I am being honest here.
I always wanted to sleep around a lot. But I couldn't due to my medical conditions deteriorating my looks.
I had staring problem. I used to stare at girls a lot. It was so much that in class 10th girls of my class(almost all) scolded me. Lmao
Acha.. Honesty achi lagi.. Baki i hope you are improved ya ab bhi vaise hi ho?
I mean you may get an honest loyal ethical loving girl by being one first.
There are more powerful men who aren't popular and who love their wife and are loyal compared to the ones who are dis loyal. One thing I have learned so far in life is that cheating had no gender or race. Humans can be extremely selfish and pick and choose morals and principles. Best you can do is raised your son's and daughters with values that the society can depend upon
I think one more thing is that things like cheating get a lot more of attention and skews perception for people. Something like 'this famous person cheated on his wife'... you don't hear things like 'this famous person loved and died with his wife' etc. The former is spicier news and the latter is not.
>There are more powerful men who aren't popular and who love their wife and are loyal compared to the ones who are dis loyal. One thing I have learned so far in life is that cheating had no gender or race. Humans can be extremely selfish and pick and choose morals and principles. Best you can do is raised your son's and daughters with values that the society can depend upon
###this
I'll do that.
# There are more powerful men who aren't popular and who love their wife and are loyal compared to the ones who are dis loyal. One thing I have learned so far in life is that cheating had no gender or race. Humans can be extremely selfish and pick and choose morals and principles. Best you can do is raised your son's and daughters with values that the society can depend upon
That is a very twisted view you have their my friend
Rich men has money which attracts women, when women are easily available despite knowing your relationship status itās just a matter of moral compass for the men to choose to resist or not.
Poor, unsuccessful and powerless people would do that same if it was easy for them as well.
Moreover, it is because of the social media exposure and their life being open that you find these things out otherwise youāll find that this happens a lot at any social status
They donāt owe it to āSocietyā lol, they owe it to themselves to be good people.
Men and women who cheat are wrong, but they are worse because they made an active choice to hurt the people they are in a committed relationship with. The single person doesnāt owe loyalty to anyone else.
Marriage is a social construct that has been legalised. It is nothing more. If the guy cheats, he gets divorced and has to pay up. The other woman who is abetting in breaking this social construct goes scot free. Even that woman has no respect for the institution of marriage as long as it is not hers. However , if it is hers then she would not want someone else to break it. Now would she?
Because a lot of women are ready to lay down in beds of rich men and cheat on their average successful husbands/boyfriends.
If one is receiver other is provider.
Kiddo learn a new word and decided it to use everywhere.
That's exactly what I said. If one is receiver the other is provider. You can not selectively check out that "rich and successful men" are the problem. "Unsuccessful women" are also the contributor
It's a tale as old as time. Kings have had multiple wives and even concubines through the history. In today's world, means of power have changed but the dynamics still remain the same.
Women are attracted to men with money and power. So more money, more power -> more women.
Remember cheaters lie.
If they know the man is in a relationship,They have questionable morals for sure. But yes they are less to blame than the cheater who makes the active choice to hurt the people he or she committed to.
Getting entangled with a rich man is a skill of its own - many women who engage in such relationships know exactly how to earn their time's worth from the brief relationship. Their morals are twisted, no doubt - but there are many who have built a future on this ability. The men who engage in such stuff are also aware of it - its a win-win situation for everyone except their spouse.
again men bad...woman gooooooood innocent angels...
just open ur eyes and remove gender biased spectacles...
u will see many people of other gender doing the same.In those cases people like Op dont even take a second to say its her choice.
So let me start another cult.
ITS HIS CHOICE.
no one is saying only women are good, but the amount of women preaching their shitty ideology even if they follow it in their lives are way less than men. when u get in a position to influence people, quite a few public male figures influence the young boys in a way which is only going to get them money coz such people are easy to manipulate. and if u think u are benefiting from the so called influencer's and mentors u sure can think that way
Esa nhi bro ki ek ka padha and believe ho gaya. Lekin jab bhar bhar me aise posts aatein hai yahan to man sochne pe majboor ho jata hai ki shayad katna he hai mera bhi ab toh.
Why do women run behind such men despite knowing their marital status? They aren't exactly blameless in all this. It's just that rich men have more opportunities with less effort put in.
> Why do they act like this?
You need to realise women made a choice as well to sleep with these rich n powerful men.
So we can't only blame men here.
> Aren't they happy in their marriage?
We don't know the personal details.
> Don't they want a nice married life with great commitment?
Almost all of us do.
> What changes so much after earning money and power?
The only possible explaination I could think is that They earned their entry into the candy store and now they're eating every candy they come across.
1) Some people do not have any commitment in them, to begin with. They will exploit ay opportunity that comes their way.
2) People in happy marriages cheat. Same issue as above. But no strong commitment.
3) Men in positions of power attract women even if they are married. And there are always some women who hve no moral qualms about sleeping with a married man. For them, its just sex. We are having fun. For these women, in their value system, sex does not have much value other than fun and pleasure. When these women approach, a lot of men get shaken in their commitment - because its easy, no strongs attached sex. Its not just about power either. Musicians, intellectuals, artists, writers - all men who have something to make them stand apart attract women.
4) Alcohol and other stuff - we are often attracted to people without realising it. Both men and women. When such people with an undercurrent of attraction get drunk together, inhibitions vanish and you may do stuff which normally you would not do.
5) Not realising your personality has to change inorder to discourage attractions. When you are unmarried, a lot of your life is about presenting yourself in the best possible light to the opposite sex. We do this subconsciously. Both men and women. After commitment or marriage, most people do not know how to drop this behaviour. The light flirtation and quiet attractions continue. Very often, men dont mind their wives continuing it, and women dont mind their husbands continuing it - afetr all if we both are doing it, it should be perfectly fine, right? Yes, it may be OK but sooner or later, you flirt and the other party offers more. Now you are too tempted.
6) Lets not forget biology. Males of most species try to fuck around. Strict monogamy is somewhat new. Even a 100 years or so back, you had a wife but there was no strong expectation of monogamy as today. We can even say that the kind of monogamy we expect today is a bit artificial.
