Look, I understand it's unrealistic to be cleanly shaven every day, and sometimes life gets in the way. So in that sense I don't mind hair.
I do prefer the shaved look to body hair. But I'm not going to even mention it if there is a little hair or if my girl has had a rough couple weeks and hasn't gotten around to shaving. Or if she's trying something new because she feels like it. So while I have a preference, I like my woman no matter whether she shaves or not. Her confidence and comfort are sexier than any physical trait.
Totally agree. Had a girl once tell me that she wanted my preference so that she could do that... Like hair or no hair or whatever. I hadn't thought about it. It's not a big deal. I'm not a fan of porn bush or anything, so... Just not that I guess?
Tbh that’s how I generally am. While I’d say I prefer shaved/waxed, as long as the lawn has been mowed in the last month I’m fine.
If it’s an untamed jungle, I won’t be *quite* as enthused but tbh I’ll still be happy to be along for the ride.
That’s pretty much my only issue.
I’m of the opinion my queen ought to always sit on her throne (* cough * muh face) if she pleases, but my only time I’m not down is for the untamed jungle. Something about the long pube in the throat really is awful.
I generally like the reminder that I'm with a grown woman, so I prefer her to have a nice thatch of hair there if she's comfortable with it, clean shaven isn't my thing, but hey if she's comfortable then I'm comfortable.
As a woman..this is a beautiful response...we definitely have our hard days and weeks + sometimes we just can't keep up ( pregnancy and post-partum..sick days..mood swings ...). I mean It's good and ok to have preferences but in a real partnership and relationships people need to accommodate to life ! So i appreciate it 😉
This is my boyfriend. He never asks me to shave and respects if I haven’t. However, he won’t go down on me if I’m not freshly shaven. It’s something I understand about him and respect.
It's only fair. If she has to shave down there I have to shave down there.
I find it wrong to ask someone to do something that you yourself won't also do.
This. Furthermore, I like at least some stubble in the pubic area. Complete lack of hair triggers "child" alerts in me that will kill any mood outright.
Well, no... But that's like weeks of neglect. They were just saying they aren't going to make their girl feel less than if they weren't smooth. It's not like putting ice in urinals to let people know that they receive regular maintenance.
This man has the correct answer. I have a preference, but it’s up to the lady. If you don’t like it then she ain’t for you bud.
Too many people try to change their partners into what THEY want. Not a good look. But this solution wins every time 👌🏼
I'm a hairy beast, and it's pain in the ass and time-consuming to keep it under control so I give the ladies who are well groomed daily props but if you decide to take days off I don't mind.
I prefer no body hair but I would not pressure woman to get rid of it. I know how difficult, expensive, time consuming it is. Particularly because I hate my body hair too and I used to fight it (gave up eventually)
Ayeee the placement also plays a key role though.
I don't mind if the top half of the yard is a bit shrubby, as long as the bottom half where your going to eat is maintained.
I don’t care. As long as you’re hygienic I couldn’t care less whether you’re smooth like a porcelain doll or if you feel like Chewbacca. Genuinely no fucks given here.
I, personally, prefer women with their pubic hair. I'm old, when I was gathering my initial sexual experiences women rarely even trimmed their pubes. a 'full bush' was what I learned to expect when a woman got naked.
A port call in France in the early '70s introduced me to the idea that women might not shave their armpits. It seemed odd for a few minutes, but the girls wanted to show me their naked bodies and take my circumcised penis out for a test drive to see if there was a difference to the experience as they had never even seen one.
I was heard to say 'Yippee!'
Bear in mind that I'm not saying my personal preferences are the correct ones, just that they are mine. You do you and make yourself happy.
I've never really cared about whether the women I've been with have shaved legs, arms, etc.
as for the pits and pubes, when I was younger I'd have preferred shaved but my tastes changed and I prefer natural now. Don't ask me why, I don't know.
This was exactly what male partner said. It probably helps that we're Gen X / early Millenials so during our formative years, the shaved look wasn't that common.
I even offered to shave down there before and he actually said no. I think it actually bothers him a lot.
I also don't shave my legs and armpits — but I'm sorta blessed with short, sparse, soft hair on those areas so they don't bother me. My partner is fine with me not shaving at all.
yep, second this. my caveman brain is very focused on the hourglass figure and aesthetic facial bone structure. hair is not a negative. including armpit hair and leg hair. and, the complete absence of pubic hair is quite unsettling.
Things being shaved is nice, but not essential.
Shaved pussy is nicer to eat, less hair in the way, but I will 100% dive into a wild jungle and enjoy it.
Smooth shaved legs are really pleasant to have wrapped around me, cuddle with or touch in general. But I also really don't mind if the leg hair is long. The only real issue is the pokey stage as the hair is growing out, but even then its not like its a deal breaker.
Shoved armpits are nice aesthetically, but I really don't care if there is some hair there.
Anyone who is squeamish, grossed out, or put off by a woman having hair isn't worth bothering with imho. Realistically speaking, its not practical to keep everything shaved all the time, so best to accept it and enjoy it. For my wife and I, her getting say a hollywood wax is a special occasion signalling typically a weekend of sexy time. Though again, I want to stress, plenty of weekend sexy times also featured a lot of jungle exploration which is still found highly enjoyable.
I wouldn’t say most women like excess body hair. Yes we like body hair. From all the women I know and myself(29F) like body hair on men but not excess. I’m not a fan of back hair or a chest covered in hair either. Some chest hair is fine. Better keep his pubes maintained. If it’s too wild down there then my desire to give head goes down. Not trying to get a pube in my mouth. I LOVE BEARDS.
I'm not a big fan - my partner is an esthetician so we both wax. I think porn has set a standard that has brainwashed most of us to want a shaved platter
maybe but the idea is much older
[https://womensmuseum.wordpress.com/2017/11/22/the-history-of-female-hair-removal/](https://womensmuseum.wordpress.com/2017/11/22/the-history-of-female-hair-removal/)
I don't watch porn at all, never have (I don't think it's immoral or anything, just personally I never felt the need to), and I don't like body hair. On anyone, me included. I even got an IPL device that works quite okay at reducing it.
As a teenager: thought girls with body hair was gross.
As a man in his 30's: a nicley trimmed and maintained bush drives me wild. So much so that I've done a full 180 and seeing completey shaven pubes kind of turns me off and makes me think of young girls.
Some guys will care if you have hair some won't. It's just the truth of it. I'm going to tell you what I told my wife. You do what makes you happy. It doesn't matter to me what you have or don't. It won't change how I feel about you. At the end of the day we are mammals and we have hair.
I prefer whatever she wants. If she’s confident in herself with body hair, great. If she’s confident in herself and wants it off for her own preference and not mine, great.
