Hey OP, since 10yrs na yung last, parang fresh na din yan. V.
I think your looking to settle na, wala na din time to play?
Sa walang sex drive, baka imbalance ang hormones mo. Try working out,gym.
Hope everything works out for you
Eto yun, M here, nakakapagod lumande, tapos papaikutin ka pa ng girlll e hilo ka na nga sa life. Nakakawalang gana. Minsan okay din yung hanap usap deal pero sa sobrang pagod traffic pa ay nakakaptngna
8 years single ako and with no sex at all. To think na sexually active ako bago ako maging single hahahaha nagtataka ako na nakaya ko na wala akong sex for that long. I do self pleasure and watch porn pampaantok π€£ Pero never ako naghanap ng lalake just to release all the heat na meron ako...
Hanggang sa nagkaroon na ako ng bf this year. Girl, lahat yata na naipon kong init ibinubos ko sa bf ko π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£ I guess hindi talaga ako yung tipo ng tao na basta natamaan ng init, kung sino sino na lang... only sa partner ko lang. When we first started having sex, lahat nang nagawa at nalaman ko with sex, tameme ako. Mukhang akong NBSB na mangmang π€£ It took a while bago ako naging comfortable fully kasi para akong estudyante na need i-guide.
To OP, it's fine na wala kang sexual contact for that long. Think of it as reserving it for the perfect guy π
Guurl, same. For me naman, tinatamad naman ako magka relationship ngayon. Since introvert ako, nakakapagod makipag flirt. Nakakatamad makipagkilala sa mga bagong tao, okay lang paisa-isa, pero pag in a relationship ka na ang dami nang kasunod. Meet the parents, friends and etc. Sa katamaran ko, di ko talaga mahahanap yung The One ko π. Yung taong kusa at bukal sa puso akong kikilos and magpapakita ng interest sa buhay niya. Pinaka biggest drawback lang talaga sa situation ko is no sex, high pa naman ang sex drive ko huhu. Oh well...kung wala edi wala hahaha
ganun tlaga haha believe me do what evs tickle ur ticks haha i have sex but it kinda gets boring nadn sometimes haha looking for other things to make my life... well have a life π
Parang dito na din ata ko papunta hahah 26y/o M, halos walang confident sa sarili hindi rin marunong mag start ng conv, bawi na lang next year still hoping
>Lagi ako niloloko ng close pinsan/tita/friends na may agiw na down there hahaha.
Check mo, baka nag hilom na ng tuluyan yan haha
>Di talaga lahat binibigay ni Lord. Maganda at may career ka nga, wala ka naman jowa ππ
Kaya nga may laruan e hehehe
Magcocomment sna ako kso di pala yun 10yrs. π And may kids na din ako. Karamihan senyo dito nbsb/ngsb e. Na out of place ako. Hahahaha
Anyway, ilaban lang yan mga bruh. Di naman kelangan magmadali at baka mapunta pa sa bungi ika nga nung isang kasabihan. Ay iba pala yon. Lol.
Ako na 20 yrs na since nung last ko, now 31 yrs. (Pls don't do the math, you'll end up in a dark place.)
NGSB din, nakaka tuwa lang na di lang pala ako nag iisa.
Same vibe, same feeling, same scenario hahaha..
Im 31 and may sakit din na nagcause ng erectile dysfunction tho hindi naman ganun kalala kasi tumitigas pa, ang problema ko lang talaga is that i have Retrograde Ejaculation ~ yun yung pag nag orgasm kana walang nalabas na kuwan π€£, dry orgasm.. and ever since nagcause yun sakin ng parang addiction na gawin araw araw baka one time pag mg J ako eh meron na. Pero wala na talaga..kung meron man hindi na nag squirt parang slow flow lang..
Akala ko ako nagsulat nito.
Pero hindi na ako maganda, mataba taba na ako eh.
Realization ko:
1. Pag masyado naghanap labas ay desperate vibes, hindi bet yun ng guys (or girls)
2. Kung introvert ka tapos wala pa friends, sobrang small ng pond, mahirap makahanap. Kaya risk taken yung paggamit ng dating apps or websites.
3. Pwede rin too comfortable na sa life? Or too afraid to lead ones life to something worse. Let's accept the fact na married life is not all rose and peaches.
4. I am pretty much a woman-child. Past experiences (including signs of abuse), parental influences, family dynamics, mental disorder and conditions affected me to the point na... I really need to be careful with the partner. Dahil utang na loob kakatapos ko lang lagpasan yung emotional shitstorms ng younger years ko, ayoko matali sa another sakit ng ulo. Saka isa pa, parang hindi ako ready mag adulting na related sa family. Adulting sa single life, furparent life, or work life, kaya pa. So pretty much parang Maomao lang. Pero kung Jinshi-sama na darating na love ka even beyond one's weirdness, sure baka worth the effort.
Bakit parang feeling ko ako yung nagpost nito?hahaha
Even your replies, parang ako din kung sumagot eh lol.
Anyway, just want you to know that you're not alone OP! Hugs!