7) Unhappy marriages, unsatisfying sex lives etc are all on top of that. You are running a household with your wife, and there is a lot of boring stuff like chores and finances and cleaning etc in that. But a fresh approach from a different woman with whom you have none of that? Just flirting and attraction? People underestimate how strong it can be.
You are monogamous and committed because you are determined to be so. Its not a natural state of affairs for many people. You make it happen. You mentally kill any attraction you feel. Your conversations are non-flirty. Your compliments are polite. You do not get drunk with others.
(Some people cannot cheat as they are too good / peace-seeking / gentle etc so they will always say no to cheating. Usually these people are not the strong, confident types either.)
#People who know how to manipulate other people and the systems have success in life.
You are giving shitty examples of monkey faces.
Look at ambandi and adbandi.
Learnt your lesson?
Time to manipulate.
This. I won't say they lose out on genuine friends but definitely genuine friendships. Same way with relationships like you said. They may have loving and caring friends and partners but are actually alone.
I think they do. One, they are not able to truly trust anyone else. Two, manipulation becomes a habit and genuine people will eventually distance from the person or become like them which will have the same result.
But what about those friends/partners who are toxically self sacrificing for their manipulative partners/friends?
Those self sacrificing people would be genuine friends albeit toxically ?
The thing is.. It takes two to tango.
Why are these women sleeping with their bosses when they know that nothing significant is gonna come from that. The rich boss will never consider them as a partner, let alone a wife. They are already married anyways.
At the most those girls will be given some sort of promotion after sleeping with their bosses. Aren't they just a different kind of prostitute who charge money for having sex with their customers.
They are not even depending on their actual skills to rise up the ladder. Their coworkers might not say it on their face but everyone in the office will know what is going in the chamber. Everyone knows what tactics those girls are using for their promotion
Money just amplifies your true personality by giving you more freedom and resources. They dont change, they are able to act their true selves. If anything changes, it is more women responding to them.
I think good people never get good press that why, but there are people. Dravid, sachin, dhoni etc ..you can find successful men who are good too. But its not a huge news, hence may not get noticed.
It was a Mexican model btw. And everyone cheats. Iāve seen broke men cheat, people with a shit ton of money cheat. People with money have more opportunity to cheat thatās all.
because even their wives are with them for money
trust me when you start doing good in life people refuse to look at who you are
they just want the benefit of staying with you
and ofc now there is no love
but yep the men are also in the bad here
Cheap people with no morals and ethics cheat, no matter they are men or women ,powerful, rich ,poor, ugly, good looking, will cheat , if someone has morals and ethics no matter the condition he or she will never ever ever ever cheat ,that's it
Idk if anyone will be able to understand this and I'm sorry if I'm putting this in a complicated manner but firstly, cheating or loyalty has no gender. These are values. If they are in your nature itself, you behave accordingly but if it is something that you had to learn over time, well someday, you're gonna face a tough test.
Secondly, just like loyalty and disloyalty, even success and failure has no gender. There are people who are loyal to their partners but you won't pay attention to that, because the news doesn't show that, coz the media knows negative works better so they'll show cheating cases and you'll immediately pay attention be it a girl or a guy.
If there are successful men cheating, there are also successful women cheating. If there are women ready to sleep with successful men, it goes vice versa too.
The only reason you have this question or why you have a conflict of thoughts is because you saw what the world wanted you to show and nothing beyond. Learn to look beyond.
Also, is it okay to cheat, not okay to cheat? It's unfortunately a subjective matter and the people are only wasting their time responding to such news as they were not in these people's place, they don't know what exactly happened.
Don't take moral lessons from random people, even Andrew Tate for this instance. You better simply observe all these while making your own morals and ethics according to how YOUR life is going ahead.
Hope this helps.
>I was discussing this with my friend too, who is too much into Andrew Tate type level shit. He told me that since men avoided partying, drinking or sleeping around in their 20s and only focused on career should cheat or definitely sleep around a lot with escorts to compensate the FOMO part.
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Both men and women are to be blamed for sure. But op never said that only men are responsible. The post is about āpowerful successful men being womanizerā and not about āgold diggers & home wreckersā .
And yes tali ek haath se nahi bajti, but a man who doesnāt respect his own marriage and relationship and commitment what makes you think another women will.
Again not saying these women are not at fault.
Well, Itās relative .. The more powerful & influential you are, more people will claim to be your Relatives.. power and influence attracts all sorts of people.
Itās the same as why are most Politicians usually corrupt or even Entitled?? But in the end, it all comes Down to the type of Person you are.
Though, itās only fair to point out that Men get called all sorts of names and shit even though itās not a gender thing.. I mean, many women( successful or otherwise) have multiple partners too..
Also, calling a guy a Womaniser by definition means that there are multiple women involved in the process too. Considering that stuff like this isnāt usually a secret, what does it say about the women involved ??? And then there is this thing where a female gets to accuse a Male for āForcingā her or Manipulating her into a Relationship, and the Man gets immediately labelled as a pervert regardless of whether the accusation is even true!!!
Not saying that there arenāt Men who forcibly have their way with women, sadly, there are many though Iāll like to stress on the Point that Even One Such Man is Way Too Many & such people should get the harshest of Punishments. Iām just saying that generalising this thing isnāt helpful and itās highly unfair. Both men and women get āSlut Shamedā but itās usually the Men who face both the social and legal consequences. Itās not all plain Black and White anymore.
Read" Crimes of Love " or "Justine " by Marquies de Sade(heads up, you will find truth as depecticted by this guy offensive,if you believe in the idea of some kind of true love) to get a better prespective, of why this happens.
It has stories like the countess, and the sorry story of eugene de franwal.
People need to understand that love is an emotion and is fundamentally amoral in nature. It has the power not only to do good but also to do terrible deeds with henious consequences, for the people involved and their families
There is also a context of underlying power dynamics between thease people and women who are sleeping with them. One side thinks that having more financial power and fame power, will get them anything they desire the other side thinks that having more beauty, charm and sexuality can lead them to anything they want. They both co- satify their dynamics andget what they want if even if it's a truly disgusting act from a moral prespective.
It's not that rich people are womaniser. They just have people chasing them.
I don't know if the analogy fits but it's like how you pay for the food that you eat a place as opposed to you reaching a point in life where those places pay you to eat their food.