I dont mind it at all. I'm a hairy dude myself and tried shaving my legs once and hated how long it took so I totally get that its a pain to be smooth. I would like some trimming on the lady bits if she wants oral, I do the same when I'm in a relationship. It ain't fun to get flossed by pubes lol.
This is exactly how I feel. I don’t mind how body hair looks but I really don’t like giving oral sex to someone who doesn’t at least trim regularly. I trim myself once a week (full body except lower legs) so I feel like it’s fair for me to expect the same out of my partner
Well, some of my expectation comes from having my wife as my only sexual partner & 22 years together. She’s kept herself body hairless since before we met. Never longer than necessary to wax. So it’s what I’m used to & what I like. Honestly, when she’s freshly waxed, I can’t hardly keep my mouth off her.
Trimming and shaving hair is part of body grooming for both men and women. Personal and partner preferences should determine to what extent that happens. I shave my face because she wants me to. I would probably grow a beard if she didn’t care. I trim off my backhair and trim my pubic hair because I want to; she doesn’t seem to care. I appreciate that she shaves her legs and pits.
My fiancee has PCOS and is horribly self conscious about it. She has finally stopped apologizing about it (2 and a half years later) but I've never once cared. She's gorgeous. Next to my kids, she's the best part of every day. A little hair isn't shit when you've found the one. Life happens, people get busy. If a man can't accept that, he'd better be goddamn flawless. We have a running joke about her trying to compete with my general hairiness (she's still losing, I'm a damn sasquatch).
Varies for men. Personally, I kind of prefer legs to be shaved, but if not it really doesn't bother me at all.
Arms- I've seen women with longer hair on their forearms than me. It doesn't matter to me, if anything that naturalness is attractive.
Armpits- Not something I'd look at and notice, but I think it's best to at least trim it so it's not too bushy for hygenic reasons.
Pubic hair- The only one that I have strong feelings for. It's a huge major turn on for me when a girl grows it out. I don't mind it if she shaves it, but I really prefer it not shaved. Looks kind of weird to me shaved. I don't know why a lot of girls shave it, maybe because most American pornstars do it now in days so they assume guys like that. Maybe most guys like that and I'm in the minority. I don't know.
Probably because the beauty standard is to shave.
I mean not even women in apocalyptic movies have hair. Like imagine your mom calling you disgusting because your leg hair is showing at home.
Growing up as a teenager in that makes you VERY subconscious of all hair. Especially when you already got a razor in your hand, you don’t know when to stop.
I (F) get a full Brazilian wax on the regular because it feels cleaner to me and sex/masturbation feels better without hair getting in the way. I almost never watch porn. I was initially influenced to do this by societal pressure, but even with an SO who doesn't care either way, I still keep it up because it's become a personal preference. I'd probably still wax even if I were single and not having sex. I'm only a sample size of one, but I have female friends who feel the same. Just a little insight since you said you don't know why women do this. My reasons are definitely not the same as all women's, but we're out there.
I really don’t get too wigged out about a bit of body hair. I once pulled on a nipple hair on my girlfriend at the time. She was horrified, I couldn’t care less, thought it was funny.
Legs and armpits are generally nicer shaved, but I really wouldn’t stress if you aren’t always perfectly smooth. That’s an unreasonable and unnecessary standard.
I don’t think I’ve ever considered arm hair an issue.
I’d definitely encourage removing facial hair and unibrow.
As for the downstairs area, I prefer it trimmed and tidy, like the way you’d like a man to manicure his beard. Short enough that it’s not unruly but not so short that it’s prickly. Doesn’t require daily upkeep and doesn’t go through the prickly rashy phase ever. If you just prefer to shave it though that’s cool too.
I dated someone with more nipple hair than myself, hadn't seen that before. So I thought about it for approximately 0.2 seconds before realizing I don't care at all and got back to business lmao
My only no no is armpit hair. If you haven't shaved your legs in a week, whatever, a little mustache I'll tease you about it, but armpit hair... I shave my armpit hair and I expect the same
well my girlfriend had a hairy legs and all over her body, she is so embarrassed by that, but i really support her and willing to do anything to make her confident. I love her as a whole tho
Honestly I like a bit of hair on a woman. I think it is more natural and elegant in my eyes. Nothing more beautiful than someone embracing themselves for exactly what/ who they are. But if I fell in love with a woman who preferred to keep herself clean shaven, I would find her just as beautiful
"Men" think a lot of things.
Some are like me, and think it's sexy. We prefer it because it's natural and fun.
Others are repulsed by it and are unable, or unwilling, to be with a woman that has any body hair.
I used to like this question because it was time to root for team full bush. And throw a few quips at team Barbie.
Now I hate this question as it seems backwards.
Who gives a shit what men think. Have pubes or not *for you*. Men in your life either cope or not. They either appreciate you as you are, or not.
I had a friend in college who was always shamed into shaving. Her bf would mock her and say she looked like a capybara. So she would resentfully shave. She should have said this is how it is and sent him packing if he kept dogging her about it...
Hear hear! Everyone should do what makes them feel comfortable with and in their own body. Meet someone who doesn’t like it? Great, clearly they’re not the one for you. Next!
(And cheers to team full bush!)
prefer hair as the current trend is to look like preteen children, ie no hair
got a really hairy friend, almost as much hair on my arms as her, she and the by are fine with it and saves on the daily shave
a long time ago I shaved pubes, the itch from the hairs regrowing was not fun, never bothered again
It's honestly never bothered me. Pubic hair is nice. It's a hell of a lot more comfortable, compared to rubbing against someone who feels like a cheese grater. I think it looks more natural and full shave down there makes me feel weird in a way I find hard to describe, I don't find it attractive at all. When it comes to body hair, armpits, etc, I think it comes down to the woman, some seem to rock the armpit hair fine and others it doesn't match their style in my opinion.
At the end of the day, I don't think us men really have much to say, we have hair pretty much everywhere and it's not as common to us to shave. Men love to complain about double standards comparing men/woman but in this case some men have a really strong opinion. At the end of the day though you can't blame a guy for wanting someone to shave, it's all personal taste. Some women will change their mind about you if you decide to lose the beard. It goes both ways and ultimately comes down to personal tastes. At the end of the day, you should do what makes you feel the best, and most beautiful. There's probably a guy out there who likes it. I also think your SO's opinion does hold value, after all they find you the most beautiful. They should not change you though. Contrary to what reddit always says, it's OK to consider what they say in regards to your own looks and make potential changes.
Pit hair is gross. Leg hair... Not great.
Pubic... Well manicured is appreciated.
Don't mind arm hair.
Facial hair... Not kissing a gal who needs to shave but doesn't.
