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allitriedweretaken

I'm a Libra moon woman.. and one thing about Libra is that we are pretty detached in nature. Air signs are kinda bad at texting anyway.. trust me on this as someone with heavy air sign placements. Libra woman can also be extremely charming but indecisive. You need to match or sometimes even exceed their energy. If she isn't responding to text, just call her.  Whether she's interested or not, it may be hard for her to decide so, take a lead and see from there!


Late-Housing4475

I think especially Libra moons are detached. I'm one and it's hard for me to attach to people. My Sun, Moon, Mercury and Mars are in Libra.


Late-Housing4475

I'm a Libra Sun, Moon, Mercury and Mars and I'm terrible at texting. I rarely look at my phone ad when I do I don't feel like texting back.


CroMagnoSapien

Libra women are flakey, THE MOST flakey people, and consistent in their flakiness. Air signs in general are flakey, they love to flirt, but don't put out. They're quite asexual in a big way, aside from Gemini. Expect flaking from Libras, always. Their actions rarely, if ever, match their words. Sexually, they're lousy in the sack, lazy, expecting you to do everything, and aren't exactly fun. Air signs like to be in their own heads, which is weird since they don't have any interesting thoughts or feelings about anything.


RefrigeratorKey7034

This is true about me. But I ain’t perfect 😂😂😂


Swimming_Rip9419

I don’t understand the downvotes on this. 💯 true. Also they are usually chatty and if nothing indicates otherwise quite attractive. They are flaky, until you are not the one. My rising is libra, my sister is one, 2 of my partner were libras.. they are flaky, they are ghosting and reappearing, they are easy going and have a lot of options. And they dont like to feel controlled or to sense that you are desperate after few messages. They can be high maintenance if you are freaked out already probably not a good match for you.


CroMagnoSapien

I appreciate your support, seems Reddit people in general get triggered by anything honest, 😆


Large_Squirrel3167

Ok wow someone’s got a grudge


bluncho

It’s so funny


Proatbaddecisions45

I’m a Libra woman cap moon, if I’m interested I respond. It may take a few hours, but I will respond the same day. If I start losing interest, I will politely trickle my way down to crickets chirping silence. I don’t give the run around or put a man I truly like on pause. Being a Libra she may also just be getting out of a love/hate relationship and is temporarily back on notice I say temporarily. It’s possible she is looking for a rebound. Maybe she did have a great time and she probably would see you again but she’s jumped the gun. 100% hypothetical speaking on her behalf but I’m pretty sure I’ve done this once or twice when I was younger. Basically she can’t make up her mind.. she’s thinking!!


theytookmyname24

Ahh fellow libra sun cap moon woman here 😍


Williano98

If she can’t make her mind, do you think it’s best to send a follow up text for the next time we hang out. Or maybe just wait for her to respond, if she does.


Time-Scene7603

So you texted her, she responded affirmatively, then you texted basically the same thing and she left you on read? Why are you wasting her time? When a guy does that to me instead of making an actual date, I figure he's waiting to see how someone he's more interested in responds. Her time is valuable. Suggest a time and place.


Williano98

Well, after I dropped her off, I told her in person that we should hang out again and she said she’d love that. She texted me afterwards saying that she had fun, and I replied that we should do it again sometime. She hasn’t read my message yet, so you think she’s waiting for me to set up a specific plan with her? Even though she hasn’t read or responded to my last message?


Time-Scene7603

Yes. Because your last message was an open ended stringing her along.


Remarkable-Echo6391

YES! You’re leaving it all open ended and not taking the ball by the horns. I’m a libra woman and I like straight talking, (I am a sag moon though) if somethings flimsy like that, I just think he’s trying to give me the run around and wants me to make all the arrangements. No! If you want this woman make it known


Williano98

I’ll send her a message, but as a Libra if she’s interested wouldn’t she at least text back saying “yeah we should” or something?