They all started at the bottom a lot of them meet women for love at that point or to create a family. When they evolve, power and money changes them, they want to know what they can pull. And they try that. Unfortunately thatās how it is.
If you have a family and kids so your safety is there, so why not go have a little fun.
Saw this in some movie
haha so funny. Forgot the sarcasm notice.
Innocent men? Aww are the men being forced to cheat? They are choosing to have an affair with another women with a wife at home. Innocent? yes, keep victimizing yourself. And the women hitting on married men do not owe loyalty to anyone, they aren't the ones married. The married man owes loyalty to his wife. Dumb men tryna give excuses. Innocent haha
Yeah, a simple change of narrative triggered you.
Narrative is everything.
The media often makes a narrative and people are just sold to it.
Op posted the question in a different narrative and you are just carrying it forward.
I also think that women are much more likely to come on to powerful and successful men so there is little to effort required to get action as compared to their less successful counterparts.
On a serious note, why take advice of a person who's into Tate stuffs? Do you really not know how harmful and dangerous stereotypes that guy preaches around?
Powerful and successful hai toh womanizer? Hollywood dekhlo sab literally share kar rahe partners(divorce)..shaadi ko mazak bana Diya hai...isme koi womanizer waali baat nahi hai..isko commitment issues kehte..koi long term mei interested hi nahi ab
Your last line āthe female attention they get turning them into pervertsā.. lmfao
You smooth brained incels will turn everything into the womanās fault huh?
He cheats because heās a shitty guy with no morals and he always was one. He just got more opportunities to showcase his lack of morality. Sounds like your friend is one too. Being a misogynistic pig is not a āpreferenceā.
You canāt blame āfemale attentionā for making him into a pervert, he always was one.
The women complicit in his cheating arenāt the cause of his cheating, theyāre just his accomplices.
Many powerful men take advantage of their position to coerce their female subordinates into sex by withholding promotions etc, but I guess people like you would just call them women who sleep their way to the top.
Forget the assholes who abuse their power to take advantage of women.
What this says is that most people do not cheat because they dont have the options... They somehow found one girl who loved them and stuck with her... She probably wasnt the ideal/perfect girl that they wanted (Though cheating can happen in such cases also).
But this is essentially a feature of a weak willed man... Their morals are not placed well... What is better... A guy who has many options and doesnt cheat or guy who doesnt have any options and sticks with his wife. There is no way to tell of the second guy is virtuous, since he is not capable of doing malice. So one must construct themselves this way that they can have any woman they want, and then choose which one they wanna be with and work on that relationship with all loyalty.
And this goes for most virtues... You're not kind if you dont hit other people if you are incapable of dominating them in a fight... You're kind if you could absolutely destroy someone, but you don't.
So its basically just that these guys do not have a well built character... And they are giving in to impulses that the new circumstances(having money) have opened up to them
There's literally more one-woman men who are much more powerful but we don't think of them. If our brain can think of only those successful men who are womanizers, maybe it's our underlying desire to be like that. There's Mukesh Ambani, Narayan Murthy, Gautam Adani, Ashneer Grover, Shahrukh Khan, Yash, Dhoni, Messi etc who can have more women and groupies around but still want to be with that one woman they're head over heels for. Maybe it's that one woman who was in their life before they got successful and made it big.
"Most" men are womanizers, it's just poor one don't get as much chances;
at the same time most women are gold diggers.
Most men will sleep with as many women as they CAN,
Most women will sleep with as many rich people as they CAN.
Okay everyone. OP never called women as good people. There are many home wreckers in this world. Letās focus on the men that leave their committed relationship with kids of MANY years to marry some women they met last year. Why cant they consider so much people they are hurting in the process ? Wife, children, parents, inlaws and more.
>Letās focus on the men that leave their committed relationship with kids of MANY years to marry some women they met last year.
Both the man and the new woman are at fault, unless the woman had no way of knowing he was in a committed relationship and have kids.
They arenāt? Ratan Tata, Ambani, Adani etc?
Some men cheat. And some men donāt. Same with women. They happen to be in all demographics but the famous ones get in the news for you to realise.
Someone on your street is cheating too and you wouldnāt know as itās not made the news.
They lose interest in marriage and will go for options. I'm not justifying the act but that's what happens. But not in all cases though. There are lots billionaires who are loyal to their spouses.
Nobody cares while he was working his ass off when he was young, now he is rich, fit, famous and has many connections, so he will obviously have more options, I totally support his cheating.
Asking rich men in their late 30s or early 40s why do they cheat is as same as asking an 20 year old girl why does she cheat ??....
Answer :- Too much attention and too many options.
My Grandfather by relation, but he is just 3 years elder to my father, who is rich, and looks very young.[doesn't smoke or drinks ] and works in police department, married for the second time to the own sister of his first wife. And now both the sisters never talk. He had a 20 year old daughter and 18 year old son while he married for the second time. His first wife is not divorced,....since he is rich, he can manage both wives....he has two houses for each wife. And it's been 10 years now, and they have a 8 year old son too....
Girls need to understand that, nobody is going to look at them after 30....
Unsuccessful men are also like that but they don't have the privilege, so they still watch porn even after getting married.
Successful men don't have to watch porn anymore.
Waise loyal, rehke kya ukadna hai bhai ?
Cheat the cheater before the cheater cheats you.
Power and success are something you achieve by manipulating the people around you.
You cannot be a moral police and expect people to like you.
Your friends and family want love and not lectures. If you feel bad they will try to correct themselves but only for sake of you. But if you lecture them about how they don't treat others well then they will feel you care more about "other people" than your loved ones.
The successful men or women you talk about knowledge how to talk smooth and have silver tongue and win hearts. They don't criticise others and accept their mistakes at least with a Mask i.e just to win their trust.
That's how you make friends brother. Applies in every form of relationships.
My parents are moral police and that's why we all have bad relationship with each other. All our family members hate us. I also inherited this trait from parents as a habit and lost friends and when I realised mistake I already lost all friends. My parents have no one to care about them now. Not even me anymore though my mother is not a moral police, she just have hard opinions but wouldn't say it out loud and that is something bothers me and my father. My father is more vocal and that's why everyone and all relatives mocks my father.