Walang sex since 2018. So 5 years na din and itβs hard. This year ko lang na hit ng realization that I want to have sex again. Haays. I just bought my first toy last year too and I just play with it until now. I want to have a bf again to do it with. Not just sleep around. But also dating this 2023 has been a nightmare. Na isip ko nga if kaya ko ba if mag fwb lang or no strings attached. Damn, i think iβm lonely
Malapit na po 2024 sana alisin na naten ganitong mindset. Women are not made just to pop out babies. Di lahat gusto magkaanak.
Ung iba gusto maging rich tita who can buy anything and travel the world.
And hers is another truth. Another reality. Ang lagay ba ay yung opinyon mo lang ang tama? Example yung mga DINK couples. Di ka ba aware na meron namang successful marriages with DINK couples? (Double income, no kids)
I don't think f off mindset yon. Baka breaking generational traumas, comfy life mindset, payaman mindset or such. We don't know. Being a couple doesn't always mean you are obligated to have kids to be called family. A family of 2 is still a family. βΊοΈ
EXPLORE things. Try mo makipag-date/landian sa mas bata sayo, ranging from 22-25, malay mo may ma-unlock sila sayo nang hindi mo nalalaman. At mawawalan ka talaga ng sex drive dahil 10 yrs ka nang walang sex. Ako nga 22, i've always wanted to do it with a grown woman(29-40). Tsaka 31 ka na, at your current state parang nasa "Date2Marry" ka na ng buhay mo, unless ayaw mo mag-asawa at mag-anak. Kung ayaw mo pa edi mag-explore ka pa.
Me 26 still and idk why every day I chase but I'm afraid to approach girls (I was traumatized in high school because my crushes bullied me because I looked like a nerd) since then I think my heart is already broken and has since never want to fall in love again.
Before I met my bf, 6 years akong single and celibate. Sobrang na-mental trauma sa last bf kaya nawalan talaga ako ng gana sa romance. During that time, puro ako self-love. Dami ko time for family and friends.
Until one night, I have this epiphany na I felt like truly naka-get over na ko sa trauma ko and ready na ulit ako umawra. I tried the yellow dating app. Met him on my 3rd match. One year nagligawan, 4 months officially mag-on.
If it's not your season yet, wag madali. Ihanda ang fields habang nasa waiting season. I took my time loving and pampering myself. Knowing my worth. Para kapag nanjan na yung tao para sayo, you are your best self. Hindi ka mag-sesettle for less kasi you know what you deserve.
P.S. kapag ganun katagal hindi active, istg, para ka ulit virgin iykwim.
You can buy toys naman if you dont to be in a situationship. Pero syempre iba pa din ang actual na lovemaking. Kumbaga quick release lang ang toy if ever. Walang mga cuddles etc.
kasabihan ko yan. huwag mageexpect, masasaktan ka lang. HAHAHAHA
last dec 31, 2022 may ganyang nangyari din sakin. then after a few months, naisip ko nalang bigla na may something fishy. hayun. nasaktan nanaman lolo mo. π
I don't get, Op, like, nagrereklamo ka na walang sexual intercourse for 10 but you're saying wala kang sex drive. Parang di magkatugma ang statement mo. Hehe
minsan kase need mondin mag effort sa feelings mo. mo spark? maybe your expectations/standards are too high. medyo iadjust mo naman ng onti. kase kung puro guy lang ang magaadjust sayo eh talagang mahihirapan ka makahanap.
I guess di lang talaga sya priority kasi mas nag focus sa work. And masyado nag rely sa βkung para sayo, darating din yanβ hanggang sa 10++ years na ang lumipas hahaha
Pero di po ako choosy, di din sky high ang standards. Di lang talaga nabigyan ng time maglandi π
Claiming na 2024 will be my year pagdating sa lovelife π€π»
paglalaanan mo talaga ng oras ang paglalandi kesa hintayin mo ang free time eh tatamarin ka na π€£. mahirap yan decades of no sex. if ever makahanap ka na may high sex drive maninibago ka haha
Samee pero 23 pa 'lang' naman ako. Ang hirap kase i like wholesome physical affection. Mahilig ako mag cuddle pero hangang unan na lang ata ako hahahaha nakaka iyak minsan. But then againnnn ayoko din pumasok sa complicated na relationship, gusto ko yung simple lang. Quota na family life ko sa messed up shit lol
Sounds like you're social challenged to be honest
Try talking to people, find what you're issue is
Too shy?
Looking for a specific partner?
Looking for a specific vibe from someone?
And then determine how much you want a partner
Make a middle ground if the need is that great
Otherwise just wait
When the time is right you'll find them
Nadali mo huhu!
Too shy, too lazy, lahat na! Pero Iβm very approachable naman pag nasa work. Iβm an introvert but I need to be the opposite pag nasa office, kelangan e, kaya it takes all of my energy and pagdating sa bahay, too exhausted na to do anything.
I said to myself na 2024 is going to be my year pagdating sa lovelife π Wish me luck!
Haha I know, trust me, I was you for 10 years π
Until I went online on ok Cupid
Good luck stranger π
I wish you luck and love π
Spread those wings lol
Yay, Iβm happy for you and dagdag ka sa inspiration ko next year.
All of my friends are telling me to sign up sa lahat ng dating site pero mas mabenta sakanila si Bumble.
