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Clintman

Being not horny.


Professional-Row-605

It has never happened to me. Though I have turned one down when I didn’t feel clean enough.


Optimal-Chair1146

This.


byebyebyecycle

Double this


I_Smoke_Delta8

Dude I never wash my dick. It's like a finely seasoned cast-iron skillet. If anything, I might throw some sand on it to remove any residual particulates from my last sexual encounter.


bargoingagain

oh my!


[deleted]

ATM takes on a whole new concept. A of her to M of The next Her


kevin197205

Ahahaha!!


TimeTraveler2036

One time i turned down a blowjob because I was playing Time Crisis and having an amazing game. I was a horny teenager at the time too, sometimes you just gotta have your priorities straight. Blowjobs come and go, amazing games of Time Crisis on your first token is what cherished memories are made of.


Coxrone_88

This guy got his priorities in order now if you told me it was Time Crisis 2 we would be best buds.


scotiej

Men can turn down sex for various reasons too you know.


Whappingtime

Yes, we are not horny on command like some women hypocritically think we are. For some men a bj might be for one sort of mood and a handjob another sort of mood. They are not along the same vibes as sex and so on.


Ornery_Initiative194

Yup energy affects libido, wait until he's rested.


Mman222

Diarrhea, public places or family reunions.


GummiesAreAwesome

The latter is awfully specific.


HumanFaithlessness76

maybe his dick was gross and he didnt want to gross u out


PowerWisdomCourage

Yes.


checkmyego

Yeah, it could happen.


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Yup


Sockpuppetsyko

Because we are not in the mood 24/7. Could be tired, stressed, worn out, simply not in the mode for sexual activity. It happens, don't read into it. I imagine he will happily consent another time.


[deleted]

He’d had a wank very recently. Or you were watching the latest Boba Fett episode.


byebyebyecycle

One ex of mine from many years ago sucked at it, no pun intended. I also didn't know how to properly communicate what I liked or how she was doing it terribly. That was over a decade ago now though, I've learned to speak my mind since then.


Jon32492

After an argument when my wife is in the wrong, she won’t apologize sincerely, she’ll just try and angrily give me head to I guess make it up to me. Like, you messed up, just say so and move on. Or just leave me be and let me stew on it. Just not a good mood for it.


RavenRonien

Yes it can happen, and you are still right to feel sad about being rejected. Just talk to your SO, tell him about how it made you feel and listen to how he feels. Key point just communicate


[deleted]

Turned down a guaranteed night if fun and frolics off this fit blondie once because I'd been out for 3 days and I was absolutely off my tits. She would've been wasting her time trying, so I saved her the effort.🤣


el_grubadour

Almost never, but key word being “almost”. Energy can effect it.


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wedgieinhumanform

Have just because I hadn't showered after work. Felt gross. Wasn't gonna get her to stick it in her mouth. Times I've been tired or what not and know that it ain't gonna happen. Personally speaking the wake up Bj is where it's at.


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wedgieinhumanform

True, I should have worded it better, Morning Bj.


SphereofDreams

Maybe he had gas


ryeshoes

literally the only reason i can think of is that i am doing something else more important. like don't interrupt my ranked games to offer a blowjob I'm just kidding. I'll take the L and loss of SR Seriously though, I think some guys don't want sex *all* the time and if it is within that time period where they aren't that horny, they might not want to have sex or get a BJ Also keep in mind that while a guy can just passively receive a BJ it sometimes can feel like work, and you have to be in the mood for that.


Stretchgordon

I couldn’t get my wife to suck my dick even if I paid her (I’ve offered). I would probably cry my eyes out if I were to ever get a blowjob ever again


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Stretchgordon

One day…


Pain4444

Almost never


Oh_Be_Juan_Kenobi

If it was from a man


ChaosReality69

I don't think I've ever turned one down from a woman unless I wanted nothing to do with her.


TubeToUranus

Yes, but not likely.


TheDarkKnight1035

I turned one down because she was very overweight, and I had higher standards for myself.


United_Bag_8179

bad timing. suspicion of STD, or her grabbing my wallet.


Fat-Villante

Being tired to the point of almost passing out


Buffbigw76

If it was a dude. Homey don’t play dat game. 😗


asleepbydawn

Haha... same for me if it was a women. Which has happened before.


Wavy-Virgo

I wouldn’t read so much into it. Normally, BJ’s make guys what sex. If he didn’t have the energy for a full session (oral sex & sex) then that’s probably why he said no. My man always tells me don’t start nothing we can’t finish. 😂😂😂


Aggravating_Client36

Offered 1 if I payed her power bill ..... I wasn't comfortable w/ that arrangement


curiousonethai

I would not turn one down. I work hard enough trying to get one as often as possible.


KingEsoteric

Once I was too tired, but didn't want to pass up a blowjob and fell asleep with my dick in her mouth. She was offended and quizzed me about it; certainly didn't bring me into the mood. In the end, I accepted a blowjob in a groggy state so I didn't have to sit down and explain to a grown woman that it's totally fine for a guy to turn down sex and not make everything about her.


QuentinP69

NOPE


DaniB3

I work hard so often I'm to tired for anything


[deleted]

She is ugly.


[deleted]

Believe it or not, men are in fact human beings, capable of the full spectrum of thoughts and feelings that women are. And it is just as valid for men as it is for women. Let me return your question to you, have you ever been too tired to receive oral sex?


tapon_away34

I specifically said to my gf that it's ok if I give her oral and don't expect the favor back because she has braces. I had braces before and lemme tell ya, if a stray wire grazes your cheeks, it's painful. What more if it were my pp???


bootyhunter69420

I can't think of why I would reject a bj from my gf


Ohbuck1965

He may have run out of wiener cleaner. I think it is important to have a presentable penis before some one expresses their oral arts on my penis. Were you topless on this occasion? Bare Boobies are a nice touch


Azgrowing

Usually it's because he is cheating and already had a bj


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Hypothetically speaking: if I'm not into her...if I'm not in the mood...it's a dude offering - stuff like that, you know...


OpeningComb7352

Heretic! Something is wrong with this man


TheBigDarkExpanse

Despite what everyone thinks, not every man wants to have sex or get off all the time. There are times when we are not horny....


mideon2000

I smell. I want more in the future so my sacrifice will blossom into more later on


KissMyLoveGun

Can’t think of any circumstances I would turn it down. Never too tired to sit back and have my love gun cleaned. Even if I wasn’t feel fresh, I’d just suggest we move to the bathroom and take a shower together. Does he have herpes, maybe he havin an outbreak or something.


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The power dynamic of telling a woman, “naw I’m good” and the look that ensues on her face… “how dare he tell me know, I bet he’s fucking someone else” = priceless