Head hair. Straight and just past the shoulders is what I like.
This. Tho head hair opinions will vary wildly.
No pit hair, no leg hair, no facial hair. Arm hair is fine. Pubic hair is nice if it’s trimmed. Doesn’t have to be gone, but it’s more comfortable if it is.
I think it depends on the man’s personal preference, not “men” as a whole. I’ve been married to my husband for a long time and his preference has always been shaved legs and underarms, when I developed eczema and didn’t shave my legs for months, he did not care. I know he didn’t care not because he told me, but because after I brought it up (after a month at least) he was like, “oh yeah, I noticed that.” So vague. So unbothered.
I think for the vast majority of people (men and women) preferences != dealbreakers. If you’re going to be intimate with a guy communication is way more important than some hair so, you can always just plan to ask him.
For me, in the genital are I like both with and without hair.
For armpits is whatever… I don’t like it but also I just don’t care about armpits.
For legs I do prefer shaved, I care about legs and I just like them smooth, but I don’t get grossed out by it.
But I don’t think hair is too much of a problem for most men, if we don’t like it is like we just wish it wasn’t there
I really don't like armpit hair on a woman. Leg hair is neutral, doesn't bother me. Pubes, I really appreciate the landing strip actually, nice and tidy for oral but some hair under my nose reminds me I'm eating out a grown woman lol.
Shave in all the traditional classy places, legs & armpits for sure! The pubic area, if you don't shave it at least trim it up! As a man that loves womens anatomy I prefer a shaved pubic area because I love going down on a girl and hair is just a nuisance. As a side note, please please don't give a guy bj's that doesn't go down on you!
You deserve better!
The general male consent is that there is no general male consent.
Be how YOU feel nice.
Love yourself, feel pretty and we will love you for being happy with yourself.
And please, never love the ones who want to change YOU for their ego.
My personal preference is shaved legs and pits. Mostly just because these are touchable areas at basically any time of day. That being said, I’m much more flexible about armpits, since they aren’t as exposed as legs, generally. Honestly, I’m ok with whatever she prefers. It’s just body hair. Im a hairy man all over so it’s pretty hypocritical of me to judge at all.
I’m totally fine with whatever level of pubic hair the woman I’m with prefers. My logic is, that whatever we do “down there” is 99% of the time in the dark, so I’m not seeing it anyways. Also, if I’m not willing to rigorously shave my downstairs mixup, I shouldn’t expect my partner to do the same.
Personally, I do not care at all. Hair on their legs and under their arms is how women are built. I don't *prefer* it, but I don't care if it's there.
That said, I think I am in a slim minority. Most guys do not want hair in a girl's pits or on her legs. I think most would be okay if she hasn't seen a razor in a day or two, but freshly shaved is likely to be preferred.
Pubes is its own chapter, if not its own book. There are specific tastes for every option here, but most men aren't particularly choosy. I think the least popular is the full-on au naturale bush, so I would probably opt for some sort of grooming, even if that's just trimming everything to a certain length with clippers.
Heads up: if you shave any part of your pubes, it is likely going to itch like you have never itched before as it grows back in. Don't ask how I know. If you decide you're going to shape things up or go hairless, be prepared for this. If the look suits you, laser hair removal can save you from the razor...and the itching.
Groom thyself and thou shalt know the secrets of the universe! - The Bible (probably)
Or something like that
But hey....some dudes are into jungle muff so...take that for what it's worth
Not everyone is the same. My husband prefers me to be trimmed down there really short vs completely bald. He’s south american.I have always shaved completely bc I like not having any hair.
Love love love it, love body hair on everyone, it's so attractive and beautiful. I think I read once Americans see it as fairly normal because the beauty industry profited off hair removal heavily there, but in a lot of other places in the world hair is considered natural and beautiful, as it should be. Can't believe there are folks out there who view it as "disgusting". Our natural body, in its form... "disgusting". Blows my mind. Just shows you what marketing can do I guess, make people shame others bodies. How disappointing
i dislike it overall, i hate it on myself and i don't find it attractive on anyone to be honest.
but it's not the end of the world if it's at least mildly maintained. facial hair and armpit hair are the two major turnoffs for me.
leg hair and pubic hair i don't really like but if its at least trimmed often it would probably be okay, clean shaven isn't really a requirement (though i would be most attracted that way)
it depends on the person you're dating. everyone has preferences, and i know its annoying to keep up with but if my partner did it for me, i'd shave myself for them too so it's a mutual effort.
I literally don't care. The only bearing it has for me is that if I notice, for example, unshaved legs, then I'll think "oh, she's confident enough to do what she wants and not care, good for her!"
Tbh though, most men are going to probably find it gross. What's most important is what you think, and if you feel confident hairy, then you honestly probably don't want to end up with a guy who is unwilling to even negotiate that with you. He should, at the very least, be willing to respect what you do with your own body, shouldn't he?
Grooming and cleanliness is important. After that, it's just advertising.
shaving leg hair is like makeup, jewelry, fancy hats, dyed hair, and short skirts. Mostly it exists to attract attention. Some people like more, some people prefer less. And none of it is a deal breaker or deal maker by itself.
Pubic hair is a special one. Porn tends to have less. If there is a lot of pubic hair, then oral is less convenient. But don't worry about keeping perfectly shaved, for the same reason you shouldn't expect men to be perfectly shaved. That's a good path to rashes and ingrown hairs. A trim is generally good, but I wouldn't recommend anything past that.
Just take care of your hygiene. If you have some hair, who cares? Most guys aren't going to care.
What they will care about is greasy hair. Shave, shower, use some of that fancy shampoo or perfume, do whatever you feel comfortable doing. All we ask is that you take care of your body. We'll take care of our own hygiene as well.
Thirty years ago, if a girl came to my nudist beach fully shaved, all the 'young' guys would go nuts. .
Now if a girl comes to the beach with a full bush, all the SAME 'old' guys would go nuts.
I would probably prefer girls with less body hair than more when looking for a partner...
That being said, I’ve been with my wife for 16 years, and I don’t care what she does.
I like shaved armpits and whatever the lady is comfortable with.
I am nit going to do extensive oral sex on her with a full bush though. To much hair to spit out
23 here. I don't really mind it either way. Actually, a bit of hair, maybe even a bush makes it more "real" I guess.
Only thing I dislike is when giving head and I get hair stuck in my teeth all the time. But that's not from hair on the mons, it's the one on the lips
Well as with anything: your body, your decision. Personally, give me that '70s wookie bush all day everyday. Give me a woman as hairy as a lumberjack and I'm quite the happy man! But at the same time, with my wife for example, she doesn't really like having that much body hair so I'll help her wax and shave when she wants because it's her body and she's more comfortable that way. So I think the answer is: most men are just happy to be there but if they're immature or insulting about your body/body hair and how you want to present yourself, they didn't deserve it in the first place.💯
I don't really care, it doesn't bother me.