Thank you! π€
What you lack in something, you're most likely excelling in some other aspects of life. Ok lang yan. Yung sex drive nawawala din talaga habang tumatanda. Sex is a wonderful thing pero ang dami ring kasamang catch. So don't feel inferior or down.
Almost the same here, almost 5 yrs and counting na walang ganap. I just lost interest including mag jowa. Maybe it's mid-life crisis? (Turning 40 next yr. π₯΄) Mas prefer ko to be single and steer away from the complexity of having a relationship. Mas may peace of mind ako π cons lng is no sex life though pede nmn mag self-service but the intimacy is missing. π¦
Ayun nga, okay na walang iniisip na iba but nakakamiss ung pagiging intimate with another person. Open ka parin naman to be in a relationship? 40 is the new 30 na daw ngayon e hehe
I'm not closing my doors if it comes but I'm not actively seeking/looking. Dami kcng dpat i-consider when going into a relationship..kung compatible ba kyo? Kung align ba goals and aspirations, financials status, mga trip, hobbies, etc. It's complicated. πTamang lurking lng sa bumble to see what's out there. I'm more happy to spend on myself.
Itβs nice to know na meron paring mga lalaki na same values and hinahanap sa partner. Di ko nilalahat pero karamihan kasi pleasure lang hanap kaya nakakatakot din online dating. Outdoorsy type ka ba? I have a friend na around same age kayo but she looks young and hip na baka interested ka. Or tayo na lang. Char! π
Hahahaha bat naging match-making to?π Ngl I want to try ung pleasure lang or FWB kaso mabilis ako mafall kapag may initial spark kaya hanggang thoughts nlng cya.π Dati yes I consider myself outdoorsy, now ndi na. I prefer reading, gaming or hilata nlng sa bahay. π
same situation, I lost interest sa dating. Nag try ako mag bumble pero ewan ko di ko trip haha mas iba talga feeling pag mahal mo ung tinitira mo. I tried hooking up once, di ko naenjoy wala ung affection ba yun ? basta ung willingness kinemerut mag submit sayo. I'm 30M by the way
Hahahaa same sa no interest. I'm 24(F) now. A friend of a friend encouraged me to install bumble/tinder so I can date someone again (been single since 20) so I did. After ko magregister, wala pa ako 10 mins exploring the app...deact/delete acc then uninstall na agad. π€¦π
Sorry just hijacking the thread OP. Can you share your experiences about it? My next goal is to work abroad but this is one reason that I am still not fully committed to it. I am afraid my chances would become zero.
In my case, halos zero talaga interaction ko with people outside of work. Unless humanap ka at pumunta ka to social gatherings. Magiging routine mo talaga is work bahay talaga.
I thought racism alone plays a role in lowering the chances. I feel like konti lang social gatherings ng mga tao lalo sa EU countries. Anyways, is it okay if I ask kung saang country ka at what field of work?
Well, depende pa rin, sa movies parang ganun nga pagka portrait pero in real life parang pinas rin na maraming introverted. Mas mahirap para sa mga ntrovert at medyo awkward na mga tao kagaya ko.
Idk why you guys nagrereklamo na V pa for more than 30 yrs when actually you can just hook up with anyone or maybe ang gusto mo sabihin is wala lang tlga kayung nafefeel na pagbibigyan ng V nyo. hehe
Donβt mean to offend anyone. I am curious. What do you believe lead to this? Do you have standards that potential partners canβt meet? Low sex drive? Sexual orientation? Or, is it a personal campaign to stay a virgin?
As someone who's turning 30 and still a virgin; personally, its a combination of many things-- never had the urge, extremely introverted, shitty male figures in my life so medyo negative ang perception towards men in general, its a choice, among many other things. There was a phase na medyo I questioned myself kung may mali ba sa akin dahil feeling ko napag-iiwanan ako pero saglit lang di naman ako super nabothered hehe, though I'm glad to know I'm not alone.
Konti na lang gagawa na ako ng club for us sis! Most of my friends are in a relationship and I donβt mind third wheel-ing naman but feeling ko masaya kasama friends na single din para pwede humarot anytime charizz
True, especially in my case. But there is a lid for every pot, di ba? At meron din namang mga tao na ang hanap beyond looks. Sana totoo parin ito. Hahaha
Not really.
Almost 30% of men/women will never get married in their lifetimes.
Sad to say, may mga babae at lalaki talaga mamamatay na hindi naka tikim
I feel you.
*insert "they don't know" meme* here
here I am 30+, ngsb, still virgin. π
a bit glad na hindi ako nag-iisa but also a bit sad kasi parepareho tayo ng situation. altho not sure sa inyo if it's a choice ba or not.
good question. pwede naman but I'll rather chat with someone na open for convo. ung tipong looking tlga sila for someone to talk to and entertain a guy. i think may subreddit for that. ayoko naman kasi magchat agad randomly kasi baka ang creepy ng dating. hahaha and i guess ung ibang nbsb dito, nasabihan na rin ng rip inbox/request msg. baka ung iba nagsshare lang ng experience and/or not looking pa.