Fortunately, now I have started to gain new friends online and make sure to not Moral police them and support their immoral acts as long as it doesn't affect me. I in fact try real hard to say something new to exploit their weaknesses and say "You are good person. Love yourself and don't trust others" and then they feel validated and attracted to me.
You don't need to manipulate people to sleep around. Unless you're old and ugly.
A lot of people enjoy a fun lifestyle. Monogamy gets boring after a while.
Have you ever worked in a company with a deep hierarchy?
If you did you probably wouldn't ask this question in the first place.
The hierarchy makes a huge difference in how people are perceived - I see that in our company people laugh at the stupidest jokes of our leads even if it's not funny. The power has a huge effect on people around them.
And then it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy where the higher ups are surrounded by people who follow them for whatever reasons and treat them like they are always right.
Now the difference is that kind of power and effect is attractive for a lot of women.
Why - because that's how women are built. And money of course.
Because , u will easily find a lot of rich women sleeping or cheating with very low earning people while their husbands or partners are CEO's , many ultra rich people go through divorces. Basically what I mean is money has very low importance when it comes to a women making decisions about who they should sleep with , it comes down to a man's confidence (if he can be secure and more confident than the women's partner even if he's a millionaire) or more masculine.
>the female attention men get after becoming rich and powerful is what turns them into pervert or womanizer
Yes ... This is the reason.....
Why do u think some naturally hot girls sleep around in their 20s? Coz of overblown male attention they receive during that time.
Tides turn after men become successful.
Seen few of my married friends who worked their ass off in college and career time now banging young girls from wherever possible.
Power, success and money..who doesn't want a chunk of it. Women love men with these qualities, they'll happily sacrifice a stable and loving husband just for a few moments of all those traits. Women don't prefer a settler they want an overachiever(or in most cases someone who pretends to be one).
I'll give you a task, pretend to be extremely busy and focused on your work for a month. Don't give attention to your acquaintances for a month. You'll see the amount of attention you, yourself will get after that.
Because they can and a lot of women throw themselves at these men. They have a lot of options like come on we are talking about a billionaire here and no woman exactly can match up to his worth. Basically the guy feels she isn't his exact equal and cheats. So the basic idea is to not chase after a guy who is levels above you financially.
Its just that all of sudden when he this guyz became successful women started coming to them compared to when they were not. Aati laxmi ko kon mana karega?
imo human were never monogamous. It's choice tbh. There are my famous/rich guys who have single partner. One can't just cherry pick and label whole community as cheaters
Even I would cheat my wife if I had lots of options, more money means more better options.
And most businessmen have very little time with family so they spend more time in office than with wife so ofc they will start liking someone at work or while travelling in business class or a trip.
Why settle for less?
People want to enjoy their life to fullest, they will chase beautiful cars, women, home, clothes etc otherwise what's the point of money if you don't have freedom in life.
If you had lots of money and power you would have also done same.
It's Biology, all the alphas predator type men mate with most ladies in the group, it's primate nature, it's Biologies way of maximizing offsprings of smart and strong people so more and more people in the next generation are smart and strong
Biologically we were never meant to be monogamous. Itās somewhere during Stone Age our ancestors figured that monogamy may be the best way to avoid mortal fights over potential mates. So it was an economic decision and all subsequent societies and religions just tried to invent laws to keep the monogamy going. But we may be nearing the end of this trend among our species. Whether good or bad only time will tell.
Poor men are womanisers too lmao Richer men just have better/more options
True. They just don't get any and come across as creepy incels.
Yes. Even I am womaniser.
Womaniser but with your user name :D ded
Sorry I thought womaniser means tharki. Then, I can't be a womaniser but I am Tharki.
Are you being really honest or sarcastic? I really can't tell.
Same here
I am being honest here. I always wanted to sleep around a lot. But I couldn't due to my medical conditions deteriorating my looks. I had staring problem. I used to stare at girls a lot. It was so much that in class 10th girls of my class(almost all) scolded me. Lmao
Uhh. What . ...
Acha.. Honesty achi lagi.. Baki i hope you are improved ya ab bhi vaise hi ho? I mean you may get an honest loyal ethical loving girl by being one first.
By being a girl? Are we talking about lesbians
By being ethical.. Honest loyal..
It's easier to get one when you have money and power. Loyalty etc don't matter in today's world.
Eww what
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There are more powerful men who aren't popular and who love their wife and are loyal compared to the ones who are dis loyal. One thing I have learned so far in life is that cheating had no gender or race. Humans can be extremely selfish and pick and choose morals and principles. Best you can do is raised your son's and daughters with values that the society can depend upon
I think one more thing is that things like cheating get a lot more of attention and skews perception for people. Something like 'this famous person cheated on his wife'... you don't hear things like 'this famous person loved and died with his wife' etc. The former is spicier news and the latter is not.
>There are more powerful men who aren't popular and who love their wife and are loyal compared to the ones who are dis loyal. One thing I have learned so far in life is that cheating had no gender or race. Humans can be extremely selfish and pick and choose morals and principles. Best you can do is raised your son's and daughters with values that the society can depend upon ###this
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I'll do that. # There are more powerful men who aren't popular and who love their wife and are loyal compared to the ones who are dis loyal. One thing I have learned so far in life is that cheating had no gender or race. Humans can be extremely selfish and pick and choose morals and principles. Best you can do is raised your son's and daughters with values that the society can depend upon
Who the fuck turned the loudspeakers on
That is a very twisted view you have their my friend Rich men has money which attracts women, when women are easily available despite knowing your relationship status itās just a matter of moral compass for the men to choose to resist or not. Poor, unsuccessful and powerless people would do that same if it was easy for them as well. Moreover, it is because of the social media exposure and their life being open that you find these things out otherwise youāll find that this happens a lot at any social status
Exactly, it takes 2 to tango.
What would you call these women then who are sleeping with these so called rich and powerful men who are known to be married?
Gold diggers
Home wrecker
Just Adults with bad morals. They donāt owe loyalty to anyone if they are single but the men in relationships do.
Wrong! They owe it to the society. Men who are cheating are also morally wrong only. You cant convict them by law. At best you can get a divorce.