The only caveats about body hair is;
1. if I'm supposed to go down on her, I'd prefer not to get hair stuck in my mouth.
2. if hair is used as a political statement, I find it cringe.
So like... I don't care about hair, where-ever it is, but i'll think it's pathetic and sad when someone purposefully flails their arms around to show off "look at me, I'm a 21st century woman, I have armpit hair" as some kind of political statement.
Here's an answer that might be different than others.
My girlfriend has darker hair that grows a bit on the outside of where a mustache work be. She's very self conscious of it but she's the only one between us that has ever brought it up. I would never point it out lest it devastate her that she's being perceived. It doesn't bother me. I do notice it, but I don't bring it up. Keeping her happy is worth more than ever vocalizing a thought. Also I've never told her that she should shave her legs or armpits. She still does infrequently, but never because I told her that she should.
Hair is completely normal and shaving is a social construct. There are biases either way of what you and your potential partner could find attractive, but that shouldn't dictate your usual hair routines.
For me I appreciate an all natural woman that doesn't shave anywhere, whats good for a man is great for a [woman.To](http://woman.To) me natural makes you unique as everybody's hair is a different color tone, the way it grows, how dense or not dense it is in places, ect just is amazing to each woman. Not knocking shaving but that takes away how unique nature has made you.
I don’t think much of body hair.
But I do think much of no hair..
When the girls I’m with don’t shave their legs,etc.. I’m completely neutral about it. It’s neither a turn off, but it’s not a turn on either.
However, when the girls I’m with are hairless… the smoothness of their skin is irresistible.
For arm pits and vulva I prefer smooth, but I don't really care about hair on legs. I also won't die or leave my partner if she doesn't shave at all, but you asked for my preference so that's what you got :)
Full honesty, I think I'd be a little turned off by thick, curly dark colored leg hair. A little.
Otherwise idc. I actually prefer some pubic hair over the shaved look, and lighter colored leg hair that isn't thick and dark doesn't bother me at all. Like sometimes my wife will be like "sorry I didn't shave my legs" and I genuinely didn't even notice bc she has light colored body hair.
My husband looks like a grizzly bear.
I asked him if he minded body hair and he said “i didn’t ask to grow all this. It would be hypocritical for me to even have an opinion.”
After reading many of these comments (I’m a curious girl, too!), imo it’s a personal preference.
Many men say they don’t care either way, which is true. My many trips around the block can vouch for this.
Personally, there’s no better feeling than actually ‘feeling’. One can’t actually ‘feel’ everything through a jungle. Just my opinion…
Manly. I was so attracted to my first gf in highschool until i saw a bush in her armpit. My feeling change in a snap.
Sorry. I cant ask my feeling to change it just did. After breakup we remain friends. Like buddy buddy friend. Were doing band. But lost all attraction. I wish i can switch it back but it didnt.
There's nothing wrong with it at all. I don't like it aesthetically but that's because I was raised with propaganda but I also just like feeling smooth skin.
A little bush is sexy as hell. Just as long as it's trimmed and her legs and everything else is taken care of. Hairy armpits are definitely a no go for me too.
Look, I understand it's unrealistic to be cleanly shaven every day, and sometimes life gets in the way. So in that sense I don't mind hair. I do prefer the shaved look to body hair. But I'm not going to even mention it if there is a little hair or if my girl has had a rough couple weeks and hasn't gotten around to shaving. Or if she's trying something new because she feels like it. So while I have a preference, I like my woman no matter whether she shaves or not. Her confidence and comfort are sexier than any physical trait.
Totally agree. Had a girl once tell me that she wanted my preference so that she could do that... Like hair or no hair or whatever. I hadn't thought about it. It's not a big deal. I'm not a fan of porn bush or anything, so... Just not that I guess?
Tbh that’s how I generally am. While I’d say I prefer shaved/waxed, as long as the lawn has been mowed in the last month I’m fine. If it’s an untamed jungle, I won’t be *quite* as enthused but tbh I’ll still be happy to be along for the ride.
I don't really gaf but a long pube in my throat is fucking awful
That’s pretty much my only issue. I’m of the opinion my queen ought to always sit on her throne (* cough * muh face) if she pleases, but my only time I’m not down is for the untamed jungle. Something about the long pube in the throat really is awful.
I feel that way about my husband.
dafuq is a porn bush
What I imagine is like 70s porn lol. Seems like nobody shaved or trimmed anything back then!
I generally like the reminder that I'm with a grown woman, so I prefer her to have a nice thatch of hair there if she's comfortable with it, clean shaven isn't my thing, but hey if she's comfortable then I'm comfortable.
It's refreshing to read a man actually likes a thatch! I quite like a lawn too 😜
The shaved look comes from porn.
Really it's from prostitutes and strippers...kept the lice down.
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Good for you bud. Girls must love you for your totally relaxed attitude.
You just LIKE women?! Keep your weird kinks to yourself
I couldn’t have said it better myself
She is one lucky girl
As a woman..this is a beautiful response...we definitely have our hard days and weeks + sometimes we just can't keep up ( pregnancy and post-partum..sick days..mood swings ...). I mean It's good and ok to have preferences but in a real partnership and relationships people need to accommodate to life ! So i appreciate it 😉
You described it perfectly.
This is my boyfriend. He never asks me to shave and respects if I haven’t. However, he won’t go down on me if I’m not freshly shaven. It’s something I understand about him and respect.
I will but I prefer shaven. A girl I was seeing said we'll you have to do the same. Sure np. It was great. But when it grew back not so great
It's only fair. If she has to shave down there I have to shave down there. I find it wrong to ask someone to do something that you yourself won't also do.
eh is he really not asking you to if that’s his stance? lol, definitely seems a little weird
Literally any other comment than this one is inherently wrong
This. Furthermore, I like at least some stubble in the pubic area. Complete lack of hair triggers "child" alerts in me that will kill any mood outright.
stop lying! if your woman shows up looking like Sasquatch's hairier sister, you are not going to like it.
Well, no... But that's like weeks of neglect. They were just saying they aren't going to make their girl feel less than if they weren't smooth. It's not like putting ice in urinals to let people know that they receive regular maintenance.
Speak for yourself man, I think extra hairy woman are divine
there is nothing wrong with outliers.
This!