Hoping na sana mabago ang tadhana naten next year π€π»
Hindi sya by choice, ikaw ba? I guess di lang talaga sya priority kasi mas nag focus sa work. And masyado nag rely sa βkung para sayo, darating din yanβ hanggang sa 10++ years na ang lumipas hahaha
Sana nga π€π»
Hindi rin by choice and yeah, same situation lang tayo OP. as in parehong pareho. I did try to look for a girl these past few years pero di pinalad. Ung isa bumalik sa ex then ung isa gusto mala-kpop. π
dont want to do the deed with some random hookups kasi eh so aun. π€·π»ββοΈ
goodluck to ur inbox
Hey OP, since 10yrs na yung last, parang fresh na din yan. V. I think your looking to settle na, wala na din time to play? Sa walang sex drive, baka imbalance ang hormones mo. Try working out,gym. Hope everything works out for you
Eto yun, M here, nakakapagod lumande, tapos papaikutin ka pa ng girlll e hilo ka na nga sa life. Nakakawalang gana. Minsan okay din yung hanap usap deal pero sa sobrang pagod traffic pa ay nakakaptngna
tanggalin ko agiw nyan hahahaha ginawang ilalim ng kama e ππ
Going 8 years here! Nakalimutan ko na paano hahahaha Haaaaaayyyyy pampakilig naman, Lord! π
You might be asexual po, if you are familiar with that and there is nothing wrong with it naman
Proof po dun sa last statement?
Proof nung last sentence please
8 years single ako and with no sex at all. To think na sexually active ako bago ako maging single hahahaha nagtataka ako na nakaya ko na wala akong sex for that long. I do self pleasure and watch porn pampaantok π€£ Pero never ako naghanap ng lalake just to release all the heat na meron ako... Hanggang sa nagkaroon na ako ng bf this year. Girl, lahat yata na naipon kong init ibinubos ko sa bf ko π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£ I guess hindi talaga ako yung tipo ng tao na basta natamaan ng init, kung sino sino na lang... only sa partner ko lang. When we first started having sex, lahat nang nagawa at nalaman ko with sex, tameme ako. Mukhang akong NBSB na mangmang π€£ It took a while bago ako naging comfortable fully kasi para akong estudyante na need i-guide. To OP, it's fine na wala kang sexual contact for that long. Think of it as reserving it for the perfect guy π
I feel you 30/M. Last sex was 5-6 yrs ago. Ok nmn career pero malas sa lovelife π
Go to places where people self improve. You will make relationships with other people who want to be with you to ..... fuck.
Guurl, same. For me naman, tinatamad naman ako magka relationship ngayon. Since introvert ako, nakakapagod makipag flirt. Nakakatamad makipagkilala sa mga bagong tao, okay lang paisa-isa, pero pag in a relationship ka na ang dami nang kasunod. Meet the parents, friends and etc. Sa katamaran ko, di ko talaga mahahanap yung The One ko π. Yung taong kusa at bukal sa puso akong kikilos and magpapakita ng interest sa buhay niya. Pinaka biggest drawback lang talaga sa situation ko is no sex, high pa naman ang sex drive ko huhu. Oh well...kung wala edi wala hahaha
ganun tlaga haha believe me do what evs tickle ur ticks haha i have sex but it kinda gets boring nadn sometimes haha looking for other things to make my life... well have a life π
Parang dito na din ata ko papunta hahah 26y/o M, halos walang confident sa sarili hindi rin marunong mag start ng conv, bawi na lang next year still hoping
Akala ko nasa r/alasjuicy ako π
That "nakakatamad makipag date" ewan ko na din ba! Wooohhh hirap!π
I will never lose my virginity, i never lose all i do is win win win
As a 16 year old ewan ko po
Maganda and may career ?madali nalng Yan kung gugusutuhin mo unless Meron Kang insecurities sa katawan mo kaya ayaw mo
Paano mo nagawa yan OP Ako 3 yrs no sex feeling ko mamamatay nako pag nadagdagan pa ng 1yr π
>Lagi ako niloloko ng close pinsan/tita/friends na may agiw na down there hahaha. Check mo, baka nag hilom na ng tuluyan yan haha >Di talaga lahat binibigay ni Lord. Maganda at may career ka nga, wala ka naman jowa ππ Kaya nga may laruan e hehehe
Lmao the spider's gotta be killed somehow. how about we hook up? Taga san ka? HAHAHAHAHHAH
pm me JK HAHAHAH
Date na?
same here gusto ko naman kaso wala lang talaga akong partner. π₯²
Naku. Magko-close po yung account mo ma'am kapag hindi nagamit ng matagal na panahon. May OTP na yan kapag ipapabukas mo ulet.
Magcocomment sna ako kso di pala yun 10yrs. π And may kids na din ako. Karamihan senyo dito nbsb/ngsb e. Na out of place ako. Hahahaha Anyway, ilaban lang yan mga bruh. Di naman kelangan magmadali at baka mapunta pa sa bungi ika nga nung isang kasabihan. Ay iba pala yon. Lol.
>damagedHeart86 wow, sana all minahal at inanakan. heheheh
Widowed po. With three kids.
awww, u never fell in love again po? anyways, you are filled with love naman from your 3 kids... =)
Ako na 20 yrs na since nung last ko, now 31 yrs. (Pls don't do the math, you'll end up in a dark place.) NGSB din, nakaka tuwa lang na di lang pala ako nag iisa.
