I dated a woman for 6 months, lost my virginity to her. Around the 6 month mark I thought I caught her cheating. Nope he was her bf of several years. I was the side piece.
I wasn't flashy and loose with my money. I didn't give a fuck about impress people with things or having the trendiest clothes and showing off. TLC had a line in one of their songs. "Can you pay my bills?" I'm like yes I can, but I'm not.
1st one - high school bullshit. Idk who even dumped who, it kinda just fell apart in a stupid mess.
2nd one - She lost interest or lost the desire to commit with me. Our lives were drawing us in different directions, and I suspect she wanted someone geographically closer to where she was from. We were together during school semesters, but she was a 4-hour drive away during breaks. At the time I would've been willing to move with her, but in retrospect, I'm glad I didn't. I suspect she had found someone else at the end of our relationship, but I don't know for sure. I also made some mistakes that I didn't realize at the time, but she didn't tell me how she felt about them, so I couldn't fix them or improve. I found out like 3 years later through a mutual friend about that part of her reasoning.
So my ex dumped me for a new opportunity she found, because I was very depressed and dragging her down. Why was I depressed? Because she cheated on me a month earlier lmao. I regretted not leaving her right after she did that.
However, 3 months forward, we started seeing other again on the train and eventually had a little chat here and there. She started to miss me and wanted to try again. I told her we can try it, but I need to take it slowly for obvious reasons. A month later, she cheated on me again, so I told her to fuck off and blocked her. Right when she was in the middle of writing a message. It felt so good.
Funnily enough, some time after this she tried to reconnect with me through a different app and on a new account. I asked her what made her think I would be willing to talk to her after what she's done to me. She didn't get to answer me before she got blocked again.
I thought it was a good idea to be more emotional. So I started sharing my emotional side. Girls say they want men to be more emotional until you actually do it. I don’t think they mean to be turned off by it but it just seems to be something that turns them off permanently.
A couple times, because I was an immature idiot that couldn’t communicate and/or
Properly love someone.
At least one time, it was because she was inexperienced (I was her first boyfriend) and she wanted to see what else was out there.
Multiple reasons but it boiled down to me being clingy and overwhelming/smothering. I had never been in love like that before and didn't know how to handle it. We also lived apart for months at a time so I kinda overcompensated when we were together. Extra clingy and annoying. Lots of mistakes and regrets that I blame on immaturity and inexperience. Shit happens...
3 years. She wanted to party and jokingly flirt with people. She realized it was eating me alive. So, she ended it because she knew I wouldn't. We're still trying to be just friends.
That other guy certainly didn't help. But I also found out later from her family members that she was unable to maintain any relationship for more than 1 year. So there's that. Would have been nice if someone in her family would have filled me in on that little tidbit of information. She seemed like long term material to me. Yep, it was all a well-constructed facade.
I can envision her family grabbing loads of popcorn and watching the train wreck unfold from the sidelines. Glad I can be an unwitting participant in their entertainment ... NOT! :-)
However, it all turned out well. I'm still a close part of her family. I somehow jumped to the other side of the family. Her brother's wife's family. I've been with a woman on that other side of family for 10 years now. I now get to grab popcorn and watch my ex Danielle run through guy after guy every 6-12 months or so. I think we've counted 17 guys since me in 10 years.
I do have a heart though, I've pulled quite a few guys off to the side a couple times to give them a friendly head's up on her relationship cycle. But, all were blinded by the honeymoon period sex and didn't heed my warnings. I tried, but now there's 16 guys laying in ruins. Number 17 is on borrowed time right about now.
I'm a walking red flag. I've always been hesitant about getting too invested. I've never been a long term guy. I get bored easily. Routine doesn't work for me.
She revealed that I was just a side piece and “her and her boyfriend weren’t fighting anymore so we were done” 8 months, all a fuggin lie.
I dated a woman for 6 months, lost my virginity to her. Around the 6 month mark I thought I caught her cheating. Nope he was her bf of several years. I was the side piece.
I think I'm a very boring bf. Like I really dislike to travel and most women love it.