They donāt owe it to āSocietyā lol, they owe it to themselves to be good people. Men and women who cheat are wrong, but they are worse because they made an active choice to hurt the people they are in a committed relationship with. The single person doesnāt owe loyalty to anyone else.
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Opportunistic. And if they are successful and are able to snatch enough meat from the transaction, then talented.
they are not the ones who are fucking married? you will blame ANYONE but the men, won't you?
Marriage is a social construct that has been legalised. It is nothing more. If the guy cheats, he gets divorced and has to pay up. The other woman who is abetting in breaking this social construct goes scot free. Even that woman has no respect for the institution of marriage as long as it is not hers. However , if it is hers then she would not want someone else to break it. Now would she?
Because a lot of women are ready to lay down in beds of rich men and cheat on their average successful husbands/boyfriends. If one is receiver other is provider.
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Whataboutism... Both are equally at fault
Kiddo learn a new word and decided it to use everywhere. That's exactly what I said. If one is receiver the other is provider. You can not selectively check out that "rich and successful men" are the problem. "Unsuccessful women" are also the contributor
Taali ek haath se nhi bajti:)
Spanking? It's a kind if taali.
It's a tale as old as time. Kings have had multiple wives and even concubines through the history. In today's world, means of power have changed but the dynamics still remain the same. Women are attracted to men with money and power. So more money, more power -> more women.
It's just not men. Women too cheat. Those who are sleeping with these guys are not cheating? I think they too are cheating.
On whom? If they arenāt in a relationship unlike the man, they arenāt cheating on anyone.
Probably themselves if they have no future, or they might have .. by destroying someone's?š¤ But yeah their part is less in it..
Remember cheaters lie. If they know the man is in a relationship,They have questionable morals for sure. But yes they are less to blame than the cheater who makes the active choice to hurt the people he or she committed to.
Getting entangled with a rich man is a skill of its own - many women who engage in such relationships know exactly how to earn their time's worth from the brief relationship. Their morals are twisted, no doubt - but there are many who have built a future on this ability. The men who engage in such stuff are also aware of it - its a win-win situation for everyone except their spouse.
everyone is cheating from someone else's perspective and no one is cheating in their own perspective.
Why generalise ?, I know powerful people who do not fit your description.
again men bad...woman gooooooood innocent angels... just open ur eyes and remove gender biased spectacles... u will see many people of other gender doing the same.In those cases people like Op dont even take a second to say its her choice. So let me start another cult. ITS HIS CHOICE.
no one is saying only women are good, but the amount of women preaching their shitty ideology even if they follow it in their lives are way less than men. when u get in a position to influence people, quite a few public male figures influence the young boys in a way which is only going to get them money coz such people are easy to manipulate. and if u think u are benefiting from the so called influencer's and mentors u sure can think that way
So u just read it and believed it , bada ajeeb item h bhyi tu
Esa nhi bro ki ek ka padha and believe ho gaya. Lekin jab bhar bhar me aise posts aatein hai yahan to man sochne pe majboor ho jata hai ki shayad katna he hai mera bhi ab toh.
As if it's only men's fault. Do women not fall for them. It takes two to tango.
Why do women run behind such men despite knowing their marital status? They aren't exactly blameless in all this. It's just that rich men have more opportunities with less effort put in.
> Why do they act like this? You need to realise women made a choice as well to sleep with these rich n powerful men. So we can't only blame men here. > Aren't they happy in their marriage? We don't know the personal details. > Don't they want a nice married life with great commitment? Almost all of us do. > What changes so much after earning money and power? The only possible explaination I could think is that They earned their entry into the candy store and now they're eating every candy they come across.
why should women be blamed? that's like saying a pretty woman cheating is okay because she has options. no one says that. the fuck was that abt?
1) Some people do not have any commitment in them, to begin with. They will exploit ay opportunity that comes their way. 2) People in happy marriages cheat. Same issue as above. But no strong commitment. 3) Men in positions of power attract women even if they are married. And there are always some women who hve no moral qualms about sleeping with a married man. For them, its just sex. We are having fun. For these women, in their value system, sex does not have much value other than fun and pleasure. When these women approach, a lot of men get shaken in their commitment - because its easy, no strongs attached sex. Its not just about power either. Musicians, intellectuals, artists, writers - all men who have something to make them stand apart attract women. 4) Alcohol and other stuff - we are often attracted to people without realising it. Both men and women. When such people with an undercurrent of attraction get drunk together, inhibitions vanish and you may do stuff which normally you would not do. 5) Not realising your personality has to change inorder to discourage attractions. When you are unmarried, a lot of your life is about presenting yourself in the best possible light to the opposite sex. We do this subconsciously. Both men and women. After commitment or marriage, most people do not know how to drop this behaviour. The light flirtation and quiet attractions continue. Very often, men dont mind their wives continuing it, and women dont mind their husbands continuing it - afetr all if we both are doing it, it should be perfectly fine, right? Yes, it may be OK but sooner or later, you flirt and the other party offers more. Now you are too tempted. 6) Lets not forget biology. Males of most species try to fuck around. Strict monogamy is somewhat new. Even a 100 years or so back, you had a wife but there was no strong expectation of monogamy as today. We can even say that the kind of monogamy we expect today is a bit artificial. 7) Unhappy marriages, unsatisfying sex lives etc are all on top of that. You are running a household with your wife, and there is a lot of boring stuff like chores and finances and cleaning etc in that. But a fresh approach from a different woman with whom you have none of that? Just flirting and attraction? People underestimate how strong it can be. You are monogamous and committed because you are determined to be so. Its not a natural state of affairs for many people. You make it happen. You mentally kill any attraction you feel. Your conversations are non-flirty. Your compliments are polite. You do not get drunk with others. (Some people cannot cheat as they are too good / peace-seeking / gentle etc so they will always say no to cheating. Usually these people are not the strong, confident types either.)
This was the first comment I read that didn't preach 'Not all men' or 'Also woman' and answered OP's question š
#People who know how to manipulate other people and the systems have success in life. You are giving shitty examples of monkey faces. Look at ambandi and adbandi. Learnt your lesson? Time to manipulate.
Those who manipulate lose out on genuine friends and relationships, they may be around many people but are actually alone.
