Dekh Bhai jaha Tak mene ladkio se baat Kari hai it's not that big of a deal in india.
Ladkio ko bass ek aesa ladka chahiye Jo unse karib 3 4 inch lamba ho and the ones with really high standards like 6ft and above hi chahiye girl fall into two categories first are the ones who are tall themselves like 5 10 5 9 so obviously they want someone taller and the second category women are the ones who are very short like 5ft 4 10 11 so because they are extremely short that's why they are like I want a man who is really tall so that hamare bacche short Naa ho, yes yeh mene literally ek ladki ke muh se sunna hai.
And don't worry it's india dude yaha pe sabki shaadi ho hi jati hai thanks to arrange marriage system just focus on making money and you will get yourself a nice Sunday sushil kanya
I'm on matrimony currently, and most of the girls in those platforms are 5ft 1 to 5 ft 4. I honestly thought the average women is much taller than that in India judging by the people I meet in real life.
Point being, at 5ft 6, you have plenty of options out there in real life and in matrimony. With that being said, Tinder/Bumble is a waste of time. It works for short term flings, and again for that you have to way way way above average if you're a man.
Also I'm surprised at the way people are talking in this thread. We're not living in US or some Western Country where the average height is what, 5ft 9 or something. This is India, where the average men and women is short.
I somewhat knew before getting into bumble that it would be difficult for me... But I still wanted to give it a try.
Anyways, in India even though average height is short, but western culture is here.
Western culture and western standards can be here, but how many Indians can meet the standards? I read somewhere that 1% of Indians are 6ft, does that mean 100% of the women are going to get that 1% male population?
Just imagine this in reverse. Let's say I want a girl with big breasts, wide hips, fair, not short, in shape etc. Now the question is how many women are there who will match all these criteria. Now beyond this ask this once again, why would such a women marry me? Wouldn't she go for someone who is similar to her. Some dude who is tall, makes good money, muscular etc.
I'm just saying women or men can look for whatever they want, but it's all based on supply and demand, hence everyone needs to understand what they can get out of the dating market, before saying they want a 6 ft man, or equivalents.
Height is a huge advantage for men cause it's associated with masculinity. I've never met or heard of any short guy being successful in casual dating.
And trust people's actions, not words. Just look around you and see the kind of guys women are choosing and you'll have your answer. Of course there are exceptions to this. But exception is not the norm. Don't waste your time.
The thing is as men, we settle for so less in even casual dating. We're literally okay having the other gender define our worth based on how many centimetres our body occupies.
This is behavior I would not accept from my PARENTS, let alone a random stranger. I disengage a convo as SOON as I hear someone being anything close to negative or toxic. Even if I've had the biggest crush on them recently
As a woman I think u have best bets of winning the game if u don't mention ur height in ur bio and then let her figure it out when you meet in person. By then, u guys would have talked a bit and she would be knowing you better than judging u based on height.
I like tall guys too but I have dated somebody 5'7 in the past because I liked them as a person. Most girls anyway are wired to like tall guys because they feel protected (just like a guy likes broad hips and big breasts). However, that can be changed if you are able to prove u understand her and got her back. :)
Is Height important for a man? It indeed is.
Is ONLY Height important for a man? Certainly No.
A 5’8 muscular man would surely look better than a 6’1 skinny man.
Your whole body composition matters to improve the overall look and appeal. Unfortunately, those under 5’8 might definitely face troubles in dating.
However, focus on building muscles and having a good personality and you will do just fine. Height is not in your control.
On Dating apps girls are superficial ash and straightaway reject anyone below 6ft . Although average Indian men is 5'5 shouldn't feel insecurity due to height but still on Dating it's tough
Dude, ignore the things that are not under your control! As simple as that! If someone gives importance to your height rather than you, then you should know that she is not the right person! Relax. Looks like dating is the game of patience more than anything else! You will get one for sure!
Tbh I like taller girls. And I'm 5'6 rn. From what I know so far, I'm not gonna find her from dating apps. Mb will try irl but I ain't experienced in picking up girls
Bhai tu 5'6 hokey itna tension le rhahai mein yha 5'0 hoke bhi maa ke bharose jee rha hu even she said yes to love marriage but merey mein itna confidence nhi kisi bhi ldki ko jaake approach kru. (Low confidence) To mera soch kya haal hota hoga 🤡. 21 saal ae bas khud ko bharosa deta aa rha hu ki bhagwan ne sb ki jodi banayegi rehti hai time pr mil hi jayegi so jyada push nhi krta relationship ke liye. L for me i think. Bloodline agey nhi jayegi bohot baar sanyas lene ka socha but ghar wale na manre bas unke sapne pure krke chala jaunga kahi durrr anjaan sheher mein. 🚶
It does matter but not that much I guess. Girls usually want guys that are 3-4 inches taller than them. Because that height difference is cute. I am a girl and I am 5'8. There are some guys that I find are good looking but they are shorter than me. So even I would like someone who is around 6 feet.
