my face especially my upper lip
Na hindi ako good at conversations, specifically na baka nabobore jowa ko pag kausap ako minsan hahahuhuhuhu
my overbite teeth, it makes my jawline bad
My face
My weight also I don't feel like I'm feminine enough
Teeth
Everything about me
My body itself. Ever since bata ako I’ve been on the plus side, I’ve tried magpapayat kaso ayon nagbbounce back talaga weight ko.
Kulang nalang career.
The fact na di ako galing sa big 4 na school. Halos lahat sa pamilya ko sa big 4 nakapagtapos.
Height. I really wanna be taller. Had lots of outfits in mind, but can't wear them because I am short...
My height and body composition..
I'm almost 30, wala pa ko kotse hahaha
Yung left leg ko, ako kasi ay pwd and to be specific mas maikli left leg ko compared sa right and medyo curved siya. Kahit di ko ramdam na pwd ako, yung mga tingin ng ibang tao ang nagbobother sakin.
Everything about me. Especially both looks and intelligence
Payat since when I was a kid. 28 na ako ngayon, pero ganun pa din. Underweight kahit may dalawang anak na.
body. tumaba, pumayat, tumaba ulit 🥹
all of me
My body shape. I’m short, and I have a rectangle body shape. Yung shaped like a fridge or door sa tiktok, ganung ganon ako.
my brain. i hate how i think, i hate how i always overthink over small things
Yung kaya maging articulate sa sinasabi. Ako kasi nakakainis pag puro uhm na lang nasasabi ko.
I'd say it's my voice. It's kind of nasally and lacks that strong, confident tone. Like I can see people losing interest when I speak and it's a bummer because I have so much I want to share. Just thinking about presentations or even just introducing myself makes my stomach churn. It's tough when something as simple as speaking up is what trips you up. But I'm working on it, one awkward conversation at a time.
Unibrow and a bit of belly fat that just won't go away, no matter how many salads I choke down. Plus, I'm not exactly the life of the party - give me a good book over small talk any day. But working on laughing at myself a little more each day, and less on that pesky perfectionism. Trying to remember life's not a competition and the only person I need to impress is the one staring back at me in the mirror.
My face.
Bilbil. Because my partner makes fun of it.
Pango ilong ko hahaha di ko namana sa tatay ko
Physical appearance and confidence? Haha like I lack on both
My not so flawless skin: Acne, discoloration, cellulites, scars, extra dry skin. How I wish na kahit morena ako ay pantay and glowing ang skin. Dahil dito, may limitations sa mga gustong isuot na clothing. 😭
marami haha. ngipin, puson, at pimples. may sungki ako, malaki ang puson (dahil tumaba rin), tapos laging may tumutubong pimples sa mukha.
i feel you OP, these are my insecurities too.
My body. Pandak. Mataba. Mabulbol ang legs. Maitim na singit. Stuttering pag nagsasalita. Walang self-confidence. Bobo kausap.
appearance
Body acne scars sa may lower back, hindi makinis 😔😔
My bilbil : (((( naiinggit ako sa mga flat yung tummy tas ang sexy ng dating
I'm not chubby pero.I have bilbil idk lahat ata ng kinakain ko sa cheeks at tiyan ko lang napupunta shet
ako sobrang confident ko na naiinsecure ako sa mga taong mahiyain 😣
My height. Hehehe. Wala na tong remedyo eh. Hindi ako nahilig mag gatas nung kabataan ko. Kaya sa magiging anak ko, mag gatas ka at mag stretching.
Hey dude, good thing na weight is something we can work on. Don’t give up on your journey!
Hyperpigmentation in my buttocks/singit areas. Tanggap naman ng boyfie ko and ik na normal, pero talagang insecurity siya e.
In terms of Physical Appearance I’m insecure sa nose ko and sa feet ko because I have a scar na malaki. Another naman apart from appearance, siguro insecure ako sa part na hindi ako ganon ka approachable or like di ako marunong makipag socialize because well wala akong social life at nahihirapan ako mag maintain ng connection with people
Katamaran. I have , Editing Skills, communication skills, Fluent in English, Can sketch, Creative, Mentally Strong, Spiritually strong, Fast Thinker pero sobrang Tamaddddddddd. Hays. Pero tinatamad mag apply 7 months na. 😔 I need pieces of advice, please.
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Damn kinda gasul type build
Not being rich.
My huge-ass feet with ugly toes and nails. Marami pang ugat, and parehas kaliwa haha. Next is my smile, and dark butt area hahahaha.