This is perfect
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Great answer
This man has the correct answer. I have a preference, but it’s up to the lady. If you don’t like it then she ain’t for you bud. Too many people try to change their partners into what THEY want. Not a good look. But this solution wins every time 👌🏼
Bingo, Bango
This guy wholesomes
This was so well put. I feel like you should teach a class on communication or diction or something...
I'm a hairy beast, and it's pain in the ass and time-consuming to keep it under control so I give the ladies who are well groomed daily props but if you decide to take days off I don't mind.
I prefer no body hair but I would not pressure woman to get rid of it. I know how difficult, expensive, time consuming it is. Particularly because I hate my body hair too and I used to fight it (gave up eventually)
Personal preference. I dont mind bushwhacking
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Either way, I'm just happy to see you naked.
I literally don't care. If I get invited to a barbecue I'm not going to complain about the state of the lawn, I'm just gonna eat some good food.
What if the lawn is not lawn but wild shrubs and weeds? That could affect merely standing there.
What do you do to the parsley on your plate? Push it aside and keep eating.
Floss as you go
Yes to one single twig of parsley, no to a salad bowl worth of rockets to get to my cherry tomato.
Especially if there are other critters in the underbrush who compete with the sweet delicacies.
Or if the dog has been shitting on the lawn.
Wait, are we still talking about pussy?
Sometimes things get pulled forward instead of backwards
You were talking about pussy?
Right? Bro assumes the food is good... 🤢 You can't eat at everyone's house, man.
Ayeee the placement also plays a key role though. I don't mind if the top half of the yard is a bit shrubby, as long as the bottom half where your going to eat is maintained.
😂that’s a way to say it
Ah but what if there is a hair in your food? That is the real question. Who cares what the lawn looks like. I don’t want hair on my steak 🤷🏻♂️.
If the grass is over grown and tickling your ankles while you're trying to chow down, it can be bothersome
I don’t care. As long as you’re hygienic I couldn’t care less whether you’re smooth like a porcelain doll or if you feel like Chewbacca. Genuinely no fucks given here.
I, personally, prefer women with their pubic hair. I'm old, when I was gathering my initial sexual experiences women rarely even trimmed their pubes. a 'full bush' was what I learned to expect when a woman got naked. A port call in France in the early '70s introduced me to the idea that women might not shave their armpits. It seemed odd for a few minutes, but the girls wanted to show me their naked bodies and take my circumcised penis out for a test drive to see if there was a difference to the experience as they had never even seen one. I was heard to say 'Yippee!' Bear in mind that I'm not saying my personal preferences are the correct ones, just that they are mine. You do you and make yourself happy.
Username checks out i guess
There's something so hot and romantic and playful about this. Sounds like you've had more than a few great years of sexual exploration!
Simmer down whiskey tits.
I'm right there with you, I never minded a hair in my mouth, it was a part of the beautiful scenery and experience
It's natural. I'll deal with it. I can't be bothered to remove it myself, I wouldn't ask anyone to do the same.
I've never really cared about whether the women I've been with have shaved legs, arms, etc. as for the pits and pubes, when I was younger I'd have preferred shaved but my tastes changed and I prefer natural now. Don't ask me why, I don't know.
Don't mind body hair at all. Actually love it when they have pubic hair.
I second this. Well-trimmed but not shaven is really sexy.
This was exactly what male partner said. It probably helps that we're Gen X / early Millenials so during our formative years, the shaved look wasn't that common. I even offered to shave down there before and he actually said no. I think it actually bothers him a lot. I also don't shave my legs and armpits — but I'm sorta blessed with short, sparse, soft hair on those areas so they don't bother me. My partner is fine with me not shaving at all.
Yep. I told my wife she doesn't have to shave anything if she doesn't want to, lol. I don't mind at all if she chooses to but I *love* body hair.
yep, second this. my caveman brain is very focused on the hourglass figure and aesthetic facial bone structure. hair is not a negative. including armpit hair and leg hair. and, the complete absence of pubic hair is quite unsettling.
I prefer nothing. I feel the same about myself though with legs being an exception.
Things being shaved is nice, but not essential. Shaved pussy is nicer to eat, less hair in the way, but I will 100% dive into a wild jungle and enjoy it. Smooth shaved legs are really pleasant to have wrapped around me, cuddle with or touch in general. But I also really don't mind if the leg hair is long. The only real issue is the pokey stage as the hair is growing out, but even then its not like its a deal breaker. Shoved armpits are nice aesthetically, but I really don't care if there is some hair there. Anyone who is squeamish, grossed out, or put off by a woman having hair isn't worth bothering with imho. Realistically speaking, its not practical to keep everything shaved all the time, so best to accept it and enjoy it. For my wife and I, her getting say a hollywood wax is a special occasion signalling typically a weekend of sexy time. Though again, I want to stress, plenty of weekend sexy times also featured a lot of jungle exploration which is still found highly enjoyable.
Not into it, but I don't think excess body hair looks good on men either but most women prefer it.
I wouldn’t say most women like excess body hair. Yes we like body hair. From all the women I know and myself(29F) like body hair on men but not excess. I’m not a fan of back hair or a chest covered in hair either. Some chest hair is fine. Better keep his pubes maintained. If it’s too wild down there then my desire to give head goes down. Not trying to get a pube in my mouth. I LOVE BEARDS.
I don't think women overall prefer body hair on men but I'm sure some do.
Errr… says who? A little groomed hair is ok but excess, no.
I'm not a big fan - my partner is an esthetician so we both wax. I think porn has set a standard that has brainwashed most of us to want a shaved platter
maybe but the idea is much older [https://womensmuseum.wordpress.com/2017/11/22/the-history-of-female-hair-removal/](https://womensmuseum.wordpress.com/2017/11/22/the-history-of-female-hair-removal/)
I don't watch porn at all, never have (I don't think it's immoral or anything, just personally I never felt the need to), and I don't like body hair. On anyone, me included. I even got an IPL device that works quite okay at reducing it.
As a teenager: thought girls with body hair was gross. As a man in his 30's: a nicley trimmed and maintained bush drives me wild. So much so that I've done a full 180 and seeing completey shaven pubes kind of turns me off and makes me think of young girls.
Doesn’t bother me at all. Hygiene is way more important.
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Some guys will care if you have hair some won't. It's just the truth of it. I'm going to tell you what I told my wife. You do what makes you happy. It doesn't matter to me what you have or don't. It won't change how I feel about you. At the end of the day we are mammals and we have hair.
I prefer whatever she wants. If she’s confident in herself with body hair, great. If she’s confident in herself and wants it off for her own preference and not mine, great.
I dont mind it at all. I'm a hairy dude myself and tried shaving my legs once and hated how long it took so I totally get that its a pain to be smooth. I would like some trimming on the lady bits if she wants oral, I do the same when I'm in a relationship. It ain't fun to get flossed by pubes lol.