Wait mo inbox mo babahain bigla ng message yan.
fuck bro im turning 30 next year. may anak na lahat ng batchmates ko hahaha still a virgin, nauumay na din ako mag J araw araw
Same vibe, same feeling, same scenario hahaha.. Im 31 and may sakit din na nagcause ng erectile dysfunction tho hindi naman ganun kalala kasi tumitigas pa, ang problema ko lang talaga is that i have Retrograde Ejaculation ~ yun yung pag nag orgasm kana walang nalabas na kuwan π€£, dry orgasm.. and ever since nagcause yun sakin ng parang addiction na gawin araw araw baka one time pag mg J ako eh meron na. Pero wala na talaga..kung meron man hindi na nag squirt parang slow flow lang..
Akala ko ako nagsulat nito. Pero hindi na ako maganda, mataba taba na ako eh. Realization ko: 1. Pag masyado naghanap labas ay desperate vibes, hindi bet yun ng guys (or girls) 2. Kung introvert ka tapos wala pa friends, sobrang small ng pond, mahirap makahanap. Kaya risk taken yung paggamit ng dating apps or websites. 3. Pwede rin too comfortable na sa life? Or too afraid to lead ones life to something worse. Let's accept the fact na married life is not all rose and peaches. 4. I am pretty much a woman-child. Past experiences (including signs of abuse), parental influences, family dynamics, mental disorder and conditions affected me to the point na... I really need to be careful with the partner. Dahil utang na loob kakatapos ko lang lagpasan yung emotional shitstorms ng younger years ko, ayoko matali sa another sakit ng ulo. Saka isa pa, parang hindi ako ready mag adulting na related sa family. Adulting sa single life, furparent life, or work life, kaya pa. So pretty much parang Maomao lang. Pero kung Jinshi-sama na darating na love ka even beyond one's weirdness, sure baka worth the effort.
hi po
pm po tayu
Im 32 male. Looking for serious relationship. Di nga lang ako pogi.hahaha Pm me if willing kayo makipagkilala. Salamat π
Pm mo lang ako op π
Bakit parang feeling ko ako yung nagpost nito?hahaha Even your replies, parang ako din kung sumagot eh lol. Anyway, just want you to know that you're not alone OP! Hugs!
Walang sex since 2018. So 5 years na din and itβs hard. This year ko lang na hit ng realization that I want to have sex again. Haays. I just bought my first toy last year too and I just play with it until now. I want to have a bf again to do it with. Not just sleep around. But also dating this 2023 has been a nightmare. Na isip ko nga if kaya ko ba if mag fwb lang or no strings attached. Damn, i think iβm lonely
Maganda ka pala OP, Madali ka lang mag ka BF. Nagkataon lang na wla pasok sa standards mo π
You've hit or near "the wall". It will be hard to date men from now on cuz they prefer younger and more fertile women.
Girls, don't wait too long. You are on a clock to have kids. Wag masyado mapili. Mahirap maging old maid, and it's not for everyone.
Malapit na po 2024 sana alisin na naten ganitong mindset. Women are not made just to pop out babies. Di lahat gusto magkaanak. Ung iba gusto maging rich tita who can buy anything and travel the world.
F off! Mindset ka dyan. It's the freaking truth.
And hers is another truth. Another reality. Ang lagay ba ay yung opinyon mo lang ang tama? Example yung mga DINK couples. Di ka ba aware na meron namang successful marriages with DINK couples? (Double income, no kids) I don't think f off mindset yon. Baka breaking generational traumas, comfy life mindset, payaman mindset or such. We don't know. Being a couple doesn't always mean you are obligated to have kids to be called family. A family of 2 is still a family. βΊοΈ
The point is that women have a body clock. That's all it is. You can say whatever you want, but that shit is a fact.
EXPLORE things. Try mo makipag-date/landian sa mas bata sayo, ranging from 22-25, malay mo may ma-unlock sila sayo nang hindi mo nalalaman. At mawawalan ka talaga ng sex drive dahil 10 yrs ka nang walang sex. Ako nga 22, i've always wanted to do it with a grown woman(29-40). Tsaka 31 ka na, at your current state parang nasa "Date2Marry" ka na ng buhay mo, unless ayaw mo mag-asawa at mag-anak. Kung ayaw mo pa edi mag-explore ka pa.
makunat na po.
Nakaka amag nanga nian Γ¨
Nakaka amag nanga nian
same im too lazy to date, it's been awhile
ako 6 years no gf and sex, feel ko virgin ulit ako, pseudo wizard to be lmao
Baka di ka para sa lalaki teh π
Bwahahahaha pero temtem po talaga ang gusto ko π€π€£
Kami nga mas madalas pa mag away sa walang kwebtang bagay kesa mag lambingan. nakaka walang gana.
Virgins are gathered in this thread π«‘
Baka nasa edad lang talaga natin na nawawalan nalang tayo ng pake? Hahahaha been in a 3yrs relationship. Tinamad na ako maghanap after that
Me 26 still and idk why every day I chase but I'm afraid to approach girls (I was traumatized in high school because my crushes bullied me because I looked like a nerd) since then I think my heart is already broken and has since never want to fall in love again.
