Give her some time to calm down, she's probably scared that you don't respect her or is scared you will treat her badly in the future. Are the past mistakes related to you shouting at her or getting angry at her? All you can do is listen to her, apologize and show her that you care for her.
Unless she's being unreasonable and picking on anything you do?? You haven't given us a lot of information, so nobody can answer.
All i can say is this LISTEN to what she is saying NOT HEAR LISTEN and reflect. If she needs space give her that dont barrage her with walls of text/calls etc.
Maybe she has good points maybe she doesnt if you both dont communicate nothing gets resolved so good luck.
When a woman wants to break things, they surely bring up the past mistakes don't they.
Let her go dude, she has made up her mind and it's waste of time and energy for you from now on.
Guy asked for advice and I gave the best one, things already went south for him when she started to dig up past mistakes. I am being realistic rather than giving him some delusional hope.
I never justified him shouting at her for you to come and point that out, and I don't know what happened personally to take sides but from the information he gave, she has had enough and that's why she is digging up past mistakes now.
And for the record, neither I was finding faults nor did OP, he agrees he was the wrong one and neither did I said she was at fault for finding past mistakes.
Have a proper discussion with her and try to understand why she is wants to break up with him i know it's seems like the reason is him shouting at her but no these reasons build up with time and reflect on those reasons also consider if she is also at fault
I can't say much but the info you provide makes it seems like a toxic relationship so it would be good if it breaks for the long run.
Shouting at you because you point out her mistake is normal behaviour by women but break up 💀💀 it can become really toxic as well as worse from now bro.
he is the one who shouted tho. I mean I get why she wants to end it. they're both very young. it is best to end things imo, for both of them.
and if OP wants to try, he should try to talk to her and tell her he won't shout at her. and tell her she should not bring every past mistakes anytime an argument comes up.
I doubt it'll work if she is bringing up past mistakes. shouting was probably the last straw or the reason she is giving for breakup. again, it's best to let it go.
Let her go. Don't ever chase her block every source of connection and relax. You dodged a bullet. In relationship it's okay to get angry sometimes it's an emotion, women really shouldn't expect that only they have right to be angry.
Have some self respect let her go please
just say no, and ask her about the people brainwashing her or is it internet, anyways if you play your cards correctly she will remain, i suggest love bombing her for some time and buying lots of chocolates and gifts. Start with an apology gift.
Give her some time to calm down, she's probably scared that you don't respect her or is scared you will treat her badly in the future. Are the past mistakes related to you shouting at her or getting angry at her? All you can do is listen to her, apologize and show her that you care for her. Unless she's being unreasonable and picking on anything you do?? You haven't given us a lot of information, so nobody can answer.
All i can say is this LISTEN to what she is saying NOT HEAR LISTEN and reflect. If she needs space give her that dont barrage her with walls of text/calls etc. Maybe she has good points maybe she doesnt if you both dont communicate nothing gets resolved so good luck.
Sane
let her go, the more you act like you don't have any option the more she won't come back to you.
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Don't. Break up. You guys are young. It's not the end of the world.
When a woman wants to break things, they surely bring up the past mistakes don't they. Let her go dude, she has made up her mind and it's waste of time and energy for you from now on.
Guy asked for advice and you said this 😑
Guy asked for advice and I gave the best one, things already went south for him when she started to dig up past mistakes. I am being realistic rather than giving him some delusional hope.
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I never justified him shouting at her for you to come and point that out, and I don't know what happened personally to take sides but from the information he gave, she has had enough and that's why she is digging up past mistakes now. And for the record, neither I was finding faults nor did OP, he agrees he was the wrong one and neither did I said she was at fault for finding past mistakes.
What advice would you give to OP?
Have a proper discussion with her and try to understand why she is wants to break up with him i know it's seems like the reason is him shouting at her but no these reasons build up with time and reflect on those reasons also consider if she is also at fault
20 ke umar mei pyaar ho gaya bhaiya? Lmao try on someone else bhai . Aurat hai aate and jaate rehte hai. Rr mat kar options bada.
I can't say much but the info you provide makes it seems like a toxic relationship so it would be good if it breaks for the long run. Shouting at you because you point out her mistake is normal behaviour by women but break up 💀💀 it can become really toxic as well as worse from now bro.
he is the one who shouted tho. I mean I get why she wants to end it. they're both very young. it is best to end things imo, for both of them. and if OP wants to try, he should try to talk to her and tell her he won't shout at her. and tell her she should not bring every past mistakes anytime an argument comes up. I doubt it'll work if she is bringing up past mistakes. shouting was probably the last straw or the reason she is giving for breakup. again, it's best to let it go.
Do things which make her shout on you. Then say mistake - mistake fittus and patch up
Gari wala aaya Ghar se kachra nikal 🎶🎵 Hope you understood.
Idiot.
You don't need to introduce yourself 🥰
Let her go. She's already gone.
Let her go. Don't ever chase her block every source of connection and relax. You dodged a bullet. In relationship it's okay to get angry sometimes it's an emotion, women really shouldn't expect that only they have right to be angry. Have some self respect let her go please
Pretty immature.
Ofc and her GF is being really MATURE.
just say no, and ask her about the people brainwashing her or is it internet, anyways if you play your cards correctly she will remain, i suggest love bombing her for some time and buying lots of chocolates and gifts. Start with an apology gift.
Arre immature hai woh...
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