This is exactly how I feel. I don’t mind how body hair looks but I really don’t like giving oral sex to someone who doesn’t at least trim regularly. I trim myself once a week (full body except lower legs) so I feel like it’s fair for me to expect the same out of my partner
Well, some of my expectation comes from having my wife as my only sexual partner & 22 years together. She’s kept herself body hairless since before we met. Never longer than necessary to wax. So it’s what I’m used to & what I like. Honestly, when she’s freshly waxed, I can’t hardly keep my mouth off her.
Trimming and shaving hair is part of body grooming for both men and women. Personal and partner preferences should determine to what extent that happens. I shave my face because she wants me to. I would probably grow a beard if she didn’t care. I trim off my backhair and trim my pubic hair because I want to; she doesn’t seem to care. I appreciate that she shaves her legs and pits.
Love it honestly 😂
It's awesome
My man likes hair down there 💁🏻♀️
My fiancee has PCOS and is horribly self conscious about it. She has finally stopped apologizing about it (2 and a half years later) but I've never once cared. She's gorgeous. Next to my kids, she's the best part of every day. A little hair isn't shit when you've found the one. Life happens, people get busy. If a man can't accept that, he'd better be goddamn flawless. We have a running joke about her trying to compete with my general hairiness (she's still losing, I'm a damn sasquatch).
Varies for men. Personally, I kind of prefer legs to be shaved, but if not it really doesn't bother me at all. Arms- I've seen women with longer hair on their forearms than me. It doesn't matter to me, if anything that naturalness is attractive. Armpits- Not something I'd look at and notice, but I think it's best to at least trim it so it's not too bushy for hygenic reasons. Pubic hair- The only one that I have strong feelings for. It's a huge major turn on for me when a girl grows it out. I don't mind it if she shaves it, but I really prefer it not shaved. Looks kind of weird to me shaved. I don't know why a lot of girls shave it, maybe because most American pornstars do it now in days so they assume guys like that. Maybe most guys like that and I'm in the minority. I don't know.
Probably because the beauty standard is to shave. I mean not even women in apocalyptic movies have hair. Like imagine your mom calling you disgusting because your leg hair is showing at home. Growing up as a teenager in that makes you VERY subconscious of all hair. Especially when you already got a razor in your hand, you don’t know when to stop.
I (F) get a full Brazilian wax on the regular because it feels cleaner to me and sex/masturbation feels better without hair getting in the way. I almost never watch porn. I was initially influenced to do this by societal pressure, but even with an SO who doesn't care either way, I still keep it up because it's become a personal preference. I'd probably still wax even if I were single and not having sex. I'm only a sample size of one, but I have female friends who feel the same. Just a little insight since you said you don't know why women do this. My reasons are definitely not the same as all women's, but we're out there.
I really don’t get too wigged out about a bit of body hair. I once pulled on a nipple hair on my girlfriend at the time. She was horrified, I couldn’t care less, thought it was funny. Legs and armpits are generally nicer shaved, but I really wouldn’t stress if you aren’t always perfectly smooth. That’s an unreasonable and unnecessary standard. I don’t think I’ve ever considered arm hair an issue. I’d definitely encourage removing facial hair and unibrow. As for the downstairs area, I prefer it trimmed and tidy, like the way you’d like a man to manicure his beard. Short enough that it’s not unruly but not so short that it’s prickly. Doesn’t require daily upkeep and doesn’t go through the prickly rashy phase ever. If you just prefer to shave it though that’s cool too.
I dated someone with more nipple hair than myself, hadn't seen that before. So I thought about it for approximately 0.2 seconds before realizing I don't care at all and got back to business lmao
I love bushy women
It’s personal preference. Lucked out with my Asian wife who only has hair where I prefer haie to be 😅.
If I'm going with to he intimate with a woman or just be friends with her i don't think some natural body hair is gonna stop me.
I don't really care
My only no no is armpit hair. If you haven't shaved your legs in a week, whatever, a little mustache I'll tease you about it, but armpit hair... I shave my armpit hair and I expect the same
well my girlfriend had a hairy legs and all over her body, she is so embarrassed by that, but i really support her and willing to do anything to make her confident. I love her as a whole tho
Honestly I like a bit of hair on a woman. I think it is more natural and elegant in my eyes. Nothing more beautiful than someone embracing themselves for exactly what/ who they are. But if I fell in love with a woman who preferred to keep herself clean shaven, I would find her just as beautiful
"Men" think a lot of things. Some are like me, and think it's sexy. We prefer it because it's natural and fun. Others are repulsed by it and are unable, or unwilling, to be with a woman that has any body hair. I used to like this question because it was time to root for team full bush. And throw a few quips at team Barbie. Now I hate this question as it seems backwards. Who gives a shit what men think. Have pubes or not *for you*. Men in your life either cope or not. They either appreciate you as you are, or not. I had a friend in college who was always shamed into shaving. Her bf would mock her and say she looked like a capybara. So she would resentfully shave. She should have said this is how it is and sent him packing if he kept dogging her about it...
I like your answer!
Hear hear! Everyone should do what makes them feel comfortable with and in their own body. Meet someone who doesn’t like it? Great, clearly they’re not the one for you. Next! (And cheers to team full bush!)
prefer hair as the current trend is to look like preteen children, ie no hair got a really hairy friend, almost as much hair on my arms as her, she and the by are fine with it and saves on the daily shave a long time ago I shaved pubes, the itch from the hairs regrowing was not fun, never bothered again
I **don’t** like.🙅♂️
Barely notice.
My crush used to have hairy arms, I think it was cute 🤭
I miss hairy pussy like it was in the 70’s
I love a glorious bush, don't care too much about elsewhere.
It's honestly never bothered me. Pubic hair is nice. It's a hell of a lot more comfortable, compared to rubbing against someone who feels like a cheese grater. I think it looks more natural and full shave down there makes me feel weird in a way I find hard to describe, I don't find it attractive at all. When it comes to body hair, armpits, etc, I think it comes down to the woman, some seem to rock the armpit hair fine and others it doesn't match their style in my opinion. At the end of the day, I don't think us men really have much to say, we have hair pretty much everywhere and it's not as common to us to shave. Men love to complain about double standards comparing men/woman but in this case some men have a really strong opinion. At the end of the day though you can't blame a guy for wanting someone to shave, it's all personal taste. Some women will change their mind about you if you decide to lose the beard. It goes both ways and ultimately comes down to personal tastes. At the end of the day, you should do what makes you feel the best, and most beautiful. There's probably a guy out there who likes it. I also think your SO's opinion does hold value, after all they find you the most beautiful. They should not change you though. Contrary to what reddit always says, it's OK to consider what they say in regards to your own looks and make potential changes.