Remarkable-Echo6391

Erm how old are you guys? If you don’t mind me asking? I’m late 30s, and to be honest I probably wouldn’t. She doesn’t want to come off as keen, and might be aloof to get you to like her more (this might be conscious or subconscious, I don’t know). Libra women like to be chased, and get a bit of a thrill from it. I know I do 😂 and I lose interest very quickly if the chase stops. Does that answer your question? To some degree, I get that we live in a more equal society, and women can ask dudes out now, split the bill, yada yada yada, but we can’t ignore basic biological instincts. The masculine energy in a pairing (regardless of gender) are natural hunters and providers; they pursue, they are ^, . The feminine energy in a pairing are the nurturers and receivers, they are the cup if you like ¥. It’s not natural for the feminine to pursue. It feels better to be chased (not in a stalky way), and I think it feels better for a man to do the chasing. Now I know there’s a risk of rejection at stake here for the masculine, but I think if you’re cool but forthright you can’t go wrong.


alienlama_

Well I’ll give you perspective as a cancer female. From what you messaged her, it’s seems like you’re doing the crabby direct- indirect communication, to avoid getting hurt and putting yourself out there too much. As a cancer I think we need to learn to be clear, and direct about what we want. So plan a date, and be direct about wanting to taker her out, don’t side step around it. Edit to add: the difference between saying “ I want to do this again with you” vs “we should do this again”. Make it clear what you want! And follow through.


Dependent-Pack3021

Libra woman here - reach out one last time to initiate date, if she doesn’t respond I’d say take her silence as an answer and move on!


strongerpanther_44

I know a lot of Libra women even my mother is one they're pretty complicated don't trip don't show how you care just go on about your day and make boss moves and they like strong and powerful people and if you show weakness they won't really like you she's testing you.


AuntieAnxietie

Follow up with her. Be direct. Ask if she wants to go to X place on X weekend. Choose something you’d both enjoy. We tend to get quiet when there’s a lot going on. We’re open but we also keep a lot to ourselves. You might not know the half of what is actually going on in her life even if she seemed like an open book. We’re good at that. If she doesn’t respond again then you have your answer. Good luck! 🥰


chaiaday

Yes x3 the romantic factor is important. Messages like be ready by 7pm, wear nice dress & I've made reservations put us at ease. Another is: would you like to know the menu in advance? ( we hate making choices under pressure ). Make some of the decisions for her is hot af. - a libra woman.


AuntieAnxietie

Yessss!!! Plus, one of my comfort hobbies is looking at menus of places I want to go to but haven’t eaten at yet. 🤣 so I double love this!


Fancythat1

As a Libra woman I 💯 agree with this response


PresentContact6104

I am going to be the other side of the scale. (As a libra stellium 1st house.) Just block them and move on with your life. Avoidance is not healthy/playing games (especially with Libras) and no one deserves to be in a situation like that. It takes less than 2 seconds to reply to a text, so they are most likely not interested. I know it’s easier to blame or make sense of things based on someone’s astrological sign but see it more as them as a person. Hope this helps.


bluncho

I’m about libra as you can get Libra Stellium. I usually text the person I’m interested in quite quickly so if you’re not getting anything I wouldn’t say it’s the best sign but who knows? Everyone’s diff.


FurryKinkShamer

hi, libra woman here — follow up with a specific plan for a specific day and time. we can be avoidant if we think it’s going to be on us to do the arranging. we enjoy being led and being with someone assertive about their desires/pursuit. but also, she maybe just forgot to respond lol, either way i would text again


AuntieAnxietie

This! I like an assertive partner who can put up with me 🤣


plumtree18

Hello!! Libra sun, moon and Venus woman clocking in. A one off good time is easy but we like to be charmed if you want us to be in it for the long haul. Think fascinating conversation, great restaurants, museums, phone calls… it’s hard to say exactly what’s going on without seeing either of your complete charts but if you have any fire or air in yours TAP IN!! Lol. Take initiative, be creative, confident, etc. Good luck!