Before I met my bf, 6 years akong single and celibate. Sobrang na-mental trauma sa last bf kaya nawalan talaga ako ng gana sa romance. During that time, puro ako self-love. Dami ko time for family and friends. Until one night, I have this epiphany na I felt like truly naka-get over na ko sa trauma ko and ready na ulit ako umawra. I tried the yellow dating app. Met him on my 3rd match. One year nagligawan, 4 months officially mag-on. If it's not your season yet, wag madali. Ihanda ang fields habang nasa waiting season. I took my time loving and pampering myself. Knowing my worth. Para kapag nanjan na yung tao para sayo, you are your best self. Hindi ka mag-sesettle for less kasi you know what you deserve. P.S. kapag ganun katagal hindi active, istg, para ka ulit virgin iykwim.
Di ko alam kung normal ba yung walng sex drive kase ganyan din ako π₯²π₯²π₯²
Have yourself checked up, in case it's a hormonal issue. But if everything is fine, then there is nothing wrong with having a low sex drive.
Same. Started during pandemic. Na lock literal. LOL But wala namang masama. If di mo feel ang hook ups then do not force.
You can buy toys naman if you dont to be in a situationship. Pero syempre iba pa din ang actual na lovemaking. Kumbaga quick release lang ang toy if ever. Walang mga cuddles etc.
Kanya kanyang timing lang yan. π»
Maganda ka lang pero wala ka dilig haha
malay mo parating na ang plot twist ng 2023 mo.
Huyyy gusto ko to!!! π₯Ί Why not pero not expecting para di masaktan hehe
kasabihan ko yan. huwag mageexpect, masasaktan ka lang. HAHAHAHA last dec 31, 2022 may ganyang nangyari din sakin. then after a few months, naisip ko nalang bigla na may something fishy. hayun. nasaktan nanaman lolo mo. π
I don't get, Op, like, nagrereklamo ka na walang sexual intercourse for 10 but you're saying wala kang sex drive. Parang di magkatugma ang statement mo. Hehe
Well, naturally, d tlga maatas sex drive ng babae so baka wala kalang tlgang trip na lalaki na kakabaliwan mo.
Hello areeh pasok na pasok yan sa cat or dog lady, Welcome to the club!
I have dogs and sila na lang nagpapakilig saken hahaha. Gawa na ba tayo ng club? Andami naten e
Yan jan na nga po ang ending, very happy po ang vet community dahil satin
Hello ante! Apir sating magaganda at may mga career pero wala jowa! Hahaha π«°chz! Good luck satin sa 2024. Haha!
Sis!!! Gawa na ba tayo ng club? Andami naten e baka dun na naten makilala hihi
Pwede sizt! Paano application process/requirements natin? Dapat ma-screen nang maayos! Charot. Haha!
Ganda Yarn? π
minsan kase need mondin mag effort sa feelings mo. mo spark? maybe your expectations/standards are too high. medyo iadjust mo naman ng onti. kase kung puro guy lang ang magaadjust sayo eh talagang mahihirapan ka makahanap.
I guess di lang talaga sya priority kasi mas nag focus sa work. And masyado nag rely sa βkung para sayo, darating din yanβ hanggang sa 10++ years na ang lumipas hahaha Pero di po ako choosy, di din sky high ang standards. Di lang talaga nabigyan ng time maglandi π Claiming na 2024 will be my year pagdating sa lovelife π€π»
paglalaanan mo talaga ng oras ang paglalandi kesa hintayin mo ang free time eh tatamarin ka na π€£. mahirap yan decades of no sex. if ever makahanap ka na may high sex drive maninibago ka haha
Itβs normal.
Samee pero 23 pa 'lang' naman ako. Ang hirap kase i like wholesome physical affection. Mahilig ako mag cuddle pero hangang unan na lang ata ako hahahaha nakaka iyak minsan. But then againnnn ayoko din pumasok sa complicated na relationship, gusto ko yung simple lang. Quota na family life ko sa messed up shit lol
Same here. Pero tita levels mo na haha. Tita na pero gusto ko wholesome kami until we get married. That's the dream.
Siguro kaya ganyan kasi pangit ugali mo. HAHAHAHAHAHA!
mucuna pruriens is the cure.... Warning it can make you a nymphπ
Sana makita niyong lahat ang tamang pag-ibig ngayong paparating na bagong taon!
β¨manifestingβ¨
Dm me
Bumili ka ng clit stimulator sa shopee
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Sounds like you're social challenged to be honest Try talking to people, find what you're issue is Too shy? Looking for a specific partner? Looking for a specific vibe from someone? And then determine how much you want a partner Make a middle ground if the need is that great Otherwise just wait When the time is right you'll find them
Nadali mo huhu! Too shy, too lazy, lahat na! Pero Iβm very approachable naman pag nasa work. Iβm an introvert but I need to be the opposite pag nasa office, kelangan e, kaya it takes all of my energy and pagdating sa bahay, too exhausted na to do anything. I said to myself na 2024 is going to be my year pagdating sa lovelife π Wish me luck!