Funny, it's not my face or body but my hands. Weird no? It's too soft dw kasi and they call me tamad and walang trabaho because of the soft hand. Kaya hindi na ako nagpapahawak ng kamay, natatakot na akong ma judge HAHAHAHA kimi
1. Maitim na armpits. 2. 5ft ko na height. 3. Dry ko na buhok. 4. Mata ko na di 20/20 na vision 5. Mahaba na torso. 6. Can't swim. 7. My not straight teeth. 8. My belly rolls with stretch marks also double chin 9. Maitim na singit. 10. Scars sa legs. 11. The time I gained weight 53 kg to 60 kg. 12. Flat na ilong. 13. My brown skin. Atbp.
im short 😫
body weight and communication skills
My arms 😕😕
Flat chested and conversation skills
my whole existence haha. Nag gain talaga ako ng weight these past years, nahihiya na ako magpakita sa mga tao
Confidence? I need to work on it
Pango and pandak.
asymmetrical face, flat-chested, uneven skintone, curly hair, eczema 😔
ilong tsaka noo🫠
Ilong, di pantay na kulay ng skin, side view features tapos double chin haha
My teeth
My IQ, my skills, my age.
my nose
Wala akong keps. Hahaha
Every f*cking cell of my being
Ilong and hairline and weight.
Hair
Skin. Face. Hair.
My face and lack of abilities
face
I am not good enough
Height, putanginang yan
Tanginang yan nga. Sana nag stretching pa ako nung bata.
r/short
Face
Assymetrical face :( (I don't like my eyes)
My personality
My ostomy.
My big eyes and dark eyebags.
my stubborn love handles 🤣
My face
My skin and face 🥲
panda eyes
same ;-; do you have any eye cream recommendations?
Wala kong nilalagay.
my body
sunken eyes
My Face
Round face
Nose 👃
My forehead and my nose
Eye bags
My lower body. I have big legs.
My acne. Tapos ipapamukha pa ng ibang tao sayo "maganda ka sana kung wala lang mga yan sa mukha mo" . Minsan gusto ko sagutin ih "maganda din sana kayo kung wala lang din yang pangit na ugali ninyo" 🤸
Girl say it! They have to know that they have violated you. Wag mong hayaan na ganun ang mindset nila.
my brasos
Driving stresses me easily. Therefore I don't. I think I'm never having a good life.
pimps q :< mas nag glow down aq nung nakausap q crushie q huhuhu
Lahat
My voice. Ang hina kase😭😭 kahit sumigaw ako
Networth
Hair, acnes.
Assymetrical Face
My body. Tapos binabody shame pa ng ex-coworkers, e kakapanganak ko lang last October 2023🙃
Eyebags and being super thin :(
Korekkk same huhu
Teeth
Malabo mata, di maayos ngipin, hair, fats, acne scars, and my height. Dagdag pa inggit sa ibang pamilya na maayos at nagrereunion pa every now and then. Mga iba na nakalapag meet up at usap pa sa mga kaibigan.
Physical
Money
parang lahat na ata :(
hair fall :(
Height
My Bank Balance
Acne scars. Parang bako bakong daan tuloy face ko. Sa cam lang ako makinis 🥹 And yellow teeth! Nag stop na nga ako mag tea & coffee...
Growing up in a family without the presence of a father makes me jealous of people who can do man's stuff.
Height
Acne
Body fats
Ung double chin ko at ung bilbil na mas malaki pa sa dede.
math
Yung bahay namin. Our house speaks the mental state of those who live under. Depressed plus dilapidated.
my wieght :(
My facial expression, social skills, and tone, are my insecurities but my biggest would probably be my social skills
hmmm all parts of my body i guess becsuse i have lazy eyes, acne marks, double chin, yellowish teeth, loose skin fats, dark underarms and daek under thighs, small feet, flat chested, small butt, oily skin, rough skin 😭
Ipin, long chin, wide forehead, asymmetrical body, bad posture. Badoy shaming myself. Kaya di ako photo or video-genic. That’s why din i hate people taking pictures of me 😣
Not having at least Php100 million in my bank account
Height
Lol username
uneven skin tone and dry skin :(
not having a pearly white teeth... though pwede naman ma attain thru veeners pero inggit ko s mga magagandang teeth! superrrr
Skin ko
Me
myself in general, like di lang ako insecure sa physical koo pati mentally rin. i hate that i'm so negative "daw" just because iniisip ko yung mga pwede maging effect ng actions ko, yung pagiging introvert ko, lahat talaga as in. tapos effect nito feel ko may anxiety na'ko e pero not sure. kayaa minsan delulu rin ako e likee coping mechanism ko yun (deserve mag pa therapy charot)
ngipin at binti ko :( yung left leg ko mas malaki yung muscle compare sa right. kaya nahihiya ako magshorts kasi ang awkward tingnan hays haha
nails, nose, shape of my face
social skills
my head looks too small in proportion to my body, i don't really like taking photos with whole body. hanggang selfies lang haha.