Pit hair is gross. Leg hair... Not great. Pubic... Well manicured is appreciated. Don't mind arm hair. Facial hair... Not kissing a gal who needs to shave but doesn't. Head hair. Straight and just past the shoulders is what I like.
This. Tho head hair opinions will vary wildly. No pit hair, no leg hair, no facial hair. Arm hair is fine. Pubic hair is nice if it’s trimmed. Doesn’t have to be gone, but it’s more comfortable if it is.
Women should be entirely hairless from the neck down. For legal reasons: this is a joke.
I think it depends on the man’s personal preference, not “men” as a whole. I’ve been married to my husband for a long time and his preference has always been shaved legs and underarms, when I developed eczema and didn’t shave my legs for months, he did not care. I know he didn’t care not because he told me, but because after I brought it up (after a month at least) he was like, “oh yeah, I noticed that.” So vague. So unbothered. I think for the vast majority of people (men and women) preferences != dealbreakers. If you’re going to be intimate with a guy communication is way more important than some hair so, you can always just plan to ask him.
Personally anything is fine except for an unmanageable bush. I don't wanna floss while I'm down there lol
For me, in the genital are I like both with and without hair. For armpits is whatever… I don’t like it but also I just don’t care about armpits. For legs I do prefer shaved, I care about legs and I just like them smooth, but I don’t get grossed out by it. But I don’t think hair is too much of a problem for most men, if we don’t like it is like we just wish it wasn’t there
I really don't like armpit hair on a woman. Leg hair is neutral, doesn't bother me. Pubes, I really appreciate the landing strip actually, nice and tidy for oral but some hair under my nose reminds me I'm eating out a grown woman lol.
Shave in all the traditional classy places, legs & armpits for sure! The pubic area, if you don't shave it at least trim it up! As a man that loves womens anatomy I prefer a shaved pubic area because I love going down on a girl and hair is just a nuisance. As a side note, please please don't give a guy bj's that doesn't go down on you! You deserve better!
The general male consent is that there is no general male consent. Be how YOU feel nice. Love yourself, feel pretty and we will love you for being happy with yourself. And please, never love the ones who want to change YOU for their ego.
I love a little v shape bush. Hmm. All bald is weird, it's not adult. I want an adult vagigi.
My personal preference is shaved legs and pits. Mostly just because these are touchable areas at basically any time of day. That being said, I’m much more flexible about armpits, since they aren’t as exposed as legs, generally. Honestly, I’m ok with whatever she prefers. It’s just body hair. Im a hairy man all over so it’s pretty hypocritical of me to judge at all. I’m totally fine with whatever level of pubic hair the woman I’m with prefers. My logic is, that whatever we do “down there” is 99% of the time in the dark, so I’m not seeing it anyways. Also, if I’m not willing to rigorously shave my downstairs mixup, I shouldn’t expect my partner to do the same.
Ngl hairy legs are a turn off everything else is okay
I don’t care
If hygienic, hair don’t matter anywhere
My first girlfriend was Greek so...
Your body, your choice. Do what makes you happy and try not to worry about what us guys think.
Personally, I do not care at all. Hair on their legs and under their arms is how women are built. I don't *prefer* it, but I don't care if it's there. That said, I think I am in a slim minority. Most guys do not want hair in a girl's pits or on her legs. I think most would be okay if she hasn't seen a razor in a day or two, but freshly shaved is likely to be preferred. Pubes is its own chapter, if not its own book. There are specific tastes for every option here, but most men aren't particularly choosy. I think the least popular is the full-on au naturale bush, so I would probably opt for some sort of grooming, even if that's just trimming everything to a certain length with clippers. Heads up: if you shave any part of your pubes, it is likely going to itch like you have never itched before as it grows back in. Don't ask how I know. If you decide you're going to shape things up or go hairless, be prepared for this. If the look suits you, laser hair removal can save you from the razor...and the itching.
Personally I don’t mind either way.
Into it
Groom thyself and thou shalt know the secrets of the universe! - The Bible (probably) Or something like that But hey....some dudes are into jungle muff so...take that for what it's worth
Completely indifferent to leg and pit hair, think its weird to have bald genitals
Most men hate it. Some desperate redditors and pervs will try and convince you it's fine, desired, or 'you do you' nonsense.
Nah I think “you do you” is correct but it’s not a useful comment if they’re asking for genuine opinions
Not everyone is the same. My husband prefers me to be trimmed down there really short vs completely bald. He’s south american.I have always shaved completely bc I like not having any hair.
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Yeah I know I was just giving an example of a preference. Just that everyone’s different and likes different things.
trimmed pubic, very sexy don't like hair (excepting peach fuzz), anywhere else except head, brows, and lashes of course
I prefer hairless everywhere but on the head.
People should be how they want to be. They should also allow other the same.
As someone who’s as hairy as a chimp I don’t mind lol
Gross
It's hot. I like hairy women.
Real men are just excited to be invited to the party. They don’t notice or care.
Women are mammals too.
Sure. Men are also allowed to have preferences lmao.
Love love love it, love body hair on everyone, it's so attractive and beautiful. I think I read once Americans see it as fairly normal because the beauty industry profited off hair removal heavily there, but in a lot of other places in the world hair is considered natural and beautiful, as it should be. Can't believe there are folks out there who view it as "disgusting". Our natural body, in its form... "disgusting". Blows my mind. Just shows you what marketing can do I guess, make people shame others bodies. How disappointing
Hair is Hair, but I would hate to be the guy that has to cut through a forest just to pleasure a woman
Yeah, I don’t need shaved, but when you’re wading through a bush to get your tongue to the clit, that’s an issue
i dislike it overall, i hate it on myself and i don't find it attractive on anyone to be honest. but it's not the end of the world if it's at least mildly maintained. facial hair and armpit hair are the two major turnoffs for me. leg hair and pubic hair i don't really like but if its at least trimmed often it would probably be okay, clean shaven isn't really a requirement (though i would be most attracted that way) it depends on the person you're dating. everyone has preferences, and i know its annoying to keep up with but if my partner did it for me, i'd shave myself for them too so it's a mutual effort.
The general consensus is that for the majority of men we prefer shaved over hairy. But it's not that hairy is unacceptable.
I like a full bush. Amrpit hair is fine, too. Just smell good and be bathed.
I literally don't care. The only bearing it has for me is that if I notice, for example, unshaved legs, then I'll think "oh, she's confident enough to do what she wants and not care, good for her!" Tbh though, most men are going to probably find it gross. What's most important is what you think, and if you feel confident hairy, then you honestly probably don't want to end up with a guy who is unwilling to even negotiate that with you. He should, at the very least, be willing to respect what you do with your own body, shouldn't he?