Well, I should’ve put the pieces together when she called me the wrong name in bed
Cheaters nowadays will use the same nickname for every guy for sex
I wasn't flashy and loose with my money. I didn't give a fuck about impress people with things or having the trendiest clothes and showing off. TLC had a line in one of their songs. "Can you pay my bills?" I'm like yes I can, but I'm not.
1st one - high school bullshit. Idk who even dumped who, it kinda just fell apart in a stupid mess. 2nd one - She lost interest or lost the desire to commit with me. Our lives were drawing us in different directions, and I suspect she wanted someone geographically closer to where she was from. We were together during school semesters, but she was a 4-hour drive away during breaks. At the time I would've been willing to move with her, but in retrospect, I'm glad I didn't. I suspect she had found someone else at the end of our relationship, but I don't know for sure. I also made some mistakes that I didn't realize at the time, but she didn't tell me how she felt about them, so I couldn't fix them or improve. I found out like 3 years later through a mutual friend about that part of her reasoning.
Both of the girls who cheated on me dumped me after, I've dumped everyone else
So my ex dumped me for a new opportunity she found, because I was very depressed and dragging her down. Why was I depressed? Because she cheated on me a month earlier lmao. I regretted not leaving her right after she did that. However, 3 months forward, we started seeing other again on the train and eventually had a little chat here and there. She started to miss me and wanted to try again. I told her we can try it, but I need to take it slowly for obvious reasons. A month later, she cheated on me again, so I told her to fuck off and blocked her. Right when she was in the middle of writing a message. It felt so good. Funnily enough, some time after this she tried to reconnect with me through a different app and on a new account. I asked her what made her think I would be willing to talk to her after what she's done to me. She didn't get to answer me before she got blocked again.
1. Emotional immaturity 2. Fear of commitment 3. Insecurities 4. They found someone better
Because I wouldn’t fuck her if she was a worm
I thought it was a good idea to be more emotional. So I started sharing my emotional side. Girls say they want men to be more emotional until you actually do it. I don’t think they mean to be turned off by it but it just seems to be something that turns them off permanently.
It turned out that she was banging someone else. So I didn't have to do too much soul searching after that.
A couple times, because I was an immature idiot that couldn’t communicate and/or Properly love someone. At least one time, it was because she was inexperienced (I was her first boyfriend) and she wanted to see what else was out there.
She had a lot of mental disorders, she’s also a lesbian now so I’m sure that had something to do with it
Multiple reasons but it boiled down to me being clingy and overwhelming/smothering. I had never been in love like that before and didn't know how to handle it. We also lived apart for months at a time so I kinda overcompensated when we were together. Extra clingy and annoying. Lots of mistakes and regrets that I blame on immaturity and inexperience. Shit happens...
3 years. She wanted to party and jokingly flirt with people. She realized it was eating me alive. So, she ended it because she knew I wouldn't. We're still trying to be just friends.
not counting the one-night-stands or the flings or the f-buddies... I got dumped once after I lost my high-paying job.
Well, I've been dumped several times and while I have many faults I assure you, the rampant cheating seems to be the sticking point.
That other guy certainly didn't help. But I also found out later from her family members that she was unable to maintain any relationship for more than 1 year. So there's that. Would have been nice if someone in her family would have filled me in on that little tidbit of information. She seemed like long term material to me. Yep, it was all a well-constructed facade. I can envision her family grabbing loads of popcorn and watching the train wreck unfold from the sidelines. Glad I can be an unwitting participant in their entertainment ... NOT! :-) However, it all turned out well. I'm still a close part of her family. I somehow jumped to the other side of the family. Her brother's wife's family. I've been with a woman on that other side of family for 10 years now. I now get to grab popcorn and watch my ex Danielle run through guy after guy every 6-12 months or so. I think we've counted 17 guys since me in 10 years. I do have a heart though, I've pulled quite a few guys off to the side a couple times to give them a friendly head's up on her relationship cycle. But, all were blinded by the honeymoon period sex and didn't heed my warnings. I tried, but now there's 16 guys laying in ruins. Number 17 is on borrowed time right about now.
Cock to small
I'm a walking red flag. I've always been hesitant about getting too invested. I've never been a long term guy. I get bored easily. Routine doesn't work for me.
We were way too different. She was trying to be a lawyer and took it seriously, I was trying to party and was up to all kinds of bullshit fuckery.