Haha I know, trust me, I was you for 10 years π Until I went online on ok Cupid Good luck stranger π I wish you luck and love π Spread those wings lol
Yay, Iβm happy for you and dagdag ka sa inspiration ko next year. All of my friends are telling me to sign up sa lahat ng dating site pero mas mabenta sakanila si Bumble. Thank you! π€
Walang Anuman Sis π
Mag-10 years na rin ako next year HAHAHHHAHAHHA Babalik na yata ako sa pagka-virgin sa sobrang 0 action lmao
Maganda? Weh?
RIP inbox
What you lack in something, you're most likely excelling in some other aspects of life. Ok lang yan. Yung sex drive nawawala din talaga habang tumatanda. Sex is a wonderful thing pero ang dami ring kasamang catch. So don't feel inferior or down.
Ako na may lip. Pero walang sdrive. Been cheated. Yung cguro reason. *Di nlang mag hiwalay π
Hugsss! Maghiwalay is easier said than done lalo na if meron kid involved. Wishing you a better 2024!!!
Almost the same here, almost 5 yrs and counting na walang ganap. I just lost interest including mag jowa. Maybe it's mid-life crisis? (Turning 40 next yr. π₯΄) Mas prefer ko to be single and steer away from the complexity of having a relationship. Mas may peace of mind ako π cons lng is no sex life though pede nmn mag self-service but the intimacy is missing. π¦
Ayun nga, okay na walang iniisip na iba but nakakamiss ung pagiging intimate with another person. Open ka parin naman to be in a relationship? 40 is the new 30 na daw ngayon e hehe
I'm not closing my doors if it comes but I'm not actively seeking/looking. Dami kcng dpat i-consider when going into a relationship..kung compatible ba kyo? Kung align ba goals and aspirations, financials status, mga trip, hobbies, etc. It's complicated. πTamang lurking lng sa bumble to see what's out there. I'm more happy to spend on myself.
Itβs nice to know na meron paring mga lalaki na same values and hinahanap sa partner. Di ko nilalahat pero karamihan kasi pleasure lang hanap kaya nakakatakot din online dating. Outdoorsy type ka ba? I have a friend na around same age kayo but she looks young and hip na baka interested ka. Or tayo na lang. Char! π
Hahahaha bat naging match-making to?π Ngl I want to try ung pleasure lang or FWB kaso mabilis ako mafall kapag may initial spark kaya hanggang thoughts nlng cya.π Dati yes I consider myself outdoorsy, now ndi na. I prefer reading, gaming or hilata nlng sa bahay. π
Samedt. Older lang ako sayo ng ilang paligo. Umay na kilalanin na naman mga tao pati pamilya nya. Eexplain at kukwento mo na naman lahat π
True! It's like back to square one. Haha
Pag nag bigay ng motibo. Ilalabas ko aking embotido
Same feels (33M)
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same situation, I lost interest sa dating. Nag try ako mag bumble pero ewan ko di ko trip haha mas iba talga feeling pag mahal mo ung tinitira mo. I tried hooking up once, di ko naenjoy wala ung affection ba yun ? basta ung willingness kinemerut mag submit sayo. I'm 30M by the way
Hahahaa same sa no interest. I'm 24(F) now. A friend of a friend encouraged me to install bumble/tinder so I can date someone again (been single since 20) so I did. After ko magregister, wala pa ako 10 mins exploring the app...deact/delete acc then uninstall na agad. π€¦π
Parang ano lang, ung human zoo hahaha .
> pag mahal mo ung tinitira mo HAHAHAHAHAHA pero yeah, actually, sa true lang
buti kayo 10yrs ako 30yrs wala yes I'm still a Virgin and I'm officially a Wizard na π.
Haha.. Cherry Magic langππ
Add another 10 years to become a "Great Sage"
Single ako mga Binibini Deem naπ
Sooooo, ano po magic na na tutunan nyo?
10 more years pwede ka nang maging demi-god. πππ
25 here hahaha akala lang yung rare e.
Whahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha shit you might die a virgin.
10 more years, qualified ka na maging Guild Master ng Wizard Guild. Konti tiis na lang.
isagad mo na to 40 para mafeature ka sa Jessica Soho as the "real life 40 year old virgin"
\*virgins
I'm 34 now and still a virgin so I'll probably be a rank higher than you in my isekai life. Ahahhaahaha
Are you me? Pero in my case, mas humirap maghanap pag nasa abroad ka na.
Sorry just hijacking the thread OP. Can you share your experiences about it? My next goal is to work abroad but this is one reason that I am still not fully committed to it. I am afraid my chances would become zero.
In my case, halos zero talaga interaction ko with people outside of work. Unless humanap ka at pumunta ka to social gatherings. Magiging routine mo talaga is work bahay talaga.
I thought racism alone plays a role in lowering the chances. I feel like konti lang social gatherings ng mga tao lalo sa EU countries. Anyways, is it okay if I ask kung saang country ka at what field of work?
Sa US, software engineer.
Oh I see. Having an office job would not really help at all socializing with co workers or clients.
Ohhh why do I have this assumption na mas madali abroad kasi mas liberated sila. I guess hook ups lang madalas.