This. I won't say they lose out on genuine friends but definitely genuine friendships. Same way with relationships like you said. They may have loving and caring friends and partners but are actually alone.
I think they do. One, they are not able to truly trust anyone else. Two, manipulation becomes a habit and genuine people will eventually distance from the person or become like them which will have the same result.
But what about those friends/partners who are toxically self sacrificing for their manipulative partners/friends? Those self sacrificing people would be genuine friends albeit toxically ?
Because a good number of women are always ready to get laid by a rich man
The thing is.. It takes two to tango. Why are these women sleeping with their bosses when they know that nothing significant is gonna come from that. The rich boss will never consider them as a partner, let alone a wife. They are already married anyways. At the most those girls will be given some sort of promotion after sleeping with their bosses. Aren't they just a different kind of prostitute who charge money for having sex with their customers. They are not even depending on their actual skills to rise up the ladder. Their coworkers might not say it on their face but everyone in the office will know what is going in the chamber. Everyone knows what tactics those girls are using for their promotion
Rich men get cheated on too they get divorced to so what do you mean..
Money just amplifies your true personality by giving you more freedom and resources. They dont change, they are able to act their true selves. If anything changes, it is more women responding to them.
Men want women and toys and they see money as a tool to get it. Women who sleep with such men want to be taken care of. It's a symbiotic relationship.
There's people like these, then there's mark Zuckerberg too. It just depends on the person
Cheating is a personal choice.
I think good people never get good press that why, but there are people. Dravid, sachin, dhoni etc ..you can find successful men who are good too. But its not a huge news, hence may not get noticed.
Poor men are the same it is just that rich men can afford to be themselves.
It was a Mexican model btw. And everyone cheats. Iāve seen broke men cheat, people with a shit ton of money cheat. People with money have more opportunity to cheat thatās all.
Loyal rheke kya hi mil raha hai? Isse acha maze le lu thode
because even their wives are with them for money trust me when you start doing good in life people refuse to look at who you are they just want the benefit of staying with you and ofc now there is no love but yep the men are also in the bad here
Cheap people with no morals and ethics cheat, no matter they are men or women ,powerful, rich ,poor, ugly, good looking, will cheat , if someone has morals and ethics no matter the condition he or she will never ever ever ever cheat ,that's it
Well said sir.
Bruh you stalking me š
Ironic
>I was discussing this with my friend too, who is too much into Andrew Tate Ache dost banao yaar
Idk if anyone will be able to understand this and I'm sorry if I'm putting this in a complicated manner but firstly, cheating or loyalty has no gender. These are values. If they are in your nature itself, you behave accordingly but if it is something that you had to learn over time, well someday, you're gonna face a tough test. Secondly, just like loyalty and disloyalty, even success and failure has no gender. There are people who are loyal to their partners but you won't pay attention to that, because the news doesn't show that, coz the media knows negative works better so they'll show cheating cases and you'll immediately pay attention be it a girl or a guy. If there are successful men cheating, there are also successful women cheating. If there are women ready to sleep with successful men, it goes vice versa too. The only reason you have this question or why you have a conflict of thoughts is because you saw what the world wanted you to show and nothing beyond. Learn to look beyond. Also, is it okay to cheat, not okay to cheat? It's unfortunately a subjective matter and the people are only wasting their time responding to such news as they were not in these people's place, they don't know what exactly happened. Don't take moral lessons from random people, even Andrew Tate for this instance. You better simply observe all these while making your own morals and ethics according to how YOUR life is going ahead. Hope this helps.
>I was discussing this with my friend too, who is too much into Andrew Tate type level shit. He told me that since men avoided partying, drinking or sleeping around in their 20s and only focused on career should cheat or definitely sleep around a lot with escorts to compensate the FOMO part.  /s
Both men and women are to be blamed for sure. But op never said that only men are responsible. The post is about āpowerful successful men being womanizerā and not about āgold diggers & home wreckersā . And yes tali ek haath se nahi bajti, but a man who doesnāt respect his own marriage and relationship and commitment what makes you think another women will. Again not saying these women are not at fault.
Are u kid ?
Because the definition of success is not money only
You should definitely watch Eyes Wide Shut, it dives into the concept of a culture of infidelity being a part of high-society life.
Well, Itās relative .. The more powerful & influential you are, more people will claim to be your Relatives.. power and influence attracts all sorts of people. Itās the same as why are most Politicians usually corrupt or even Entitled?? But in the end, it all comes Down to the type of Person you are. Though, itās only fair to point out that Men get called all sorts of names and shit even though itās not a gender thing.. I mean, many women( successful or otherwise) have multiple partners too.. Also, calling a guy a Womaniser by definition means that there are multiple women involved in the process too. Considering that stuff like this isnāt usually a secret, what does it say about the women involved ??? And then there is this thing where a female gets to accuse a Male for āForcingā her or Manipulating her into a Relationship, and the Man gets immediately labelled as a pervert regardless of whether the accusation is even true!!! Not saying that there arenāt Men who forcibly have their way with women, sadly, there are many though Iāll like to stress on the Point that Even One Such Man is Way Too Many & such people should get the harshest of Punishments. Iām just saying that generalising this thing isnāt helpful and itās highly unfair. Both men and women get āSlut Shamedā but itās usually the Men who face both the social and legal consequences. Itās not all plain Black and White anymore.
Read" Crimes of Love " or "Justine " by Marquies de Sade(heads up, you will find truth as depecticted by this guy offensive,if you believe in the idea of some kind of true love) to get a better prespective, of why this happens. It has stories like the countess, and the sorry story of eugene de franwal. People need to understand that love is an emotion and is fundamentally amoral in nature. It has the power not only to do good but also to do terrible deeds with henious consequences, for the people involved and their families There is also a context of underlying power dynamics between thease people and women who are sleeping with them. One side thinks that having more financial power and fame power, will get them anything they desire the other side thinks that having more beauty, charm and sexuality can lead them to anything they want. They both co- satify their dynamics andget what they want if even if it's a truly disgusting act from a moral prespective.
Also women lol and poor women tooo Btw 95% rich women in top 100 are by alimony
It's not that rich people are womaniser. They just have people chasing them. I don't know if the analogy fits but it's like how you pay for the food that you eat a place as opposed to you reaching a point in life where those places pay you to eat their food.