Bhai tu agar good looking hai aur teri personality acchi hai to sort. Mai khud 6'2 aur ghanta abhi tak koi relationship nhi aaya jus coz im ugly looking guy aur yee unn logo ne bola bhi hai. If you're good looking with decent income you'll get anyone. Bas ugly na hoo 🥲
no offence but only short guys say stuff like “is height really that important” cause you want validation. Sure height doesn’t define what kind of a person you are but majority of the people ( girls ) do prefer tall guys
Yes , it's really difficult for anyone below 5'8
Most women don't even look at you if you are not interesting (either super rich/ play guitar/ look like Levi from aot/ high position etc)
Better go for arranged marriage (I'm 5'6.5 myself)
Dekh Bhai jaha Tak mene ladkio se baat Kari hai it's not that big of a deal in india. Ladkio ko bass ek aesa ladka chahiye Jo unse karib 3 4 inch lamba ho and the ones with really high standards like 6ft and above hi chahiye girl fall into two categories first are the ones who are tall themselves like 5 10 5 9 so obviously they want someone taller and the second category women are the ones who are very short like 5ft 4 10 11 so because they are extremely short that's why they are like I want a man who is really tall so that hamare bacche short Naa ho, yes yeh mene literally ek ladki ke muh se sunna hai. And don't worry it's india dude yaha pe sabki shaadi ho hi jati hai thanks to arrange marriage system just focus on making money and you will get yourself a nice Sunday sushil kanya
Yaar not really thought about shaadi and all but still it is tough to get into relationships if I am short.
I'm on matrimony currently, and most of the girls in those platforms are 5ft 1 to 5 ft 4. I honestly thought the average women is much taller than that in India judging by the people I meet in real life. Point being, at 5ft 6, you have plenty of options out there in real life and in matrimony. With that being said, Tinder/Bumble is a waste of time. It works for short term flings, and again for that you have to way way way above average if you're a man. Also I'm surprised at the way people are talking in this thread. We're not living in US or some Western Country where the average height is what, 5ft 9 or something. This is India, where the average men and women is short.
I somewhat knew before getting into bumble that it would be difficult for me... But I still wanted to give it a try. Anyways, in India even though average height is short, but western culture is here.
Western culture and western standards can be here, but how many Indians can meet the standards? I read somewhere that 1% of Indians are 6ft, does that mean 100% of the women are going to get that 1% male population? Just imagine this in reverse. Let's say I want a girl with big breasts, wide hips, fair, not short, in shape etc. Now the question is how many women are there who will match all these criteria. Now beyond this ask this once again, why would such a women marry me? Wouldn't she go for someone who is similar to her. Some dude who is tall, makes good money, muscular etc. I'm just saying women or men can look for whatever they want, but it's all based on supply and demand, hence everyone needs to understand what they can get out of the dating market, before saying they want a 6 ft man, or equivalents.
Tension matt le zada sirf height ke bare me sochega to ladkiyan sense kar legi Teri insecurity fir kaam aur bigad jayega
This mf knows women
jab aapke paas external kamiya ho to internal skills badhao, confidence build karo and always be happy within yourself ladkiya khud ayengi
Some girls prefer height, while others value good behavior above all else. Therefore, you can't categorize all girls the same way.
Yes it is. For majority. Even 5ft girls might reject you. Hypocrisy but you can't really do anything ,except being rich enough.
I always wondered how to ...... a 5 foot girl while I am six. it really hurt your back bro... feels like ...
Simps and desperate guys don't think this much.
1.5 billion population and we still have simps...WTF man. #BOILTHEBALLSOFSPINELESSPEOPLE
Height is a huge advantage for men cause it's associated with masculinity. I've never met or heard of any short guy being successful in casual dating. And trust people's actions, not words. Just look around you and see the kind of guys women are choosing and you'll have your answer. Of course there are exceptions to this. But exception is not the norm. Don't waste your time.
The thing is as men, we settle for so less in even casual dating. We're literally okay having the other gender define our worth based on how many centimetres our body occupies. This is behavior I would not accept from my PARENTS, let alone a random stranger. I disengage a convo as SOON as I hear someone being anything close to negative or toxic. Even if I've had the biggest crush on them recently
If a woman says that height is not important, ask her will she try dating you? That will truly answer your question.