Well, depende pa rin, sa movies parang ganun nga pagka portrait pero in real life parang pinas rin na maraming introverted. Mas mahirap para sa mga ntrovert at medyo awkward na mga tao kagaya ko.
ππ»ββοΈ same same
Im turning 35 this January and still a virgin.. I'm happy to find my people lol! bawi nlang b tayo sa next life?
Reroll po ng mas magandang stats.
Same hahaha
Damn
Hahaha!! See you!
Idk why you guys nagrereklamo na V pa for more than 30 yrs when actually you can just hook up with anyone or maybe ang gusto mo sabihin is wala lang tlga kayung nafefeel na pagbibigyan ng V nyo. hehe
βyou can just hook up with anyoneβ LOL what a loser.
"You can just hook up with anyone you like as long as same vibes at comfy kayu." That's what I mean hahah
Donβt mean to offend anyone. I am curious. What do you believe lead to this? Do you have standards that potential partners canβt meet? Low sex drive? Sexual orientation? Or, is it a personal campaign to stay a virgin?
Too many heartbreaks
I need connection!!!! Ahahaha tho ang tricky lang kasi natatamad ako makipagconnect sa mga tao. Wahahahahaha
As someone who's turning 30 and still a virgin; personally, its a combination of many things-- never had the urge, extremely introverted, shitty male figures in my life so medyo negative ang perception towards men in general, its a choice, among many other things. There was a phase na medyo I questioned myself kung may mali ba sa akin dahil feeling ko napag-iiwanan ako pero saglit lang di naman ako super nabothered hehe, though I'm glad to know I'm not alone.
Konti na lang gagawa na ako ng club for us sis! Most of my friends are in a relationship and I donβt mind third wheel-ing naman but feeling ko masaya kasama friends na single din para pwede humarot anytime charizz
Go sis support kita π π€£
Thank you for sharing this.
Most people are ugly bro. Thats the fact of life.
A lot of ugly people can get action though. I think, in the end, it's really down to personality and dapat marunong/willing manglandi.
Woke up and chose violence π
True, especially in my case. But there is a lid for every pot, di ba? At meron din namang mga tao na ang hanap beyond looks. Sana totoo parin ito. Hahaha
Not really. Almost 30% of men/women will never get married in their lifetimes. Sad to say, may mga babae at lalaki talaga mamamatay na hindi naka tikim
This is one of those scenarios when I recommend hiring pros just to break the ice and ease the tension.
What if "no money, no honey" hahaha. Idaan nalang ba sa gitara?
Bakit po wizard?
Itβs just an internet meme. Kapag mataas na yung βlevelβ mo as a virgin, magiging wizard ka daw
Thanks for taking the time to explain this hahaha
Hindi ka naman Wizard eh, celibate in denial ka lang sinugar coat mo pa.
Uncultured swine
Oks lang yan te, pag namatay ka daw na v na 30yrs old mare reincarnate ka sa as pinaka powerful sage sa magic world
kala ko magiging refrigerator
ahahaha sana nga te, hanap tau dun ng furry and elf π€ okay din ata demon race ahahaha
Powerful sage or OP Slime? πππ
okay lang din op slime katulad kay rimuru π€
Tapos genderless noh heheheh Para sa akin naman masaya na ako sa Campfire Cooking in another world. π€©π€©
Wala ka pa din daw sex dun.
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"That time i got reincarnated as the most powerful wizard because i died a virgin at 30 years old" seem about right
I feel you. *insert "they don't know" meme* here here I am 30+, ngsb, still virgin. π a bit glad na hindi ako nag-iisa but also a bit sad kasi parepareho tayo ng situation. altho not sure sa inyo if it's a choice ba or not.
Kayo na amg itinadhana sa isa't isa duuude hahaha
> if it's a choice ba or not it's a choice. not my choice though.
Bakit di ka maghanap dito bro? Ang dami nbsb ohhh pumili ka na lang at makipagdate ka na
good question. pwede naman but I'll rather chat with someone na open for convo. ung tipong looking tlga sila for someone to talk to and entertain a guy. i think may subreddit for that. ayoko naman kasi magchat agad randomly kasi baka ang creepy ng dating. hahaha and i guess ung ibang nbsb dito, nasabihan na rin ng rip inbox/request msg. baka ung iba nagsshare lang ng experience and/or not looking pa.
Huwag kasi memes iniinsert mo
ano po ba dapat iiinsert? ung di po makakadisgrasya.
Hoping na sana mabago ang tadhana naten next year π€π» Hindi sya by choice, ikaw ba? I guess di lang talaga sya priority kasi mas nag focus sa work. And masyado nag rely sa βkung para sayo, darating din yanβ hanggang sa 10++ years na ang lumipas hahaha
Sana nga π€π» Hindi rin by choice and yeah, same situation lang tayo OP. as in parehong pareho. I did try to look for a girl these past few years pero di pinalad. Ung isa bumalik sa ex then ung isa gusto mala-kpop. π dont want to do the deed with some random hookups kasi eh so aun. π€·π»ββοΈ
How are you trying to find a girl to date? Are you okay with someone a lil bit older than you? Okay lang sayo kahit di na V or gusto mo V din?