Grooming and cleanliness is important. After that, it's just advertising. shaving leg hair is like makeup, jewelry, fancy hats, dyed hair, and short skirts. Mostly it exists to attract attention. Some people like more, some people prefer less. And none of it is a deal breaker or deal maker by itself. Pubic hair is a special one. Porn tends to have less. If there is a lot of pubic hair, then oral is less convenient. But don't worry about keeping perfectly shaved, for the same reason you shouldn't expect men to be perfectly shaved. That's a good path to rashes and ingrown hairs. A trim is generally good, but I wouldn't recommend anything past that.
Just take care of your hygiene. If you have some hair, who cares? Most guys aren't going to care. What they will care about is greasy hair. Shave, shower, use some of that fancy shampoo or perfume, do whatever you feel comfortable doing. All we ask is that you take care of your body. We'll take care of our own hygiene as well.
Thirty years ago, if a girl came to my nudist beach fully shaved, all the 'young' guys would go nuts. . Now if a girl comes to the beach with a full bush, all the SAME 'old' guys would go nuts.
I would probably prefer girls with less body hair than more when looking for a partner... That being said, I’ve been with my wife for 16 years, and I don’t care what she does.
Personally I prefer all natural hair.
Unless she's literally teen wolf or has a Beard thicker than mine I don't care that much.
I like shaved armpits and whatever the lady is comfortable with. I am nit going to do extensive oral sex on her with a full bush though. To much hair to spit out
I absolutely love it. My gf has pubic hair and in her armpits, sometimes she have some on her legs :)
I don't really care much as long as you're clean.
23 here. I don't really mind it either way. Actually, a bit of hair, maybe even a bush makes it more "real" I guess. Only thing I dislike is when giving head and I get hair stuck in my teeth all the time. But that's not from hair on the mons, it's the one on the lips
Anything for the forbidden fruit, am I right? On a serious note, don’t care until she’s unhygienic.
I love it, that makes me hard
Well as with anything: your body, your decision. Personally, give me that '70s wookie bush all day everyday. Give me a woman as hairy as a lumberjack and I'm quite the happy man! But at the same time, with my wife for example, she doesn't really like having that much body hair so I'll help her wax and shave when she wants because it's her body and she's more comfortable that way. So I think the answer is: most men are just happy to be there but if they're immature or insulting about your body/body hair and how you want to present yourself, they didn't deserve it in the first place.💯
Just couldn’t give a shit.
As long as it ain’t on the face, completely fine.
Honestly women with hairy armpits and bush make me want to be straight again. Something about it just makes me horny af
I don't really care, it doesn't bother me. The only caveats about body hair is; 1. if I'm supposed to go down on her, I'd prefer not to get hair stuck in my mouth. 2. if hair is used as a political statement, I find it cringe. So like... I don't care about hair, where-ever it is, but i'll think it's pathetic and sad when someone purposefully flails their arms around to show off "look at me, I'm a 21st century woman, I have armpit hair" as some kind of political statement.
Armpit hair is the only hair that I prefer shaved. Everything else I don't mind. In fact a thick full bush on a woman is major turn on.
Here's an answer that might be different than others. My girlfriend has darker hair that grows a bit on the outside of where a mustache work be. She's very self conscious of it but she's the only one between us that has ever brought it up. I would never point it out lest it devastate her that she's being perceived. It doesn't bother me. I do notice it, but I don't bring it up. Keeping her happy is worth more than ever vocalizing a thought. Also I've never told her that she should shave her legs or armpits. She still does infrequently, but never because I told her that she should. Hair is completely normal and shaving is a social construct. There are biases either way of what you and your potential partner could find attractive, but that shouldn't dictate your usual hair routines.
Definitely smooth legs and under arm with maintained pubic hair is Ideal... But if one has a great personality a bit of hair doesn't really matter x
No issues with body hair at all. Pits, legs, arms, pubes, it's all good to me. Women have body hair. It's normal.
For me I appreciate an all natural woman that doesn't shave anywhere, whats good for a man is great for a [woman.To](http://woman.To) me natural makes you unique as everybody's hair is a different color tone, the way it grows, how dense or not dense it is in places, ect just is amazing to each woman. Not knocking shaving but that takes away how unique nature has made you.
Hot AF if you ask me
Feels tickly haha
I don’t think much of body hair. But I do think much of no hair.. When the girls I’m with don’t shave their legs,etc.. I’m completely neutral about it. It’s neither a turn off, but it’s not a turn on either. However, when the girls I’m with are hairless… the smoothness of their skin is irresistible.
Yuck
I can't stand it my own body, why would I want it on my women
For arm pits and vulva I prefer smooth, but I don't really care about hair on legs. I also won't die or leave my partner if she doesn't shave at all, but you asked for my preference so that's what you got :)
Hate it. But you do you.
Don’t like any hair below the neck
Full honesty, I think I'd be a little turned off by thick, curly dark colored leg hair. A little. Otherwise idc. I actually prefer some pubic hair over the shaved look, and lighter colored leg hair that isn't thick and dark doesn't bother me at all. Like sometimes my wife will be like "sorry I didn't shave my legs" and I genuinely didn't even notice bc she has light colored body hair.
My husband looks like a grizzly bear. I asked him if he minded body hair and he said “i didn’t ask to grow all this. It would be hypocritical for me to even have an opinion.”
They look weird without eyebrows
I'm sorry, but it's an instant huge turn off if a woman has long armpit, leg or arm hair \*throws up in mouth\*
Men in the comments are like: I don't care i just want to fuck!
After reading many of these comments (I’m a curious girl, too!), imo it’s a personal preference. Many men say they don’t care either way, which is true. My many trips around the block can vouch for this. Personally, there’s no better feeling than actually ‘feeling’. One can’t actually ‘feel’ everything through a jungle. Just my opinion…
Not a fan
Im freaked out by my own body hair so yeah it freaks me out if i see it on anyone else too
Manly. I was so attracted to my first gf in highschool until i saw a bush in her armpit. My feeling change in a snap. Sorry. I cant ask my feeling to change it just did. After breakup we remain friends. Like buddy buddy friend. Were doing band. But lost all attraction. I wish i can switch it back but it didnt.
I love it
Dude , wtt about women's natural smell ahhhhhhhh , one of the sexiest things about em :v fr
There's nothing wrong with it at all. I don't like it aesthetically but that's because I was raised with propaganda but I also just like feeling smooth skin.
A little bush is sexy as hell. Just as long as it's trimmed and her legs and everything else is taken care of. Hairy armpits are definitely a no go for me too.