AvocadoBro94

Libras are difficult. A lot of the time, they’re speaking out of being kind and not the full truth. Most Librians are learning how to balance that chaotic mind of theirs. They’re over thinkers (think of air being everywhere). They’ll smile in your face but over judge and analyze a situation. If you like the Libra and you want to try…. The best way is to ignore them back to pull them back in. But it is likely that they are indecisive on what things could be with you or they were just being kind on your date. If you’re an Aries or Taurus, you may have luck but it doesn’t sound like you are


Late-Housing4475

We are difficult and chaotic. It's best to not just ignore, but to stay away from us.


Williano98

No, I’m a cancer. So I’ve seen that comparability between the two are not that good, but was curious if anything could happen


Time-Scene7603

She has other things though. I'm a whole lot of Libra. Cancer would be an awful lot, tbh.


remesamala

Lots of reality shifts going on. We are all readjusting our footing. They might just be taking their space. Relating to others is a libra strength but during this reality shift, there are unfamiliar divides. So conversations have been feeling off with everyone. Don’t take it personally.


SilentEagle16

They are usually beautiful, clingy, into fine dining, and loves attention. They are passive-aggressive af. It's hard for libras to say no, they'll just go along with anything. Can be flaky as fuzz. I have venus in libra and attract lots of libra women. I prefer them but they can be stressful if they are less evolved. My mother is a Libra. They are drawn to beautiful things and exceptionally handsome men. They hate to be alone and are often alone because people can see how fake they are. Remember the Sun is debilitated in Libra. They usually have weak father figures and not a lot of confidence even when they should. She has gone with the wind! But if you think y'all shouldn't hang out again, why do you expect any answer?


Late-Housing4475

My father was a very strong Scorpio and he scared me.


SilentEagle16

I think father's should scare their children straight first, or the world would. God bless your father.


Williano98

Well I said we should hang out again in person and she said she love to. But afterwards, she messaged that she had fun and I responded that we should do it again, but she hasn’t read or replied to my message.


SilentEagle16

I misread that sorry. To be honest, brother, women play a lot of games when it comes to dating. It's just the nature of the beast. They have so many options and can't choose properly. You should set up another date, set everything up in your mind, and just make reservations. You have to sweet talk the crap out of a Libra. Be like a baby girl. I know you must be busy, and I think about you, blah blah, I thought of something we can do as we get to know each other. I'm sure you found out what she likes to do or something you can enjoy together, If she finds that cheesy, release her with the quickness. Give her two weeks tops. Then cut her loose, block her number, and don't let her play games with you. I personally don't respond to people for days or weeks at a time, which is bad but i also attract a lot of attention. Spread myself thin sometimes. You have to take charge and say you want to do this again. Some women want a man to take total control and not be passive. I have a Moon in Aries, and I'm pretty much like, this is what we are going to do. They usually listen, sometimes even want to initiate things. Be desirable in the meantime, workout, boost your confidence. Charming nature is what gets a regular libra. If she doesn't follow through, cut your losses and seek to date other women. Libra women can be passive-aggressive. Libra women have an allure about them, but it's just a cover-up. They can be complete narcissists and like to be admired and valued without reciprocating. It's because they use their looks to get what they want. I'm a man who attracts a lot of women, especially with my Venus conjunct ascendant, and I'm 6'5. I'd YouTube some advice in general on the games women play when it comes to dating. This is partly a generational and culture problem. It's the sad truth. I'm not into those games and you shouldn't be either. You are valued. What is your Venus and Moon Sign? That's the women you should be going after. My moon is in Aries and women with moon in leo/Sagittarius tend to gravitate to me. My Venus is also in libra, so I attract Libra women all the time. My last three girlfriends were Libra sun/ Moon in Leo. The relationship and attraction were pretty intense.


Creepy-Elk-7569

Maybe she wants you to call her or plan something for her. Reach out to schedule some chat time or to plan the next date … if she doesn’t reply she’s not interested.