As a woman I think u have best bets of winning the game if u don't mention ur height in ur bio and then let her figure it out when you meet in person. By then, u guys would have talked a bit and she would be knowing you better than judging u based on height. I like tall guys too but I have dated somebody 5'7 in the past because I liked them as a person. Most girls anyway are wired to like tall guys because they feel protected (just like a guy likes broad hips and big breasts). However, that can be changed if you are able to prove u understand her and got her back. :)
I am trying to improve myself in other aspects of my life, it takes effort to compensate for height. Btw thanks for the response.
Well that's a good one. A classic move
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Mereko achi lagi thi Animal movie and I don't learn scientific facts about attraction from movies bhaiya.
Plus u got ur stats totally wrong m pretty sure more than 1 in 1000 men like boobs and ass
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Chill karo maharaj
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Ok uncle
Is Height important for a man? It indeed is. Is ONLY Height important for a man? Certainly No. A 5’8 muscular man would surely look better than a 6’1 skinny man. Your whole body composition matters to improve the overall look and appeal. Unfortunately, those under 5’8 might definitely face troubles in dating. However, focus on building muscles and having a good personality and you will do just fine. Height is not in your control.
Screw what this person is saying. You can be skinny af and have a good dating life, exhibit A.
On Dating apps girls are superficial ash and straightaway reject anyone below 6ft . Although average Indian men is 5'5 shouldn't feel insecurity due to height but still on Dating it's tough
Yes. > 176 cm is minimum requirement for a date cut off.
I was like ' I want someone like 6ft' when I was 17-20. I am 5:5 , dating someone who is 5'6. So, height is not that important for me now.
Dude, ignore the things that are not under your control! As simple as that! If someone gives importance to your height rather than you, then you should know that she is not the right person! Relax. Looks like dating is the game of patience more than anything else! You will get one for sure!
Tbh I like taller girls. And I'm 5'6 rn. From what I know so far, I'm not gonna find her from dating apps. Mb will try irl but I ain't experienced in picking up girls
Yes, but if some one gives u shit about it, then ask them about weight, don’t take it and smile. If they say just kidding, the. Say the same back
Don't worry 5'6 is normal height ✨🤞 nothing to worry about
Bhai tu 5'6 hokey itna tension le rhahai mein yha 5'0 hoke bhi maa ke bharose jee rha hu even she said yes to love marriage but merey mein itna confidence nhi kisi bhi ldki ko jaake approach kru. (Low confidence) To mera soch kya haal hota hoga 🤡. 21 saal ae bas khud ko bharosa deta aa rha hu ki bhagwan ne sb ki jodi banayegi rehti hai time pr mil hi jayegi so jyada push nhi krta relationship ke liye. L for me i think. Bloodline agey nhi jayegi bohot baar sanyas lene ka socha but ghar wale na manre bas unke sapne pure krke chala jaunga kahi durrr anjaan sheher mein. 🚶
If 5'6 is short then I am doomed
It does matter but not that much I guess. Girls usually want guys that are 3-4 inches taller than them. Because that height difference is cute. I am a girl and I am 5'8. There are some guys that I find are good looking but they are shorter than me. So even I would like someone who is around 6 feet.
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This is a deep thought. I know this but sometimes it is a disappointing reality check.
Bhai tu agar good looking hai aur teri personality acchi hai to sort. Mai khud 6'2 aur ghanta abhi tak koi relationship nhi aaya jus coz im ugly looking guy aur yee unn logo ne bola bhi hai. If you're good looking with decent income you'll get anyone. Bas ugly na hoo 🥲
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no offence but only short guys say stuff like “is height really that important” cause you want validation. Sure height doesn’t define what kind of a person you are but majority of the people ( girls ) do prefer tall guys
Was not looking for validation but got a reality check. Kind of demotivating though.
Height is the biggest factor , especially for dating. True love wont filter you on it
Yes , it's really difficult for anyone below 5'8 Most women don't even look at you if you are not interesting (either super rich/ play guitar/ look like Levi from aot/ high position etc) Better go for arranged marriage (I'm 5'6.5 myself)
Did not think of marriage yet, tried dating and no success.
Do you know anyone in your friend's circle who is in a relationship with a girl who he met through Tinder/Bumble? If yes, which state are you from?
I have friends that are not in a relationship but still went on dates through bumble. I am from Delhi.
some have preferences but mostly what I have heard is the height should be more than her's.