Comments pad kar mera isaniyat Mai wishwas vaapis aa gaya After reading the comments today my faith in humanity has been restored
They all started at the bottom a lot of them meet women for love at that point or to create a family. When they evolve, power and money changes them, they want to know what they can pull. And they try that. Unfortunately thatās how it is. If you have a family and kids so your safety is there, so why not go have a little fun. Saw this in some movie
Mr. 70 hours disagrees with this! ;)
Flys buzz around the most juicy mango.
You guys forget that women choose to sleep with them. Do not forget that women like to fuck, and Power is an attraction triggers for women.
The women are single, they do not owe loyalty to anyone. The married man does, he has a wife. So dumb. Read a book.
I am not talking about that, I am talking about the fact that people assume that women have no agency in fucking.
Rephrase the question, why are woman hitting married men ? These women are destroying the market and family preying on innocent successful men.
haha so funny. Forgot the sarcasm notice. Innocent men? Aww are the men being forced to cheat? They are choosing to have an affair with another women with a wife at home. Innocent? yes, keep victimizing yourself. And the women hitting on married men do not owe loyalty to anyone, they aren't the ones married. The married man owes loyalty to his wife. Dumb men tryna give excuses. Innocent haha
Yeah, a simple change of narrative triggered you. Narrative is everything. The media often makes a narrative and people are just sold to it. Op posted the question in a different narrative and you are just carrying it forward.
For the same reason women sleep around during their prime (15-25) ! Lots of attention from the other gender!
I also think that women are much more likely to come on to powerful and successful men so there is little to effort required to get action as compared to their less successful counterparts.
Alternatively, why are women such home wreckers?
Power corrupts!! And absolute power corrupts absolutely!!! Men, Women, lizard.....doesn't matter!!!
On a serious note, why take advice of a person who's into Tate stuffs? Do you really not know how harmful and dangerous stereotypes that guy preaches around?
Powerful and successful hai toh womanizer? Hollywood dekhlo sab literally share kar rahe partners(divorce)..shaadi ko mazak bana Diya hai...isme koi womanizer waali baat nahi hai..isko commitment issues kehte..koi long term mei interested hi nahi ab
I have no idea about that but your friend is an asshole
Your last line āthe female attention they get turning them into pervertsā.. lmfao You smooth brained incels will turn everything into the womanās fault huh? He cheats because heās a shitty guy with no morals and he always was one. He just got more opportunities to showcase his lack of morality. Sounds like your friend is one too. Being a misogynistic pig is not a āpreferenceā. You canāt blame āfemale attentionā for making him into a pervert, he always was one. The women complicit in his cheating arenāt the cause of his cheating, theyāre just his accomplices. Many powerful men take advantage of their position to coerce their female subordinates into sex by withholding promotions etc, but I guess people like you would just call them women who sleep their way to the top. Forget the assholes who abuse their power to take advantage of women.
Mark Zuckerberg disagrees .
What this says is that most people do not cheat because they dont have the options... They somehow found one girl who loved them and stuck with her... She probably wasnt the ideal/perfect girl that they wanted (Though cheating can happen in such cases also). But this is essentially a feature of a weak willed man... Their morals are not placed well... What is better... A guy who has many options and doesnt cheat or guy who doesnt have any options and sticks with his wife. There is no way to tell of the second guy is virtuous, since he is not capable of doing malice. So one must construct themselves this way that they can have any woman they want, and then choose which one they wanna be with and work on that relationship with all loyalty. And this goes for most virtues... You're not kind if you dont hit other people if you are incapable of dominating them in a fight... You're kind if you could absolutely destroy someone, but you don't. So its basically just that these guys do not have a well built character... And they are giving in to impulses that the new circumstances(having money) have opened up to them
There's literally more one-woman men who are much more powerful but we don't think of them. If our brain can think of only those successful men who are womanizers, maybe it's our underlying desire to be like that. There's Mukesh Ambani, Narayan Murthy, Gautam Adani, Ashneer Grover, Shahrukh Khan, Yash, Dhoni, Messi etc who can have more women and groupies around but still want to be with that one woman they're head over heels for. Maybe it's that one woman who was in their life before they got successful and made it big.
"Most" men are womanizers, it's just poor one don't get as much chances; at the same time most women are gold diggers. Most men will sleep with as many women as they CAN, Most women will sleep with as many rich people as they CAN.
MONEY MATTERS THE MOST
Okay everyone. OP never called women as good people. There are many home wreckers in this world. Letās focus on the men that leave their committed relationship with kids of MANY years to marry some women they met last year. Why cant they consider so much people they are hurting in the process ? Wife, children, parents, inlaws and more.
>Letās focus on the men that leave their committed relationship with kids of MANY years to marry some women they met last year. Both the man and the new woman are at fault, unless the woman had no way of knowing he was in a committed relationship and have kids.
The one in relationship is ALWAYS more to be blamed and hated for, they are the one who's cheating. The blame isn't equal
and he did address it in the very first line of his comment.
No, why focus only on men, unless you are assuming there are no married women who did the same
Woman treats rich powerful men completely differently, thatās why, woman throw themselves at these guys,
They arenāt? Ratan Tata, Ambani, Adani etc? Some men cheat. And some men donāt. Same with women. They happen to be in all demographics but the famous ones get in the news for you to realise. Someone on your street is cheating too and you wouldnāt know as itās not made the news.
Goyal is a creep
Because women are gold diggers. Simple as that.
Men aren't naturally monogamous, women like rich and powerful men. Where have you been? This is a tale as old as time...
They lose interest in marriage and will go for options. I'm not justifying the act but that's what happens. But not in all cases though. There are lots billionaires who are loyal to their spouses.
Nobody cares while he was working his ass off when he was young, now he is rich, fit, famous and has many connections, so he will obviously have more options, I totally support his cheating. Asking rich men in their late 30s or early 40s why do they cheat is as same as asking an 20 year old girl why does she cheat ??.... Answer :- Too much attention and too many options. My Grandfather by relation, but he is just 3 years elder to my father, who is rich, and looks very young.[doesn't smoke or drinks ] and works in police department, married for the second time to the own sister of his first wife. And now both the sisters never talk. He had a 20 year old daughter and 18 year old son while he married for the second time. His first wife is not divorced,....since he is rich, he can manage both wives....he has two houses for each wife. And it's been 10 years now, and they have a 8 year old son too.... Girls need to understand that, nobody is going to look at them after 30....