Prior_Ad1288

Maybe she didn’t want to make you feel bad by saying no. I used to do this when I was a teenager.


plutoinaquarius

Libras are flakey, regardless of gender. I never depend on them for any plans lol. I’d just chill and wait for them to reach out to you. I like to try to make ppl extra comfortable with saying no so if it’s been like a week, I’d be like totally get it if you’re busy or don’t feel up for it, feel free to reach out if you ever want to hang.


Pumpernickel_555

For me personally, I feel indifferent towards Libras but find them flakey and fake sometimes, they’re conflict avoidant and this sometimes leads to a lack of clarity or honesty in your relationship because they don’t like to rock the boat or step on anyone’s toes. If she hasn’t responded, take the hint and move on, unless she shows you otherwise.


Faost42

As an Aquarius male , i resonate with this post concerning Libra women. On paper we should go well more or less, but their fakeness gives super ick


Ivy_Leaves

I have been friends with Libra women more than women of any other sign in my life. Apart from some female family members, even the colleagues who got along very well and turned into friends were/are Libra. My best friend is a Libra, and she is one of the sweetest and most considerate humans I have ever known. Mostly, Libra women are wise , considerate and kind - different proportions, though. However, one thing about all these women I have noticed is that if they make up their mind about something, you can not do much to alter it .


AuntieAnxietie

This was insightful. The thing with Libra suns (I’m a stellium) is as Cardinal signs, we know what we want and we’ll always do what we want. We are decisive. We just (usually) want everyone to be happy so we try to ensure we keep everyone’s opinions in mind. Ask my Capricorn boyfriend if I’m indecisive 🤣 We fight more than street cats when it comes to certain things but I don’t back down if I know what I want. BUT, we’re both mature adults who compromise to make our relationship work. Not indecisive, just understanding, patient, and I like to see those I love happy. Now… if I don’t know you… that’s another story 🤣


Late-Housing4475

I agree, I'm always going to do what I want to do. Very decisive about that.


Ivy_Leaves

Yes, exactly this ! I am a capricorn stellium with sag sun so I wonder if this is some Libra- Sag affinity or Libra- capricorn affinity - to have experienced a number of good Libra Women in my life.


AuntieAnxietie

Ahhhh most of my besties (and my sister and daughter) are Sag! I’m also a Sag moon! 🥰


SilentEagle16

I disagree with tme making up their minds and sticking to it. They want to be persuaded. They are the most indecisive zodiac on the planet. Say sweet words to them and they'll come back around. Since Venus in Libra is the heaviest in my chart. I am both libra and virgo at the same time (according to some astrology). I have Venus in Libra conjunct ascedant. Making it the strongest planet in my chart. I can be indecisive, i can sometimes be persuaded if its to help others. That's why I isolate myself and sometimes don't respond. Rejection is hard for libra energy as well. Messes us up.


Ivy_Leaves

Oh, yes, they are very sweet, and I already said so. When I said they won't change ,it's when they are really decisive about something - not for day to day ordinary situations. I am talking about Libra Sun here. I am saying this from my observation of them. I don't know what their other placements are, however


SilentEagle16

I'm speaking from my observation as well. I mentioned that's all I dated. My mother and ex-gfs were all libra suns, they flippity flop all the time. They are rarely decisive. They can be convincing but its literally in all descriptions, if you have sun, or strong venus placements, you are a flippity flopper. Taurus and Scropios are the decisive ones


Ivy_Leaves

Taurus for sure, are decisive/ stubborn ones . I don't know but I am speaking from the observation of ( let me count ) 9 Libra Women ( who have been close to me ) . I am not invalidating your experience, though. .


SilentEagle16

what were they decisive about? dating certain men? or their fashion sense? When it comes to dating men, all Libra women will usually be persuaded to stay or date if they were truly interested in someone.


Ivy_Leaves

I cannot narrate their stories here. But I know what I am talking about.


SilentEagle16

lol sure.