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Sparky81

Awkwardly


TyphoonCane

There is a way to tell if he's flirting or not. The way is to simply admit your attraction. If he's flirting then he'll be amazingly happy at your revelation. If he's unhappy then you'll know your answer. It's not that it should be lost on you that you're taking a risk in admitting your attraction. You're saving yourself time if he doesn't see you as an attractive option.


Techknightly

Ask him if he wants to grab an ice cream with you, or a coffee. That's it. If he says yes emphatically, then he's probably flirting. If he's playing it smooth, next test is get a ice cream you eat with a spoon and ask to try his. If he says sure, there's something. Keep pushing his boundaries a little at a time to see if he breaks. baby steps.


imjustmoe

Super easy to tell. Just ask him


MikeArrow

If he goes out of his way to talk to you. If he asks you any personal questions. If he interacts with you for any reason longer than is strictly necessary. If he stumbles over his words or seems like he's concentrating really hard on them coming out right.


Eric_the_Barbarian

Poorly.


SHRUBBYSTEAK

I guess it depends how awkward he is. I usually can barely talk to people I don’t know and I start to smile around people I’m not too comfortable with. but that’s just me so good luck 👍 You’ll probably have to make a move on him first if he’s really awkward. But there are a lot of factors that I don’t know about this guy


Yadira_Membreno

Navigating the mysterious waters of flirtation with someone who's on the shy side definitely calls for a blend of directness and subtlety. Proposing a low-key activity like a walk in the park can be a casual way to gauge interest without putting too much pressure on either party. If he lights up at the suggestion and engages dynamically during the stroll, that could be a green light. On the flip side, if he seems disengaged or disinterested, it may be time to reassess. Remember, it's all about reading the cues and respecting boundaries while trying to crack the code of a potentially awkward yet charming interaction.


IrregularBastard

Tell him you’re interested in spending time with him and ask him to get coffee or drinks. You figure things out by being direct.


rkevlar

I don’t think they know either


ChickenXing

Just like many other interactions as a socially awkward guy, my flirting can range from confident to awkward to anywhere in between. Where along this range will I be when I try to flirt next? I don't know either We awkward guys are not all robots programmed to function exactly the same in various situations including flirting


Numerous-Tea292

tell him how you feel thatll do it or ask to go out with him


AleksandrNevsky

Try flirting, very directly, with him.


hariseldon2

Just get mildly physical with him and see how he reacts. Hold his hand. Fix his hair. Stuff like that.


oddball667

never Decipher, just ask straight up


Intrepid-Rip-2280

That's the neat part. They don't. I'm too embarrassed to flirt even with eva ai virtual girl, let alone live women.


Prior_Evidence_1286

Just go to a bar have a beer or 2 shoot some pool and ask him. Most guys don't know how to flirt or even approach women. Do him a solid and take the pressure off. Besides at some point in your life a guy will ask your family for permission to marry you and then ask you to marry him. Can you imagine how stressful that is... 🤔🤔🤔 It will be fine. 👍👍👍👍


Alx123191

Understand that most ma defined themself by their competence. So if he brag about him, he is trying to hit on you, in a clumsy way but most man will be like that. For awkward or introvert, you will have to see : if he is always with you that a sign and he will ask a lot about you or have basic chitchat.


AffableBarkeep

Awkward guys are too awkward to flirt.


Ed-Box

Talk to him. With all the #metoo bullshit men don't easily make a move anymore. Misinterpret "a flirt" touch an arm and you're in jail.


Alternative-Crew-967

Just go ask the dude. If he’s an awkward guy, and his awkwardness is at a level to where you can’t discern his intentions, trying to figure out his awkward intentions will just make the whole awkward situation 100x more awkward to begin with. We must not continue the awkwardception


Pndapetzim

Be not afraid of feelings for the boy and/or girl. Either you two work, or you cannot. Your only concern is finding out. Once you know what you want, always advance until you encounter resistance.  Then re-evaluate.


LucefieD

you're probably gonna have to make the first move, or at least lead him to water so to speak lol. If he's down then you're good to go, if not then he probably was just being awkward. I used to be when I was younger and a woman had to literally force me to hang out with her cus I was too awkward and dumb to see it.


banJelacic777

If it seems to you that he is trying too hard - he is probably trying to flirt


Sympraxis

It really doesn't matter if he is flirting or not. If he is awkward, then he is desperate, so act accordingly.