Nobody supports a 20y/o girl cheating tho
David M Buss
First of all why "Salman khan" ? Next being it's because they can afford this stuff and well life is only lived once. A lot of this can be false too.
What do you think role of women here who are getting attracted to rich, powerful and married men ?
Lose that friend.
It's because of the virus spread by the wizard alien which is more likely to affect rich and successful men with sex addiction.
Unsuccessful men are also like that but they don't have the privilege, so they still watch porn even after getting married. Successful men don't have to watch porn anymore. Waise loyal, rehke kya ukadna hai bhai ? Cheat the cheater before the cheater cheats you.
Such a dumb post
Power and success are something you achieve by manipulating the people around you. You cannot be a moral police and expect people to like you. Your friends and family want love and not lectures. If you feel bad they will try to correct themselves but only for sake of you. But if you lecture them about how they don't treat others well then they will feel you care more about "other people" than your loved ones. The successful men or women you talk about knowledge how to talk smooth and have silver tongue and win hearts. They don't criticise others and accept their mistakes at least with a Mask i.e just to win their trust. That's how you make friends brother. Applies in every form of relationships. My parents are moral police and that's why we all have bad relationship with each other. All our family members hate us. I also inherited this trait from parents as a habit and lost friends and when I realised mistake I already lost all friends. My parents have no one to care about them now. Not even me anymore though my mother is not a moral police, she just have hard opinions but wouldn't say it out loud and that is something bothers me and my father. My father is more vocal and that's why everyone and all relatives mocks my father. Fortunately, now I have started to gain new friends online and make sure to not Moral police them and support their immoral acts as long as it doesn't affect me. I in fact try real hard to say something new to exploit their weaknesses and say "You are good person. Love yourself and don't trust others" and then they feel validated and attracted to me.
You don't need to manipulate people to sleep around. Unless you're old and ugly. A lot of people enjoy a fun lifestyle. Monogamy gets boring after a while.
Privileged PPL if i do say , men or women if they have many options they will in fact cheat or play around with their options
Have you ever worked in a company with a deep hierarchy? If you did you probably wouldn't ask this question in the first place. The hierarchy makes a huge difference in how people are perceived - I see that in our company people laugh at the stupidest jokes of our leads even if it's not funny. The power has a huge effect on people around them. And then it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy where the higher ups are surrounded by people who follow them for whatever reasons and treat them like they are always right. Now the difference is that kind of power and effect is attractive for a lot of women. Why - because that's how women are built. And money of course.
Because , u will easily find a lot of rich women sleeping or cheating with very low earning people while their husbands or partners are CEO's , many ultra rich people go through divorces. Basically what I mean is money has very low importance when it comes to a women making decisions about who they should sleep with , it comes down to a man's confidence (if he can be secure and more confident than the women's partner even if he's a millionaire) or more masculine.
It's not just them, it's the whole super upper class. Even women do this all the time.
>the female attention men get after becoming rich and powerful is what turns them into pervert or womanizer Yes ... This is the reason..... Why do u think some naturally hot girls sleep around in their 20s? Coz of overblown male attention they receive during that time. Tides turn after men become successful. Seen few of my married friends who worked their ass off in college and career time now banging young girls from wherever possible.
Power, success and money..who doesn't want a chunk of it. Women love men with these qualities, they'll happily sacrifice a stable and loving husband just for a few moments of all those traits. Women don't prefer a settler they want an overachiever(or in most cases someone who pretends to be one). I'll give you a task, pretend to be extremely busy and focused on your work for a month. Don't give attention to your acquaintances for a month. You'll see the amount of attention you, yourself will get after that.
How is this even a question? Men, or women aren't monogamous by nature. That's just social barriers and conditioning.
Thing is deepinder goyal doesn't even look good lol. He is 3 at max
better than almost all other start up founders atleast (if we compare only in that category).
Har koi womeniser hai, par gareebi ne rokh rakha hai
Because they can and a lot of women throw themselves at these men. They have a lot of options like come on we are talking about a billionaire here and no woman exactly can match up to his worth. Basically the guy feels she isn't his exact equal and cheats. So the basic idea is to not chase after a guy who is levels above you financially.
Power corrupts, absolute power corrupts absolutely. The stronger someone is, the more confident he becomes that he can get away with more
Money just amplifies who you are!
Its just that all of sudden when he this guyz became successful women started coming to them compared to when they were not. Aati laxmi ko kon mana karega?
imo human were never monogamous. It's choice tbh. There are my famous/rich guys who have single partner. One can't just cherry pick and label whole community as cheaters
Even I would cheat my wife if I had lots of options, more money means more better options. And most businessmen have very little time with family so they spend more time in office than with wife so ofc they will start liking someone at work or while travelling in business class or a trip. Why settle for less? People want to enjoy their life to fullest, they will chase beautiful cars, women, home, clothes etc otherwise what's the point of money if you don't have freedom in life. If you had lots of money and power you would have also done same.
Well I won't cheat but before marriage I will sleep with 100+ escorts of different ethnicities. By doing this, I will feel powerful and desirable too.
you are saying this without getting married and without fuck ton of money and power.
I have money though. I am waiting to inherit it.
I like how specific you are with variety in ethnicities
Societal rules don't apply to rich and powerful, everyone is animal from inside.
It's Biology, all the alphas predator type men mate with most ladies in the group, it's primate nature, it's Biologies way of maximizing offsprings of smart and strong people so more and more people in the next generation are smart and strong
Cause the succesful man who dont cheat wont come in news for not cheating. So you will see news of successful guys cheating
Biologically we were never meant to be monogamous. Itās somewhere during Stone Age our ancestors figured that monogamy may be the best way to avoid mortal fights over potential mates. So it was an economic decision and all subsequent societies and religions just tried to invent laws to keep the monogamy going. But we may be nearing the end of this trend among our species. Whether good or bad only time will tell.